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100-200 messages a day

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

We've never had 100 messages at one time but we have got pretty tight filters.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The most I got in one day was 27.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its not just women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a single bloke I get about 10/15 a day so I presume ladies get way way more and some of my lady friends on here have shown me they have over 400+ messages !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"its not just women

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As a single bloke I get about 10/15 a day so I presume ladies get way way more and some of my lady friends on here have shown me they have over 400+ messages ! "

400 messages!!! What in one day?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

We probably get ten messages from new people a month, it very much depends on age, gender, your filters and your preferences as to whether you come up in searches.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day. "

Yikes we must be dong something wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got one a couple of weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well apart from the occasional message from Admin checking to see if my profile is still breathing...,,,,, I'll have to take your word that members can send messages to each other,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we did for the first few weeks after setting up our profile but now its about 25-50+ depending on how active we are being. If we go on cam we get a lot more

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By *iss AdventureWoman over a year ago

Wonderland

I did when I was fresh meat but filters is all that needs to be said

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Most I got was 43 after I put up a meet request. I was v surprised as I usually get about 5 a day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I remember one woman showing me a message and then again another a little later, maybe 30 minutes or so, and she had received another 25/30 messages, which is a pretty crazy idea to me. I get a few a day but ignore the vast majority.

I bet those who are attention seeking and with open filters etc would get hundreds a day?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

get on the 1st page of most fab'd pics,,n boy oh boy its silly the amount of messages you get

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By *aturelover2016Man over a year ago

London

I get about one a month and find that a struggle! Sympathy to all you lovely ladies X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A woman I used to chat to if she posted new pics or changed her avatar regularly got ridiculous numbers one day she posted a very sexy pic of her large breasts and got 2109 messages

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

The most I've had in one day was 102 but on average 15/16 of which about 3 would be of any use.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I may have a couple a day, usually a reply to one I've sent.

Very occasionally I may receive an uninstegated mail. Possibly from a male that can't read.

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By *aturelover2016Man over a year ago

London

"I may have a couple a day, usually a reply to one I've sent.

Very occasionally I may receive an uninstegated mail. Possibly from a male that can't read."

Sorry about that

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By *anda and CatCouple over a year ago

If we get one a week we get giddy! But we do have strict filters up.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day. "

I can get 100+ per day if my filters are open and I'm online a lot. A lot of guys scan the who's online now, hoping the women online will be looking for a meet/dirty chat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I usually dont get any, on a good day maibe 5 lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have my filters off (usually on).... I had 1 public pic on until this morning.. I got 116 messages yesterday.. Read my profile..

I had a proper profile up until last week.. And any time I took filters off for forums.. I would receive on average 60 ish messages a day.. If I upload a public picture and have filters off then it can be stupid amounts of messages. Especially if you're in hot pics.

When I first joined as a single and wanted the attention.. So no filters lots of pics.. Decent profile.. I was getting 300-400 messages a day...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't get any off the ladies!!! Where am I going wrong? Please help? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Regular pics, no filters and you get lots.

I use filters

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By *andaCouple over a year ago

co down

Interesting question. Noticed a new single lady joined around 9am this morning according to news feed. 10 mins later she complained that her mailbox was full. Find it hard to believe tbh. We get a manageable amount of mail but we have quite a few filters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"get on the 1st page of most fab'd pics,,n boy oh boy its silly the amount of messages you get"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a single bloke I get about 10/15 a day so I presume ladies get way way more and some of my lady friends on here have shown me they have over 400+ messages !

400 messages!!! What in one day?"

That was just the amount she sent me a screen grab of, so not sure if that was a build up ?!

But if you see the ladies on the hot photos get 800+ fabs in 12hr then you have to imagine that they must get s few sending messages too .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a single bloke I get about 10/15 a day so I presume ladies get way way more and some of my lady friends on here have shown me they have over 400+ messages !

400 messages!!! What in one day?"

That was just the amount she sent me a screen grab of, so not sure if that was a build up ?!

But if you see the ladies on the hot photos get 800+ fabs in 12hr then you have to imagine that they must get s few sending messages too .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The most I got in one day was 27. "

Such a stud

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I once got 680 messages in a day .... but that was following the best anal pic thread, a few months ago .....

Way too many to answer lol xxxxx

Suzi

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By *trawberry-popWoman over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

When I first joined, no filters, public pics incl. face had 200 messages in first 30 mins.

I get 10+ a day now with filters on etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get around 100-200 a day. A lot more if I put a new pic of up or something.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll probably get one or two. They're most likely rejections though

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman over a year ago

Hereabouts

I have 62 unread messages in my inbox, the oldest of which is about 3 weeks ago. I definitely don't get hundreds a day but when I change location I get an influx of about 80 over a couple of days. If I didn't delete a few that I'm definitely never going to be interested in then I'd have more sat in my inbox lol xD

But no I think it's an exaggeration. I've only had over 100 messages a day on the first day I joined the site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I'm going to leave my filters open, and indeed receive 100+ messages per day,I'm not going to moan about it on a thread. That's like eating a jam sandwich on the beach and moaning about the wasps,while wanting to see a butterfly.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day.

I can get 100+ per day if my filters are open and I'm online a lot. A lot of guys scan the who's online now, hoping the women online will be looking for a meet/dirty chat."

And are you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I'm going to leave my filters open, and indeed receive 100+ messages per day,I'm not going to moan about it on a thread. That's like eating a jam sandwich on the beach and moaning about the wasps,while wanting to see a butterfly."

Who's moaning?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not an exaggeration.

I've blocked all men btw, hardly ever take those filters off...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I normally receive 30 or so messages a day but I have very rigid filters. When I post a meet it is over a 100 messages a day but this also depends on the area I am travelling to. Weekends I perhaps receive 10-15 messages a day.

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Some ladies seem to court the attention ....

filters would likely reduce the volume significantly,

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By *iverscuMan over a year ago

Berkshire

I get a couple a week, mostly from guys!

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

yes it happens. if i put a good pic up ive had over 1000 email and 500 visits to my profile in 24 hours

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most I've had is 50 but generally 10 a day. Good luck to the folk getting 100 a day x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"yes it happens. if i put a good pic up ive had over 1000 email and 500 visits to my profile in 24 hours"

Bet that took a while to respond/delete them. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

Agreed - if people wanted to find single guys, tvs, couples or whatever, for themselves, it's easy to use that filter to stop all the incoming unwanted messages. Or removing all their likes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day. "

Just over a year ago when we rejoined we wwould get up to 100 messages when we put a meet request up .

Now its about 20 or so .

Probably because we've met most of the people who want to meet us since then !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

not really.

nobody wants to have a dead inbox either, which mine is now i've blocked all guys from messaging.

think it took me months to get the balance right in my inbox.

and half your messages are copy and paste or some random shit from selfish guys, not very flattering tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

100 a month for me if lucky!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

not really.

nobody wants to have a dead inbox either, which mine is now i've blocked all guys from messaging.

think it took me months to get the balance right in my inbox.

and half your messages are copy and paste or some random shit from selfish guys, not very flattering tbh."

Yes really.....

If getting hundreds of messages bothers someone enough for them to moan about it or make a forum post as has been done before.

Just use the filters and do the looking yourself....like I said they will love the attention.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple over a year ago

andover

We average around 10 per day, most are why have you looked at our profile..because i can..lol..

Than a few, can we pop around from the users who can't be bothered to read our profile.

And this time of year some that ask about corfu..connie x

ps. male filter on.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple over a year ago

Andover

For us it's changing location that does it.

With our usual home territory of Newbury set we get maybe 10 to 20 mails a day.

If we go away for the weekend which we do maybe twice a month we open a different profile and set the location to wherever we are going to be.

While that profile is open 100 to 200 mails is common. Staying Birmingham or London can see is get 4 or 5 hundred a day.

Not complaining about the quantity as we don't set filters but it can be a pain reading all the messages only to see that most have simply not read the profile.

Probably half of them have not even got as far finding out we are not an MF couple.

"I'd love to taste your gf's pussy"

Yeah, your in for a surprise there sunshine.

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I generally get over 100 a day. A portion of which are instantly deleted due to height, location or crap message content. I have a couple of filters in place but there isn't much you can do when looking for men to play with other than accept messages off men.

I state on my profile that I get a lot of messages but do it in a vague hope that it may prick an odd one of them into NOT messaging me!! Just hope it's not the good ones it may put off!!

My new pics of last 48 hours have however brought an influx and I currently have 290 unread.

I mass delete once a week too

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

I get about 100 in a year

And 92 are from men.

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Oh and I made the mistake the other day when coming home from Chorley of saying in a status 'whos local and free now'?

I was completely bombarded in just half an hours driving. NEVER AGAIN will I make that mistake!! Lol

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By *lactontogMan over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I average 5 to 10 each week but mine and Kim's couples ad gets that a day.

We don't bother to answer two to three word messages as people who send these usually turn out to be time wasters anyway.

If we have put photos or new veri 's we tend to get more than usual.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A hundred doesn't seem that bad when there's regularly 20,000+ on the site.

Where are they all by the way?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who's moaning? "

The women who moan about it. And cry,I can't respond to everyone!! Well,you could if you used your filters wisely. Even me,who doesn't have a type and am not looking for Mr Wunnerful,can reduce my filters to be able to reply to everyone who messages me. Women moan about men moaning about not being replied to and say their excuse is they get too many to reply to. They don't have to is all I'm saying.

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Some ladies seem to court the attention ....

filters would likely reduce the volume significantly, "

Absolutely

Filters are your friend

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I have quite a few filters, I never count how many messages I get.

I get the ones saying they like my pics, which is nice.

Most of them aren't very interesting though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day. "

10 a day?? You women are lucky.

I only 10 a year... and usually to say fuck off

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By *kgeminiMan over a year ago

Southampton

Is this seperate conversations? As chatting with one person quickly racks up the numbers.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World

If I am looking for a meet, have a request up, filters off, a provactive status & it is a Thurs, Fri or Saturday then yes I can get that many messages in a day.

But I am heavily filtered so no new mail can get through and I haven't had to ignore anyone for weeks

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By *rSuave88Man over a year ago

Mirfield

I average about 0 a day lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is this seperate conversations? As chatting with one person quickly racks up the numbers. "

Yeah I'm talking about separate people xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who's moaning?

Ohhh.. I thought you meant someone on this thread.. Thought I was missing reading something somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I don't initiate a conversation I suppose I average one a week and they come on the back of forum posts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our filters must be far too good lol we only got 5-10 on an average day, maybe 20-40 if we start a chat or post photos or a meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this seperate conversations? As chatting with one person quickly racks up the numbers. "

I'm talking unread messages, so guys i'm not interested in. Some are spammers though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its not just women

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

"yes it happens. if i put a good pic up ive had over 1000 email and 500 visits to my profile in 24 hours"

sorry i meant a 100 emails lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get about 3 a day unless I am chatting to friends, then it all depends how long the chat is for.

Can be a few hours or a 10 min check to see if I am alive!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who's moaning?

Ohhh.. I thought you meant someone on this thread.. Thought I was missing reading something somewhere

Naaaah,women in general

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Obviously this is just my opinion, but I have never believed it.

Some people see it as a competition and a measure of attractiveness and so not to be outdone 'elaborate' a little.

When I first joined the amount used to be 80 messages a day, for some reason many people got the exact same amount. It then went up to 100 then 100s and the figure keeps getting higher. when you've been here a while you start to see trends.

Similarly the squirting phenomena, porn stars were doing it, a few women started saying they could on fab and then a wild influx of women have suddenly developed this skill.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Obviously this is just my opinion, but I have never believed it.

Some people see it as a competition and a measure of attractiveness and so not to be outdone 'elaborate' a little.

Similarly the squirting phenomena, porn stars were doing it, a few women started saying they could on fab and then a wild influx of women have suddenly developed this skill.

Regards squirting, Mrs genuinely he'd no idea she could then it just happened once!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get approx 30/40 a day but most are deleted straight away. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I don't initiate a conversation I suppose I average one a week and they come on the back of forum posts"

This

but then again I'm old and nobody talks to oldies anymore

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh and I made the mistake the other day when coming home from Chorley of saying in a status 'whos local and free now'?

I was completely bombarded in just half an hours driving. NEVER AGAIN will I make that mistake!! Lol "

Thankyou, bit of back up there. I've always said this area is busy and i get loads of messages because of it.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"The most I got in one day was 27. "

Yeah, sorry about that

Speak to ya next month, yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm half tempted to take all my filters off and report back tomorrow hoe many messages I get.

But I don't think it's fair to let people message who I wouldnt ever meet. (personal opinion not thinking bad of anyone else's filter choices)

Plus I'd probably still only get about ten Haha.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

not really.

nobody wants to have a dead inbox either, which mine is now i've blocked all guys from messaging.

think it took me months to get the balance right in my inbox.

and half your messages are copy and paste or some random shit from selfish guys, not very flattering tbh.

Yes really.....

If getting hundreds of messages bothers someone enough for them to moan about it or make a forum post as has been done before.

Just use the filters and do the looking yourself....like I said they will love the attention.

i blocked all older guys and younger guys. my filters have a 10 year range. mostly they are set to off soi don't get any messages if i'm not meeting. my blocklist is small because of this too.

this area is very active. i'm right in the middle of liverpool, warrington, bury, preston, bolton, wigan, manchester, plus half of london and scotland message me for some reason also.

it's just how it is in some places.

i don't complain about it now but like i said it takes ages to get your inbox right. i used to complain about it though, it was hard work figuring out how to sort your inbox. just got stupid advice like look for guys yourself and go through all the blank profiles to do this.

dunno how guys find women actually now i think about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The amount of messages get women get on the this site kinda puts me off messaging women in the first place. What is it you ladies look for in deciding which messages you'll actually bother to read or does it get too much and you'll delete them all?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What are these 'filters' your all going on about ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's why I'm unsure whether to message anyone, cos they'll get loads so I won't get seen. But if I wait for women or couples to come to me I'm going to be waiting forever lol

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

not really.

nobody wants to have a dead inbox either, which mine is now i've blocked all guys from messaging.

think it took me months to get the balance right in my inbox.

and half your messages are copy and paste or some random shit from selfish guys, not very flattering tbh.

Yes really.....

If getting hundreds of messages bothers someone enough for them to moan about it or make a forum post as has been done before.

Just use the filters and do the looking yourself....like I said they will love the attention.

i blocked all older guys and younger guys. my filters have a 10 year range. mostly they are set to off soi don't get any messages if i'm not meeting. my blocklist is small because of this too.

this area is very active. i'm right in the middle of liverpool, warrington, bury, preston, bolton, wigan, manchester, plus half of london and scotland message me for some reason also.

it's just how it is in some places.

dunno how guys find women actually now i think about it."

Help me with mine! ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I bet we haven't had that many in 6 years of being on here

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By *umpkinMan over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

"Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day. "

I`m lucky if I get 10 messages a YEAR!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Re counted had 12 different people message us but as we got chatting had lots of actual messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

586 unread messages. Over 75 today - can't see further down than that! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"586 unread messages. Over 75 today - can't see further down than that! X"

Wow are you ever going to read them Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"586 unread messages. Over 75 today - can't see further down than that! X"

You should pay someone to sort them out for you haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"586 unread messages. Over 75 today - can't see further down than that! X"

But iv seen your pics so its your own fault you get so many

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day.

I`m lucky if I get 10 messages a YEAR!

I think maybe some guys are fibbing

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By *nleashedCrakenMan over a year ago

Widnes

"Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day.

Just over a year ago when we rejoined we wwould get up to 100 messages when we put a meet request up .

Now its about 20 or so .

Probably because we've met most of the people who want to meet us since then ! "

Not quite all, yet. LOL

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

not really.

nobody wants to have a dead inbox either, which mine is now i've blocked all guys from messaging.

think it took me months to get the balance right in my inbox.

and half your messages are copy and paste or some random shit from selfish guys, not very flattering tbh.

Yes really.....

If getting hundreds of messages bothers someone enough for them to moan about it or make a forum post as has been done before.

Just use the filters and do the looking yourself....like I said they will love the attention.

i blocked all older guys and younger guys. my filters have a 10 year range. mostly they are set to off so i don't get any messages if i'm not meeting. my blocklist is small because of this too.

this area is very active. i'm right in the middle of liverpool, warrington, bury, preston, bolton, wigan, manchester, plus half of london and scotland message me for some reason also.

it's just how it is in some places.

dunno how guys find women actually now i think about it.

Help me with mine! ha ha!"

it's easy. just block men unless you're looking for a random meet or someone new to chat with.

open filters, wait a minute, then choose several guys you're interested in, then turn them off again.

no need to delete anything you're not interested in either, just focus on who you're interested in chatting to without too much interruption. delete read messages as you go to keep on top of everything.

also get used to talking to many people at once. you hardly need to take your filters off this way too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"586 unread messages. Over 75 today - can't see further down than that! X

Wow are you ever going to read them Haha

I'm not tbh!

Which is a shame as there may be messages from amazing guys who id have fantastic meets with!

This is why I advise guys not to write long opening messages when they seek advice on the forums - because many fems simply won't get chance to read them! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"586 unread messages. Over 75 today - can't see further down than that! X

Wow are you ever going to read them Haha

I'm not tbh!

Which is a shame as there may be messages from amazing guys who id have fantastic meets with!

This is why I advise guys not to write long opening messages when they seek advice on the forums - because many fems simply won't get chance to read them! X"

Fair enough. Just completely randomly I love your profile by the way xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"586 unread messages. Over 75 today - can't see further down than that! X

Wow are you ever going to read them Haha

I'm not tbh!

Which is a shame as there may be messages from amazing guys who id have fantastic meets with!

This is why I advise guys not to write long opening messages when they seek advice on the forums - because many fems simply won't get chance to read them! X

Fair enough. Just completely randomly I love your profile by the way xx"

Thanks!

Very kind!

It's intended as an antidote to the 'worship at the feet of the single female you lowly men and couples!' Type profiles. You know the one's I mean!

I get loads of messages from people just telling me I made them chuckle - which is lovely!

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've got over 100 unread going back a few days. I'm not keen on bulk deleting in case I miss out on someone I like the look of!!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Obviously this is just my opinion, but I have never believed it.

Some people see it as a competition and a measure of attractiveness and so not to be outdone 'elaborate' a little.

Similarly the squirting phenomena, porn stars were doing it, a few women started saying they could on fab and then a wild influx of women have suddenly developed this skill.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

Exactly

Yeah I'd agree with you both!

I don't complain about the number of messages I get. I have filters - but only a few as I don't want to deter pm's from fellow forumites. When I do get time to read some there are some lovely guys amongst them who are well worth meeting!

I don't pity anyone who gets loads of messages - but I do sympathise with the guys who message us/them as it means many messages will go unread! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Obviously this is just my opinion, but I have never believed it.

Some people see it as a competition and a measure of attractiveness and so not to be outdone 'elaborate' a little.

Similarly the squirting phenomena, porn stars were doing it, a few women started saying they could on fab and then a wild influx of women have suddenly developed this skill.

And a lot of varis will state"he had me gushing in seconds" or "had her squirting straight away"

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Not for me,but at my age I can't cope with many messages

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Obviously this is just my opinion, but I have never believed it.

Some people see it as a competition and a measure of attractiveness and so not to be outdone 'elaborate' a little.

Similarly the squirting phenomena, porn stars were doing it, a few women started saying they could on fab and then a wild influx of women have suddenly developed this skill.

And a lot of varis will state"he had me gushing in seconds" or "had her squirting straight away"

Yes I know, I had someone say I had a wet pussy, it was lube.

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By *uby0000Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

when i first joined i needed a secratary to help answer them all

new pics always got a responce not so bad when i discovered the filters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Obviously this is just my opinion, but I have never believed it.

Some people see it as a competition and a measure of attractiveness and so not to be outdone 'elaborate' a little.

Similarly the squirting phenomena, porn stars were doing it, a few women started saying they could on fab and then a wild influx of women have suddenly developed this skill.

And a lot of varis will state"he had me gushing in seconds" or "had her squirting straight away"

Yes I know, I had someone say I had a wet pussy, it was lube.

Sorry ladies - but I'm not sure I understand the connection between squirting/gushing and number of messages?

Perhaps one of you would be kind enough to enlighten me?

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By *VBethTV/TS over a year ago

Chester

My record was 58 but around 10-15 is usual. A lot are the same people asking how I am though.... every day.... slightly irritating after a while!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My filters must be working to well as I rarely get messages.

Perhaps time to relax them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get about 10 if i upload a pic. Im convinced this number would be the same even if the pic was my tea

On a normal day 1 or 2 tops

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Roughly 40 a day about a year ago. Then it went to about 20. Now i've managed to cut it out altogether.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I don't initiate a conversation I suppose I average one a week and they come on the back of forum posts

This

but then again I'm old and nobody talks to oldies anymore

That's soon true. Can I borrow your zimmer PP?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day.

I`m lucky if I get 10 messages a YEAR!

I think maybe some guys are fibbing

If they aren't fibbing then maybe they should change what they are doing ?

Better profile, different type of photos and def better banter !

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By *lighty1Woman over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I got about 40 messages within 2 hours of joining... some sent before I had written my profile or uploaded a pic. I read a couple of messages and some said "your profile and pictures look great... ". So I just ruthlessly hit 'delete all', and, following Fab's Advice For Newbies, I put some strict filters on.

Now I hide my profile when I'm not in the chat room, so that I don't come up in searches, and I only tend to get 5-10 messages a day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who's moaning?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

Agreed - if people wanted to find single guys, tvs, couples or whatever, for themselves, it's easy to use that filter to stop all the incoming unwanted messages. Or removing all their likes."

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By *piritsonfabCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

We have zero filters on our profile and got a fair number of messages the first few days of the profile going live.

Now we get 2 or three a day on average. Maybe we're mingers

I usually reply to most messages. And I even send some to guys I think may be interested in meeting us - or - amazingly - just for general chat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got one a couple of weeks ago

Least your honest about it

I've just read some bull s--t on here pmsl

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"I got one a couple of weeks ago

Least your honest about it

I've just read some bull s--t on here pmsl"
I got two in one day .. The other day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got one a couple of weeks ago

Least your honest about it

I've just read some bull s--t on here pmslI got two in one day .. The other day

Living the dream!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do single male profiles have the facility to receive messages then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do single male profiles have the facility to receive messages then?"

Nah, it's just a myth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have zero filters on our profile and got a fair number of messages the first few days of the profile going live.

Now we get 2 or three a day on average. Maybe we're mingers

I usually reply to most messages. And I even send some to guys I think may be interested in meeting us - or - amazingly - just for general chat

I'd say that was average . We got maybe 60 the first day we joined then the initial rush for "new meat" slowed down we probably get about the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say if any single guys getting 10 a day there from other bi sexual guys .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say if any single guys getting 10 a day there from other bi sexual guys .

"
I actually had to block men from mine because of all the "straight" guys complimenting my dick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day. "

Apart from conversational messages I don't think I've ever had an unsolicited message from anyone since I've been here.

And my filters are pretty open.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I first joined this was a thing now not so much (not complaining)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say if any single guys getting 10 a day there from other bi sexual guys .

I actually had to block men from mine because of all the "straight" guys complimenting my dick"

We never message single guys unless the message us first . I can't see single guys getting 10 messages a day unless they put a meet up looking for another guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think a lot of the problem with this topic is some people just think the popular people aren't attractive, or at least less attractive as them, so can't believe it?

Most men will fuck anything, i reckon so anyway from the amount without pics who think you'll fuck them (ie. anything), so it is more the amount of people in your area.

I've just been accosted in the street and asked if i'm on fab, there's too many people round here on fab. guy across the road, guy up the road who works at the chippy, the bike place across the road, guy on the street next to mine, guy who works in the corner shop. seriously this is just within like 20M radius of my house that i know of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say if any single guys getting 10 a day there from other bi sexual guys .

I actually had to block men from mine because of all the "straight" guys complimenting my dick

We never message single guys unless the message us first . I can't see single guys getting 10 messages a day unless they put a meet up looking for another guy "
I never said I got ten a day lol. I'd just get really excited when I saw I got a message, then it turns out to be a dude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

20 metres, idk if M is miles. plus i've had a few suspect people going to the corner shop who i suspect are on here also from the way they interacted with me.

chorley is like a fab hotsopt.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a lot of the problem with this topic is some people just think the popular people aren't attractive, or at least less attractive as them, so can't believe it?

Most men will fuck anything, i reckon so anyway from the amount without pics who think you'll fuck them (ie. anything), so it is more the amount of people in your area.

Will have to move round there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"20 metres, idk if M is miles. plus i've had a few suspect people going to the corner shop who i suspect are on here also from the way they interacted with me.

chorley is like a fab hotsopt."

20 metres? Are they in your house haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say if any single guys getting 10 a day there from other bi sexual guys .

I actually had to block men from mine because of all the "straight" guys complimenting my dick

We never message single guys unless the message us first . I can't see single guys getting 10 messages a day unless they put a meet up looking for another guy I never said I got ten a day lol. I'd just get really excited when I saw I got a message, then it turns out to be a dude

Lol

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By *uby0000Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

also got loads of messages due to posting on forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a lot of the problem with this topic is some people just think the popular people aren't attractive, or at least less attractive as them, so can't believe it?

Most men will fuck anything, i reckon so anyway from the amount without pics who think you'll fuck them (ie. anything), so it is more the amount of people in your area.

Will have to move round there

you should do. i've fucked all these guys and more, it's a very horny place and most of the guys are good fucks if i'm honest, not too shabby looking either.

and like i said you've got leyland, horwich, wigan, blackpool, preston etc too. very much a greedy girls area.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"20 metres, idk if M is miles. plus i've had a few suspect people going to the corner shop who i suspect are on here also from the way they interacted with me.

chorley is like a fab hotsopt.

20 metres? Are they in your house haha"

pretty much are yeah, there about 2 mins walk away at the most though if my measurements aren't great. (i have been meeting small 8 inchers lately haha so i might be off there).

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think a lot of the problem with this topic is some people just think the popular people aren't attractive, or at least less attractive as them, so can't believe it?"

I certainly believe some people receive this many especially after all the kind answers on this thread. It just seemed to be a common thing I saw and wondered if it was all women experiencing this or just the few. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a lot of the problem with this topic is some people just think the popular people aren't attractive, or at least less attractive as them, so can't believe it?

i wasn't accusing anyone per se, just this topic has come up every so often and some people won't believe it actually happens.

i can understand the cynicism if it hasn't happened to yourself, totally get that.

tbh there is one attractive member who has no filters and says she gets no messages really and i do find that hard to believe but i doubt she's lying either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think a lot of the problem with this topic is some people just think the popular people aren't attractive, or at least less attractive as them, so can't believe it?

i wasn't accusing anyone per se, just this topic has come up every so often and some people won't believe it actually happens.

i can understand the cynicism if it hasn't happened to yourself, totally get that.

tbh there is one attractive member who has no filters and says she gets no messages really and i do find that hard to believe but i doubt she's lying either."

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"20 metres, idk if M is miles. plus i've had a few suspect people going to the corner shop who i suspect are on here also from the way they interacted with me.

chorley is like a fab hotsopt."

Yet when I tried to get a meet in Chorley the other night after an evening in the pub I failed miserably! lol Must be me!

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By *edheadsruleCouple over a year ago

lancashire

A friend of mine on here showed me her inbox, she had only been on ten days and had a few meets so has obviously read some of hers yet still had 1700 unread messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"20 metres, idk if M is miles. plus i've had a few suspect people going to the corner shop who i suspect are on here also from the way they interacted with me.

chorley is like a fab hotsopt.

Yet when I tried to get a meet in Chorley the other night after an evening in the pub I failed miserably! lol Must be me!

really? aw they're probably all married, i'm gutted now.

i've been meeting a lot of guys from your way lately actually, love how kinky they are up there in warry.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I first joined it really was 100s. It was insane. But now I've set my filters and of course not such a new face, so it's much less. I still get fab overload occasionally though.

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

Exactly

Yeah I'd agree with you both!

I don't pity anyone who gets loads of messages - but I do sympathise with the guys who message us/them as it means many messages will go unread! Xx"

I will admit that when I see a profile that interests me the thought does cross my mind if it's even worth messaging. The more appealing the profile, the more messages they'll get and the odds that mine will not be read or bulk deleted is there, regardless of how well written or interesting it may be (and they usually are). But these are the facts and I normally do message and take my time making it appealing, with no expectations. Sometimes they reply, sometimes don't. Them's the brakes lol.

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By *umpkinMan over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

"Just wondering if this is as commen as I see it being stated on threads?

I've seen many occasions (mostly profile advice) where people say single ladies get 100's of messages a day. Is this exaggerating or do people generally get this many?

I know I get maybe 10 a day.

I`m lucky if I get 10 messages a YEAR!

I think maybe some guys are fibbing

OK Slight exaggeration on my part but since I seldom message anyone in the first place ...... certainly not for meets at least!

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We learnt very quickly that if we put up a new pic and make it public that we got loads of messages so we now sneak them in friends only and then change it a day or two later which helps....that and good filters means we get 10-15 a day

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By *kgeminiMan over a year ago

Southampton

"Is this seperate conversations? As chatting with one person quickly racks up the numbers.

Yeah I'm talking about separate people xx"

Not sure any man on here would get that many. Especially as its usually the man who starts the conversations most of the times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

Exactly

Yeah I'd agree with you both!

I don't pity anyone who gets loads of messages - but I do sympathise with the guys who message us/them as it means many messages will go unread! Xx

Well to be honest fellow forumites (as long as they're on often enough/make themselves known enough for me to recognise their name) are far more likely to get their messages opened read from me anyway. Partly because I think it's good manners as we're supposed to be a huge group of friends (as I see it anyway!) - and partly because the messages are likely to be more interesting than the 'gi's a shag!' Variety! Not sure if other forum ladies prioritise friends/forumites though! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have never had a lot of messages. I guess some profiles are more attractive than others.

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By *oxesMan over a year ago

Southend, Essex

does any couple or single female get 100+ messages a day after filters?

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

I have never had loads of messages. I have some filters and don't appear in most searches but I don't feel put out by not having loads. Even when I post a new photo I don't get inundated; I am far more likely to get winks and friend requests as a result.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Anyone who moans about getting too many message has every tool they need to keep it under control.

My guess is they actually love the attention and having smoke blown up their arse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have never had a lot of messages. I guess some profiles are more attractive than others."

Although your pictures are clearly gorgeous (Clem's a lucky guy but I'm sure he knows it) and I have major shoe envy (remember you promised you'd leave them to me in your will?) - the head boiling comment and the one-liner at the bottom would lead me to assume, if I was a guy, that yours is a forum/chat only profile so they'd be wasting their time messaging? I'd imagine that's why you don't get messages, rather than any lack of popularity! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have never had loads of messages. I have some filters and don't appear in most searches but I don't feel put out by not having loads. Even when I post a new photo I don't get inundated; I am far more likely to get winks and friend requests as a result."

Unrelated I know but where did you get your underwear from on your profile pic? It looks absolutely fantastic xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I live near a navy base. I get 40 50 messages a day. Most I have had is 137 messages

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Unrelated I know but where did you get your underwear from on your profile pic? It looks absolutely fantastic xxx"

Lovehoney. They had a knickers offer on. Plus the Fab discount.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I have never had a lot of messages. I guess some profiles are more attractive than others."

Neither have we...

We tell ourselves it's because we've always used fairly tight filters.

Most of our meets have come from us making first contact and doing the searching.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Unrelated I know but where did you get your underwear from on your profile pic? It looks absolutely fantastic xxx

Lovehoney. They had a knickers offer on. Plus the Fab discount.

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have never had a lot of messages. I guess some profiles are more attractive than others.

Ha yes i remember the shoe promise....but my profile hasn't always been this uninviting and I've never ever had a need for filters. They are just there atm.... But I've had them off before and I've just never attracted a lot of messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have never had a lot of messages. I guess some profiles are more attractive than others.

Well if I thought I stood a cat in hell's chance of meeting you and Clem I'd be bombarding you both!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I once got over 1000 in one day when a photo flukily got to the top of most fabbed and it went a bit mental even with some filters on. Normally I'd get maybe 10-15 a day with some filters on, with pretty much all the filters on its just 1 or 2 unless I initiate messaging myself, which suits me much better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No need to use your filters, take out platinum membership and access the invisible font!

I use it for my forum posts and my profile.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"No need to use your filters, take out platinum membership and access the invisible font!

I use it for my forum posts and my profile.

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No need to use your filters, take out platinum membership and access the invisible font!

I use it for my forum posts and my profile.

Who said that?

You could read that?????

Fuck it, my fonts broken.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Out of all the messages received what percentage would most say are 'quality' messages as opposed to 'making up the numbers' messages ?

5% maybe ?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Out of all the messages received what percentage would most say are 'quality' messages as opposed to 'making up the numbers' messages ?

5% maybe ?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Out of all the messages received what percentage would most say are 'quality' messages as opposed to 'making up the numbers' messages ?

5% maybe ?"

Less.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had less than twenty in the whole time I've been here lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No need to use your filters, take out platinum membership and access the invisible font!

I use it for my forum posts and my profile.

Who said that?

You could read that?????

Fuck it, my fonts broken.

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