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Why do single guys get such a hard, excuse the pun, time on this site?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Question:
Does every female on here (couples and single fems) have a problem with single guys
Appears to me they do and really do not understand why because I find the majority of single guys to be very respectful and I am able to have a good laugh with them whether in the chatrooms, messaging or meeting and to be honest really cannot fathom how anyone could have a problem with single guys, of course there are lots of them have you never looked around on a night out and seen how many there are trying their luck with the girls.
They are all here for the same reason as the rest of us to have a bit of fun and why not I say!
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guys get a hard time cos half of them dont know how to talk to a woman and they think with there cock. what makes them think that sending a woman a pic of there ock in first message, is going to ge them, oh wow comments or grab your coat youve pulled lol. or they reqest friend invite without a word or even worse, get all shitty if they dont get a reply or get rejeced! they need to chill and learn about how to communicate!  |
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"guys get a hard time cos half of them dont know how to talk to a woman and they think with there cock. what makes them think that sending a woman a pic of there ock in first message, is going to ge them, oh wow comments or grab your coat youve pulled lol. or they reqest friend invite without a word or even worse, get all shitty if they dont get a reply or get rejeced! they need to chill and learn about how to communicate! "
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"guys get a hard time cos half of them dont know how to talk to a woman and they think with there cock. what makes them think that sending a woman a pic of there ock in first message, is going to ge them, oh wow comments or grab your coat youve pulled lol. or they reqest friend invite without a word or even worse, get all shitty if they dont get a reply or get rejeced! they need to chill and learn about how to communicate!
Fancy a shag luv?!!! "
ha ha oh go on then but hurry im off to work soon lol xx |
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"guys get a hard time cos half of them dont know how to talk to a woman and they think with there cock. what makes them think that sending a woman a pic of there ock in first message, is going to ge them, oh wow comments or grab your coat youve pulled lol. or they reqest friend invite without a word or even worse, get all shitty if they dont get a reply or get rejeced! they need to chill and learn about how to communicate!
Fancy a shag luv?!!!
ha ha oh go on then but hurry im off to work soon lol xx "
Hang on for us... It'll only take us 5hrs to drive down there lol x |
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"guys get a hard time cos half of them dont know how to talk to a woman and they think with there cock. what makes them think that sending a woman a pic of there ock in first message, is going to ge them, oh wow comments or grab your coat youve pulled lol. or they reqest friend invite without a word or even worse, get all shitty if they dont get a reply or get rejeced! they need to chill and learn about how to communicate!
Fancy a shag luv?!!!
ha ha oh go on then but hurry im off to work soon lol xx
Hang on for us... It'll only take us 5hrs to drive down there lol x "
you got 4 hours and 58 mins left lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question:
Does every female on here (couples and single fems) have a problem with single guys
Appears to me they do...."
Unfair statement I'd say. I have absolutely no problem with them at all - sure, there are some idiots but that's not cos they're single guys, it's cos they're idiots  I know I'm not the only one either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question:
Does every female on here (couples and single fems) have a problem with single guys
Appears to me they do....
Unfair statement I'd say. I have absolutely no problem with them at all - sure, there are some idiots but that's not cos they're single guys, it's cos they're idiots I know I'm not the only one either. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question:
Does every female on here (couples and single fems) have a problem with single guys
Appears to me they do and really do not understand why because I find the majority of single guys to be very respectful and I am able to have a good laugh with them whether in the chatrooms, messaging or meeting and to be honest really cannot fathom how anyone could have a problem with single guys, of course there are lots of them have you never looked around on a night out and seen how many there are trying their luck with the girls.
They are all here for the same reason as the rest of us to have a bit of fun and why not I say!
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Not all of us have a problem with single guys.....I don't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your right OP, the majority of single guys are perfectly decent people, but so are football fans, students and most other people in all walks of life.
Sadly it's the minority who are pains in the arse which cause the others to be tarred with the same stick.
Incidently we have no problem with single guys - we are adult enough to know that they aren't all the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"guys get a hard time cos half of them dont know how to talk to a woman and they think with there cock. what makes them think that sending a woman a pic of there ock in first message, is going to ge them, oh wow comments or grab your coat youve pulled lol. or they reqest friend invite without a word or even worse, get all shitty if they dont get a reply or get rejeced! they need to chill and learn about how to communicate! "
i agree..cock pics are a turn off
in an email an now if i get a cock
pic in email ill just deleted it |
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"Question:
Does every female on here (couples and single fems) have a problem with single guys
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No. I have a problem with people who are twats... male, female and couples.
I also have a problem with people who assume too much and then guess the rest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question:
Does every female on here (couples and single fems) have a problem with single guys
No. I have a problem with people who are twats... male, female and couples.
I also have a problem with people who assume too much and then guess the rest."
that about sums it up for me too
to be honest i get as many pushy mail from coupels as i do men, lots of couple just dont accept i wont meet couples and go on and on at me till i say yes, which i dont, but then they can get abusive as can some men when i say i dont want to meet
i like single guys, i only meet single men, so over all i have no problem at all with them but some can be twats but then so can some couples and women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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no one is perfect, but I think single guys get most of the heat cause they make up 80% of the members on the site, ok I made up the statistic, but doesn't everyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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looking at the 2 above posts it appears to me that single women get as much flak as single guys from couples, so where/or whom does the blame really lie???? |
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By *ne ShotMan
over a year ago
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a lot of single guys dont know the meaning of respect and treat the woman on here as meat and that there on here simply cos there desperate for a shag when its the total opposite ..its the single men who are desperate for a shag and when they get rightly rebuked they get angry ive noticed soildiers come on here and expect a women to drop there drawers simply cos they say there a soildier not that i have anything against squaddies.. until single men understand the concept of the site that its not a shag site but a swing site and the majority of women are far from desperate for a shag then single men will continue to ruin it for the minority of genuine single males |
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I think Mally has hit the nail on the head.
The males out number the rest by an enormous amount therefore you have a greatly increased chance of finding a complete twat as there are more to pick from.
By the same token there's a better chance of finding awesome dudes like the blokes that post in here.
Silver lining and all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"looking at the 2 above posts it appears to me that single women get as much flak as single guys from couples, so where/or whom does the blame really lie????"
i think it all comes down to what your after on here
people who take this swinging lark very serious and come on looking for a shag get pissed off very easy but a variery of groups of people, they the ones who tend to post all the time wasting thread, moaning about any group of people who dont fit what they looking for etc, you see them in the chat room too, couples who wont even talk to men because they dont meet them, moan about how crap the site is, moan noone meets etc
Personally i dont come on here looking for meets, i come on to chat, be that in the chat room or on here, if someone catches my eye and we get on i will meet but its not the be all and end all if we dont
I think thats why a lot of people get abusive, no matter what sex they are, becauise they just tralling for a shag all the time and get frustrated when they cant find one so they vent their anger on who they mailing |
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Actually, I don't think single men do get a particularly hard time on this site......it's just that there are quite a few people who like to winge and come to the forums to do that. The percentage of site members who post in the forums is really very small....so it just looks like single men are getting a hard time.
I've met loads of single guys in the few years I've been here and only three of them gave me cause to complain (which I did.....mainly to their faces!  ).
Never has anything one of those guys did (or didn't do) had any effect on the way I consider other single guys on the site....I never understand the comment "they ruin it for the rest". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a lot of single guys don't know the meaning of respect and treat the woman on here as meat and that there on here simply cos there desperate for a shag when its the total opposite ..its the single men who are desperate for a shag and when they get rightly rebuked they get angry I've noticed soldiers come on here and expect a women to drop there drawers simply cos they say there a soldier not that i have anything against squaddies.. until single men understand the concept of the site that its not a shag site but a swing site and the majority of women are far from desperate for a shag then single men will continue to ruin it for the minority of genuine single males "
I have to agree to disagree with that, yes a lot of single guys who are chancers see it as a shag shop, but genuine single swing guys do not view the lifestyle that way. You still need to form relationships and gain respect from others. I have never in my life send a pm to anyone saying fancy a fuck, that is crass and disrespectful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no one is perfect, but I think single guys get most of the heat cause they make up 80% of the members on the site, ok I made up the statistic, but doesn't everyone else "
63% do (I made that up too) |
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"Question:
Does every female on here (couples and single fems) have a problem with single guys
Appears to me they do and really do not understand why because I find the majority of single guys to be very respectful and I am able to have a good laugh with them whether in the chatrooms, messaging or meeting and to be honest really cannot fathom how anyone could have a problem with single guys, of course there are lots of them have you never looked around on a night out and seen how many there are trying their luck with the girls.
They are all here for the same reason as the rest of us to have a bit of fun and why not I say!
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Nope... what you see is a small number of people who moan about single blokes on the forums or in chat. Considering the size of the site membership, it is a really small number but seems more cause we see it all the time.
The vast majority of people just get on with it and have a good time.
But it's like everything though, everyone always shouts about the bad stuff... the good stuff more often than not goes unmentioned. |
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By *ne ShotMan
over a year ago
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"a lot of single guys don't know the meaning of respect and treat the woman on here as meat and that there on here simply cos there desperate for a shag when its the total opposite ..its the single men who are desperate for a shag and when they get rightly rebuked they get angry I've noticed soldiers come on here and expect a women to drop there drawers simply cos they say there a soldier not that i have anything against squaddies.. until single men understand the concept of the site that its not a shag site but a swing site and the majority of women are far from desperate for a shag then single men will continue to ruin it for the minority of genuine single males
I have to agree to disagree with that, yes a lot of single guys who are chancers see it as a shag shop, but genuine single swing guys do not view the lifestyle that way. You still need to form relationships and gain respect from others. I have never in my life send a pm to anyone saying fancy a fuck, that is crass and disrespectful."
agreed. Unsure about forming relationships. Of course a getting to know you is always good prior to meeting. But in terms of forming relationships the site is a swinging site and not a dating site. I am very respectfull with all the ladies i meet from here and always meet with no expectations other than the pleasure of there company.
Anything other such as play i always leave to the ladies choice. The whole point of my being on here is to meet female swingers for mutual sexy fun without getting into a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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well having read all the above have to say agree with most and definitely agree with the way couples seem to think they are top of the tree and can pester and pester single females just because they are couples and then whinge about how the elusive single bi fem cannot be found or moan that some fems only meet other fems, its their choice and as for the rest of us well if we want to meet single guys then thats our choice surely
if i want to meet a couple then i would go looking for one and to be very honest i so would not meet a couple on my own because i would find it very intimidating
have a friend that i can do that with and have done, but much prefer the one to one experience because that way you get to know them, the respect is two way as well because none of us are pieces of meat and yes trust definitely comes into the whole scene
so reckon the message is SINGLE GUYS if you want to enjoy the scene and have lots of fun then be respectful, dont have a picture of your cock on your profile page because end of the day, well its a picture of cock (seen one you seen them all), faces are so much more appealing as are fit body parts (other than cocks lol) and make the effort to read profiles because yes they do actually say what they are looking for and how they would like to receive messages instead of just a friends invite lol
lets hope that some of the single guys that cause problems for the others can actually read, that would help wouldnt it
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"well having read all the above have to say agree with most and definitely agree with the way couples seem to think they are top of the tree and can pester and pester single females just because they are couples and then whinge about how the elusive single bi fem cannot be found or moan that some fems only meet other fems, its their choice and as for the rest of us well if we want to meet single guys then thats our choice surely
if i want to meet a couple then i would go looking for one and to be very honest i so would not meet a couple on my own because i would find it very intimidating
have a friend that i can do that with and have done, but much prefer the one to one experience because that way you get to know them, the respect is two way as well because none of us are pieces of meat and yes trust definitely comes into the whole scene
so reckon the message is SINGLE GUYS if you want to enjoy the scene and have lots of fun then be respectful, dont have a picture of your cock on your profile page because end of the day, well its a picture of cock (seen one you seen them all), faces are so much more appealing as are fit body parts (other than cocks lol) and make the effort to read profiles because yes they do actually say what they are looking for and how they would like to receive messages instead of just a friends invite lol
lets hope that some of the single guys that cause problems for the others can actually read, that would help wouldnt it
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Ahhhhh, I see you have opened you eyes and joined the ranks of the folk who moan about single guys 
That didn't take long did it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Ahhhhh, I see you have opened you eyes and joined the ranks of the folk who moan about single guys
That didn't take long did it."
actually was a suggestion hun not a moan because no-one ever gives the guys a chance to maybe think before they say something that can be taken the wrong way
so was given them the heads up and saying read and if my son is anything to go by then to be honest that would be a very new concept to some and thats not a moan just an observation haha |
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"Question:
Does every female on here (couples and single fems) have a problem with single guys
... to be honest really cannot fathom how anyone could have a problem with single guys...."
You seem to have managed a long enough list of *cough* suggestions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Theres some lovely single men on this site and yes i feel some do get a hard time ... when thay do very little to get that from some here thay have feelings too. I know some just get fed up them mailing and doing things on web cam .... but i feel if thay got no mail thay would worrie more .... and its a sex site after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"looking at the 2 above posts it appears to me that single women get as much flak as single guys from couples, so where/or whom does the blame really lie????
i think it all comes down to what your after on here
people who take this swinging lark very serious and come on looking for a shag get pissed off very easy but a variery of groups of people, they the ones who tend to post all the time wasting thread, moaning about any group of people who dont fit what they looking for etc, you see them in the chat room too, couples who wont even talk to men because they dont meet them, moan about how crap the site is, moan noone meets etc
Personally i dont come on here looking for meets, i come on to chat, be that in the chat room or on here, if someone catches my eye and we get on i will meet but its not the be all and end all if we dont
I think thats why a lot of people get abusive, no matter what sex they are, becauise they just tralling for a shag all the time and get frustrated when they cant find one so they vent their anger on who they mailing"
lol you are right with that one some couples dont even acknowledge a single in the chat room becuase they dont meet single guys then they try to butt in on a conversation with a couple or single woman who does meet single guys.It's hilarious because they get ignored big time .   |
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"guys get a hard time cos half of them dont know how to talk to a woman and they think with there cock. what makes them think that sending a woman a pic of there ock in first message, is going to ge them, oh wow comments or grab your coat youve pulled lol. or they reqest friend invite without a word or even worse, get all shitty if they dont get a reply or get rejeced! they need to chill and learn about how to communicate! "
that just about says it all,we have met single males,but we dont meet theem all not because we dont like them,its just we go from wanting to- to not wanting to,also as said above some dont know how to talk,,a simple hello how are you,goes alot further than,hello lovely tits,wanna ee me wank,,,simple answr,,,not in this lifetime |
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By *ne ShotMan
over a year ago
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"Theres some lovely single men on this site and yes i feel some do get a hard time ... when thay do very little to get that from some here thay have feelings too. I know some just get fed up them mailing and doing things on web cam .... but i feel if thay got no mail thay would worrie more .... and its a sex site after all."
I have never pmd any lady for a meet i see it as a pointless exercise. i find the best way to get to know to meet, to genuinely swing is to chat in the chatroom and attend socials, i never get my cock out on cam, always my face I never think of myself as a wanker although some might disagree lol |
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By *ne ShotMan
over a year ago
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"There are some genuinely nice single gents about, however, there are also some not so nice gents on here who think single ladies are fair game on here!
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Are we not all fair game on here regardless of our sex ? afterall we are all selling ourselves on our profiles looking to meet and have some sexy fun it is a swinging site.
I read profiles if profiles in chat say no single males i do not say hello or engage in anway, unless they say hello to me. I have come accross some ladies with the not looking for single males contact me in the past ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Theres some lovely single men on this site and yes i feel some do get a hard time ... when thay do very little to get that from some here thay have feelings too. I know some just get fed up them mailing and doing things on web cam .... but i feel if thay got no mail thay would worrie more .... and its a sex site after all.
I have never pmd any lady for a meet i see it as a pointless exercise. i find the best way to get to know to meet, to genuinely swing is to chat in the chatroom and attend socials, i never get my cock out on cam, always my face I never think of myself as a wanker although some might disagree lol "
I think its fine if in right chat room to get your cock out if your horny theres nothing wrong people do not have to look .....some say hate looking well why in first place look .. its a sex site and could see all sorts its part of the fun here . |
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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago
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i dont get a hard time
i just get hard
but judging by some of the emails that my partner in crime gets from single guys i can kind of understand where cpls/girls come from when they do have go at single guys
be polite,be respectful,be tasteful but above all else be truthful then you will have no problem
and while your at it lads a swinger site isnt the place to try steal someones wife/gf either if i posted the amount of emails that i see sent to my partner in crime about being a bf/gf i would be here all day lol
good luck out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I only meet single men. I get about 10 messages a day, 8 of which I delete without even opening because it's obviousl they've not read my profile as they're outside London and my age range.
It takes but a minute to delete and forget, so it's no skin off my nose if they want to waste their time writing.
I find the endless whines about single men more annoying than the single men themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think its as a previous poster said - its down to communication
guys to guys will get on easier as they are on the same level
trouble is they turn in to cock flashing illiterate sex mad porn wannabes if a single fem shows interest
well may be a bit over the top there but my drift is somewhere in the region |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Simple answer to this is...
Go into the directing room, look at the active cams, look at the men's cams... 95% of them are footage of them wanking... in fact it would be easy to think it was one person with 50 web cameras! They sit wanking for a while, rarely talking, great impression they set for the rest of us guys who go in and chat to people. |
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"looking at the 2 above posts it appears to me that single women get as much flak as single guys from couples, so where/or whom does the blame really lie????
i think it all comes down to what your after on here
people who take this swinging lark very serious and come on looking for a shag get pissed off very easy but a variery of groups of people, they the ones who tend to post all the time wasting thread, moaning about any group of people who dont fit what they looking for etc, you see them in the chat room too, couples who wont even talk to men because they dont meet them, moan about how crap the site is, moan noone meets etc
Personally i dont come on here looking for meets, i come on to chat, be that in the chat room or on here, if someone catches my eye and we get on i will meet but its not the be all and end all if we dont
I think thats why a lot of people get abusive, no matter what sex they are, becauise they just tralling for a shag all the time and get frustrated when they cant find one so they vent their anger on who they mailing"
That's so true in the chat rooms, I'm always confused when people come into the chat room and then have a big discussion about how bored they are in there. Um, leave if you find it so boring! |
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"I only meet single men. I get about 10 messages a day, 8 of which I delete without even opening because it's obviousl they've not read my profile as they're outside London and my age range.
It takes but a minute to delete and forget, so it's no skin off my nose if they want to waste their time writing.
I find the endless whines about single men more annoying than the single men themselves. "
Here here!! I love chatting to and meeting single men and if and when I dont like a particular single man - I now just delete and move on x |
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"Question:
Does every female on here (couples and single fems) have a problem with single guys
Appears to me they do and really do not understand why because I find the majority of single guys to be very respectful and I am able to have a good laugh with them whether in the chatrooms, messaging or meeting and to be honest really cannot fathom how anyone could have a problem with single guys, of course there are lots of them have you never looked around on a night out and seen how many there are trying their luck with the girls.
They are all here for the same reason as the rest of us to have a bit of fun and why not I say!
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Maybe your just lucky or maybe because you have a hidden profile, so the guys are extra nice just to see a pic etc.
I have a open profile for all to see, and list what I want dont want and get abuse for it, for instance yesterday 2 charming single males called me a "fussy fat cunt" and then another called me a "fat bitch"
The other 8 messages I had yesterday were the "fancy a fuck" one liners or guys who just obviously did not read my profile, out of age limit etc.
I only meet sm's so unfortunately I cant just do a block on them and change my pref to bi curious, altho I think I may do lol |
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"I only meet single men. I get about 10 messages a day, 8 of which I delete without even opening because it's obviousl they've not read my profile as they're outside London and my age range.
It takes but a minute to delete and forget, so it's no skin off my nose if they want to waste their time writing.
I find the endless whines about single men more annoying than the single men themselves.
Here here!! I love chatting to and meeting single men and if and when I dont like a particular single man - I now just delete and move on x"
*quickly checks friends list* |
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They are all here for the same reason as the rest of us to have a bit of fun and why not I say!
I could not agree more "
but we arent are we?
our sexual preferences vary so we wont all match - and besides - we are human - we will find fault somewhere |
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"Question:
Does every female on here (couples and single fems) have a problem with single guys
Appears to me they do and really do not understand why because I find the majority of single guys to be very respectful and I am able to have a good laugh with them whether in the chatrooms, messaging or meeting and to be honest really cannot fathom how anyone could have a problem with single guys, of course there are lots of them have you never looked around on a night out and seen how many there are trying their luck with the girls.
They are all here for the same reason as the rest of us to have a bit of fun and why not I say!
Maybe your just lucky or maybe because you have a hidden profile, so the guys are extra nice just to see a pic etc.
I have a open profile for all to see, and list what I want dont want and get abuse for it, for instance yesterday 2 charming single males called me a "fussy fat cunt" and then another called me a "fat bitch"
The other 8 messages I had yesterday were the "fancy a fuck" one liners or guys who just obviously did not read my profile, out of age limit etc.
I only meet sm's so unfortunately I cant just do a block on them and change my pref to bi curious, altho I think I may do lol "
sorry for being nosey - what is a sm?? |
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over a year ago
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Well you single males are pushy,today for example,some bloke sent me a message I sent one back then he said so can I fuck you this afternoon? I explained to the newbie it does not work like that,called me an effing timewaster then blocked me |
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over a year ago
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They are all here for the same reason as the rest of us to have a bit of fun and why not I say!
I could not agree more
but we arent are we?
our sexual preferences vary so we wont all match - and besides - we are human - we will find fault somewhere "
The reasons for being here are the same .
As for preferences some are not so strict as preferences can change time to time and some are strict to the point that they can come across as being quite bad mannered ,arrogant and obsessed . And thats when Human nature kicks in and you start to find faults .
Just my opinion.
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over a year ago
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"some are strict to the point that they can come across as being quite bad mannered ,arrogant and obsessed"
My profile is like that and to be fair I couldnt care less! I know what I want and dont want, its then the guys who dont fit into my criteria who get shitty and send insulting messages when I turn them down, that spoils it for me.
Although saying that I've met a few decent single men who are absolutely top guys, because they're respectful. And dont treat this site like a free knocking shop, or the SF's like utter slags.
I have standards if a SM cant accept that then tough titties |
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""some are strict to the point that they can come across as being quite bad mannered ,arrogant and obsessed"
My profile is like that and to be fair I couldnt care less! I know what I want and dont want, its then the guys who dont fit into my criteria who get shitty and send insulting messages when I turn them down, that spoils it for me.
Although saying that I've met a few decent single men who are absolutely top guys, because they're respectful. And dont treat this site like a free knocking shop, or the SF's like utter slags.
I have standards if a SM cant accept that then tough titties "
I like titties that are soft and natural |
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"a lot of single guys don't know the meaning of respect and treat the woman on here as meat and that there on here simply cos there desperate for a shag when its the total opposite ..its the single men who are desperate for a shag and when they get rightly rebuked they get angry I've noticed soldiers come on here and expect a women to drop there drawers simply cos they say there a soldier not that i have anything against squaddies.. until single men understand the concept of the site that its not a shag site but a swing site and the majority of women are far from desperate for a shag then single men will continue to ruin it for the minority of genuine single males
I have to agree to disagree with that, yes a lot of single guys who are chancers see it as a shag shop, but genuine single swing guys do not view the lifestyle that way. You still need to form relationships and gain respect from others. I have never in my life send a pm to anyone saying fancy a fuck, that is crass and disrespectful.
agreed. Unsure about forming relationships. Of course a getting to know you is always good prior to meeting. But in terms of forming relationships the site is a swinging site and not a dating site. I am very respectfull with all the ladies i meet from here and always meet with no expectations other than the pleasure of there company.
Anything other such as play i always leave to the ladies choice. The whole point of my being on here is to meet female swingers for mutual sexy fun without getting into a relationship. "
ooops Think I should have said friendship rather that relationship as that is what I meant  |
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""some are strict to the point that they can come across as being quite bad mannered ,arrogant and obsessed"
My profile is like that and to be fair I couldnt care less! I know what I want and dont want, its then the guys who dont fit into my criteria who get shitty and send insulting messages when I turn them down, that spoils it for me.
Although saying that I've met a few decent single men who are absolutely top guys, because they're respectful. And dont treat this site like a free knocking shop, or the SF's like utter slags.
I have standards if a SM cant accept that then tough titties
I like titties that are soft and natural "
So do I! ohhhh bugger does that mean im Bi? Damned those SM's for being so disrespectful to me! |
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""some are strict to the point that they can come across as being quite bad mannered ,arrogant and obsessed"
My profile is like that and to be fair I couldnt care less! I know what I want and dont want, its then the guys who dont fit into my criteria who get shitty and send insulting messages when I turn them down, that spoils it for me.
Although saying that I've met a few decent single men who are absolutely top guys, because they're respectful. And dont treat this site like a free knocking shop, or the SF's like utter slags.
I have standards if a SM cant accept that then tough titties
I like titties that are soft and natural
So do I! ohhhh bugger does that mean im Bi? Damned those SM's for being so disrespectful to me! "
I did say preferences can change |
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"a lot of single guys don't know the meaning of respect and treat the woman on here as meat and that there on here simply cos there desperate for a shag when its the total opposite ..its the single men who are desperate for a shag and when they get rightly rebuked they get angry I've noticed soldiers come on here and expect a women to drop there drawers simply cos they say there a soldier not that i have anything against squaddies.. until single men understand the concept of the site that its not a shag site but a swing site and the majority of women are far from desperate for a shag then single men will continue to ruin it for the minority of genuine single males
I have to agree to disagree with that, yes a lot of single guys who are chancers see it as a shag shop, but genuine single swing guys do not view the lifestyle that way. You still need to form relationships and gain respect from others. I have never in my life send a pm to anyone saying fancy a fuck, that is crass and disrespectful.
agreed. Unsure about forming relationships. Of course a getting to know you is always good prior to meeting. But in terms of forming relationships the site is a swinging site and not a dating site. I am very respectfull with all the ladies i meet from here and always meet with no expectations other than the pleasure of there company.
Anything other such as play i always leave to the ladies choice. The whole point of my being on here is to meet female swingers for mutual sexy fun without getting into a relationship. ooops Think I should have said friendship rather that relationship as that is what I meant "
Fully agree there its all about respect but it is dam hard to get meets with the single fems well may i say impossible as they get so many messages most of them will always go for the cream of the crop well they think they are thats why for me im happy to play with cpls and for some of us single guys you dont know what your missing |
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"I only meet single men. I get about 10 messages a day, 8 of which I delete without even opening because it's obviousl they've not read my profile as they're outside London and my age range.
It takes but a minute to delete and forget, so it's no skin off my nose if they want to waste their time writing.
I find the endless whines about single men more annoying than the single men themselves.
Here here!! I love chatting to and meeting single men and if and when I dont like a particular single man - I now just delete and move on x
*quickly checks friends list* "
Always on my list!!! |
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over a year ago
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we have no problem with single guys long as they remember we cant always meet when they want to and respect us as a couple you would be suprised the amount that send a cock pic with a first message like its going to impress then they wonder why they dont get answers lol |
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By *ne ShotMan
over a year ago
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I swing as a single male and also as a couple from time to time so i tend to see it from both sides. As a single male prior to swinging as a couple I would never dream of messaging a couple totally ignoring the male as it would be simply arrogant and very rude of me to do so. i do say i would never dream becuase i have not actully ever pmd anybody on here.
On our couples profile i read messages from single guys messaging my fem friend as if i am invisible. It does make me chuckle when a man whispers in chat and starts giving it the sex chat i just put the cam on and say im very flattered but im not gay m8. |
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