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Why don't guys read profiles properly!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"
No,thousands of other women have posted on the forums before you,bemoaning the exact same thing. |
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"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"
The amusing thing is, of course, that the same men who don't read profiles are unlikely to be reading your post, whereas the goodly men who do, are. It's preaching to the converted. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X
No,thousands of other women have posted on the forums before you,bemoaning the exact same thing. "
It's not just SOME single men who don't read profiles. It's SOME couples and women too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a numbers game for guys though is it not?
I mean, i generally read them, but will admit sometimes you see someone and its like 
And dick brain kicks in.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't read profiles. I get bored after one paragraph "
In all honesty, me too. If you can't get the key points across in a couple of short paragraphs, I've lost interest before I got to the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a numbers game for guys though is it not?
I mean, i generally read them, but will admit sometimes you see someone and its like
And dick brain kicks in.."
Yes but certain things they have said will always stop me from taking it any further no matter how good they look |
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"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"
Surely search the forum for the millions of other threads on the same topic before ranting? Or is that just my opinion!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't read profiles. I get bored after one paragraph
In all honesty, me too. If you can't get the key points across in a couple of short paragraphs, I've lost interest before I got to the end."
I skim read for things that will put me off. Like the phrase 'horny 24/7' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"
See.. its not just guys that dont read profiles, i dont read profiled too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a numbers game for guys though is it not?
I mean, i generally read them, but will admit sometimes you see someone and its like
And dick brain kicks in..
Yes but certain things they have said will always stop me from taking it any further no matter how good they look "
No i agree with you. Not often but it has happened where i have messaged and then read after then thought.. ah maybe i shouldnt have.. but surly ladies arent new to the delete block functions  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"
Fair enough. But it really infuriates ME that you say 'guys' not 'some guys', thus assuming we're all like that
How wrong can someone be! |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"They DO read profiles. I often get mail from men telling me they love my profile and pics. And that I'm beautiful/ gorgeous etc.  "
i promise I'll read it properly next time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe the process goes something like this...
Join fab
Read profiles, taking notes, compose email containing humour and compliments which highlights shared interests and refers back to the content of the profile
Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread
Skim read profiles, shorter email hinting at shared interests with best face pic attached
Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread
Copy and paste "you look hot, fancy a fuck?" messages with cock pic attached
Watch messages for two weeks until they are deleted unread
Turn bi
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe the process goes something like this...
Join fab
Read profiles, taking notes, compose email containing humour and compliments which highlights shared interests and refers back to the content of the profile
Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread
Skim read profiles, shorter email hinting at shared interests with best face pic attached
Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread
Copy and paste "you look hot, fancy a fuck?" messages with cock pic attached
Watch messages for two weeks until they are deleted unread
Turn bi
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 Definitely this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They DO read profiles. I often get mail from men telling me they love my profile and pics. And that I'm beautiful/ gorgeous etc. "
But Scarlet, you are....the fact your profile is black and all we can see are your boots is besides the point   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"
Couples and females don't either it's becoming a standard thing to ignore profiles, send rude messages and when politely told "no thx" persistently keep messaging or send nasty messages until they block you!!
I just delete messages without even replying, if they send another message I block them! It's easier and less time consuming X |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Another single female whinging thread? 
Variety matters so just let a woman have her turn it makes a welcome change from men complaining about how women monopolise the site and couples complaining about how rude men are ......... Not saying these things are true just saying they get lots of complaints xx "
they can say what they like...
it changes nothing but if it makes the OP better for getting it out there, so be it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another single female whinging thread?
Variety matters so just let a woman have her turn it makes a welcome change from men complaining about how women monopolise the site and couples complaining about how rude men are ......... Not saying these things are true just saying they get lots of complaints xx
they can say what they like...
it changes nothing but if it makes the OP better for getting it out there, so be it."
True everyone needs to rant sometimes, it's a shame the negatives get aired more often than the positives! I'm sure most of us get more wanted attention than unwanted xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but plenty of women don't read profiles as well just saying like "
This is true. I can't be arsed to read long dull profiles. Yawn! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't understand why so many people moan about this. People won't read the whole profile, accept that. They may message but it is so easy to just not respond to the message. Minimal effort, much less than actually starting this thread bemoaning it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't understand why so many people moan about this. People won't read the whole profile, accept that. They may message but it is so easy to just not respond to the message. Minimal effort, much less than actually starting this thread bemoaning it "
Zero angst.
Unless utterly desperate for a fuck....  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
I would suggest sometimes people message straight from the forum and are replying to you direct. People do say things in the forum that doesn't always match up with what their profile says..... |
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Hi fellow Pop.
This is probably for me the single most fucking irritating thing about people on fab.
It drives me up the wall. The only thing I do about it is reply to the men who message advising that as they haven't read my profile they have no chance in hell. I used to ignore them but I figured maybe if I told them they might not treat the next woman with such disrespect! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"
I rarely read profiles if they are longer than mine..pot luck can be fun when sending a message.
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"I can't understand why so many people moan about this. People won't read the whole profile, accept that. They may message but it is so easy to just not respond to the message. Minimal effort, much less than actually starting this thread bemoaning it "
People don't read ANY of the profile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just have one line on your profile on saying your not meeting. That way when you get a message to say how brilliant your profile is you can get a giggle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have probably said this before its because we don't read instructions we like to see how things work abd olay with the buttons before we do the tedious stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't understand why so many people moan about this. People won't read the whole profile, accept that. They may message but it is so easy to just not respond to the message. Minimal effort, much less than actually starting this thread bemoaning it
People don't read ANY of the profile!"
And how difficult is it to simply ignore the message. |
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"I believe the process goes something like this...
Join fab
Read profiles, taking notes, compose email containing humour and compliments which highlights shared interests and refers back to the content of the profile
Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread
Skim read profiles, shorter email hinting at shared interests with best face pic attached
Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread
Copy and paste "you look hot, fancy a fuck?" messages with cock pic attached
Watch messages for two weeks until they are deleted unread
Turn bi
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"I can't understand why so many people moan about this. People won't read the whole profile, accept that. They may message but it is so easy to just not respond to the message. Minimal effort, much less than actually starting this thread bemoaning it
People don't read ANY of the profile!
And how difficult is it to simply ignore the message. "
Very. I'm tuned to reply to all my mail. |
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"I can't understand why so many people moan about this. People won't read the whole profile, accept that. They may message but it is so easy to just not respond to the message. Minimal effort, much less than actually starting this thread bemoaning it "
First world problems!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"
Like in the same way that forum posters could read the forums before posting a thread?
Yeah,it just might work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe their thumbs are broken from all the jacking off so they can't scroll to the bottom of our profiles. Moving the profile text to the top of the page on mobile might help these lazy fucks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't understand why so many people moan about this. People won't read the whole profile, accept that. They may message but it is so easy to just not respond to the message. Minimal effort, much less than actually starting this thread bemoaning it
People don't read ANY of the profile!
And how difficult is it to simply ignore the message.
Very. I'm tuned to reply to all my mail. "
Then you bring it on yourself. People won't read them. You can't physically make them, neither can admin. It is something you actually have to get used to.
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