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"Us single guts are at the mercy of women on here.
You are broadly correct but there are exceptions to prove the rule  "
no, dont agree. This is an oasis from the rest of the media and web which is obsessed with wimmins issues, sucking up to every whim or wheeze that some wimmins group comes out with.
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over a year ago
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"Whoever controls this site can you ring me and force someone to meet me and shag me ,
Thanks,
Dave  "
I'm sorry but I'm busy shagging them all right now...I'll send someone over next week  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Us single guts are at the mercy of women on here."
there is a higher ratio of women to men its true, which basically comes down to quantity over quality...so you should realise that us women have a tough job narrowing it all down  |
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over a year ago
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"Whoever controls this site can you ring me and force someone to meet me and shag me ,
Thanks,
Dave I'm sorry but I'm busy shagging them all right now...I'll send someone over next week "
Erm ....you have no veris but good luck |
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over a year ago
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"Like fuck I am...
Yes you are! You're my bitch!! 
The nearest I get to a sub, is the doorway of the shop
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You be my bitch today - I'll be your bitch tomorrow! |
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"Us single guts are at the mercy of women on here.
there is a higher ratio of women to men its true, which basically comes down to quantity over quality...so you should realise that us women have a tough job narrowing it all down "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Us single guts are at the mercy of women on here."
Na, you're wrong. And who cares anyway, if people enter the market they have to go with the conditions. If you're looking for easy sex then you're better off elsewhere to achieve that i'd suggest. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Like fuck I am...
Yes you are! You're my bitch!!
The nearest I get to a sub, is the doorway of the shop
Ok we'll switch!
You be my bitch today - I'll be your bitch tomorrow! "
I am a bit mincey to be a Dom, a master with jazz hands and a camp twitch does really work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really believe women control the site, the ratios are certainly in the favour of women mind.
Only thing that does tend to wind us up are the hideous girls that think they are 10's because they are single and bi, never drop your standards regardless of how desperate you are and no one will have power over you.
This sites all about fun ultimately so do what you wanna do, don't take yourself seriously and dont it use it as your only means for sex and you'll enjoy it a whole lot more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women control sex whether on fab swingers or a vanilla marriage or relationship. You learn that from a very early age."
Yes usually from mummy hence the term mummy's boys
Mummy likes a good boy that does As he is told and doesn't keep secrets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women control sex whether on fab swingers or a vanilla marriage or relationship. You learn that from a very early age.
Totally disagree"
Totally agree with View, if you are not into BDSM then nobody controls anyone. except the law, and morals, and finance but apart from that.... |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"women control sex whether on fab swingers or a vanilla marriage or relationship. You learn that from a very early age.
Totally disagree
You must be on different planet then"
Well hopefully yes, if your thinking is anything to go by
I am an equal, not better or less than a woman and if we have sex, it's the same. Both can say no at anytime and as an adult man with self respect, that has served me well in the swinging world and outside of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women control sex whether on fab swingers or a vanilla marriage or relationship. You learn that from a very early age.
Totally disagree
You must be on different planet then
Well hopefully yes, if your thinking is anything to go by
I am an equal, not better or less than a woman and if we have sex, it's the same. Both can say no at anytime and as an adult man with self respect, that has served me well in the swinging world and outside of it. "
Women that think they are better than men... Men that think women control them....  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Us single guts are at the mercy of women on here."
I gather the OP is a tad pee'd off judging by a thread he posted in another room 2 mins before this one... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha oh dear OP! I think you need to pull your head out of the dark ages and realise that women are not the 'gatekeepers' of sex and actually like it as much as men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The general consensus I have noticed is that the majority of men on here fail to release that just because it's a swinging website does not mean it's easy to get laid. There are lots of jungle drum men on here that peacock by showing thier boners thinking that the ladies will fall at their feet. They lose sight that there has to be an element of trust and connection before you go and meet a complete stranger to have sex. It's s crazy world out there and anyone could be anyone so you ladies do have to be careful..
Basically it resembles a zoo lol |
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over a year ago
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"The general consensus I have noticed is that the majority of men on here fail to release that just because it's a swinging website does not mean it's easy to get laid. There are lots of jungle drum men on here that peacock by showing thier boners thinking that the ladies will fall at their feet. They lose sight that there has to be an element of trust and connection before you go and meet a complete stranger to have sex. It's s crazy world out there and anyone could be anyone so you ladies do have to be careful..
Basically it resembles a zoo lol"
Very well put i would add. Just because we are on a swinging site they should approach it in the same way as they would speak to us in the real world like humans not holey meat... |
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"The general consensus I have noticed is that the majority of men on here fail to release that just because it's a swinging website does not mean it's easy to get laid. There are lots of jungle drum men on here that peacock by showing thier boners thinking that the ladies will fall at their feet. They lose sight that there has to be an element of trust and connection before you go and meet a complete stranger to have sex. It's s crazy world out there and anyone could be anyone so you ladies do have to be careful..
Basically it resembles a zoo lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women control sex whether on fab swingers or a vanilla marriage or relationship. You learn that from a very early age.
Totally disagree"
Me too!
My ex controlled the shots - he thought I was a pervert if I wanted sex more than once a month! |
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"The general consensus I have noticed is that the majority of men on here fail to release that just because it's a swinging website does not mean it's easy to get laid. There are lots of jungle drum men on here that peacock by showing thier boners thinking that the ladies will fall at their feet. They lose sight that there has to be an element of trust and connection before you go and meet a complete stranger to have sex. It's s crazy world out there and anyone could be anyone so you ladies do have to be careful..
Basically it resembles a zoo lol"
Nicely put |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The general consensus I have noticed is that the majority of men on here fail to release that just because it's a swinging website does not mean it's easy to get laid. There are lots of jungle drum men on here that peacock by showing thier boners thinking that the ladies will fall at their feet. They lose sight that there has to be an element of trust and connection before you go and meet a complete stranger to have sex. It's s crazy world out there and anyone could be anyone so you ladies do have to be careful..
Basically it resembles a zoo lol
Very well put i would add. Just because we are on a swinging site they should approach it in the same way as they would speak to us in the real world like humans not holey meat..."
I disagree. Some people just want a fuck, no strings, just cock or pussy. I have no issue with that at all. Those people can fuck each other and be happy.
The people that want chat, attraction, personality etc can all fuck each other and be happy too.
I hate it when people try to 'teach' those "zoo types" how to speak to women. It's teaching them how to lie so they can get a fuck.  |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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"Poor men? If it wasn't for us men, every women on here would be licking carpets so you should thank us
Doubt it; not since LoveHoney came out with a vibrator for every occasion  "
Even opening jar lids, getting spiders out of the bath and parallel parking? |
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over a year ago
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"Poor men? If it wasn't for us men, every women on here would be licking carpets so you should thank us
Doubt it; not since LoveHoney came out with a vibrator for every occasion
Even opening jar lids, getting spiders out of the bath and parallel parking?"
Yes and if they need to learn how to sail a boat or roller skate they quickly slip a always ultra pad in their knickers and hey presto they can do it
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"Poor men? If it wasn't for us men, every women on here would be licking carpets so you should thank us
Doubt it; not since LoveHoney came out with a vibrator for every occasion
Even opening jar lids, getting spiders out of the bath and parallel parking?"
I can parallel park like a boss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The general consensus I have noticed is that the majority of men on here fail to release that just because it's a swinging website does not mean it's easy to get laid. There are lots of jungle drum men on here that peacock by showing thier boners thinking that the ladies will fall at their feet. They lose sight that there has to be an element of trust and connection before you go and meet a complete stranger to have sex. It's s crazy world out there and anyone could be anyone so you ladies do have to be careful..
Basically it resembles a zoo lol
Very well put i would add. Just because we are on a swinging site they should approach it in the same way as they would speak to us in the real world like humans not holey meat...
I disagree. Some people just want a fuck, no strings, just cock or pussy. I have no issue with that at all. Those people can fuck each other and be happy.
The people that want chat, attraction, personality etc can all fuck each other and be happy too.
I hate it when people try to 'teach' those "zoo types" how to speak to women. It's teaching them how to lie so they can get a fuck. "
I have no issue with anybody's choices it's all good, people get what they want out of life, we all have decisions to make...
If they don't understand the basis of why they have to behave in a certain way then whoever teaches them I agree is a bigger dick. |
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"I don't really believe women control the site, the ratios are certainly in the favour of women mind.
Only thing that does tend to wind us up are the hideous girls that think they are 10's because they are single and bi, never drop your standards regardless of how desperate you are and no one will have power over you.
This sites all about fun ultimately so do what you wanna do, don't take yourself seriously and dont it use it as your only means for sex and you'll enjoy it a whole lot more."
People like you make my day |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Sorry, but I disagree, if you make minimum effort in profile and pics then yes us woman will not be interested....if you make an effort in both pics and profiles the I believe you will at least get more replies.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry, but I disagree, if you make minimum effort in profile and pics then yes us woman will not be interested....if you make an effort in both pics and profiles the I believe you will at least get more replies.... "
I totally disagree with you even if you have the best profile and the best pictures etc you still need to be able to go to places where people meet
Like clubs parties socials etc . And then if you do clubs parties and socials you won't need a decent profile |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Sorry, but I disagree, if you make minimum effort in profile and pics then yes us woman will not be interested....if you make an effort in both pics and profiles the I believe you will at least get more replies....
I totally disagree with you even if you have the best profile and the best pictures etc you still need to be able to go to places where people meet
Like clubs parties socials etc . And then if you do clubs parties and socials you won't need a decent profile "
Sorry but as a single female I know what attracts me! |
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"I don't really believe women control the site, the ratios are certainly in the favour of women mind.
Only thing that does tend to wind us up are the hideous girls that think they are 10's because they are single and bi, never drop your standards regardless of how desperate you are and no one will have power over you.
This sites all about fun ultimately so do what you wanna do, don't take yourself seriously and dont it use it as your only means for sex and you'll enjoy it a whole lot more."
Yeah! I'm hideous!! |
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Some women believe it or not are quite ordinary want to meet people they are compatable with without demands or wanting hoops jumped through just an equal level.
And if a man will jump through hoops just to get a shag more fool them. People can demand what they like doesn't mean you have to give it to them |
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"Some women believe it or not are quite ordinary want to meet people they are compatable with without demands or wanting hoops jumped through just an equal level.
And if a man will jump through hoops just to get a shag more fool them. People can demand what they like doesn't mean you have to give it to them"
And some men are the same
However if your going down this route it doesn't matter how good your profile and pictures are . If you have no social skills you would not get anywhere
you need to be able to meet these people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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With this and any other dating sites men really only have 2 options (1) you can be as solid as a rock stick to your beliefs , your standards and don't bend and break for any man woman couple of tv. (2) be as fluid as water blend in and Do what you need to to get meets option 1 = less or next to zero meets option 2 = more meets ....me I choose opition 1 every time |
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"I don't really believe women control the site, the ratios are certainly in the favour of women mind.
Only thing that does tend to wind us up are the hideous girls that think they are 10's because they are single and bi, never drop your standards regardless of how desperate you are and no one will have power over you.
This sites all about fun ultimately so do what you wanna do, don't take yourself seriously and dont it use it as your only means for sex and you'll enjoy it a whole lot more.
Yeah! I'm hideous!! "
Evening hideous...finished writing the new bridget novel yet ? |
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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago
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It seems that there is a flood of 'whinging men' threads atm.
Do you fellas really think that the majority of women see you as anything more than an organic talking dildo?
Delight has a single profile that invites men to wank over her webcam.
It states very clearly that no messages will be answered, no winks or friend invites will be responded to. She will not meet anyone and it states that very clearly.
Yet still, deluded and desperate men pointlessly attempt to wink, befriend, arrange meets etc.
All she wants is to see guys jerking off over her, simple.
Why is that not enough for some?
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"It seems that there is a flood of 'whinging men' threads atm.
Do you fellas really think that the majority of women see you as anything more than an organic talking dildo?
Delight has a single profile that invites men to wank over her webcam.
It states very clearly that no messages will be answered, no winks or friend invites will be responded to. She will not meet anyone and it states that very clearly.
Yet still, deluded and desperate men pointlessly attempt to wink, befriend, arrange meets etc.
All she wants is to see guys jerking off over her, simple.
Why is that not enough for some?
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You assume that people read profiles of cammers on here. On mobile,if you want to look at a profile you have to leave the chat rooms. |
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"women control sex whether on fab swingers or a vanilla marriage or relationship. You learn that from a very early age."
thats not learning its emasculation or subjugation or whatever one wants to call it, however tis not for me ty.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I for one certainly don't control the site. What I do control however is my own choice. I meet and chatter with whom I choose to providing they also choose to meet and chatter with me. I don't think that situation has a gender bias or is exclusive to Planet Fab. Chin up OP, stay jolly and enjoy it for what it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speak for yourself mate, no one controls me
Guys can turn down women & pick and choose who they meet just as easily as women, just easier for us as most guys have very low standards "which by no offence to the women" it is proven every day on fab, I see some women on here that I think to myself you couldn't pay me enough money to shag that! But she will have tons of verifications and will continue to get more. |
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over a year ago
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"The second I lose my self worth and become at the mercy of someone for a shag, I will delete.
this again..
without dignity there is no self.."
things like that I laugh at "not you personally" but there are women on fab who I knew/know outside of fab & I've seen the people they actually date then they join fab and their "ONLINE PERSONA" takes over with all the standards they don't even have in real life.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"The second I lose my self worth and become at the mercy of someone for a shag, I will delete.
this again..
without dignity there is no self..things like that I laugh at "not you personally" but there are women on fab who I knew/know outside of fab & I've seen the people they actually date then they join fab and their "ONLINE PERSONA" takes over with all the standards they don't even have in real life.
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And yet you don't realise when you make comments like "I see some women on here that I think to myself you couldn't pay me enough money to shag that!" that you, in part, cause the women here to have higher standards than in "real life".
Women on here, in general, realise a lot of men have very low standards. We don't want to feel like a convenient cum repository. The way some women deal with this is to make men jump through hoops, (to prove they're interested in the woman, not just a warm, wet hole), or only go for the hottest guys.
I see loads of whining about the requirements women have on here but in a lot of cases, guys, you're reaping what you're sowing.
Incidentally, I see the comments made by some men on this forum and, regardless of how good looking they are, I think there isn't enough money in the universe to make me want to shag that.
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"The second I lose my self worth and become at the mercy of someone for a shag, I will delete.
this again..
without dignity there is no self..things like that I laugh at "not you personally" but there are women on fab who I knew/know outside of fab & I've seen the people they actually date then they join fab and their "ONLINE PERSONA" takes over with all the standards they don't even have in real life.
And yet you don't realise when you make comments like "I see some women on here that I think to myself you couldn't pay me enough money to shag that!" that you, in part, cause the women here to have higher standards than in "real life".
Women on here, in general, realise a lot of men have very low standards. We don't want to feel like a convenient cum repository. The way some women deal with this is to make men jump through hoops, (to prove they're interested in the woman, not just a warm, wet hole), or only go for the hottest guys.
I see loads of whining about the requirements women have on here but in a lot of cases, guys, you're reaping what you're sowing.
Incidentally, I see the comments made by some men on this forum and, regardless of how good looking they are, I think there isn't enough money in the universe to make me want to shag that.
Ugly isn't a description limited to physical appearance."
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"I don't really believe women control the site, the ratios are certainly in the favour of women mind.
Only thing that does tend to wind us up are the hideous girls that think they are 10's because they are single and bi, never drop your standards regardless of how desperate you are and no one will have power over you.
This sites all about fun ultimately so do what you wanna do, don't take yourself seriously and dont it use it as your only means for sex and you'll enjoy it a whole lot more.
Yeah! I'm hideous!! "
We ofc were not talking about the entire single bi fem population of fab, you my dear are rather a looker.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I guess but like we originally said don't drop YOUR standards and don't take fab too seriously and no one will have control over you
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"Us single guts are at the mercy of women on here.
there is a higher ratio of women to men its true, which basically comes down to quantity over quality...so you should realise that us women have a tough job narrowing it all down "
Where as all the women are quality and men don't have the problem of narrowing it down?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly believe that things on here are as equal, the only time it can perceived as not is when you're making the effort to contact and are constantly getting knocked back, as I'm sure is the OPs key experience.
I've often thought that there are the nice good 'quality' fab members and users that occupy a space over which a great teeming pool of desperate sleazy users reside. Women have to deal with the pool, guys dont. Ladies on here have just as many issues, just very different ones |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Women have to deal with the pool, guys dont. Ladies on here have just as many issues, just very different ones "
We don't have to. We can block men and do the searching ourselves. You're absolutely right though, that it's not always as easy being a woman on this site as some men think.
If it was, there would be more women on the site. Consider how many women join and leave fairly soon after. If things were as brilliant and easy as some men claim, that wouldn't happen.
You're spot on that most people on here have issues of some sort to deal with, it's just the nature of those difficulties that varies.
A lot of it comes down to perception. Men who join this site thinking it's full of free prostitutes, and they'll get sex without having to make any effort at all, are always going to feel dissatisfied and as though they're getting a raw deal.
For decent men, with a reasonable attitude to women, (I swear some men on this site actually hate women, even as they're trying to meet us), who're willing to make a bit of an effort to get to know people, I think the opportunities to meet are there.
Those men who make arsehole comments about women who wouldn't be looked at twice in the "real world" are not decent blokes with a reasonable attitude to women. Frankly if they took their bitterness and entitlement back to the "real world" this might be a nicer place for both men and women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Those men who make arsehole comments about women who wouldn't be looked at twice in the "real world" are not decent blokes with a reasonable attitude to women. Frankly if they took their bitterness and entitlement back to the "real world" this might be a nicer place for both men and women."
There are some right minger men and women on this site and to be honest I look at some of the verification of guys and think seriously don't you have any standards . I also look at some of the women's verifications and think that guy must have been desperate to meet you
Unless a member specifically mentions another member is a minger its not being abusive or weird it's just subjective
I would say that the majority of women have higher standard here than in real life and the men have much much lower standards here than in real life
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Those men who make arsehole comments about women who wouldn't be looked at twice in the "real world" are not decent blokes with a reasonable attitude to women. Frankly if they took their bitterness and entitlement back to the "real world" this might be a nicer place for both men and women.
There are some right minger men and women on this site and to be honest I look at some of the verification of guys and think seriously don't you have any standards . I also look at some of the women's verifications and think that guy must have been desperate to meet you
Unless a member specifically mentions another member is a minger its not being abusive or weird it's just subjective
I would say that the majority of women have higher standard here than in real life and the men have much much lower standards here than in real life
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I don't have higher standards here than in real life. I see veris often where incredibly attractive women have met distinctly average blokes. Some of the most successful men on here aren't the best looking, they're just not bitter old misogynists. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Those men who make arsehole comments about women who wouldn't be looked at twice in the "real world" are not decent blokes with a reasonable attitude to women. Frankly if they took their bitterness and entitlement back to the "real world" this might be a nicer place for both men and women.
There are some right minger men and women on this site and to be honest I look at some of the verification of guys and think seriously don't you have any standards . I also look at some of the women's verifications and think that guy must have been desperate to meet you
Unless a member specifically mentions another member is a minger its not being abusive or weird it's just subjective
I would say that the majority of women have higher standard here than in real life and the men have much much lower standards here than in real life
I don't have higher standards here than in real life. I see veris often where incredibly attractive women have met distinctly average blokes. Some of the most successful men on here aren't the best looking, they're just not bitter old misogynists."
I wish to add that by saying some one is a bitter old misogynist is just subjective
It's so easy to make opinions on people and to say things in a general manner
I usually find that the people on here that are successful are the ones that can find a partner using thier skills they developed before everyone thought the way to get laid is join a website
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Those men who make arsehole comments about women who wouldn't be looked at twice in the "real world" are not decent blokes with a reasonable attitude to women. Frankly if they took their bitterness and entitlement back to the "real world" this might be a nicer place for both men and women.
There are some right minger men and women on this site and to be honest I look at some of the verification of guys and think seriously don't you have any standards . I also look at some of the women's verifications and think that guy must have been desperate to meet you
Unless a member specifically mentions another member is a minger its not being abusive or weird it's just subjective
I would say that the majority of women have higher standard here than in real life and the men have much much lower standards here than in real life
I don't have higher standards here than in real life. I see veris often where incredibly attractive women have met distinctly average blokes. Some of the most successful men on here aren't the best looking, they're just not bitter old misogynists.
I wish to add that by saying some one is a bitter old misogynist is just subjective
It's so easy to make opinions on people and to say things in a general manner
I usually find that the people on here that are successful are the ones that can find a partner using thier skills they developed before everyone thought the way to get laid is join a website
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Of course it's subjective. As is "right minger", so what's your point? I agree that both men and women who can actually attract people in the outside world are the most attractive on here, that's why I think all of this chat about women putting their standards too high for the poor men to meet is just bollocks. |
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Those men who make arsehole comments about women who wouldn't be looked at twice in the "real world" are not decent blokes with a reasonable attitude to women. Frankly if they took their bitterness and entitlement back to the "real world" this might be a nicer place for both men and women.
There are some right minger men and women on this site and to be honest I look at some of the verification of guys and think seriously don't you have any standards . I also look at some of the women's verifications and think that guy must have been desperate to meet you
Unless a member specifically mentions another member is a minger its not being abusive or weird it's just subjective
I would say that the majority of women have higher standard here than in real life and the men have much much lower standards here than in real life
I don't have higher standards here than in real life. I see veris often where incredibly attractive women have met distinctly average blokes. Some of the most successful men on here aren't the best looking, they're just not bitter old misogynists.
I wish to add that by saying some one is a bitter old misogynist is just subjective
It's so easy to make opinions on people and to say things in a general manner
I usually find that the people on here that are successful are the ones that can find a partner using thier skills they developed before everyone thought the way to get laid is join a website
Of course it's subjective. As is "right minger", so what's your point? I agree that both men and women who can actually attract people in the outside world are the most attractive on here, that's why I think all of this chat about women putting their standards too high for the poor men to meet is just bollocks."
No I think what I mean is when men lower their standards to such a point that it's so obvious to the woman that ( a guy like that is never going to be interested in real life this must be a wind up ) just makes situations like this come to light
It always come down to the fact that for some reason guys think that if they Lower their standard they will stand more chance
It's not about women lowering their standards as everyone knows that you can't even attempt to understand what makes a woman feel attracted to a man |
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And in other news ..... 
I really don't know why this comes as a shock to anyone 
The women do hold all the cards as they're the commodity in the minority
Desirable and gorgeous, we have to be the peacocks fanning ourselves to get their attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't really believe women control the site, the ratios are certainly in the favour of women mind.
Only thing that does tend to wind us up are the hideous girls that think they are 10's because they are single and bi, never drop your standards regardless of how desperate you are and no one will have power over you.
This sites all about fun ultimately so do what you wanna do, don't take yourself seriously and dont it use it as your only means for sex and you'll enjoy it a whole lot more.
Yeah! I'm hideous!!
Evening hideous...finished writing the new bridget novel yet ?"
Jeez you sound like my best friends! every time I come on line they message me to tell me I should be writing!
Have a working title and lots of ideas! |
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I really don't know why this comes as a shock to anyone
The women do hold all the cards as they're the commodity in the minority
Desirable and gorgeous, we have to be the peacocks fanning ourselves to get their attention "
yeah soon be spring, mating season, get your cocks polished guys ready for women on heat |
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Those men who make arsehole comments about women who wouldn't be looked at twice in the "real world" are not decent blokes with a reasonable attitude to women. Frankly if they took their bitterness and entitlement back to the "real world" this might be a nicer place for both men and women.
There are some right minger men and women on this site and to be honest I look at some of the verification of guys and think seriously don't you have any standards . I also look at some of the women's verifications and think that guy must have been desperate to meet you
Unless a member specifically mentions another member is a minger its not being abusive or weird it's just subjective
I would say that the majority of women have higher standard here than in real life and the men have much much lower standards here than in real life
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I'm going to respond to your last comment - but I can obviously do so only from my own point of _iew - I don't pretend to represent all females on fab! As a rule, I meet men on here who are younger than men I'd consider having a relationship with - generally 25-35. This is because many of them have great, gym-fit bodies and lots of fun and energy - but also because I'm a big softie and I'd probably fall for someone my own age if I saw them too often - and I'm not here to get hurt (I came on here for a break from getting hurt!)
That being said - I'm very careful to make sure as much as possible that the guy wants to meet me because he genuinely finds me attractive - not because I'm an available vagina! My general rule of thumb is that if they won't happy be seen in public with me then I won't meet them! Xx |
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"The second I lose my self worth and become at the mercy of someone for a shag, I will delete.
this again..
without dignity there is no self..things like that I laugh at "not you personally" but there are women on fab who I knew/know outside of fab & I've seen the people they actually date then they join fab and their "ONLINE PERSONA" takes over with all the standards they don't even have in real life.
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by all means laugh away but its not a gender specific comment, as i also dont think the point i responded to is either..
do i think that some women have the 'upper hand' on here yes absolutely and i don't see an issue with that (said before) given the lack of a level playing field in what is still a male dominated society and where issue's like pay inequality against women are still evident i don't see it as an issue if this for some is one area where women do call the shots..
however regardless of who does have the upper hand etc its down to the individual to set their own level of dignity, some will jump through hoops to dip their wick/get their jollies but thats down to them.. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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I don't envy women having to wade through scores of crap messages"
While I imagine it could get frustrating, there are ways of limiting the volume of messages.
I know there isn't a idiot filter or a shit message one but you can cut them down.
We preferred using the filter or just unchecking the single men box and looking ourselves, far easier,less stressful and far better results.
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"The second I lose my self worth and become at the mercy of someone for a shag, I will delete.
this again..
without dignity there is no self..things like that I laugh at "not you personally" but there are women on fab who I knew/know outside of fab & I've seen the people they actually date then they join fab and their "ONLINE PERSONA" takes over with all the standards they don't even have in real life.
by all means laugh away but its not a gender specific comment, as i also dont think the point i responded to is either..
do i think that some women have the 'upper hand' on here yes absolutely and i don't see an issue with that (said before) given the lack of a level playing field in what is still a male dominated society and where issue's like pay inequality against women are still evident i don't see it as an issue if this for some is one area where women do call the shots..
however regardless of who does have the upper hand etc its down to the individual to set their own level of dignity, some will jump through hoops to dip their wick/get their jollies but thats down to them.."
totally agree, couldn't put it better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what a load of bollocks pmsl ! really ? why do u single guys think such a thing ? no one is in control on this site and to say the women are in control is absurd to say the least |
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The men that set up an account as a single male get verified then set up numerous other accounts as females and or couples, who go on to verify these fake accounts from their original single male account control this site!! X |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"The second I lose my self worth and become at the mercy of someone for a shag, I will delete.
this again..
without dignity there is no self..things like that I laugh at "not you personally" but there are women on fab who I knew/know outside of fab & I've seen the people they actually date then they join fab and their "ONLINE PERSONA" takes over with all the standards they don't even have in real life.
by all means laugh away but its not a gender specific comment, as i also dont think the point i responded to is either..
do i think that some women have the 'upper hand' on here yes absolutely and i don't see an issue with that (said before) given the lack of a level playing field in what is still a male dominated society and where issue's like pay inequality against women are still evident i don't see it as an issue if this for some is one area where women do call the shots..
however regardless of who does have the upper hand etc its down to the individual to set their own level of dignity, some will jump through hoops to dip their wick/get their jollies but thats down to them.."
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"The men that set up an account as a single male get verified then set up numerous other accounts as females and or couples, who go on to verify these fake accounts from their original single male account control this site!! X"
That's devious but there again I couldn't do that as I'm a typical male who can't multitask. Well I can in some circumstances but that's for another post on an appropriate thread. |
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"The men that set up an account as a single male get verified then set up numerous other accounts as females and or couples, who go on to verify these fake accounts from their original single male account control this site!! X
That's devious but there again I couldn't do that as I'm a typical male who can't multitask. Well I can in some circumstances but that's for another post on an appropriate thread. "
Devious but definetly happening ........ Tell me more about your ability to multitask? |
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"The men that set up an account as a single male get verified then set up numerous other accounts as females and or couples, who go on to verify these fake accounts from their original single male account control this site!! X
That's devious but there again I couldn't do that as I'm a typical male who can't multitask. Well I can in some circumstances but that's for another post on an appropriate thread.
Devious but definetly happening ........ Tell me more about your ability to multitask? "
To be truthful I can believe it's happening as I have had a male impersonating a female try to get me to send photos of my gentleman's vegetables so I sent a still life photo of two plums and a banana instead.
Oh dear multitasking....I'm afraid I'm far too discreet to discuss such things in public but can give demostrations for select people. |
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"The men that set up an account as a single male get verified then set up numerous other accounts as females and or couples, who go on to verify these fake accounts from their original single male account control this site!! X
That's devious but there again I couldn't do that as I'm a typical male who can't multitask. Well I can in some circumstances but that's for another post on an appropriate thread.
Devious but definetly happening ........ Tell me more about your ability to multitask?
To be truthful I can believe it's happening as I have had a male impersonating a female try to get me to send photos of my gentleman's vegetables so I sent a still life photo of two plums and a banana instead.
Oh dear multitasking....I'm afraid I'm far too discreet to discuss such things in public but can give demostrations for select people. "
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