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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We all get minor injuries. Wee scratches and silly pan burns while cooking etc or using a knife badly. I don't mind those 'war wounds' but I really feel bad if I ever get a bruise. Perhaps its because we subconciously associate bruising with violence?
You can sport a plaster on a cut and people will say (if they say anything)"cut yourself?" But if you have a bruise anywhere on your body they pull that grimace face suck in their breath and say "ooooh where did you get that bruise from? Cuts happen lol and bruises are inflicted?
I have one near my ankle at 'dishwasher door open' level and another on my thigh at 'oven door gaping' height and one on my right breast which I get alot because they get pinched during sleep tossing and turning! I'm baring my body tomorrow so not a happy bunny. I don't mind if he notices my severed left leg hahahahah.
Whats the worst visible spectacular bruise you have ever had? Did it make you hide away incase others thought someone had given it to you violently?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once "walked into a door"
you might as well tell people the other half beat the shit out of ya cos they'll never believe the truth
Also years ago I had 15 stitches in my face and head because I fell down a manhole. I've never successfully explained that one
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I had a precedure many years ago that to help you not bruise you had to lie in bed for 6 hours after.....it didn't work....the bruise was from my hip , all the way down my body to my knee.
The kids brought their mates asking me to show them as they thought it was impressive! ( I didn't of course) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a badly bruised face and black eye after a fight (organised fight in the ring) people who know me knew I was competing at the time but still asked who hit you  |
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Where do I start?! 
I have a lovely scar down my leg where I dropped my dinner down myself.
I had a cyst on my boob... more than once which has resulted in ugly red scars. They're still there.
I walk into doors, I've been in my flat for almost eight years and I still walk into the door handle that's been there since I moved in.
I had a rather... erm... active?! session with a friend and totally forgot that I had a doctors appointment the next day... you know, of the get your clothes off sort... sporting a striped arse! Doh!!
So yeah... I bruise easy but generally I don't care. We're all human.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My partner got a huge cyst on his face(we called it his alien!) unfortunately as musicians there was no hiding it, worse still the lift down to the backstage area was all mirrors so he knew exactly how bad it looked as he stepped onstage! (its gone now!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Where do I start?!
I have a lovely scar down my leg where I dropped my dinner down myself.
I had a cyst on my boob... more than once which has resulted in ugly red scars. They're still there.
I walk into doors, I've been in my flat for almost eight years and I still walk into the door handle that's been there since I moved in.
I had a rather... erm... active?! session with a friend and totally forgot that I had a doctors appointment the next day... you know, of the get your clothes off sort... sporting a striped arse! Doh!!
So yeah... I bruise easy but generally I don't care. We're all human. "
I caught my upper arm on the handle of my friends bathroom door just before we were heading off to Chams....all night it was sore and red but came up nice and black by the morning
I have a cyst on my neck! Looks like I've grown and Adams Apple  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Where do I start?!
I have a lovely scar down my leg where I dropped my dinner down myself.
I had a cyst on my boob... more than once which has resulted in ugly red scars. They're still there.
I walk into doors, I've been in my flat for almost eight years and I still walk into the door handle that's been there since I moved in.
I had a rather... erm... active?! session with a friend and totally forgot that I had a doctors appointment the next day... you know, of the get your clothes off sort... sporting a striped arse! Doh!!
So yeah... I bruise easy but generally I don't care. We're all human. "
Bloody hell stop putting vicious rumours around about people being human you're gonna shatter the illusion that we're all unfeeling monsters You're a walking accident though I think you might be a contender for a full first aid kit!!
This is one of those threads where you wish there were photos.. Im such a gawper of gruesome stuff!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all get minor injuries. Wee scratches and silly pan burns while cooking etc or using a knife badly. I don't mind those 'war wounds' but I really feel bad if I ever get a bruise. Perhaps its because we subconciously associate bruising with violence?
You can sport a plaster on a cut and people will say (if they say anything)"cut yourself?" But if you have a bruise anywhere on your body they pull that grimace face suck in their breath and say "ooooh where did you get that bruise from? Cuts happen lol and bruises are inflicted?
I have one near my ankle at 'dishwasher door open' level and another on my thigh at 'oven door gaping' height and one on my right breast which I get alot because they get pinched during sleep tossing and turning! I'm baring my body tomorrow so not a happy bunny. I don't mind if he notices my severed left leg hahahahah.
Whats the worst visible spectacular bruise you have ever had? Did it make you hide away incase others thought someone had given it to you violently?
Free tube of Arnica* to the best tale!!
*subject to terms and conditions I havent decided on yet."
Ermmmmmm
My back at this moment is covered in bruises and got a whopper on my shoulder...
Got a little heated and carried away recently  |
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"Bloody hell stop putting vicious rumours around about people being human you're gonna shatter the illusion that we're all unfeeling monsters You're a walking accident though I think you might be a contender for a full first aid kit!!
This is one of those threads where you wish there were photos.. Im such a gawper of gruesome stuff! "
Oh I have photos... I take photos of all my injuries... I'm a bit of a freak really! |
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I fell down the stairs and had a bruise that covered both my arse cheeks (some size) i was doing a gangband two days later. Didnt bother me just didnt let them take photo's. Im always got bruises due to my medication as well so doesnt bother me |
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The worst bruise i ever had i fell over and complained all night my legs hurt and my friends kept telling me to shut up. In the morning both legs from the knee to the tip of my toes where black god knows what id hit. It was summer and even the breeze blowing my skirt on my leg really hurt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh...
I love my bruises when I get them.. lol We are talking bottom wise here.. and yes I get photos taken.. lol
I sometimes bruise that easily that at any point I am covered due to a condition with my blood.. yet other times I dont bruise at all..
I dont mind having them at all..
Katie. x
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"A kink - I bite my inner upper arm or knuckles when *ahem* 'excited'... I'll happily bite others knuckles if provided, but they tend to complain that it hurts!! "
It only hurts a bit - in a kind of pain/ pleasure way... like nipple clamps.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh...
I love my bruises when I get them.. lol We are talking bottom wise here.. and yes I get photos taken.. lol
I sometimes bruise that easily that at any point I am covered due to a condition with my blood.. yet other times I dont bruise at all..
I dont mind having them at all..
Katie. x
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Blimey Katie thats opened the debate. I don't kinow about your lifestyle at all Ive never delved into the subject so am at a loss to the psychology of it all, but how do you view your bruises then? Accidental or inflicted violently or none of the above! I never thought about actual injury in your lifestyle until now. Breath bated! |
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Had a motorbike accident once, got compartment syndrome in my left leg, the whole leg from upper thigh to ankle was a very unusual shade of greenish-yellow for a while, and the actual site of the impact (just above, to just below the knee) came out in the darkest bruise I had ever seen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Falling off a bike was painful, luckily, I wear trousers most of the time, so the bruises were hidden.
The worst scar at the mo is a 6in scratch on my arm by the dog while we were playing one day!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Blimey Katie thats opened the debate. I don't kinow about your lifestyle at all Ive never delved into the subject so am at a loss to the psychology of it all, but how do you view your bruises then? Accidental or inflicted violently or none of the above! I never thought about actual injury in your lifestyle until now. Breath bated!"
There are plenty of others that have had admitted to getting bruises from getting a bit carried away..
However, I love it when I get bruises from a good spanking etc.. I will take photos every day.. I am very proud of them.
It is purely enjoyable...and its something I enjoy having.
It is really hard to explain to non lifestyle people...
But read this thread again..and you will find that there are several people mentioning getting carried away and having stripey bottoms. :D
Katie. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I took pics when my boobs got a battering,, the hand print shaped bruising around my neck did raise a few questions at work.. oooops
i was in so much pain the day after,, but was very much 'in the zone' at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I took pics when my boobs got a battering,, the hand print shaped bruising around my neck did raise a few questions at work.. oooops
i was in so much pain the day after,, but was very much 'in the zone' at the time."
Oh see now there is somewhere I would never get bruised.. We do not do any breast or nipple torture, or slapping of that area, or tying..or clamps.. lol
Throat..is always a place that raises eyebrows but .. lol
Katie. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Blimey Katie thats opened the debate. I don't kinow about your lifestyle at all Ive never delved into the subject so am at a loss to the psychology of it all, but how do you view your bruises then? Accidental or inflicted violently or none of the above! I never thought about actual injury in your lifestyle until now. Breath bated!
There are plenty of others that have had admitted to getting bruises from getting a bit carried away..
However, I love it when I get bruises from a good spanking etc.. I will take photos every day.. I am very proud of them.
It is purely enjoyable...and its something I enjoy having.
It is really hard to explain to non lifestyle people...
But read this thread again..and you will find that there are several people mentioning getting carried away and having stripey bottoms. :D
Katie. x"
yeah buts that not what I meant by accidental lol you don't accidently mark someone with a whip.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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yeah buts that not what I meant by accidental lol you don't accidently mark someone with a whip.... "
You do with play sessions.. I sometimes get bruises elsewhere.. just because we are playing rough..
Katie, x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I took pics when my boobs got a battering,, the hand print shaped bruising around my neck did raise a few questions at work.. oooops
i was in so much pain the day after,, but was very much 'in the zone' at the time.
Oh see now there is somewhere I would never get bruised.. We do not do any breast or nipple torture, or slapping of that area, or tying..or clamps.. lol
Throat..is always a place that raises eyebrows but .. lol
Katie. x"
Was my first and last experience  I cried it was so painful afterwards.. i went shopping the next day and my boobs brushed up against a clothing rail.. nearly screamed  .. not good at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Was my first and last experience I cried it was so painful afterwards.. i went shopping the next day and my boobs brushed up against a clothing rail.. nearly screamed .. not good at all"
I have friends that totally love it but Master and I are in agreement over this being something we have inclination to try.. lol and your story makes me even more sure.. ( of course if I was told to I would.)
Katie. x |
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Was my first and last experience I cried it was so painful afterwards.. i went shopping the next day and my boobs brushed up against a clothing rail.. nearly screamed .. not good at all
I have friends that totally love it but Master and I are in agreement over this being something we have inclination to try.. lol and your story makes me even more sure.. ( of course if I was told to I would.)
Katie. x"
at the time though it was so horny..
the power of the mind is a bizarre thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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at the time though it was so horny..
the power of the mind is a bizarre thing "
That it is.. I just even very horny would not like my breasts being hurt.. Master agrees.. anywhere else is pretty much okay..
Katie. x |
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Blimey Katie thats opened the debate. I don't kinow about your lifestyle at all Ive never delved into the subject so am at a loss to the psychology of it all, but how do you view your bruises then? Accidental or inflicted violently or none of the above! I never thought about actual injury in your lifestyle until now. Breath bated!
There are plenty of others that have had admitted to getting bruises from getting a bit carried away..
However, I love it when I get bruises from a good spanking etc.. I will take photos every day.. I am very proud of them.
It is purely enjoyable...and its something I enjoy having.
It is really hard to explain to non lifestyle people...
But read this thread again..and you will find that there are several people mentioning getting carried away and having stripey bottoms. :D
Katie. x
yeah buts that not what I meant by accidental lol you don't accidently mark someone with a whip.... "
Mine weren't accidental either... I love stripes! And I like the next day sitting down at work or something, the reminder. I also take pics in the varying stages of bruising... not sure why, I just like them.
Like Katie said though... it's not always something people understand. I don't know if I could explain it either. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
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Blimey Katie thats opened the debate. I don't kinow about your lifestyle at all Ive never delved into the subject so am at a loss to the psychology of it all, but how do you view your bruises then? Accidental or inflicted violently or none of the above! I never thought about actual injury in your lifestyle until now. Breath bated!
There are plenty of others that have had admitted to getting bruises from getting a bit carried away..
However, I love it when I get bruises from a good spanking etc.. I will take photos every day.. I am very proud of them.
It is purely enjoyable...and its something I enjoy having.
It is really hard to explain to non lifestyle people...
But read this thread again..and you will find that there are several people mentioning getting carried away and having stripey bottoms. :D
Katie. x
yeah buts that not what I meant by accidental lol you don't accidently mark someone with a whip....
Mine weren't accidental either... I love stripes! And I like the next day sitting down at work or something, the reminder. I also take pics in the varying stages of bruising... not sure why, I just like them.
Like Katie said though... it's not always something people understand. I don't know if I could explain it either. "
I understand it totally, i dont take pics a lot, its a reminder of the lack of control and the pain / pleasure thing |
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