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By *evelG OP Man
over a year ago
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Just wanted to know what everyones big issue is with young guys - (under 25) theres not much that can change in a person from the age of 18 to 25 once a prick always a prick (same goes for nice guys)....
Also just because Im 23 doesnt mean I am childish, an asshole or out to ruin anyones good time.
Maybe I'm too polite for this site....
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"Just wanted to know what everyones big issue is with young guys - (under 25) theres not much that can change in a person from the age of 18 to 25 once a prick always a prick (same goes for nice guys)....
Also just because Im 23 doesnt mean I am childish, an asshole or out to ruin anyones good time.
Maybe I'm too polite for this site....
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Do you see the irony in you posting? |
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over a year ago
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Also just because Im 23 doesnt mean I am childish, an asshole or out to ruin anyones good time.
Maybe I'm too polite for this site....
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You're a single guy, you are the largest group on the site. So you have to stand out.
You can never be too polite! Better to be like that then rude. I can't abide rude arrogant people at all.
Some won't meet you, as you'll be the same age as their own children, but others will. You'll appeal to someone - sometimes it's just about timing and clicking with someone.
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"Just wanted to know what everyones big issue is with young guys - (under 25) theres not much that can change in a person from the age of 18 to 25 once a prick always a prick (same goes for nice guys)....
Also just because Im 23 doesnt mean I am childish, an asshole or out to ruin anyones good time.
Maybe I'm too polite for this site....
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Younger men do find it difficult but that's probably more to do with the average age of site members. There seems to be an optimum age range to be a fab member and neither nor I are in it.  |
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A lot of younger people continue to message in txt speak which is silly and also some pull faces in their photos thinking it makes them look fun to be with which I don't like either. Nor do I like rap or grime music which a lot of young people like. Nor do I like their boring updates on face ache and twatter. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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You've been on a week. It can take months to get established on here - that goes for blokes of any age.
Have you actually been told it's because you're young? Have they actually been rude - if it's just that you don't get replies, that's not rude. The women I know get way to much mail to reply to everything.
If not, there's a lot of other things which may be a barrier - tbh your profile is sadly lacking.
You're going to have to accept you're a fair bit younger than the average age of the women on here. There'll be some who like younger guys, but an awful lot won't go younger than their own age bracket. There's nothing rude about that - everyone has their preferences (though yours seem pretty wide given you'd poke a 99 year old . ).
Take your time and get chatting to people in forums and socials. Show patience and the good times might roll. Good luck. |
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"A lot of younger people continue to message in txt speak which is silly and also some pull faces in their photos thinking it makes them look fun to be with which I don't like either. Nor do I like rap or grime music which a lot of young people like. Nor do I like their boring updates on face ache and twatter. "
I've hadnt heard of grime music until you mentioned it  |
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This might be the 'here a week and no meet' situation where a guy joins, is horribly disappointed by the lack of replies and sexual 'success' and then blames the one thing he can't change - his age.
I hope not anyway. Politeness goes a long way and no one likes a rude bastard. |
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"A lot of younger people continue to message in txt speak which is silly and also some pull faces in their photos thinking it makes them look fun to be with which I don't like either. Nor do I like rap or grime music which a lot of young people like. Nor do I like their boring updates on face ache and twatter.
I've hadnt heard of grime music until you mentioned it "
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By *evelG OP Man
over a year ago
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Ok 99.... I'll change that haha. I have been on here before and given up. I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for, and I most certainly am polite to everyone. I dont listen to grime music whatever that is.... and I don't do text speak.
But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when your a little older"
I wasnt really whining just wanted to know what peoples thoughts are on it. |
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By *evelG OP Man
over a year ago
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"I recently out my lower age bracket up to 25 as I've been finding some single males too immature and selfish for my needs.  "
Unfortunatley its those people who decide the general reputation of the rest of us who actually know that you are all human beings first and not just gonna fuck everything in sight. |
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over a year ago
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I'm very uncomfortable if someone is same age as my kids... Or at the age that my girls would be interested in.
I'm actually quite picky on age... And more likely to make an exception under 30 than 50 or over x |
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"I recently out my lower age bracket up to 25 as I've been finding some single males too immature and selfish for my needs.
Unfortunatley its those people who decide the general reputation of the rest of us who actually know that you are all human beings first and not just gonna fuck everything in sight."
Interestingly you wouldn't meet me based on my age... |
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By *evelG OP Man
over a year ago
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"This might be the 'here a week and no meet' situation where a guy joins, is horribly disappointed by the lack of replies and sexual 'success' and then blames the one thing he can't change - his age.
I hope not anyway. Politeness goes a long way and no one likes a rude bastard. "
Nope... I have been here before but gave up I come back and it gets worse. |
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over a year ago
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"Just wanted to know what everyones big issue is with young guys - (under 25) theres not much that can change in a person from the age of 18 to 25 once a prick always a prick (same goes for nice guys)....
Also just because Im 23 doesnt mean I am childish, an asshole or out to ruin anyones good time.
Maybe I'm too polite for this site....
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I'm getting a bit fed up of you young men... If you are supposed to be mature then you have a funny way of showing it...
You have been here one whole week and you think because no one has thrown themselves at you by now there is something wrong with us?
Grow up and get a life is my advice... There are older people than you that have been here much longer and have never had a meet so we aren't just against young people  |
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By *evelG OP Man
over a year ago
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"I recently out my lower age bracket up to 25 as I've been finding some single males too immature and selfish for my needs.
Unfortunatley its those people who decide the general reputation of the rest of us who actually know that you are all human beings first and not just gonna fuck everything in sight.
Interestingly you wouldn't meet me based on my age..."
Entirely depends on the person. .. I have been scrutinised already for having the age range too broad so I literally just changed it haha. |
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"I recently out my lower age bracket up to 25 as I've been finding some single males too immature and selfish for my needs.
Unfortunatley its those people who decide the general reputation of the rest of us who actually know that you are all human beings first and not just gonna fuck everything in sight.
Interestingly you wouldn't meet me based on my age...
Entirely depends on the person. .. I have been scrutinised already for having the age range too broad so I literally just changed it haha."
You didn't want to meet a 99 year old. Lots of people don't want to meet a 23 year old. Same rules. |
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"I recently out my lower age bracket up to 25 as I've been finding some single males too immature and selfish for my needs.
Unfortunatley its those people who decide the general reputation of the rest of us who actually know that you are all human beings first and not just gonna fuck everything in sight.
Interestingly you wouldn't meet me based on my age...
Entirely depends on the person. .. I have been scrutinised already for having the age range too broad so I literally just changed it haha."
Why did you change your age range then?  You really can't ask why people are against younger men then alter your public preference as soon as someone questions the fact that you have a broad range to show that you don't want to meet people over 45. In effect you just made a mockery of your original post. |
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By *evelG OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just wanted to know what everyones big issue is with young guys - (under 25) theres not much that can change in a person from the age of 18 to 25 once a prick always a prick (same goes for nice guys)....
Also just because Im 23 doesnt mean I am childish, an asshole or out to ruin anyones good time.
Maybe I'm too polite for this site....
I'm getting a bit fed up of you young men... If you are supposed to be mature then you have a funny way of showing it...
You have been here one whole week and you think because no one has thrown themselves at you by now there is something wrong with us?
Grow up and get a life is my advice... There are older people than you that have been here much longer and have never had a meet so we aren't just against young people "
I like how the rest of the thread is not read before posting this. I have been here before I met 1 person and havent failed I have come back to a situation where I cant even get a "thanks but no thanks" response. And it is possible because a couple of people have managed to find the time to write a few words. |
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"Ok 99.... I'll change that haha. I have been on here before and given up. I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for, and I most certainly am polite to everyone. I dont listen to grime music whatever that is.... and I don't do text speak.
But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when your a little older"
I wasnt really whining just wanted to know what peoples thoughts are on it. "
You have friends only pics and not much about yourself in your profile.
What would make anyone get in touch with you in the first place, regardless of your age? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I recently out my lower age bracket up to 25 as I've been finding some single males too immature and selfish for my needs.
Unfortunatley its those people who decide the general reputation of the rest of us who actually know that you are all human beings first and not just gonna fuck everything in sight."
Yes! And the ones who say yeah my first veri just as they are leaving....  |
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By *evelG OP Man
over a year ago
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"I recently out my lower age bracket up to 25 as I've been finding some single males too immature and selfish for my needs.
Unfortunatley its those people who decide the general reputation of the rest of us who actually know that you are all human beings first and not just gonna fuck everything in sight.
Interestingly you wouldn't meet me based on my age...
Entirely depends on the person. .. I have been scrutinised already for having the age range too broad so I literally just changed it haha.
Why did you change your age range then? You really can't ask why people are against younger men then alter your public preference as soon as someone questions the fact that you have a broad range to show that you don't want to meet people over 45. In effect you just made a mockery of your original post."
Thats fair actually...... age doesnt bother me and it shouldnt bother anyone else. |
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"I recently out my lower age bracket up to 25 as I've been finding some single males too immature and selfish for my needs.
Unfortunatley its those people who decide the general reputation of the rest of us who actually know that you are all human beings first and not just gonna fuck everything in sight.
Interestingly you wouldn't meet me based on my age...
Entirely depends on the person. .. I have been scrutinised already for having the age range too broad so I literally just changed it haha.
Why did you change your age range then? You really can't ask why people are against younger men then alter your public preference as soon as someone questions the fact that you have a broad range to show that you don't want to meet people over 45. In effect you just made a mockery of your original post."
Yeah but
It's understandable what a young lad wouldnt want to meet an old women but turning down a young lad I mean what's that all about? Surely everybody wants a young body |
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"I recently out my lower age bracket up to 25 as I've been finding some single males too immature and selfish for my needs.
Unfortunatley its those people who decide the general reputation of the rest of us who actually know that you are all human beings first and not just gonna fuck everything in sight.
Interestingly you wouldn't meet me based on my age...
Entirely depends on the person. .. I have been scrutinised already for having the age range too broad so I literally just changed it haha.
Why did you change your age range then? You really can't ask why people are against younger men then alter your public preference as soon as someone questions the fact that you have a broad range to show that you don't want to meet people over 45. In effect you just made a mockery of your original post.
Thats fair actually...... age doesnt bother me and it shouldnt bother anyone else."
Don't want to sound snappy because I'm really not but who are you to tell people what should and shouldn't bother them when it comes to who they want to meet? |
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" I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for. "
If that wasn't a tongue in cheek reply, then sadly you have misunderstood the way this site works.
Your profile is your "shop window", and your opportunity to sell yourself to potential meets. Most women will want to know something about what you want and what you can offer, not to mention an insight into your personality.
You can do this by cam too of course but that will wan you could miss out on a lovely lady who doesn't do cam.
Best of luck.
Nita
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"I recently out my lower age bracket up to 25 as I've been finding some single males too immature and selfish for my needs.
Unfortunatley its those people who decide the general reputation of the rest of us who actually know that you are all human beings first and not just gonna fuck everything in sight.
Interestingly you wouldn't meet me based on my age...
Entirely depends on the person. .. I have been scrutinised already for having the age range too broad so I literally just changed it haha.
Why did you change your age range then? You really can't ask why people are against younger men then alter your public preference as soon as someone questions the fact that you have a broad range to show that you don't want to meet people over 45. In effect you just made a mockery of your original post.
Thats fair actually...... age doesnt bother me and it shouldnt bother anyone else."
ok. In a non argumentative way do you mean just for sex or would you be happy to take somebody of my age on a night out with your friends? |
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"What's wrong with 45+?
Nothing now it's been pointed out he's contradicting his original post, before that over 45s wasn't for him "
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Oh I know.. I read it all.. And then his profile... And now it's changed again |
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"Just wanted to know what everyones big issue is with young guys - (under 25) theres not much that can change in a person from the age of 18 to 25 once a prick always a prick (same goes for nice guys)....
Also just because Im 23 doesnt mean I am childish, an asshole or out to ruin anyones good time.
Maybe I'm too polite for this site....
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You see this chip. If you don't fix it one day it will crack.
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My "issue" is a having a teenage child of my own. I'm highly unlikely to meet anyone still young enough to be my child - it's just personal preference.
The same goes for men over 50 - my parents are still in their 50's so it feels wrong to me. |
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By *evelG OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ok 99.... I'll change that haha. I have been on here before and given up. I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for, and I most certainly am polite to everyone. I dont listen to grime music whatever that is.... and I don't do text speak.
But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when your a little older"
I wasnt really whining just wanted to know what peoples thoughts are on it.
You have friends only pics and not much about yourself in your profile.
What would make anyone get in touch with you in the first place, regardless of your age?"
I have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know. |
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"But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when yourI have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know. "
Everyone will want something different.
This means, that if you tell them nothing they are unlikely to take the time to ask, they would rather contact someone who they already know is likely to offer what they are looking for.
The single ladies on here are in very high demand, and outnumber the guys by dome margin.
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"Ok 99.... I'll change that haha. I have been on here before and given up. I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for, and I most certainly am polite to everyone. I dont listen to grime music whatever that is.... and I don't do text speak.
But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when your a little older"
I wasnt really whining just wanted to know what peoples thoughts are on it.
You have friends only pics and not much about yourself in your profile.
What would make anyone get in touch with you in the first place, regardless of your age?
I have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know. "
There's nothing wrong with that at all and if you were a single woman under 100 with no pictures and a profile that merely said "get lost" you would be inundated with messages. However you're one of the most common members of this site, single men and will probably need to set your stall out. |
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"Ok 99.... I'll change that haha. I have been on here before and given up. I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for, and I most certainly am polite to everyone. I dont listen to grime music whatever that is.... and I don't do text speak.
But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when your a little older"
I wasnt really whining just wanted to know what peoples thoughts are on it.
You have friends only pics and not much about yourself in your profile.
What would make anyone get in touch with you in the first place, regardless of your age?
I have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know.
There's nothing wrong with that at all and if you were a single woman under 100 with no pictures and a profile that merely said "get lost" you would be inundated with messages. However you're one of the most common members of this site, single men and will probably need to set your stall out."
I so want to change my profile to just say "Get lost" |
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"Ok 99.... I'll change that haha. I have been on here before and given up. I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for, and I most certainly am polite to everyone. I dont listen to grime music whatever that is.... and I don't do text speak.
But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when your a little older"
I wasnt really whining just wanted to know what peoples thoughts are on it.
You have friends only pics and not much about yourself in your profile.
What would make anyone get in touch with you in the first place, regardless of your age?
I have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know.
There's nothing wrong with that at all and if you were a single woman under 100 with no pictures and a profile that merely said "get lost" you would be inundated with messages. However you're one of the most common members of this site, single men and will probably need to set your stall out."
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Hahaha made me laugh this.... This is basically my profile... And I've had filters off last couple of days.. And have had 167 messages |
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By *evelG OP Man
over a year ago
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"But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when yourI have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know.
Everyone will want something different.
This means, that if you tell them nothing they are unlikely to take the time to ask, they would rather contact someone who they already know is likely to offer what they are looking for.
The single ladies on here are in very high demand, and outnumber the guys by dome margin.
Nita"
I think I should have worded my post better to begin with.... now I look stupid. I am very aware of the demand I am also aware of the women who dont want to fuck someone the same age as their children. I am also aware that I could probably write more on my profile but I dont actually know what anyone wants to read. Ill either get it right fuck it up immensely. |
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I have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know. "
OP, I'm sure you are a nice person but your profile is piss-poor.
Take some time and view some of the more experienced mens profiles, see what you're up against and maybe adjust your own accordingly.
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"Ok 99.... I'll change that haha. I have been on here before and given up. I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for, and I most certainly am polite to everyone. I dont listen to grime music whatever that is.... and I don't do text speak.
But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when your a little older"
I wasnt really whining just wanted to know what peoples thoughts are on it.
You have friends only pics and not much about yourself in your profile.
What would make anyone get in touch with you in the first place, regardless of your age?
I have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know.
There's nothing wrong with that at all and if you were a single woman under 100 with no pictures and a profile that merely said "get lost" you would be inundated with messages. However you're one of the most common members of this site, single men and will probably need to set your stall out.
I so want to change my profile to just say "Get lost" "
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"But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when yourI have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know.
Everyone will want something different.
This means, that if you tell them nothing they are unlikely to take the time to ask, they would rather contact someone who they already know is likely to offer what they are looking for.
The single ladies on here are in very high demand, and outnumber the guys by dome margin.
Nita
I think I should have worded my post better to begin with.... now I look stupid. I am very aware of the demand I am also aware of the women who dont want to fuck someone the same age as their children. I am also aware that I could probably write more on my profile but I dont actually know what anyone wants to read. Ill either get it right fuck it up immensely."
There's lots of threads on profile advice.
Look at some of these and at the profiles of the blokes who are successful.
For me good photos and a sense of humour go along way. But I'm not looking for young single men
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"Ok 99.... I'll change that haha. I have been on here before and given up. I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for, and I most certainly am polite to everyone. I dont listen to grime music whatever that is.... and I don't do text speak.
But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when your a little older"
I wasnt really whining just wanted to know what peoples thoughts are on it.
You have friends only pics and not much about yourself in your profile.
What would make anyone get in touch with you in the first place, regardless of your age?
I have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know. "
My profile is short. Ask me questions? Fuck off, ya nosey witch is what I say. |
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"But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when yourI have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know.
Everyone will want something different.
This means, that if you tell them nothing they are unlikely to take the time to ask, they would rather contact someone who they already know is likely to offer what they are looking for.
The single ladies on here are in very high demand, and outnumber the guys by dome margin.
Nita"
can you give me a rounded figure? |
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"Just wanted to know what everyones big issue is with young guys - (under 25) theres not much that can change in a person from the age of 18 to 25 once a prick always a prick (same goes for nice guys)....
Also just because Im 23 doesnt mean I am childish, an asshole or out to ruin anyones good time.
Maybe I'm too polite for this site....
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People often focus on what they can;t change as the reason they struggle on here. I'm not convinced age is your problem |
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"Ok 99.... I'll change that haha. I have been on here before and given up. I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for, and I most certainly am polite to everyone. I dont listen to grime music whatever that is.... and I don't do text speak.
But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when your a little older"
I wasnt really whining just wanted to know what peoples thoughts are on it.
You have friends only pics and not much about yourself in your profile.
What would make anyone get in touch with you in the first place, regardless of your age?
I have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know.
My profile is short. Ask me questions? Fuck off, ya nosey witch is what I say. "
You are one of the lucky ones Steve and don't need much of a profile as your personality is all over the forums |
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"But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when yourI have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know.
Everyone will want something different.
This means, that if you tell them nothing they are unlikely to take the time to ask, they would rather contact someone who they already know is likely to offer what they are looking for.
The single ladies on here are in very high demand, and outnumber the guys by dome margin.
Nita can you give me a rounded figure? "
probably about 180 |
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"I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for"
There needs to be something there to grab interest and make someone want to start a conversation with you. Ladies need to know what you are looking for and what you can offer on a meet without having to ask. If it is a choice between someone who's profile shows they match their needs and someone who wants them to message blindly to ask questions they are obviously going to go for the former. It's your shop window, sell yourself! Most will also look at the profile before they read a message and will just delete if there is nothing of interest on it |
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"I have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know. "
And you have a lot less than many people. And I suspect that there is a correlation between profile quality and success. Effort in reflects reward out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have no issues with younger man, I just prefer guys around my age or slightly older, it's my preference of who I find sexually attractive.
However, for those guys to even tempt me on here, they have to have public photos and a well written profile. I will not contact anyone who has little on their profile or who says if you want to know about me just ask. Why? Because I can find profiles of people who have that info available for me to see and make a judgement based on that. Same as pictures, I'm not going to chase for pics when plenty of profiles have them readily available to view |
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over a year ago
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If you're going to claim intelligence as one of the big things on your profile (you don't really mention any other personality things or I wouldn't have mentioned it) then you might want to proofread to check your spelling and grammar. |
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"A lot of younger people continue to message in txt speak which is silly and also some pull faces in their photos thinking it makes them look fun to be with which I don't like either. Nor do I like rap or grime music which a lot of young people like. Nor do I like their boring updates on face ache and twatter. "
Single young guys aren't the only ones guilty of pulling "silly faces" some of the selfie pouts sported by the "look at me aren't I fab" brigade are outrageously hilarious! contrived, fake and just so unsexy!! |
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I mostly meet younger men. I like them and get on well with them. However, it very much depends on the person. I have no trouble have interesting and funny conversations with the chaps I meet and excellent sex. That's my input. However, did I read your opening post correct in that you think people don't change much between 18 and 25? I really would have to disagree with that strongly. (By the way, I bloody love UK grime and have for ages). So there :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having read the thread and looked at your profile there are some things you should know, anyone you mesaage will look at your profile before reading the message, with this in mind you need a public gallery of images, doesn't have to be face pics, body shots are acceptable, but avoid cock pics, not everyone wants to see them in the public gallery, your profile text, needs to let people know who you are and what you're looking for whilst on here.
Never expect replies, make your intro mesaage personal to the profile you're sending it to, READ PROFILES. Can't say this enough to people, you have to be within their preferences for you to be even considered, and that doesn't even guarantee you'll get a response, be patient (bloody sounding like shag now), don't be negative here or on your profile statuses, no one likes a moaner.
Best of luck son shine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Re your profile: I just HATE those 'I've been told' lines. If you have to rely on others to tell you that you're intelligent/not butt-ugly/a twat etc etc, then there's little hope for you. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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I like younger men, but I find there is a world of difference between 23 and 33.
If all I wanted was a hard cock-shaped object, I have a vibrator. But when I've met guys in their early 20s, I find that is all they have to offer. Just a hard cock. No conversation, no humour, no flirting, usually very little kissing. In my experience, guys in their early 20s focus almost exclusively on their own gratification.
And that's fine, if that's all that they have to offer, I'm sure there are lots of women in their early 20s who don't want anything more than that. But when it comes to meeting men for sex, I want to be able to have a nice conversation beforehand, and I want to have something in common to talk about. Guys who were born in the 1990's ....? I had been working for 20 years before they were even born!
And I always ignore profiles which say "just ask" (unless they have displayed their personality in the chat rooms). Why would I bother asking, when there are thousands of profiles who have already taken advantage of the opportunity to showcase what they have to offer? |
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"I recently out my lower age bracket up to 25 as I've been finding some single males too immature and selfish for my needs.
Unfortunatley its those people who decide the general reputation of the rest of us who actually know that you are all human beings first and not just gonna fuck everything in sight.
Interestingly you wouldn't meet me based on my age...
Entirely depends on the person. .. I have been scrutinised already for having the age range too broad so I literally just changed it haha.
Why did you change your age range then? You really can't ask why people are against younger men then alter your public preference as soon as someone questions the fact that you have a broad range to show that you don't want to meet people over 45. In effect you just made a mockery of your original post.
Thats fair actually...... age doesnt bother me and it shouldnt bother anyone else.
Don't want to sound snappy because I'm really not but who are you to tell people what should and shouldn't bother them when it comes to who they want to meet? "
Exactly! Cheeky thing |
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The single ladies on here are in very high demand, and outnumber the guys by dome margin.
Nita can you give me a rounded figure?
probably about 180
Or should that be 360..."
. Haha you have a degree of wit |
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"But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when yourI have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know.
Everyone will want something different.
This means, that if you tell them nothing they are unlikely to take the time to ask, they would rather contact someone who they already know is likely to offer what they are looking for.
The single ladies on here are in very high demand, and outnumber the guys by dome margin.
Nita can you give me a rounded figure? "
I like a rounded figure |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
"Ok 99.... I'll change that haha. I have been on here before and given up. I don't like to fill out a profile because thats what you speak to people for, and I most certainly am polite to everyone. I dont listen to grime music whatever that is.... and I don't do text speak.
But thanks for some actual advice rather than just saying "when your a little older"
I wasnt really whining just wanted to know what peoples thoughts are on it.
You have friends only pics and not much about yourself in your profile.
What would make anyone get in touch with you in the first place, regardless of your age?
I have more on my profile than a lot of people on here and I would prefer people ask questions than me just tell everyone straight off. Especially as most women on here say they want to chat abit first before meeting... whats wrong with asking the question you want to know instead of me trying to guess what everyone would want to know. "
A lot of those people probably don't get much luck.
Honestly mate, whatever you think about the rights and wrongs of it, the honest truth is that without a decent profile your chances are virtually zero.
It's much more of a problem than your age. Profiles are vitally important on here. We can't really make it any clearer |
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By *evelG OP Man
over a year ago
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I appreciate what people have said.... I know what needs to happen. No I dont proof read everything I post I spend all week at work doing that I dont really care if my grammar isnt good or makes me sound stupid.
As you people have kindly pointed out I dont have much on my profile, I can certainly write something but alot of you have assumed that I dont know anything due to my age.
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"Just wanted to know what everyones big issue is with young guys - (under 25) theres not much that can change in a person from the age of 18 to 25 once a prick always a prick (same goes for nice guys)....
Also just because Im 23 doesnt mean I am childish, an asshole or out to ruin anyones good time.
Maybe I'm too polite for this site....
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i think this post answers your question really |
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"I appreciate what people have said.... I know what needs to happen. No I dont proof read everything I post I spend all week at work doing that I dont really care if my grammar isnt good or makes me sound stupid.
As you people have kindly pointed out I dont have much on my profile, I can certainly write something but alot of you have assumed that I dont know anything due to my age.
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What about those that haven't? They're the ones you will be wanting to meet.
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"Just wanted to know what everyones big issue is with young guys - (under 25) theres not much that can change in a person from the age of 18 to 25 once a prick always a prick (same goes for nice guys)....
Also just because Im 23 doesnt mean I am childish, an asshole or out to ruin anyones good time.
Maybe I'm too polite for this site....
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I used to think like this when i was to young to swing as well. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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As you people have kindly pointed out I dont have much on my profile, I can certainly write something but alot of you have assumed that I dont know anything due to my age.
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so you made the assumption based on the one thing you can't control... and leaves you blameless.... gotcha!!!!
you hit on it... there isn't a great deal on your profile... so how is someone suppose to know you are the right fit for them? they can't.....
fabswingers hasn't started charging by the word quite yet... so use some to tell people about you... and why they should look at you as opposed to the hundreds of other single guys out there!!!!
age may be the issue for some....age may be an issue for others.... and some may have decided you are not for them and it have absolutely nothing to do with age!
you are never going to appeal to everyone... its a fact... so why complain about it.... be realistic! |
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"I appreciate what people have said.... I know what needs to happen. No I dont proof read everything I post I spend all week at work doing that I dont really care if my grammar isnt good or makes me sound stupid.
As you people have kindly pointed out I dont have much on my profile, I can certainly write something but alot of you have assumed that I dont know anything due to my age.
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I don't think anyone is assuming anything nased on your age?
Basically you cant be bothered. Can; be bothered to write a profile, can;t be bothered to take any pride in it and yet you still think it's your age that's the issue |
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"Just wanted to know what everyones big issue is with young guys - (under 25) theres not much that can change in a person from the age of 18 to 25 once a prick always a prick (same goes for nice guys)....
Also just because Im 23 doesnt mean I am childish, an asshole or out to ruin anyones good time.
Maybe I'm too polite for this site....
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What makes you think your age is an issue? |
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"I appreciate what people have said.... I know what needs to happen. No I dont proof read everything I post I spend all week at work doing that I dont really care if my grammar isnt good or makes me sound stupid.
As you people have kindly pointed out I dont have much on my profile, I can certainly write something but alot of you have assumed that I dont know anything due to my age.
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Until your posted this topic id never even seen your profile, and many others hadn't either. So please don't insult our intelligence and preferences by assuming we have a pre-disposed opinion on how you will be due to your age. However, your post and replies do give me an opinion about you as a person. |
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"I appreciate what people have said.... I know what needs to happen. No I dont proof read everything I post I spend all week at work doing that I dont really care if my grammar isnt good or makes me sound stupid.
As you people have kindly pointed out I dont have much on my profile, I can certainly write something but alot of you have assumed that I dont know anything due to my age.
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Since you don't care about your profile why should anyone else care enough to meet you
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If there is an issue in terms of your success rate, I suspect it is due to your three line profile and lack of photos.
People aren't going to ask to see your photos when they can pick from people who already have photos. Besides this some people would rather see photos before entering into correspondence because if they then don't like the photos it is awkward |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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People don't change much between 18 and 25?
Clearly it's an individual thing but in general, I disagree.
In men particularly, the difference between 18 and 25 can be significant.
A lot of young people will be at university between 18 and 21 (or even longer) and have no experience of working and real life at all.
To a 20-something, the difference between an 18 year old and a 25 year old may not seem great. To me, it's usually a huge difference. |
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You need to stand out op. Age does make a difference and people have preferences. Make the most of what you can though and remember your profile is your sales pitch. Xx |
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