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Hotel meets - not the green light for sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What do others think?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you mean that just because you have booked a hotel. Doesn't mean sex is a sure thing? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's what we call a 'maybe'.

No guarantees , but If you iz lucky ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No of course it isn't, its an agreement that you would like to have sex but it certainly isn't consent. Until you are in the situation and consent is given there are no guarantees

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meet in the hotel bar - then it's easier to walk away if there's no attraction.

It's not a green light though even if you meet in a hotel room. Nothing is a given.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never done a hotel meet but then I also usually only play in clubs or have socials first to guage sexual attraction.

Even if you invite someone to your home, to meet you in a club or at a hotel, there should never be a sense of a guarantee of sex, things may change when you meet a person physically, it's an invitation to say that if it's right it will happen, but if not it won't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would anyone bother to book a hotel room if there was a chance of no sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why would anyone bother to book a hotel room if there was a chance of no sex?

.. because there is also a *chance* of some

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is why we don't meet in hotels, feels like too much pressure.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

I wouldn't shell out unless it was certain

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why on earth would you pay for a room for somebody you don't even know you want to have sex with?

That's just silly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I was travelling 2-3 hours for a social I would book a hotel anyway, Either meet at the bar or another one, The only thing I would be sure of is that I would have somewhere to sleep that night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love hotel meets, they are my fave type of meet but I have always met somebody before when I book a hotel, even if I haven't played with them before I've still met them so we know we are attracted to each other

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By *ecretgamesMan over a year ago

the moon

"I love hotel meets, they are my fave type of meet but I have always met somebody before when I book a hotel, even if I haven't played with them before I've still met them so we know we are attracted to each other "

Yup !! Think it's a bit silly and risky to book a hotel for a blind meet !!! Should have st least had a coffee before hand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was travelling 2-3 hours for a social I would book a hotel anyway, Either meet at the bar or another one, The only thing I would be sure of is that I would have somewhere to sleep that night "

Ditto

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

Wherever I'm meeting I dont assume a green light for sex likewise whoever in my direction

If all sides are willing, wanting waiting for the green light then bingo hehe

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"Why would anyone bother to book a hotel room if there was a chance of no sex?

Yes if they were staying in the hotel anyway like I do with work throughout the south/south west

Would love a social in the bar with anything else a huge bonus but not expected

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't shell out unless it was certain"

I wouldn't expect anyone else to either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why on earth would you pay for a room for somebody you don't even know you want to have sex with?

That's just silly"

You probably should have met beforehand in a neutral, no pressure situation. But even still if there's a change of heart no means no.

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I wouldn't but I have only booked a hotel once before not meeting socially and we did have sex well she broke me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was travelling 2-3 hours for a social I would book a hotel anyway, Either meet at the bar or another one, The only thing I would be sure of is that I would have somewhere to sleep that night

Ditto

you'd travel 2-3 hours for a social meet?

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By *onyneMan over a year ago

Newcastle

Well nothing should really be a green light for sex, unless there is a clear understanding of some sort beforehand...

As for travelling a few hours for a social... well sometimes it's good to have a little adventure

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