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How great is it when you receive a message as a single male
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think the same gents ....and yet some ladies get hundreds everyday ...how confused would we get if we got hundreds ....well you wouldn't know where to start .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages....."
Point taken  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ahhh come on guys get some self respect .
Man up guys..I'm in the same boat but it all gets a bit cringe worthy when we start saying..no one picks me, no one fabs my pic etc!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Ahhh come on guys get some self respect .
Man up guys..I'm in the same boat but it all gets a bit cringe worthy when we start saying..no one picks me, no one fabs my pic etc! "
I didn't say no one picks me ...they do but very seldom which is just about right considering theres about a 100 men per 5 ladies on here . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages....."
this is the main reason that i very rarely msg single guys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Ahhh come on guys get some self respect .
Man up guys..I'm in the same boat but it all gets a bit cringe worthy when we start saying..no one picks me, no one fabs my pic etc! "
I'm self respectively verified ... and manned up when I fucked her . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still waiting for a message first from a female..... (could be some time lol) "
Gerraway? 8 weeks in....but have you been actively involved? It won't happen by just sitting back? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages....."
Maybe you were just unlucky...
When we're actively looking we prefer to find and message single men. Quite a few simply read and deleted, which is fine as they were obviously not interested.
Rest generally all messaged back fine and didnt assume anything. Obviously not all turned into meets but in general it worked well for us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only ones I get are from gay guys or ts/cd who haven't read my profile or they wouldn't have sent the message in the first place"
Yep same here. Very rare I get messages from women but when I do, there's a happy dance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only ones I get are from gay guys or ts/cd who haven't read my profile or they wouldn't have sent the message in the first place"
I quite often message "straight" guys . 80% of them turn out to be bi,unless they actively state not looking for single guys. You can always block messages from single guys but run the risk of a single guy who has a lady in mind for a 3 some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only ones I get are from gay guys or ts/cd who haven't read my profile or they wouldn't have sent the message in the first place"
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Put your filters on then.. Then they can't message at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends who its from
i used to get that tingle of excitement when i saw i had mail
then i`d open it and it`d be from a guy with a pic of him spreading his ass as an attachment
yippieee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah not fussed, playing hard to get, got everyone blocked at the moment apart from FF...just in case 
And I was thinking of messaging you too  "
See, playing hard to get is working.....ish  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah not fussed, playing hard to get, got everyone blocked at the moment apart from FF...just in case
And I was thinking of messaging you too
See, playing hard to get is working.....ish "
Ish indeed as we both have filters on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages....."
Which is probably why many ladies and couples don't want too make the first move.. that is what i tell myself too get through the day anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got one yesterday
It is wonderful. I'm lucky, I do alright for messages but I'm still not exactly knee deep in them. They never fail to put a smile on my face and they just make my heart skip a little, knowing a woman (yes, a real life WOMAN!) has gone out of her way to message little old me "
Note to self... Must get a pair of multi coloured socks x |
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"The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages....."
Here is the thing most (not all) men think with logic of the end result, while you lovely ladies (not all) think with feelings and emotion.  
Looking at the message again if a woman approaches me like that I will be worried. |
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it's not a dig at you personally. But you get my drift? And I almost said the pitiful,at least your verified thing. ..then manned up 
