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Couple want to seduce a vanilla friend
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Proceed with caution. Your unicorn fantasy might not be hers, and you risk changing and ruining your friendship. What's more important to you?
If you go for it I hope it works, that would be awesome   |
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"I think you first need to find out if the person wants to be seduction. A seduction deduction, if you will.
Seducted even 
Do you mean _educed? "
Oh for Christ sake yes!!! I've been using the wrong words all morning! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you first need to find out if the person wants to be seduction. A seduction deduction, if you will.
Seducted even
Do you mean _educed?
Oh for Christ sake yes!!! I've been using the wrong words all morning! "
lol "Seducted!" Brilliant!! That tickled me   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just day to her "guess which one of us wants to fuck you, and here's a clue, you can't get it wrong" just make sure there is nothing for her to trip over as she bolts for the door lol |
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By *educedWoman
over a year ago
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"I think you first need to find out if the person wants to be seduction. A seduction deduction, if you will.
Seducted even
Do you mean _educed?
I've nothing to do with this!  "
Although, I wish I had called myself Seducted now. |
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By *hocmanxMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Any ideas on how we could start the ball rolling? Any experience of the same? "
Make it fun by playing something like Twister. And suggest "making it interesting" by removing an item of clothing everytime you fail.
Or play truth or dare etc. |
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It could spoil a friendship leave well alone it happened to us a bit of flirting one night got out of hand.
We tried to put it down to drink but she was not having any off it in the light of the day |
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By *hocmanxMan
over a year ago
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"It could spoil a friendship leave well alone it happened to us a bit of flirting one night got out of hand.
We tried to put it down to drink but she was not having any off it in the light of the day "
I agree completely I've actually seen a little fun ruin friendships. There's always a chance they will develop deeper feelings (especially if you give her a bloody good seeing to  ) |
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we had this with a vanilla girl, ex work colleague who had realised we had a relationship and was very intrigued. We both had texts frequently off her saying she'd like to meet up with us and quite flirty. So we met up at Xmas and she announced that she was pregnant again (unplanned) and we've never seen her again sadly. But was very exciting when it was a " that might happen " situation. good lukc OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing worse than predatory Swingers. 
unless the person has made it clear that they may be interested then I totally agree with this.
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Have to agree with this .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You won't know if a person is willing to do this if you don't ask. My friend,although she knows I'm very open minded and I've known her for 25 years,had no idea if I was into women and started a conversation about giving woman oral and 3 somes with her boyfriend. She said she wanted to do it,I said I would try it,she arranged it and we did it a few times. I didn't feel like prey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You won't know if a person is willing to do this if you don't ask. My friend,although she knows I'm very open minded and I've known her for 25 years,had no idea if I was into women and started a conversation about giving woman oral and 3 somes with her boyfriend. She said she wanted to do it,I said I would try it,she arranged it and we did it a few times. I didn't feel like prey."
That's what I mean , if she wants to try it then the op should go for it .
There will still be a risk of losing her friendship though . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also if you think you need alcohol to seduce them (and I accept that's an assumption on my part) then you are deliberately influencing their liklihood to consent. But that's not seducing anyone, at best it's taking advantage |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get your female half to have too tell her she was asked to join a couple for a threesome and say I wasn't sure if I was offended or turned on what would you do at least then you'll get an idea of she's open to the general idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You need to find out 1st if they're up for being _educed.
Wasn't a friend but a couple I met on holiday many years ago & befriended did this one evening and it was really akward as I didn't fancy them. Ruined the holiday friendship too as i feel they took advantage of the dynamics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You won't know if a person is willing to do this if you don't ask. My friend,although she knows I'm very open minded and I've known her for 25 years,had no idea if I was into women and started a conversation about giving woman oral and 3 somes with her boyfriend. She said she wanted to do it,I said I would try it,she arranged it and we did it a few times. I didn't feel like prey."
I think it depends on how the subject is brought up. In your case it seemed quite natural.
I know I'm probably focusing too much on the word 'seduce' but to me that seems a bit creepy. (I'm not suggesting the OP is creepy, just the implied situation.) Much like the situation that Roxi described. If it makes someone uncomfortable then I think it's wrong.
Brought up carefully in a conversation and being respectful of how the other person/ people respond, would be different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is all a bit predatory isn't it? This person is meant to be your friend, and you're discussing with strangers on the Internet how you're going to lure her into bed?
Seems a bit unsavoury if you ask me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know I probably come across as a right frigid old bat on here... But.. It just seems to me that sometimes because on here we can be quite open talking about sex and swinging etc, it can be easy to forget that some people 'outside' the swinging world might not be quite so open to discussing sex.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I probably come across as a right frigid old bat on here... But.. It just seems to me that sometimes because on here we can be quite open talking about sex and swinging etc, it can be easy to forget that some people 'outside' the swinging world might not be quite so open to discussing sex. "
Exactly. Most people don't even consider these things, and to imagine your friends talking about you as a conquest doesn't feel very nice. |
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"Any ideas on how we could start the ball rolling? Any experience of the same? "
Im assuming this is a woman. First. Does she know you swing. If not you could let her know you do and see the reaction...are we tslking about a single..she will need to fancy one of you a bit... and its a matter of "have you ever wondered what it might be like to...etc etc". Or you could do what Sally Bowles told Fritz... "you could pounce, darling". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was somewhat _educed into my first threesome, but I was already attracted to them both, he & I had discussed it and so had he & she separately, but I already knew they were into swinging, but I wasn't on here at that stage.
I think that depending on dynamics it could work. But if it's cold calling on someone who's not into swinging or something similar then it's a bit grim. |
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