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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Noticed I get contacted from guys demanding I send a catalogue of pics and it's all their way or no way
Do others feel this at times??"
Just say no. You don't have to comply with any demands if you don't want to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noticed I get contacted from guys demanding I send a catalogue of pics and it's all their way or no way
Do others feel this at times??"
Yeah we get that too but we ignore them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Requesting a clear face picture....of course. Its not blind date.  "
It's mainly those that contact you out the blue, chat exchange some pics and are cadgey when it comes to them sending a face pic x I hate yours first x when they are the ones contacting you first
If I message a person or couple first I attach the necessary pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Requesting a clear face picture....of course. Its not blind date.
It's mainly those that contact you out the blue, chat exchange some pics and are cadgey when it comes to them sending a face pic x I hate yours first x when they are the ones contacting you first
If I message a person or couple first I attach the necessary pics "
This If you make first contact and have none on your profile then I think its only polite to send a face pic then no time is wasted chatting if you're not their type. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Noticed I get contacted from guys demanding I send a catalogue of pics and it's all their way or no way
Do others feel this at times??"
I think, in general, women make more demands on men on here than the other way round. Perhaps not in terms of photos but certainly in terms of expectations.
I do quite often get men sending friends requests without messaging first, or sending a message saying, effectively, may I add you so I can see your friends only photos?
They would say I can't blame them for trying though I wouldn't necessarily agree.
If I wanted random strangers to be able to see my friends only photos, I'd make them public. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Requesting a clear face picture....of course. Its not blind date.
It's mainly those that contact you out the blue, chat exchange some pics and are cadgey when it comes to them sending a face pic x I hate yours first x when they are the ones contacting you first
If I message a person or couple first I attach the necessary pics "
Same...gets the can i see your face question out of the way |
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"Noticed I get contacted from guys demanding I send a catalogue of pics and it's all their way or no way
Do others feel this at times??"
I get women who will message me asking if I can send them a face pic. No, 'hello, how you doing?', just 'send me a face pic'...and they might not even have any pics themselves. Cheeky to say the least. They do similar things with friend invites as well  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Requesting a clear face picture....of course. Its not blind date.
It's mainly those that contact you out the blue, chat exchange some pics and are cadgey when it comes to them sending a face pic x I hate yours first x when they are the ones contacting you first
If I message a person or couple first I attach the necessary pics "
If someone contacts me first, I expect them to send a face pic first.
If I contact them, I'll usually send a face pic with the first message and I'll certainly be happy to send one before expecting to receive one back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have been asked on many occasions for 'normal' type pics or more explicit type pics. I ignore them. I dont do requests.
If I'm interested in meeting I will, as a matter of course, send clear face pics of the two of us. That will be on the first few messages. If however they started to demand a certain type of pics I would simply say no I'm not.
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The bigger the demand, the less the creeps get. It grows tiring very quickly.
And it can be the mark of a fantasist, needing wank fodder. Compile a collage of bits of pics, so they can get an over_iew and invite for a social - after they have appeared on cam, for everyone to look at. Invite them to the sad tossers chat room. |
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