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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I sometimes see on profiles the same verification by the same person seems pointless to me I've met some people more than once doesn't mean I need a verification for each time . Thoughts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some folks see verifications as a bit like getting a gold star.
As any primary kid will tell you, you can't have too many gold stars  "
I always threw my gold stars away in disgust, never wanted to love by anyones rukes, not even my own lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I did my picking early over that now my point is and I'm sure lots of us have repeat meets and don't see the point of having it verified every time we meet |
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My thoughts on the matter are as follows:
It's not worth starting a thread over, there are enough verification threads going to have just made a comment in one of those.
It's up to the individual which (if any) verifications they show.
It can be a positive thing... at least it shows they have been considered good enough to ask back again.
As a negative it can sometimes say more about the person who wrote it than the person who shows it.
It's often funny when 2 or more (often women) start playing verification wars on some poor sod's profile.... a bit like gate post pissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont normally verify a second meet to be honest (unless there's a real gap in between) - but when people verify me for a second time i think its only polite to post it x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think the reason I posted this was due to something earlier got a message from someone who had 5 veris from the same person and no others the other profile was the same only veris fr that person was thinking are these people the same and just verifying each other |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I think the reason I posted this was due to something earlier got a message from someone who had 5 veris from the same person and no others the other profile was the same only veris fr that person was thinking are these people the same and just verifying each other "
well that can happen with just one veri as well..if you think its suspicious i would report it  |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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"I sometimes see on profiles the same verification by the same person seems pointless to me I've met some people more than once doesn't mean I need a verification for each time . Thoughts?"
Errr you like noseing round other peoples verifications?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's often funny when 2 or more (often women) start playing verification wars on some poor sod's profile.... a bit like gate post pissing."
Seen that too, and yes, it is mostly women sadly!  Thing is that would put me off meeting the man. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I sometimes see on profiles the same verification by the same person seems pointless to me I've met some people more than once doesn't mean I need a verification for each time . Thoughts?
Errr you like noseing round other peoples verifications? "
lol..... that equates to approx 75% of your 'recently _iewed'.
some nosey feckers around. |
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I really don't give a toss about verifications. What people choose to show on their profile is their business. I have a mind of my own so I use that when it comes to choosing whether to meet people.
I never pay any attention to movie re_iews either... same thing. Someone else's taste isn't going to be the same as mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not pointless at all, if i meet someone socially, i verify them, if we then meet for fun, i verify them whether it was worth it or not. On the other hand, ive a regular guy i see so have only verified him once |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i hide all mine since some nasty cow messaged everyone on my friends and veris and told them something very untrue about me . id met someone she was infatuated with and she was jealous ....no one really took any notice of her but it wasnt nice ....... |
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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago
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i had someone do the same to me on verifications so mine are hidden as well, or its the guys who read them then want to know what happened and what you did, how good was he in bed etc, em what happens on a meet is only who is involved and thats the end of it,its none of your businees was my reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i love reading the repeat veris.
Im always hoping the second one will state, 'well he/she wasnt as good this time as he/she was the first time'!!"
lol!!! I am going to read any of our new veris very carefully before displaying when we have had a second meet  |
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but it was repeat ones I was discussing
