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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Say you receive a message and you check the profile.
The photos are appealing, they are in your preferred age range and match your preferred build, smoker status, height etc.
What words or phrases in their profile or message could then put you off?
For me, amongst others are:
- they are or prefer to be dominant. (I'm dominant, if anything, and don't want a pissing contest over who's in charge, or someone trying to control me or order me about.)
- heavy cummer 
- anything that makes it sound like they have a generally disrespectful attitude towards women.
- anything about wanting a slut, cum dump or similar.
- they don't want to meet overweight women, (they won't like me so why are they even messaging?)
- bareback only, (not for me, thanks). |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I'm less likely to reply to someone whose profile says to reply, even if it's with a no thank you, because manners cost nothing, even if I otherwise would have replied.
They chose to message me, I didn't ask them to. I don't like the implication that entitles them to my time, even the few seconds it takes to send a 'no thanks'. They wouldn't have messaged if they didn't want to, so I should be free not to reply if I don't want to.
And I don't like being told what to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm less likely to reply to someone whose profile says to reply, even if it's with a no thank you, because manners cost nothing, even if I otherwise would have replied.
They chose to message me, I didn't ask them to. I don't like the implication that entitles them to my time, even the few seconds it takes to send a 'no thanks'. They wouldn't have messaged if they didn't want to, so I should be free not to reply if I don't want to.
And I don't like being told what to do."
 Obstinate.  |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Telling me that they can lick/fuck for hours or make me squirt! Yawn  "
Oh, yes, men obsessed with squirting make me think watch too much porn and they're just going to spend ages poking me roughly with their fingers. No thanks! |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I'm less likely to reply to someone whose profile says to reply, even if it's with a no thank you, because manners cost nothing, even if I otherwise would have replied.
They chose to message me, I didn't ask them to. I don't like the implication that entitles them to my time, even the few seconds it takes to send a 'no thanks'. They wouldn't have messaged if they didn't want to, so I should be free not to reply if I don't want to.
And I don't like being told what to do.
Obstinate. "
Yup. I'd be the last person to deny it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A disrespectful description of women, slur, whore etc.
Childish descriptions of women's vaginas, roadkill, axe wound especially
Heavy cummers
Long stayers
Any 'gangsta' type talk in profiles, like they've been listening to too much NWA.
Can make any woman squirt kind of talk
The phrase 'lick you out', only schoolboys say this.
Any domination or submission talk.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pound your pussy
Nice tits
Do you squirt
Hun, babe...
Sup, wyd
I'm not hung but I eat good pussy and can make you cum over and over
And basically 90% of all message content from guys has some about of stupid fuckery that makes no sense and is not sexy or appealing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any mention of being an expert with 'fingers and tongue' - I'll be the judge of that.
Any mention of 'squirting' - piss off!
Any mention of VWE or 'hung' - biased much?
Any lazy wording like 'gawjus' or 'bbe'
Any mention about being a 'heavy cummer' - comparing themselves to who?
Any mention that they like to 'lick pussy for hours' - yawn.
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"Any mention of being an expert with 'fingers and tongue' - I'll be the judge of that.
Any mention of 'squirting' - piss off!
Any mention of VWE or 'hung' - biased much?
Any lazy wording like 'gawjus' or 'bbe'
Any mention about being a 'heavy cummer' - comparing themselves to who?
Any mention that they like to 'lick pussy for hours' - yawn.
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It's not surprising that many of those men asking for help with profiles so often have one or more of those phrases in their profile... |
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"Any mention of being an expert with 'fingers and tongue' - I'll be the judge of that.
Any mention of 'squirting' - piss off!
Any mention of VWE or 'hung' - biased much?
Any lazy wording like 'gawjus' or 'bbe'
Any mention about being a 'heavy cummer' - comparing themselves to who?
Any mention that they like to 'lick pussy for hours' - yawn.
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All of the above and the ones that ask what am I upto at the moment...... when I'm obviously perving on Fab?? |
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Breathing through their ears... no, you really can't.
Licking pussy for hours... thanks but I'll pass.
Heavy cummer... not an attractive prospect ever.
Calling knickers by their American name... just don't.
Any of those and quite frankly, I'd rather have a wank. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone whose profile states they are good looking...
So called straight men who say they are choosy ... Yet have verifications from TVs, and bi couples....
When someone says they are clean and disease free... I should jolly well hope they are 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm it literally turns my stomach! Mmmmm just yuck! X"
This^^^
Also...
What u upto? Howz ur weekend been?
How u finding fab?
All in one go!
And pretty much everything else mentioned on this thread! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men claiming to be Dom put me off
Men saying they are looking for a cum slut put me off
Long stayer and quick repeater puts me off also heavy cummers
Men claiming to be firemen put me off
Black men who ask if I'd like some sexy chocolate put me off...when the fuck did that expression start anyway
Text talk to the extent I have to read the message three times and I'm still none the wiser put me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very Choosy" - and no veris since 15 months ago = unlikely to turn up.
"Don't want to jump into bed with just anyone" - and the rest of us do? Arrogant and judgemental.
Profiles where 80% is taken up saying what they don't like or don't want. Makes it look like a Donald Trump application form for a muslim immigrant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hun/honey/baby etc make me vom.
Also "hows you," hows? Really? How about no."
Almost as bad as ... Heyyyyyyy..How you doin...? (A la Joey from friends) |
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"Any version of want to ruin you puts me right off, or saying they're dominant usually has me clicking onto the next profile."
This. One guy wanted to "ruin all my holes" - uh, yeah, thanks anyway LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything that conveys a lack of respect for wome. Any slut/whore type vocabulary
NSA
Heavy cummer (indeed, yuck!)
Repeater (cums too quick)
'Who's around?' as a status
Not into email ping pong (usually means they'll barely exchange three messages before asking to meet for sex)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guarantee I will..." you have no idea what I like, so no you don't.
Anything derogatory about women having body hair, particularly "I take care of myself & like others to do the same" because obviously not being freshly waxed means you don't bathe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profiles where all it says is 'will fill in later' and they have been here over a year "
If I ever had a message from a profile with that I'd just reply I'll get back to you later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My dislikes in a message are
1. Hit me up, im on KIK
2. Could you handle it?? ( with attached cock pic)
3. Do you swallow!!
Profile Dislikes-
1. Will fill this in lata.
2. Dire text/slang speak
3. Sharing phone numbers or KIK for all to see. |
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Single women who say on their profiles that they wont meet attached men, but then go ahead and message my partner on his single profile, trying to set up a meet, even though he is clear he is attached. I do wonder what they motivation for only meeting single guys? Do they want a relationship or rather the man's partner to know? In the latter case, why it say that? I suspect its often a matter of thinking the partner will be jealous or, like some of the single guys in here, that couples meet others because their current partner is not enough. It's a strange one to me .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Their loss, yeah right
9/10 they have had a fucking lucky escape"
Or the ones that say 'your loss' which is probably correct as they are somewhat unhinged anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who say they only chat away from the site - if I ever read the word kik or whatsapp I'm not interested. Any use of the word moist and I feel instantly sick.
I also hate when people message us asking how we are finding fab. It was a legitimate question when we first joined but not now obviously it's good otherwise we wouldn't still be here.
People who ask for face pics without sending any, someone once asked if we were still active as we hadn't been verified in a while (about 4 months) when they had none themselves. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I hate being called hun. Just flat out hate it. Add gawjus, bbe or any other misspelt term of endearment to the list. I also can't stand random first messages just commenting on one area of my anatomy. Combine that with textspeak and an 'mmm' and it momentarily riles me. The worse have to be the ones from 'couples' asking if I'll meet the guy alone or 'single' girls asking if I'll meet them and their fuck buddy.
Thinking about it, I have loads of literary hangups in messages. It's a wonder I've ever replied to any.  |
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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago
In and around |
"Telling me that they can lick/fuck for hours or make me squirt! Yawn
Oh, yes, men obsessed with squirting make me think watch too much porn and they're just going to spend ages poking me roughly with their fingers. No thanks!"
Had that unpleasant experience, not a bloody clue! Mrs D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and the profiles or status that say " I'm leaving a week on Monday" or "after this Friday I'm gone"
Stinks of look at me desperation yet they then don't actually go! Rather than a cry for attention just leave |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's wrong with all you ladies on here...... You get all these nice comments and you still won't drop your knickers for those fine specimens of the male verity.
Shame on you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Somewhere there will be women who love to be called cum sluts..just like some of the pics they put up,face covered in gallons of cum..it does nothing for me,but some men and women will love looking at them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" My dislikes in a message are
1. Hit me up, im on KIK
2. Could you handle it?? ( with attached cock pic)
3. Do you swallow!!
Profile Dislikes-
1. Will fill this in lata.
2. Dire text/slang speak
3. Sharing phone numbers or KIK for all to see."
yuck to can you handle it! Hate that! |
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I can deal with most things..
'txt spk' puts me off so unless they're perfect in every other way then no thanks!
I'd rather gouge my eyes out with a rusty spoon than deal with "heavy cummer". I feel sick just writing it. And if someone says it, its even worse!!  |
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Text speak, deliberate spelling errors, like "norty" or "gawjus" . 1 line messages, the inclusion of "nom-nom" ,multiple mmmm. "Are you horny "
"We are free now" despite it saying clearly that we can't meet without notice.
Language like slut etc.
In other words, most messages! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have lost my mojo
Any form of rant
Snuggles and other forms of baby talk by an adult
Nom Nom
He he he by any older than 7
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I am always so disappointed if I like them.. then they have hehe in their profile or in a message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hun.. Even my friends aren't allowed to call me hun.. Babe,baby girl, doll, Princess,.. Any term of endearment from someone I don't know, I don't like.
. And any messages that start with.. 'sorry for bothering you.. But..'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have lost my mojo
Any form of rant
Snuggles and other forms of baby talk by an adult
Nom Nom
He he he by any older than 7
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I am always so disappointed if I like them.. then they have hehe in their profile or in a message "
No grown man should say hehe! |
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We like some sexy chat, but when they get right into "she likes her asshole licked..." in the first five minutes... Umm.
Also, I have always hated the word tits and/or titties. And if you throw in some bad grammar: You got you some fine titties!" Cringe!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have lost my mojo
Any form of rant
Snuggles and other forms of baby talk by an adult
Nom Nom
He he he by any older than 7
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I am always so disappointed if I like them.. then they have hehe in their profile or in a message
No grown man should say hehe!"
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I agree.. |
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"Any form of sub/Dom shit"
I have to agree with that. I've no problem people doing it but I find when people actually talk about it, it just sounds pathetic. Like a childish game. All that 'owned by my Master' bollocks Like I say, no problem people doing it but hearing people talk about it is as boring as fuck.
Anything to do with squirting.
The phrase 'totally shaven' or 'totally smooth', makes me shudder.
Profiles written in text speak or with a ridiculous amount of spelling mistakes.
An aggressive tone to a profile. Must be this. If you don't do this then I'll block you. Demanding this, that and the other. Total turn off. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
Heartily dislike the word fanny....not interested in VWE profiles and I say this on my profile....I am not overly keen on guys who say they can go for hours - I get bored easily so not a fan of the bang bang bang it's more fun getting a mouthful than having my insides pounded |
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"Profiles where all it says is 'will fill in later' and they have been here over a year
If I ever had a message from a profile with that I'd just reply I'll get back to you later "
Then that would prompt unending messages of "when?...when?...when? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me its the messages only containing... " can I suck your cock?" "Do you want a BJ"
The actual answer may be a yes.. But what happened to starting with hello? Just weird.
Oh! I'm now really self conscious about messaging women... I'm convinced I'm gonna sound like an arse. (not literally) lol. to be fair I probably do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's not much that annoys me but the 2 phrases in a message that makes me want to reply with a fuck right off are:-
Boo!
Hello trouble.
I don't know why they get to me they just do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messages "may I suck your cock?" to localboy35.
Haha... Like I said... The answer may be yes!
But the subject is phrases that put you off, so it clearly can't be  "
Damn it!!! I've been rumbled |
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""Each to their own" gets my back up everytime and when they put "lol" at the end of a sentence.Also, "no glove, no love", all instant turn offs."
Any of the old cliches put me off.
Plus if they imply that I'm not an individual, with my own unique needs, then I'm out - this is often from the so-called doms.
The tighter the definition of what they want, the more likely that it bores me to think of it.
And those dumb lols, for no appropriate reason, shout 'twat'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's not much that annoys me but the 2 phrases in a message that makes me want to reply with a fuck right off are:-
Boo!
Hello trouble.
I don't know why they get to me they just do!"
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Oh yes.. These too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's gotta be people who moan about discrimination and then have a username which plays to a discrimination. You'd never see a profile called smallcockedwhiteboy.
quality over quantity:- with 40+ veris
Only play safe with photos of mainly bareback with different cocks
People who say don't message if can't accommodate but don't accommodate themselves (what's good for the goose is good for the gander) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I receive a lot of messages that say 'can I ask you a question?' - just that!! Annoys the hell out of me!
Just say "you just did""
Your profile is the funniest one I've read in a long time. Excellent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I receive a lot of messages that say 'can I ask you a question?' - just that!! Annoys the hell out of me!
Just say "you just did""
I tried that once - never again. Like trying to flush away a floater!! |
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"I receive a lot of messages that say 'can I ask you a question?' - just that!! Annoys the hell out of me!
Just say "you just did"
I tried that once - never again. Like trying to flush away a floater!!"
Haha classic. Can always tell a manc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in the area and can meet as have a hotel booked...
I'm free now...
WUU2?
I have , cum round?
Can I fuk ur mrs?"
Yeah I always refer them to a local escort service when they harp on about a hotel. I mean, I've nothing better to do than turn up to some random's hotel for room service?
Wuu2, I always reply with 'eh?' Or 'huh'. They normally are so confused they don't come back with anything else. Thank fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it funny that women always say that one-line messages like 'Hi' and 'How are you' will be deleted but that's almost all the messages I get from women on every site!
Double standards much? |
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By *ruegent101Man
over a year ago
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"I find it funny that women always say that one-line messages like 'Hi' and 'How are you' will be deleted but that's almost all the messages I get from women on every site!
Double standards much? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Each to their own" gets my back up everytime and when they put "lol" at the end of a sentence.Also, "no glove, no love", all instant turn offs."
I agree with lol, I can't stand it.
Each to their own though I suppose  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it funny that women always say that one-line messages like 'Hi' and 'How are you' will be deleted but that's almost all the messages I get from women on every site!
Double standards much? "
Well you dudes need to stand out on here. We don't so much, so our messages are allowed to be lousier! |
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"I find it funny that women always say that one-line messages like 'Hi' and 'How are you' will be deleted but that's almost all the messages I get from women on every site!
Double standards much?
Well you dudes need to stand out on here. We don't so much, so our messages are allowed to be lousier!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, I think this is a fairly reasonable resource for unsure guys to take a look through and maybe consider.
I personally just think it's a bit of a whinge. |
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