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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a lover of the more curvy womanly fuller figure, do women really worry that guys might think that your figure isnt attractive .
You may have had kids or a few more lbs does it bother you ladies ???. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a lover of the more curvy womanly fuller figure, do women really worry that guys might think that your figure isnt attractive .
You may have had kids or a few more lbs does it bother you ladies ???."
How long have you been single? |
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"As a lover of the more curvy womanly fuller figure, do women really worry that guys might think that your figure isnt attractive .
You may have had kids or a few more lbs does it bother you ladies ???."
All women's figures are womanly. They're women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a lover of the more curvy womanly fuller figure, do women really worry that guys might think that your figure isnt attractive .
You may have had kids or a few more lbs does it bother you ladies ???."
While I personally agree with you, what someone says on an Internet forum to get a fuck won't change what someone feels about themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At risk of being a tad too 'right on' and PC surely any adult females figure is 'womanly' .. not just those with curves or a few extra pounds or whatever.
But to answer your question I think a lot of women do worry about their figures and are influenced by the media and so feel they have to conform to a physical 'norm' whereas a lot of us men do like a naturally curvy or fuller figure.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a lover of the more curvy womanly fuller figure, do women really worry that guys might think that your figure isnt attractive .
You may have had kids or a few more lbs does it bother you ladies ???.
All women's figures are womanly. They're women. "
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"At risk of being a tad too 'right on' and PC surely any adult females figure is 'womanly' .. not just those with curves or a few extra pounds or whatever.
But to answer your question I think a lot of women do worry about their figures and are influenced by the media and so feel they have to conform to a physical 'norm' whereas a lot of us men do like a naturally curvy or fuller figure.
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Threads like this just reinforce negative body image. The irony. |
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"As a lover of the more curvy womanly fuller figure, do women really worry that guys might think that your figure isnt attractive .
You may have had kids or a few more lbs does it bother you ladies ???."
Nope! I'm in bloody good nick considering and many men on here are that keen they'll tell me I look 35 and gorgeous, so I'm fine ta.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I worry OP defo - I'm sexy curvy but can't see what men see when they like my wobbly bits!!!!
I look at think women and get envious! Suppose it's all about body confidence in our own heads!!!! When I'm with a meet I'm the sex goddess I am!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I worry OP defo - I'm sexy curvy but can't see what men see when they like my wobbly bits!!!!
I look at think women and get envious! Suppose it's all about body confidence in our own heads!!!! When I'm with a meet I'm the sex goddess I am!!!! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wish I wasn't quite so curvy. It wouldn't hurt at all to loose one or two, but I genuinely think most men (some men?) don't mind whatsoever. "
Your pics look superb.....heres a guy thats lusting after you xxx you have nothing to worry about hmmmm xxxx. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At risk of being a tad too 'right on' and PC surely any adult females figure is 'womanly' .. not just those with curves or a few extra pounds or whatever.
But to answer your question I think a lot of women do worry about their figures and are influenced by the media and so feel they have to conform to a physical 'norm' whereas a lot of us men do like a naturally curvy or fuller figure.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate looking in a mirror I hate my body from the neck down but that's my problem I'm not over weight I am a curvy lady but I still have the lumps and bumps I wish I didn't but I hate when someone says I have a real woman's figure or the good old classic baring hips all women's figures are womanly because as stated they are women x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think being fat is 'womanly'. I'd describe womanly as having hips, a narrower waist and a nice arse.
I didn't mention boobs because I like small ones |
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On paper I should be worried sick. I spent most of my life believing people, not just men, wouldn't like me because I wasn't slim.
Since I've been on Fab and been 'liberated' from my inhibitions etc. I now don't care at all.
For a lot of men it's more about being and feeling sexy than being a size 10
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate looking in a mirror I hate my body from the neck down but that's my problem I'm not over weight I am a curvy lady but I still have the lumps and bumps I wish I didn't but I hate when someone says I have a real woman's figure or the good old classic baring hips all women's figures are womanly because as stated they are women x"
Sorry to hear that lovely I think your figure is stunning on your profile pic xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate looking in a mirror I hate my body from the neck down but that's my problem I'm not over weight I am a curvy lady but I still have the lumps and bumps I wish I didn't but I hate when someone says I have a real woman's figure or the good old classic baring hips all women's figures are womanly because as stated they are women x
Sorry to hear that lovely I think your figure is stunning on your profile pic xx"
Awww thank you sweetie that's lovely of you to say truth be told I was just admiring yours  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All ladies' body shapes are womanly and I'm sure every woman has something they're not overly happy with.. And a lot of men also have insecurities. Its called being human, always wanting to better ourselves and finding our flaws.
So, perhaps your post can apply to everyone OP |
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Eh? It's a swinger's site..?!?
"As a lover of the more curvy womanly fuller figure, do women really worry that guys might think that your figure isnt attractive .
You may have had kids or a few more lbs does it bother you ladies ???.
How long have you been single?"
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"It annoys me when people say curvy women are "womanly" I like curvy women and I also like slim women. I think it's offensive towards slim women"
It is not offensive to slim women. If people said ONLY curvy/larger women had womenly figures then that would be offensive to slim women. To simply state that one thinks curvy women have womenly figures says nothing about slim women at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone's beautiful, exactly how they are.
Case closed.
Yeah so lets all just have a orgy
It doesn't always have to be sexual."
Oh ill just go and crawl back under my rock  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't wear 80% of my clothes right now cos I've put on so much weight in the last 18 months and before anyone says I look small or average in the pictures take a closer look at my arms, they're like big sausages and that black dress thing is spanx so it's smoothing my belly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooooh I love a good thread. And this one is a good un. women are beautiful whatever there shape. In my opinion anyway. No matter what size we see or however womanly we feel . All women are gorgeous. Look at us !!!! Slim women, tall women, short women, curvy women we are all womanly. There are lots of men put there who like a bit of meat on a ladies bones and there are men who prefer slim but we are all womanly. I'm never offended if someone's not attracted to my womanly figure. Not at all. Good thread op and interesting xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't wear 80% of my clothes right now cos I've put on so much weight in the last 18 months and before anyone says I look small or average in the pictures take a closer look at my arms, they're like big sausages and that black dress thing is spanx so it's smoothing my belly! "
How big are sausages round your way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All women are beautiful regardless of their shape or figure, the true beauty is where they love who they are and are happy with themselves. it's often the result of motherhood and maturity. They should be applauded not debated ???? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ooooh I love a good thread. And this one is a good un. women are beautiful whatever there shape. In my opinion anyway. No matter what size we see or however womanly we feel . All women are gorgeous. Look at us !!!! Slim women, tall women, short women, curvy women we are all womanly. There are lots of men put there who like a bit of meat on a ladies bones and there are men who prefer slim but we are all womanly. I'm never offended if someone's not attracted to my womanly figure. Not at all. Good thread op and interesting xx"
my pleasure xxxxxxx.....great reply xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't wear 80% of my clothes right now cos I've put on so much weight in the last 18 months and before anyone says I look small or average in the pictures take a closer look at my arms, they're like big sausages and that black dress thing is spanx so it's smoothing my belly!
How big are sausages round your way? "
Ha, people are surprised when I tell them how much I weigh or when I grab my rolls cos I look small from the back and my shoulders and frame is quite small but all my weight is on my belly, and my fingers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I worry about my body, yeah. But it isn't something I give too much thought to. If I don't like it, I change it. But for me, no one else.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't wear 80% of my clothes right now cos I've put on so much weight in the last 18 months and before anyone says I look small or average in the pictures take a closer look at my arms, they're like big sausages and that black dress thing is spanx so it's smoothing my belly!
How big are sausages round your way?
Ha, people are surprised when I tell them how much I weigh or when I grab my rolls cos I look small from the back and my shoulders and frame is quite small but all my weight is on my belly, and my fingers! "
Ergh belly weight, the bane of my life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It annoys me when people say curvy women are "womanly" I like curvy women and I also like slim women. I think it's offensive towards slim women"
innit stupid,,daft term indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It annoys me when people say curvy women are "womanly" I like curvy women and I also like slim women. I think it's offensive towards slim women
It is not offensive to slim women. If people said ONLY curvy/larger women had womenly figures then that would be offensive to slim women. To simply state that one thinks curvy women have womenly figures says nothing about slim women at all."
Yes you're right however it seems that "womanly" is synonymous with "curvy". At least in the media but yes, it's all in the eye of the beholder |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't wear 80% of my clothes right now cos I've put on so much weight in the last 18 months and before anyone says I look small or average in the pictures take a closer look at my arms, they're like big sausages and that black dress thing is spanx so it's smoothing my belly!
How big are sausages round your way?
Ha, people are surprised when I tell them how much I weigh or when I grab my rolls cos I look small from the back and my shoulders and frame is quite small but all my weight is on my belly, and my fingers! "
Weights a funny thing sometimes doesn't always correlate to size xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"woman come in all different shapes n sizes and ALL have womanly figures
p,s,,some even have willies
*stamps foot....
I want a Willy! "
I can lend you mine? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"woman come in all different shapes n sizes and ALL have womanly figures
p,s,,some even have willies
*stamps foot....
I want a Willy! "
Do what I did and buy a few from Lovehoney and similar sites  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must admit I do find it odd, personally I think beauty and sex appeal for me in a woman really does not boil down to one particular look or body type,as long as their drop dead gorgeous,
As I said ALL woman have a womanly body.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must admit I do find it odd, personally I think beauty and sex appeal for me in a woman really does not boil down to one particular look or body type,as long as their drop dead gorgeous,
As I said ALL woman have a womanly body.
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Go girl !! Mwah xx |
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"Must admit I do find it odd, personally I think beauty and sex appeal for me in a woman really does not boil down to one particular look or body type,as long as their drop dead gorgeous,
As I said ALL woman have a womanly body.
Go girl !! Mwah xx"
hot pics |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think about it that much but have been thinking that if I lose 3 stone I will do better on here, on dating sites most men want slim women.
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Not this one xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep , I'm trying to lose weight, but that's for me and my health. It's frustrating though that however much weight I lose, can't seem to shift it from my stomach ! That's my disliked part. But B likes it. We are all our own worst critics though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i've been lucky that i'm stubborn, and when my abusive ex used to slag me off (after having his kids) i just thought he was a knob. plus my body wasn't even that bad then, was only after 3 it went to pot...
and you know what? the guy who i had my other 2 children with used to kiss my wobbly belly and say he loved me coz i'd had his kids and didn't care about it. he still cheated on me though. 
fuck it. most people just wanna get their dick wet and don't really care so long as you have a nice face or something there that attracts them. |
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I know plenty of people say why worry what others think, especially unknown keyboard warriors. But I seem to be wired differently no matter how hard i try.
So yep OP some of us worry about it constantly.
T |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not what guys think I worry about. It's what I think that matters."
Absolutely agree!
I'm my own worst critic and want to lose about a stone! Many ladies on here look amazing with 'womanly curves' - I don't as the weight goes on in all the wrong places!
Ironically - the only time I'm really curvy is when I strip the body fat -then I have a good waist to hip ratio - at other times I'm slightly chubby, not curvy!! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to worry about my figure but as I've got older I'm more comfortable with it and i am what I am !!
You look pretty darned good from here! "
Why thank you the cheques in the post xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I am super happy and others in not.....
I often used to think my breasts are too big and have been hiding them all my life .... Now I am adjusting and coming round to liking them..... Same with tummy ... Hate it really and then I think two kidos, life saving operations, and it's super soft .... I just need to choose to love all of me and accept that the "he" might be being honest when he says yum
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to hate the way i look.. then i realised that its not about what other people think its about what you think
Now it doesnt bother me with the way i look im finally comfortable in my own skin |
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I have massive body confidence issues. Which are all my own, it's not about anyone else, I just struggle to see what others see. Considering Mr T has an athletic body and very fit and healthy, I do wonder what on earth makes him (or anyone else for that matter!!) attracted to me from the neck down. I could spend hours pointing out the awful parts of me.
I feel that everyone will see my body how I see it, disgusting, which is one of the reasons why I felt the need to state my size on our profile, almost like a warning!
However, the good thing is I'm trying my best to improve my body, it makes me unhappy so I'm making a change (I'm three stone down so far) no one else can do that but me, and during the time of the weight coming off I need to learn to love what I have each day because I accept that I won't be a skinny Minnie overnight.
I try and learn to love the wobbly bits but I won't miss them when they're gone!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to worry about my figure but as I've got older I'm more comfortable with it and i am what I am !!
You look pretty darned good from here!
Why thank you the cheques in the post xx "
That was a freebie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are all beautiful ladies!!! I like to think I can find something attractive or beautiful in anyone and everyone. We will all have something special about us that no one else has. You need to learn to love yourself before others can!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have massive body confidence issues. Which are all my own, it's not about anyone else, I just struggle to see what others see. Considering Mr T has an athletic body and very fit and healthy, I do wonder what on earth makes him (or anyone else for that matter!!) attracted to me from the neck down. I could spend hours pointing out the awful parts of me.
I feel that everyone will see my body how I see it, disgusting, which is one of the reasons why I felt the need to state my size on our profile, almost like a warning!
However, the good thing is I'm trying my best to improve my body, it makes me unhappy so I'm making a change (I'm three stone down so far) no one else can do that but me, and during the time of the weight coming off I need to learn to love what I have each day because I accept that I won't be a skinny Minnie overnight.
I try and learn to love the wobbly bits but I won't miss them when they're gone!
Sassy"
Good for you there's more to anyone than just their body shape and ignore anyone that says differently. I know what you're going through and if you ever need a chat or anything then drop me a message keep at it as you're doing it for the right reasons because you want to! X |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"All ladies' body shapes are womanly and I'm sure every woman has something they're not overly happy with.. And a lot of men also have insecurities. Its called being human, always wanting to better ourselves and finding our flaws.
So, perhaps your post can apply to everyone OP "
Great post |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"All ladies' body shapes are womanly and I'm sure every woman has something they're not overly happy with.. And a lot of men also have insecurities. Its called being human, always wanting to better ourselves and finding our flaws.
So, perhaps your post can apply to everyone OP
Great post "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont care what people think about me take me or leave me.. though i do get self conscious and hate that ive put on some weight"
Drool..drool you look fabulous...xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont care what people think about me take me or leave me.. though i do get self conscious and hate that ive put on some weight
Drool..drool you look fabulous...xx"
I know i do thanks  |
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all woman hate some parts of their body mine is my boobs . I wish they were a bit bigger and a bit more shapely. I wouldn't wat to be bigger though I work hard to stay slim but that is a health thing as well as a looks thing. My step mum says its your face or your figure so I guess I look haggard lol |
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By *jj46Man
over a year ago
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"I dont care what people think about me take me or leave me.. though i do get self conscious and hate that ive put on some weight
Drool..drool you look fabulous...xx"
My ex wife was bbw and she was mighty fine plus I go for personality so you look fantastic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"all woman hate some parts of their body mine is my boobs . I wish they were a bit bigger and a bit more shapely. I wouldn't wat to be bigger though I work hard to stay slim but that is a health thing as well as a looks thing. My step mum says its your face or your figure so I guess I look haggard lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very comfortable in my own skin but only as I have gotten older and learnt to appreciate my curves not criticise them.
It does amuse me when I receive a message from single guys being less gentlemanly in their descriptions |
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"Very comfortable in my own skin but only as I have gotten older and learnt to appreciate my curves not criticise them.
It does amuse me when I receive a message from single guys being less gentlemanly in their descriptions I'm still trying figure out how send a message to women without being a dick but then again most messages I've had are hey babe or why you doing know with there mob number without even stroking up a conversation "
Fat bird with shaggy tits was my favourite as I would love to know what shaggy tits are. Had visions of the whole Scooby Doo gang  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Very comfortable in my own skin but only as I have gotten older and learnt to appreciate my curves not criticise them.
It does amuse me when I receive a message from single guys being less gentlemanly in their descriptions I'm still trying figure out how send a message to women without being a dick but then again most messages I've had are hey babe or why you doing know with there mob number without even stroking up a conversation
Fat bird with shaggy tits was my favourite as I would love to know what shaggy tits are. Had visions of the whole Scooby Doo gang "
I had a cracker this week. He is now UNLOS so I think I can share? "You're not that fat or ugly what are you doing on here?"
How anyone thinks that is an acceptable sentiment is beyond me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a lover of the more curvy womanly fuller figure, do women really worry that guys might think that your figure isnt attractive .
You may have had kids or a few more lbs does it bother you ladies ???."
Many guys do find it unattractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not what guys think I worry about. It's what I think that matters."
That's true
I hate my body, I'm the ultimate yo-yo dieter people are always telling me I look fine, that I talk about myself like I'm some kind of huge heffer and that I'm just curvy but regardless of this I still look at myself as see a huge heffer and the yo-yo dieting continues |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very comfortable in my own skin but only as I have gotten older and learnt to appreciate my curves not criticise them.
It does amuse me when I receive a message from single guys being less gentlemanly in their descriptions I'm still trying figure out how send a message to women without being a dick but then again most messages I've had are hey babe or why you doing know with there mob number without even stroking up a conversation
Fat bird with shaggy tits was my favourite as I would love to know what shaggy tits are. Had visions of the whole Scooby Doo gang "
You have the best tits ive ever seen x |
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