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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?
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"How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?
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If you are that into each other then it will happen...
If you aren't it won't ... Simples |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?
If you are that into each other then it will happen...
If you aren't it won't ... Simples"
I would love to play with them.... honest! But just don't feel sexy/attractive enough this last few days, have a few insecurities about myself, am I going to be what they expected, or will it all end badly 
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"How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?
If you are that into each other then it will happen...
If you aren't it won't ... Simples
I would love to play with them.... honest! But just don't feel sexy/attractive enough this last few days, have a few insecurities about myself, am I going to be what they expected, or will it all end badly
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a lot of people.feel.like.it.from.time ,to.time.stay at.home.and.do.something.nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Play just for the sake of it, even of you didn't feel sexy or attractive?
This is open for both men and women."
What, pretend I was hard and fake an orgasm? How would that work? |
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If it was with someone I fancied then "yes" 
I'm sure they wouldn't take long to get me horny and feeling "I can't be that ugly if someone I think is gorgeous fancies me enough to want sex with me". |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If it was with someone I fancied then "yes"
I'm sure they wouldn't take long to get me horny and feeling "I can't be that ugly if someone I think is gorgeous fancies me enough to want sex with me"."
This is the point, I don't think im anything special, and they are fucking gorgeous! |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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"How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?
If you are that into each other then it will happen...
If you aren't it won't ... Simples
I would love to play with them.... honest! But just don't feel sexy/attractive enough this last few days, have a few insecurities about myself, am I going to be what they expected, or will it all end badly
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Is there an opportunity to meet socially first? See how you feel then and take it from there? If you still don't feel like it then personally I wouldn't go any further. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been meeting them socially for the last few months, the female is as hot as fuck, the male gets on great with me, but I don't want to disappoint anyone, although I have disappointed myself on a few occasions  |
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"Play just for the sake of it, even of you didn't feel sexy or attractive?
This is open for both men and women."
No, I need to be in the zone. Sometimes it happens in seconds and sometimes some people just leave me cold |
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"If it was with someone I fancied then "yes"
I'm sure they wouldn't take long to get me horny and feeling "I can't be that ugly if someone I think is gorgeous fancies me enough to want sex with me".
This is the point, I don't think im anything special, and they are fucking gorgeous! "
That's when I just can't believe my good fortune and go with the flow
I'd soon overcome the feeling of shock I think
So, in your situation, you've met this gorgeous individual online. Perhaps saw them at a social when you were both attending with others? And now you've been starting to think "Why do they want to meet me? What do they see in me? I'm not in their league!" Delete those which don't apply.
Would preparing for the meet by pampering yourself help? Getting your hair done or a spa? Or nice hot bubble bath with a face pack and reading a romantic story? And plenty time to get your face just right. Maybe even have a friend help you and to help pick an outfit to wear? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Unfortunately in don't have time for all that, just a quick shower and spruce myself up with some nice smellies, shirt and trousers, my best undies and away I go. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If it was with someone I fancied then "yes"
I'm sure they wouldn't take long to get me horny and feeling "I can't be that ugly if someone I think is gorgeous fancies me enough to want sex with me".
This is the point, I don't think im anything special, and they are fucking gorgeous!
That's when I just can't believe my good fortune and go with the flow
I'd soon overcome the feeling of shock I think
So, in your situation, you've met this gorgeous individual online. Perhaps saw them at a social when you were both attending with others? And now you've been starting to think "Why do they want to meet me? What do they see in me? I'm not in their league!" Delete those which don't apply.
Would preparing for the meet by pampering yourself help? Getting your hair done or a spa? Or nice hot bubble bath with a face pack and reading a romantic story? And plenty time to get your face just right. Maybe even have a friend help you and to help pick an outfit to wear?"
You do know im male?
Don't do face packs and all that stuff... haha.
Changed my avatar so as not to confuse people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oops
Do you cross dress or something?"
Only the undies mate, don't do anything else! Lol
Thought it confused you a little, the MAN bit does give it away though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been meeting them socially for the last few months, the female is as hot as fuck, the male gets on great with me, but I don't want to disappoint anyone, although I have disappointed myself on a few occasions "
Well, good luck fella. Personally, if I was not in the mood, I wouldn't. I don't think that would be fair on me or the folk I was meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me neither, i don't think the sex would be good.
I haven't had good sex for ages now, had someone wanting a 3sum last night (omg i love 3sums) but was too tired to meet them so i didn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?
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Did once. Five minutes into it I was rampant, just needed that little push |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Mr Marmite, you have been through a lot lately with health issues etc. Don't be hard on yourself ( pun intended).
If you are having doubts, then have a social meet and explain you aren't at your best. Perhaps have a little soft play ( another one) and see how it works out .
I am glad you think I am gorgeous, bit I didn't intend making you feel awkward  |
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