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There are questions or opinions on here which attract unabashed anger/sniping/point scoring.
Can we please list them here so innocent bystanders know what they are not allowed to say without the forumnazis coming down on them like a ton of censorious bricks?
I will start:
1. Bareback sex: no it is not a free world, you are not allowed to even think about enjoying this.
(note:to appease the nutters, we don't indulge in this way, just highlighting it as a popular source of rancour.) |
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over a year ago
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Is it racist, the answers no, its personal choice, unless you just burned down Mr patel's shop, then it might just be racist, or at the very least prejudice, but then again, it could be the personal choice of someone to burn down a shop, what would I know ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"Forumnazi's love it
To be fair some are vehemently offended consistently by all subjects
I object to that remark solely on the grounds that I can! "
Takes one to recognise one
Apparently im a forum bitch ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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over a year ago
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If you haven't got an English degree or dare to not put that vitally important comma or apostrophe in the wrong place then you may as well take your lazy arse and bugger off to the chat rooms and have a very lonesome wank.
Oh and if you start any type of spelling or grammar thread, make sure you've proof read your own profile ten times first or better still hidden it. ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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It's not what you ask, it's who does the asking...
The same qustion will get either people falling over themselves to offer support and advice, or shot down scathingly depending on who posted ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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"It's not what you ask, it's who does the asking...
The same qustion will get either people falling over themselves to offer support and advice, or shot down scathingly depending on who posted "
What a load of tosh, I've never heard such rubbish in a ll.my.......oh its you sorry, yeah, great point well made ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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over a year ago
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There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided. |
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided. "
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"If you haven't got an English degree or dare to not put that vitally important comma or apostrophe in the wrong place then you may as well take your lazy arse and bugger off to the chat rooms and have a very lonesome wank.
Oh and if you start any type of spelling or grammar thread, make sure you've proof read your own profile ten times first or better still hidden it. " what about the same people who make the same spelling mistake and are told they are doing it on a week by week basis but continually make the same spelling mistake weekly? |
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"It's not what you ask, it's who does the asking...
The same qustion will get either people falling over themselves to offer support and advice, or shot down scathingly depending on who posted
What a load of tosh, I've never heard such rubbish in a ll.my.......oh its you sorry, yeah, great point well made "
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim "
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"If you haven't got an English degree or dare to not put that vitally important comma or apostrophe in the wrong place then you may as well take your lazy arse and bugger off to the chat rooms and have a very lonesome wank.
Oh and if you start any type of spelling or grammar thread, make sure you've proof read your own profile ten times first or better still hidden it. what about the same people who make the same spelling mistake and are told they are doing it on a week by week basis but continually make the same spelling mistake weekly?"
I do it to annoy you ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided. "
What does a large travelling bag have to do with anything? |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"If you haven't got an English degree or dare to not put that vitally important comma or apostrophe in the wrong place then you may as well take your lazy arse and bugger off to the chat rooms and have a very lonesome wank.
Oh and if you start any type of spelling or grammar thread, make sure you've proof read your own profile ten times first or better still hidden it. what about the same people who make the same spelling mistake and are told they are doing it on a week by week basis but continually make the same spelling mistake weekly?
I do it to annoy you " you annoy me in other ways ![](/icons/s/2/tongue.gif) |
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim "
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
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"If you haven't got an English degree or dare to not put that vitally important comma or apostrophe in the wrong place then you may as well take your lazy arse and bugger off to the chat rooms and have a very lonesome wank.
Oh and if you start any type of spelling or grammar thread, make sure you've proof read your own profile ten times first or better still hidden it. what about the same people who make the same spelling mistake and are told they are doing it on a week by week basis but continually make the same spelling mistake weekly?"
I've git a feeling you.mean me ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"If you haven't got an English degree or dare to not put that vitally important comma or apostrophe in the wrong place then you may as well take your lazy arse and bugger off to the chat rooms and have a very lonesome wank.
Oh and if you start any type of spelling or grammar thread, make sure you've proof read your own profile ten times first or better still hidden it. what about the same people who make the same spelling mistake and are told they are doing it on a week by week basis but continually make the same spelling mistake weekly?"
Maybe they're doing it on purpose so the people who like to correct them weekly have something to do or maybe they simply don't give a shit enough for it to spoil their experience on here, who knows. |
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
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I got that from google but im not sure what ypu mean still sorry xx |
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"If you haven't got an English degree or dare to not put that vitally important comma or apostrophe in the wrong place then you may as well take your lazy arse and bugger off to the chat rooms and have a very lonesome wank.
Oh and if you start any type of spelling or grammar thread, make sure you've proof read your own profile ten times first or better still hidden it. what about the same people who make the same spelling mistake and are told they are doing it on a week by week basis but continually make the same spelling mistake weekly?
I do it to annoy you you annoy me in other ways "
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"It's not what you ask, it's who does the asking...
The same question will get either people falling over themselves to offer support and advice, or shot down scathingly depending on who posted "
Generally (from what I've seen so may or may not be a valid point) if a female asks then she'll get 10000 replies... if a guy asks he gets ignored
Same with pic fabbing. . Female can post the worst pic ever..1000 likes and "top pic" slot.
Guy can post best pic ever... 3 likes. . From other guys.
Way of life.. deal with it or move on lol
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
I got that from google but im not sure what ypu mean still sorry xx"
They didn't like forumnazi.
It is a portmanteau of nazi and forum.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never spell anything wrong and by no means mention you're married!!! "
I spell everything wrong and im married. Dont worry though people i have a vagina im allowed ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Forumnazi's love it
To be fair some are vehemently offended consistently by all subjects
I object to that remark solely on the grounds that I can!
Takes one to recognise one
Apparently im a forum bitch "
Some people, no names, "may" have received trips to the step for being bitchy.
So I'm adding "being bitchy" to the list. |
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
I got that from google but im not sure what ypu mean still sorry xx"
Forumnazi.
That's the word I object to. Because it's a misuse of a word which has terrible connotations and should not be trivialized.
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
" a large travelling bag, typically made of stiff leather and opening into two equal parts.
consisting of or combining two or more aspects or qualities |
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
I got that from google but im not sure what ypu mean still sorry xx
They didn't like forumnazi.
It is a portmanteau of nazi and forum.
"
Ah thanks learn something new everyday. I didnt know there was a word for it. I love portmanteaus then i make them up all the time
Not sure i will be using ppp that word in a sentence soon though too much spelling ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
I got that from google but im not sure what ypu mean still sorry xx
Forumnazi.
That's the word I object to. Because it's a misuse of a word which has terrible connotations and should not be trivialized.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dogging .
Playing in public toilets .
Getting a hand or blow job while driving .
Playing at a social .
Just a few from the top of my head - all if which we do on a regular basis ( exceot the playing at socials as we stopped going after the last one we played at )
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"Forumnazi's love it
To be fair some are vehemently offended consistently by all subjects
I object to that remark solely on the grounds that I can!
Takes one to recognise one
Apparently im a forum bitch
Some people, no names, "may" have received trips to the step for being bitchy.
So I'm adding "being bitchy" to the list."
Never been to the step ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
I got that from google but im not sure what ypu mean still sorry xx
Forumnazi.
That's the word I object to. Because it's a misuse of a word which has terrible connotations and should not be trivialized.
"
Forum is a perfectly good word, you need not be scared of it.
Being scared of words helps no one. Use it. Make it meaningless and render those who revel under it meaningless. Or you can continue to give them credence.
You also understand the huge irony in your objecting to a perfectly boring part of an op which is directly highlighting the issue of people objecting to things which are utterly trivial and boring? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Forumnazi's love it
To be fair some are vehemently offended consistently by all subjects
I object to that remark solely on the grounds that I can!
Takes one to recognise one
Apparently im a forum bitch
Some people, no names, "may" have received trips to the step for being bitchy.
So I'm adding "being bitchy" to the list.
Never been to the step "
Pfffffft. And meh.
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
I got that from google but im not sure what ypu mean still sorry xx
I think it was the word 'forumnazis' that is the portmateau he was refering to?" ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Forumnazi's love it
To be fair some are vehemently offended consistently by all subjects
I object to that remark solely on the grounds that I can!
Takes one to recognise one
Apparently im a forum bitch
Some people, no names, "may" have received trips to the step for being bitchy.
So I'm adding "being bitchy" to the list.
Never been to the step
Pfffffft. And meh.
Bloody goody two shoes..... "
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"Don't mention cake on a thread, I just did but I think I git away with it, it just turns into bedlam "
Someone say cake?
Wasn't bedlam a lunatic asylum? Seems strangely apt around the lounge sometimes....... ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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"Don't mention cake on a thread, I just did but I think I git away with it, it just turns into bedlam
Someone say cake?
Wasn't bedlam a lunatic asylum? Seems strangely apt around the lounge sometimes....... "
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
I got that from google but im not sure what ypu mean still sorry xx
Forumnazi.
That's the word I object to. Because it's a misuse of a word which has terrible connotations and should not be trivialized.
Forum is a perfectly good word, you need not be scared of it.
Being scared of words helps no one. Use it. Make it meaningless and render those who revel under it meaningless. Or you can continue to give them credence.
You also understand the huge irony in your objecting to a perfectly boring part of an op which is directly highlighting the issue of people objecting to things which are utterly trivial and boring?"
Yes you're absolutely right.
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
I got that from google but im not sure what ypu mean still sorry xx
Forumnazi.
That's the word I object to. Because it's a misuse of a word which has terrible connotations and should not be trivialized.
Forum is a perfectly good word, you need not be scared of it.
Being scared of words helps no one. Use it. Make it meaningless and render those who revel under it meaningless. Or you can continue to give them credence.
You also understand the huge irony in your objecting to a perfectly boring part of an op which is directly highlighting the issue of people objecting to things which are utterly trivial and boring?
Yes you're absolutely right.
You have a great day. "
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"There is very little that makes my piss boil anymore - and certainly nothing in these forums.
However, I find the portmanteau unnecessary and misguided.
Whats portmanteau mean? I googled but im a little dim
portmanteau word
noun
a word blending the sounds and combining the meanings of two others, for example motel or brunch.
I got that from google but im not sure what ypu mean still sorry xx
Forumnazi.
That's the word I object to. Because it's a misuse of a word which has terrible connotations and should not be trivialized.
Forum is a perfectly good word, you need not be scared of it.
Being scared of words helps no one. Use it. Make it meaningless and render those who revel under it meaningless. Or you can continue to give them credence.
You also understand the huge irony in your objecting to a perfectly boring part of an op which is directly highlighting the issue of people objecting to things which are utterly trivial and boring?
Yes you're absolutely right.
You have a great day.
Thanks but I would much rather be offended. Makes me feel better."
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"Do whatever you like OP. It sounds as if you struggle to accept that your opinions are not universally held."
Haha no. Discussion is great. However knee jerk offence and refusal to discuss things is pisspoor. |
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"It's not what you ask, it's who does the asking...
The same qustion will get either people falling over themselves to offer support and advice, or shot down scathingly depending on who posted "
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"It's not what you ask, it's who does the asking...
The same qustion will get either people falling over themselves to offer support and advice, or shot down scathingly depending on who posted
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So true ...
No one bothers getting upset with anything we say or do as they have realised we truly don't give a fuck ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"It's not what you ask, it's who does the asking...
The same qustion will get either people falling over themselves to offer support and advice, or shot down scathingly depending on who posted
So true ...
No one bothers getting upset with anything we say or do as they have realised we truly don't give a fuck "
You must be awful swingers then. ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"It's not what you ask, it's who does the asking...
The same qustion will get either people falling over themselves to offer support and advice, or shot down scathingly depending on who posted
So true ...
No one bothers getting upset with anything we say or do as they have realised we truly don't give a fuck
You must be awful swingers then. "
Ha ha !!!
There's another to add to the list - what is a real swinger ?
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Within the rules set by Admin, you can say whatever you like.
I think my view is very much along the lines of 'if you've nothing nice to say, keep your gob shut.'
There have been threads about X, Y and Z for the ten years I've been here. They will be here for another ten and some. I feel like those who jump on newbies like some sort of swinging authority know it alls should get down off their high horses, cut some slack to the newbies and realise how much of a chump you look picking on new people for no other reason than you've heard the question before.
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"It's not what you ask, it's who does the asking...
The same qustion will get either people falling over themselves to offer support and advice, or shot down scathingly depending on who posted
So true ...
No one bothers getting upset with anything we say or do as they have realised we truly don't give a fuck
You must be awful swingers then.
Ha ha !!!
There's another to add to the list - what is a real swinger ?
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"It's not what you ask, it's who does the asking...
The same qustion will get either people falling over themselves to offer support and advice, or shot down scathingly depending on who posted
So true ...
No one bothers getting upset with anything we say or do as they have realised we truly don't give a fuck
You must be awful swingers then.
Ha ha !!!
There's another to add to the list - what is a real swinger ?
Oh god... Don't start that one. Although giving a fuck must be a pre requisite. "
Yes indeed .
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"Within the rules set by Admin, you can say whatever you like.
I think my view is very much along the lines of 'if you've nothing nice to say, keep your gob shut.'
There have been threads about X, Y and Z for the ten years I've been here. They will be here for another ten and some. I feel like those who jump on newbies like some sort of swinging authority know it alls should get down off their high horses, cut some slack to the newbies and realise how much of a chump you look picking on new people for no other reason than you've heard the question before.
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"Within the rules set by Admin, you can say whatever you like.
I think my view is very much along the lines of 'if you've nothing nice to say, keep your gob shut.'
There have been threads about X, Y and Z for the ten years I've been here. They will be here for another ten and some. I feel like those who jump on newbies like some sort of swinging authority know it alls should get down off their high horses, cut some slack to the newbies and realise how much of a chump you look picking on new people for no other reason than you've heard the question before.
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Who asked you
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"Within the rules set by Admin, you can say whatever you like.
I think my view is very much along the lines of 'if you've nothing nice to say, keep your gob shut.'
There have been threads about X, Y and Z for the ten years I've been here. They will be here for another ten and some. I feel like those who jump on newbies like some sort of swinging authority know it alls should get down off their high horses, cut some slack to the newbies and realise how much of a chump you look picking on new people for no other reason than you've heard the question before.
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But I want to say something nice about this post. ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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Never EVER ask for a profile opinion unless you are a hot female with model like photo's!! They will crawl out from under their rocks and crucify your profile wording, photos, sexual preference and pretty much anything else they can scrape together from the info given!! Then approx 3 weeks later they will have forgotten and fabbed a few pics or possibly winked you!!! ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"Personally I'd like to see some people deliver their opinions (albeit valid ones) without the heavy dose of patronising. "
Patronising is subjective and many people interpret anything which indicates that they are in the wrong or that they did not know something as patrons ing when in reality they are just embarrassed.
We tend to say things which we know or think as right without too much fluff and needless pandering. That is often seen as patronising. In this instance the patronising aspect is added by the reciever not the giver. |
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