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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You mean the ones that dont like bum bandits? Nah its ok as long as they say each to their own first, whatever follows is allowed apprently... 
It's like the 1980's all over again!  "
Shit please dont let that happen there'd be two varas. Shit just got real.
Seriously though it shocks me how these people call themseleves 'open minded' |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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There's a soupçon of it but taken into consideration it's still less prevalent in daily life than it used to be. I just read a really good article as to one person's thoughts as a gay man as to why homophobia (as in an actual fear of homosexuality) still exists but I can't share the link on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the increase just lately?"
On fab or in life generally?? Certainly on here I've seen an increase in the short time I've been on the forums, but as in life, they get ignored and fade away in to the distance until no one can remember their name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's bizarre if I was racist in the forums a would be warned or banned by the moderators, but if I am homophobic then it seems to be fine x and that's by reading the forum comments |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On the increase just lately?
On fab or in life generally?? Certainly on here I've seen an increase in the short time I've been on the forums, but as in life, they get ignored and fade away in to the distance until no one can remember their name "
Dam how do i get a hairy body like yours!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A don't like on fab when it's allowed for people to use the term "" watch out you don't catch the gay bug " even in jest I find it not to be nice"
I can see that. I think though its seen as a good way to take the mick out of a bigot. Humour is usually more effective than telling them xx never used the phrase myself though xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A don't like on fab when it's allowed for people to use the term "" watch out you don't catch the gay bug " even in jest I find it not to be nice
I can see that. I think though its seen as a good way to take the mick out of a bigot. Humour is usually more effective than telling them xx never used the phrase myself though xx"
Very true, I tend to blank and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the increase just lately?"
The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the increase just lately?
The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species."
How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the increase just lately?
The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species.
How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile"
He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"We have no issue at all with people who possess male & female genitals, regardless of the size of their toes.
no holidays in Norfolk then..
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Fuck right off! 
My toes are perfect. I even have a photo to prove it! |
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"We have no issue at all with people who possess male & female genitals, regardless of the size of their toes.
no holidays in Norfolk then..
Fuck right off!
My toes are perfect. I even have a photo to prove it!"
are they hairy..?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the increase just lately?
The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species.
How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile
He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist. "
I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I read in an article most guys that are homophobic see it as a challenge to their alpha male status, but it never mentioned females "
I think this is bullshit.
Most actual "alpha males" are secure in their identity and are tolerant of others.
It's the wannabes and the ones who think they are alpha males but aren't that are threatened by those with different lifestyles. |
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"I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded "
Biphobic is a word.
And yes, tbf, I've had more shit off gay men for daring to like pussy as well than I have from straight people.
It's an odd one. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"On the increase just lately?
The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species.
How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile
He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist. "
Well, in that case, I hope he likes straight guys or women otherwise his sex-life must be pretty much non-existent |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"We have no issue at all with people who possess male & female genitals, regardless of the size of their toes.
no holidays in Norfolk then..
Fuck right off!
My toes are perfect. I even have a photo to prove it!
are they hairy..?
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"We have no issue at all with people who possess male & female genitals, regardless of the size of their toes.
no holidays in Norfolk then..
Fuck right off!
My toes are perfect. I even have a photo to prove it!
are they hairy..?
NO! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded
Biphobic is a word.
And yes, tbf, I've had more shit off gay men for daring to like pussy as well than I have from straight people.
It's an odd one. "
It's like, you're greedy, you're confused, you're a slut... and so on.
I saw a fun explanation for it on Facebook t'other day - some people like ice cream, some like cookies, some like both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the increase just lately?
The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species.
How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile
He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist.
Well, in that case, I hope he likes straight guys or women otherwise his sex-life must be pretty much non-existent "
He's just vile. Several of the Polish guys at work have punched him because he thinks its funny to tell them that Hitler didn't go far enough. One young lad almost flattened him on Friday because he was screaming that he was thick because he wasn't English. I had to step in to stop him getting hit again. He's been reported to HR numerous times but they've done nothing about it. |
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"On the increase just lately?
The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species.
How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile
He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist.
I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded "
We've noticed that. In a lot of ways. LGBT being bi-phobic, Irish people being racist and Women being sexist. |
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"It's like, you're greedy, you're confused, you're a slut... and so on.
I saw a fun explanation for it on Facebook t'other day - some people like ice cream, some like cookies, some like both."
I AM greedy |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I think sexuality is a spectrum and we're all on it somewhere.
Heterosexual at one end, gay/lesbian at the other. With all shades an combinations in between.
It's all natural "
We sometimes move on that spectrum too. We don't all stay in the same place throughout our lives.
Sexuality and attraction are very fluid things. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"It's like, you're greedy, you're confused, you're a slut... and so on.
I saw a fun explanation for it on Facebook t'other day - some people like ice cream, some like cookies, some like both.
I AM greedy "
Me too.
Now, these cookies and the ice cream that were mentioned... |
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"I think sexuality is a spectrum and we're all on it somewhere.
Heterosexual at one end, gay/lesbian at the other. With all shades an combinations in between.
It's all natural
We sometimes move on that spectrum too. We don't all stay in the same place throughout our lives.
Sexuality and attraction are very fluid things."
Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the increase just lately?
The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species.
How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile
He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist.
I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded "
You would think wouldn't you, but my half brother had to move very quickly to Manchester to get away from most of his family, in particular his brothers from his mothers side, who said they were going to kill him, and it wasn't an empty threat.
The people if the caribean are not best known for the tolerance of the gay community |
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"I think sexuality is a spectrum and we're all on it somewhere.
Heterosexual at one end, gay/lesbian at the other. With all shades an combinations in between.
It's all natural
We sometimes move on that spectrum too. We don't all stay in the same place throughout our lives.
Sexuality and attraction are very fluid things."
like a big bowl of tapioca with random dollops of different compotes..
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I think sexuality is a spectrum and we're all on it somewhere.
Heterosexual at one end, gay/lesbian at the other. With all shades an combinations in between.
It's all natural
We sometimes move on that spectrum too. We don't all stay in the same place throughout our lives.
Sexuality and attraction are very fluid things."
Yep; am beginning to believe in all that 'squirting' stuff  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because someone is gay/bi or whatever sexual orientation doesn't mean they can't be homophobic etc.
It's the same as seeing threads about people thinking all swingers are open minded, accepting and none judgmental.
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"Just because someone is gay/bi or whatever sexual orientation doesn't mean they can't be homophobic etc.
It's the same as seeing threads about people thinking all swingers are open minded, accepting and none judgmental.
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^This! Lol
I love how surprised people always are at marginalised and oppressed groups still containing wankbadgers.
You being oppressed ? you're a nice person. 
It's a bit like saying "You'd die if I shot you, so why are you shooting me with your gun, WTF dude?!" Like, they are unrelated phenomena.
But yeah, bigots can get in the fucking sea. |
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"Just because someone is gay/bi or whatever sexual orientation doesn't mean they can't be homophobic etc.
It's the same as seeing threads about people thinking all swingers are open minded, accepting and none judgmental.
^This! Lol
I love how surprised people always are at marginalised and oppressed groups still containing wankbadgers.
You being oppressed ? you're a nice person.
It's a bit like saying "You'd die if I shot you, so why are you shooting me with your gun, WTF dude?!" Like, they are unrelated phenomena.
But yeah, bigots can get in the fucking sea. "
The above is very true, many gay guys suffer from deep rooted inverted homophobia issues and consequently inflict all sorts of nasty abuse and stigma on other gay people , usually the ones that painstakingly maintain heterosexual facades . they're insecure and deathly frightened their world of lies will topple down upon them so adopt an ultra homophobic attitudes to shift focus and scrutiny from themselves.
Anyone that's seen that Al Pacino film "cruising" will kow what I'm talking about. |
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What we have found out in life the queer bashes You all know the ones the one that,s got to be heard calling people queer puffter,s gay twats, Most are in the closet and trying to hide there gay or bi side |
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"You mean the ones that dont like bum bandits? Nah its ok as long as they say each to their own first, whatever follows is allowed apprently...
It's like the 1980's all over again!
Shit please dont let that happen there'd be two varas. Shit just got real.
Seriously though it shocks me how these people call themseleves 'open minded'"
They are open minded, but it stops at male same sex fun. They seem to think same sex female fun is ok though. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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for me it doesn't matter if your straight, bi, gay lesbian, or trans if I get on with you then I get on with you
From a sexual side of things I have played with straight couple, bi fem straight male, bi cpl (he played straight), and a very gay bi sexual lady.
There is a lot of homophobia still around but I would say that people are a lot more tolarant than when I was a child. I remember my parents seeing two women kissing in public and they said it was disgusting. To me I probably would notice but then I notice when straight couples kiss anyway, but then I would dismiss it as a nice couple |
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I think society in general is far, far more understanding of the gay community than ever it used to be but having only used the forum a short while have been amazed at the attitudes of some contributors.
I think that is more about forums in general than Fab in particular as the ability to hide behind a keyboard brings out the very worst in some people. (True colours?) |
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I've never come across an intelligent homophobic person. They're always deficient, like something went seriously wrong somewhere.
Report anything that you wouldn't tolerate out there in the wider world. Abusive degradation of others may be the incremental element that pushes someone towards ending their life. No one should face being bullied, even from slurs aimed at groups.
In some respects Fab is more tolerant than a few years ago, so it's sad that the ops picked up a negative trend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the increase just lately?
The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species.
How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile
He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist.
I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded "
Both my partner and I identify as bi/pan-sexual and we find it very hard to meet gay men or lesbians (depending on which one of us it is, obviously). We have found that those who are gay can be very unaccepting of bisexual people.
Too often the stereotype is that you're 'greedy', when in reality we just don't really care what someone has between their legs - all kinds of genitals can be fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The most bigoted homophone .
Is that a word that doesn't like other words that sound like it?
No, it was my phone being a twat."
Don't you start having a go at your phone, just because its a Homophone, you bigot lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the increase just lately?
On fab or in life generally?? Certainly on here I've seen an increase in the short time I've been on the forums, but as in life, they get ignored and fade away in to the distance until no one can remember their name
Dam how do i get a hairy body like yours! "
It's only put on with Velcro |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having read this thread i think a lot of you see what no one else sees, you seem to confuse bigots with peoples personal choices  "
Mostly on this site though, "personal choice" is a cover for "I'm a racist/homophobe/etc", even if the person doesn't believe that they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got no time for homophobes I'm a straight man who's completely comfortable with my sexuality.
I've also got no time for anybody with a chip on their shoulder. If somebody is homophobic I would rather know about it.
If we're not allowed to express our opinions on a public forum right or wrong, how can we decide what certain people are really like?
Some people are far too over sensitive and public forums are probably not the best place for them.
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"You mean the ones that dont like bum bandits? Nah its ok as long as they say each to their own first, whatever follows is allowed apprently...
It's like the 1980's all over again! "
Not quite, at least we had Tom Robinson then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ignorance is never bliss , very often it's a fear of something underlying within themselves.
something they know will not be excepted by there Society , they make a bigger thing of it as a decoy , bigots just admit you love a pokey bum wank so we can all get on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the increase just lately?"
Tbh I think they've always been around and been loud and clear in their ignorance!
Personally I find it fairly constant - and a useful filter in deciding who I don't want to meet!
However - if you're a bi/gay male and at the brunt of their comments, I imagine how 'bovvered' you are by their comments would alter according to your state of mind/happiness at the time!
I still find it amusing/bizarre that the vast majority of women on the site are bi/bi-curious and that's not only fine - its actively encouraged!!
Odd little world we live in, isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" all kinds of genitals can be fun.
I'm going to get that printed on a T-shirt
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My genitals aren't much fun!
They've never cracked a decent joke yet - and they've never bought me a drink! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the increase just lately?
On fab or in life generally?? Certainly on here I've seen an increase in the short time I've been on the forums, but as in life, they get ignored and fade away in to the distance until no one can remember their name
Dam how do i get a hairy body like yours!
It's only put on with Velcro "
Does it come off when it's licked? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The most bigoted homophone .
Is that a word that doesn't like other words that sound like it?
No, it was my phone being a twat.
Don't you start having a go at your phone, just because its a Homophone, you bigot lol "
Touché |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Preference: an opportunity for someone to become borderline obsessed to a particular grouping that they can quite easily ignore, but chose to rant & rant at every possible thread going.
So much wasted angst
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" all kinds of genitals can be fun.
I'm going to get that printed on a T-shirt
My genitals aren't much fun!
They've never cracked a decent joke yet - and they've never bought me a drink! "
Your genitals sound like a right twat |
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There was a lovely study where sensors were connected to cocks, and then porn was _iewed.
The homophobic men's cocks were the most swollen by watching gay porn, compared to general straight men.
We're all entitled to express _iews but only low life filth would find it acceptable to harass, intimidate, oppress or abuse others. People with empathy would rightly concern themselves as they communicate, ensuring that others are respected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the increase just lately?
On fab or in life generally?? Certainly on here I've seen an increase in the short time I've been on the forums, but as in life, they get ignored and fade away in to the distance until no one can remember their name
Dam how do i get a hairy body like yours!
It's only put on with Velcro
Does it come off when it's licked?"
Now there's an offer lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just don't get why people care so much about other peoples sex life.
It's mainly religious people who are like this.
I see it all the time on metros Fb page. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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Personally, on the whole I think society has become tolerant and less bigoted. Homophobic language and behaviour was certainly more prevalent when I was younger. Maybe incidents are more likely to be reported in the media these days? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes homo/trans phobia is rife were I work. scratch the surface and there's sexism that should have been rooted out decades ago. I got funny looks when I wore my black scarve the other week before I came out to the top manager. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually find it quite prevalent in public life.
When I pull someone up, in public, for sexist/homophobic/transphobic/racist language I inevitably get told "Can't you take a joke?"
It's gone from being out and out poor language to being disguised as a joke. It's not funny though. And it's no better. |
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I'm getting a lot more "I'm straight BUT..." type messages lately. The ones where, when you pick someone up on how that's kind of offensive when said to a trans woman, they call you a 'man' and block you.
Sigh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The very fact that clubs pander to bi females and treat bi guys differently has an unpleasant undertone
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I've always found this odd. If the idea is to encourage women to attend surely women who play with other women are just as good as a straight man? Bi guys should be getting the same discount as straight women and bi women should be paying what the straight men are paying
I'm just kidding, but it does work based on the stated logic of club pricing...
-Courtney |
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"I'm getting a lot more "I'm straight BUT..." type messages lately. The ones where, when you pick someone up on how that's kind of offensive when said to a trans woman, they call you a 'man' and block you.
Sigh."
Hi Pandora,
Yes, if you are a Transsexual but I dont find it offensive as a TV. I know there is a spectrum but there is a definite split between a TV (for the sake of a word) who is parttime and a TS who is living and working as a woman and possibly transitioning.
I just take it as a compliment, most of the men I meet are straight, only the bi- ones have any interest in my penis they are seeing me as the woman I am at that time...and I am pleased for their fantasy. I am a fantasy woman - I know things about their sexuality most women don't know and are not interested in finding out without sneering (I dont think I'm talking about most women on here) |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"The very fact that clubs pander to bi females and treat bi guys differently has an unpleasant undertone
I've always found this odd. If the idea is to encourage women to attend surely women who play with other women are just as good as a straight man? Bi guys should be getting the same discount as straight women and bi women should be paying what the straight men are paying
I'm just kidding, but it does work based on the stated logic of club pricing...
-Courtney "
I was meaning more bi females can play in public any night and there will be little/no impact. Bi guy play has to be on a special night
The bluster to management on a non special night reeks of something unpleasant
But your point is valid and appreciated |
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I sometimes think Fab should offer TS and CD/TV as different things to stop this happening maybe. I am transitioning and don't want to be insulted (and they are insults, when these guys don't get their own way) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sometimes think Fab should offer TS and CD/TV as different things to stop this happening maybe. I am transitioning and don't want to be insulted (and they are insults, when these guys don't get their own way)"
I fully agree with you |
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"I sometimes think Fab should offer TS and CD/TV as different things to stop this happening maybe. I am transitioning and don't want to be insulted (and they are insults, when these guys don't get their own way)"
In that case of course you're right but maybe you should make your profile clearer. I wasn't able to tell. And you are right they should separate TS from TV - actually that's a bit ignorant. xxx |
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"The very fact that clubs pander to bi females and treat bi guys differently has an unpleasant undertone
I've always found this odd. If the idea is to encourage women to attend surely women who play with other women are just as good as a straight man? Bi guys should be getting the same discount as straight women and bi women should be paying what the straight men are paying
I'm just kidding, but it does work based on the stated logic of club pricing...
-Courtney
I was meaning more bi females can play in public any night and there will be little/no impact. Bi guy play has to be on a special night
The bluster to management on a non special night reeks of something unpleasant
But your point is valid and appreciated "
Oh  Oops! I agree with your point, too. |
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" Bi guy play has to be on a special night
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We particularly enjoy bisexual play on 'regular' night at clubs. Because it makes people stare in disgust.
But at least they're staring - and we like being watched. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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" Bi guy play has to be on a special night
We particularly enjoy bisexual play on 'regular' night at clubs. Because it makes people stare in disgust.
But at least they're staring - and we like being watched."
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" Bi guy play has to be on a special night
We particularly enjoy bisexual play on 'regular' night at clubs. Because it makes people stare in disgust.
But at least they're staring - and we like being watched."
do you know, I love bi- nights more than any other. There's just a complete freedonm and abandon and everyone can join in. My favourite nights have been with both men and women. Got spit roast once with a girl and a strap on behind and a guy in front...glorious. Swingers nights can be a bit cliquey. |
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Are you guys fucking serious?
Scroll through any thread and it's a bunch of jerkoff virgin fuckwits calling us all "bum bandits" and stuff
and it's not just men, some of the women are just as bad.
I mean, this is a fucking swingers website if you can't handle a little homosexuality go the FUCK back to vanilla life you pathetic sad peices of shit! |
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"The very fact that clubs pander to bi females and treat bi guys differently has an unpleasant undertone
I've always found this odd. If the idea is to encourage women to attend surely women who play with other women are just as good as a straight man? Bi guys should be getting the same discount as straight women and bi women should be paying what the straight men are paying
I'm just kidding, but it does work based on the stated logic of club pricing...
-Courtney
I was meaning more bi females can play in public any night and there will be little/no impact. Bi guy play has to be on a special night
The bluster to management on a non special night reeks of something unpleasant
But your point is valid and appreciated "
On another site..
We were recently invited to a party (couples profile) i said not interested, sounded like a cock fest (or someone's idea of a cuckold party, what a load of crap, anyway i digress) so the organiser asked "but you have MM as an interest?" yes says I, for bi MMf.."none of our party guys bat for the other team"... Now
I've sucked more than my fair share of a particular type of cock at some specific parties and i can tell you, dear reader, for some social groups anything bi is a BIG no no. But it doesn't stop them doing it in the private rooms... |
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"Are you guys fucking serious?
Scroll through any thread and it's a bunch of jerkoff virgin fuckwits calling us all "bum bandits" and stuff
and it's not just men, some of the women are just as bad.
I mean, this is a fucking swingers website if you can't handle a little homosexuality go the FUCK back to vanilla life you pathetic sad peices of shit! "
lol, my son and I dissolved into fits of giggles one night when I said "I wouldn't have a problem if my grandson turned out to be a.... shirt lifter, bum burglar - we went through all the words. He doesn't know what I do. |
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The funny thing is the women being homophobic normally have at least one picture of them lezzing off in a 3some but as soon as there's 2 people who were born or identify male involved, grab the fucking pitchforks!
It makes me sad, how it can be [insert current year here] and there's still people so ignorant |
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"and it's not just men, some of the women are just as bad.
I was just thinking this.
100% some are
Personally I find it HOT!  "
haha you out and proud about it, I see more abuse in these forums than people like you saying it's hot though! |
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"Are you guys fucking serious?
Scroll through any thread and it's a bunch of jerkoff virgin fuckwits calling us all "bum bandits" and stuff
and it's not just men, some of the women are just as bad.
I mean, this is a fucking swingers website if you can't handle a little homosexuality go the FUCK back to vanilla life you pathetic sad peices of shit!
lol, my son and I dissolved into fits of giggles one night when I said "I wouldn't have a problem if my grandson turned out to be a.... shirt lifter, bum burglar - we went through all the words. He doesn't know what I do."
I can just imagine that.
Also, I'm going to refer to my partner as a bum bandit next time he's tied up and can't take a swing at me. |
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"Apparently my profile is homophobic
I don't see why
It was someone being dramatic on another thread.
Surely not?! I've never heard the like!"
It was quite ironic when you looked at the profile of the accusers |
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Personally l don't care if a person is gay or bisexual and anyone should be able to express themselves sexually as they feel provided it is not oppressing or abusing someone else.
However calling a man who does not want to sleep with another man a homophobe is as ridiculous as calling a gay man a mysandranist because he does not sleep with women or calling a lesbian a man hater because she does not sleep with men.
The issue should not be sexual preference but promoting respect and avoiding abuse and ridicule of other people's sexuality. Ridicule, abuse and treating gay and bi-people not as equals is in my _iew homophobic. |
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"Personally l don't care if a person is gay or bisexual and anyone should be able to express themselves sexually as they feel provided it is not oppressing or abusing someone else.
However calling a man who does not want to sleep with another man a homophobe is as ridiculous as calling a gay man a mysandranist because he does not sleep with women or calling a lesbian a man hater because she does not sleep with men.
The issue should not be sexual preference but promoting respect and avoiding abuse and ridicule of other people's sexuality. Ridicule, abuse and treating gay and bi-people not as equals is in my _iew homophobic."
I don't have a problem with a man who chooses not to have sex with another man. Its the way he says it that speaks volumes. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Ridicule, abuse and treating gay and bi-people not as equals is in my _iew homophobic."
those are the _iews that this post is directed to.
not straight men who don't want to shag a bi/gay man, why..... because they are straight |
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However calling a man who does not want to sleep with another man a homophobe is as ridiculous as calling a gay man a mysandranist because he does not sleep with women or calling a lesbian a man hater because she does not sleep with men. "
Nobody's calling anyone homophobic for not wanting to sleep with another man though.
The rest of your post is otherwise spot on!!!! |
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Offtopic, but clubs not allowing male-male action on standard nights seems like they're straight from the dark ages. Their use of private membership exemption from equality law is just a bigot's charter. |
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