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 they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x | |||
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x"It's personal preference, it really is that simple. | |||
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"Angry little man syndrome." What do you mean by that? I don't see anyone behaving angrily here. | |||
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x"everyone has preferences in one form or another..... even you... 
people always find a way to moan about the things that exclude them...
if you want people to respect your preferences then surely you should respect theirs.... | |||
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"Angry little man syndrome. What do you mean by that? I don't see anyone behaving angrily here." Thats because they are so small you can't see them. | |||
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x
everyone has preferences in one form or another..... even you...
people always find a way to moan about the things that exclude them...
if you want people to respect your preferences then surely you should respect theirs...." | |||
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"Angry little man syndrome. What do you mean by that? I don't see anyone behaving angrily here. Thats because they are so small you can't see them." | |||
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x"Where's the correlation between not wanting to meet and something wrong? 
Why do people concentrate on those not interested in them than those that are?
Newsflash: none of us has universal appeal. Once some people recognise that the happier they'll be! | |||
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x
Where's the correlation between not wanting to meet and something wrong?
Why do people concentrate on those not interested in them than those that are?
Newsflash: none of us has universal appeal. Once some people recognise that the happier they'll be!"
So much angst. It's just a shag.
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x
everyone has preferences in one form or another..... even you...
people always find a way to moan about the things that exclude them...
if you want people to respect your preferences then surely you should respect theirs...."If only Fab...if only! | |||
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"The comment about shoe size is a bit odd. I've never seen anyone ask a man about his shoe size and use that to decide whether to meet. Have any of the women reading this done that?" Oh god yes, shoe size is my number one criteria when it comes to choosing whether to meet someone | |||
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"Doesnt bother me im 5ft 1 so everyones taller" No Vara but there are plenty of women my height who would not go out with me just because of it. | |||
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"The comment about shoe size is a bit odd. I've never seen anyone ask a man about his shoe size and use that to decide whether to meet. Have any of the women reading this done that?" Nope! This thread is just a variation on a tired theme: my preferences are fine, if yours exclude me, why?!! | |||
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"If its just a shag i dont mind. Ifs in real life it grates. Im not in their search criteria for a relationship just because of it. If i said no you are great in every other way except your tits are too small I'd rightly be castigated. And they are excluding a whole host of eligible blokes. Good thing is I make a hot TV cos the blokes love me. Xxx" I'm intelligent, witty, solvent, a good shag if I say so myself, but many will not want to find out because of my size. How very dare they, or do I get over myself and concentrate on those wishing to meet me? I'm angst free and a happy bunny, guess which approach I've chosen to take? | |||
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"People have their own preferences for their own reasons. Lots of women meet shorter guys. I, for one, don't care about height at all. -Courtney"
I'm with you on this one; I don't care about height either as long as he is over 6' | |||
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x
Where's the correlation between not wanting to meet and something wrong?
Why do people concentrate on those not interested in them than those that are?
Newsflash: none of us has universal appeal. Once some people recognise that the happier they'll be!"
There must be atleast 5 billion people who don't want to meet me; I am happy for the 5 billion, +1
[ must check current population before quoting numbers ] | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom "Well said and funny | |||
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"... Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. ... "
And the men should insist on women being slim and pretty. As long as they themselves don't play the part of the Elephant Man without using make-up or resemble a beached whale with loads of environmentalists helping him back into the water  | |||
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"I prefer tall guys but I won't say I won't meet men based on their height. It's just another preference, like build or body shape or age." This^ I used to have a bigger preference for guys taller than me, and then realised that that didn't guarantee better meets at all. Lol. Now I don't even look at height. Lol. And plus, I'm 5'10, so I assume most guys are my height or shorter. | |||
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"... Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. ...
And the men should insist on women being slim and pretty. As long as they themselves don't play the part of the Elephant Man without using make-up or resemble a beached whale with loads of environmentalists helping him back into the water "They should? Why? Are you suggesting slim and pretty is the holy grail and what every man should want? | |||
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"If I wore six inch heels id be a tranny." So what? That French guy who stood next to Carla Bruni looked like one too; what was his name? | |||
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"I prefer tall guys but I won't say I won't meet men based on their height. It's just another preference, like build or body shape or age. This^ I used to have a bigger preference for guys taller than me, and then realised that that didn't guarantee better meets at all. Lol. Now I don't even look at height. Lol. And plus, I'm 5'10, so I assume most guys are my height or shorter. "Really im 5'11 and most of my male mates are taller. | |||
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"... Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. ...
And the men should insist on women being slim and pretty. As long as they themselves don't play the part of the Elephant Man without using make-up or resemble a beached whale with loads of environmentalists helping him back into the water
They should? Why?
Are you suggesting slim and pretty is the holy grail and what every man should want?"Dunno, ask the guy who suggested it | |||
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"If I wore six inch heels id be a tranny. So what? That French guy who stood next to Carla Bruni looked like one too; what was his name? "My attempt at humour failed I do apologise Madam | |||
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"If I wore six inch heels id be a tranny. So what? That French guy who stood next to Carla Bruni looked like one too; what was his name?
My attempt at humour failed I do apologise Madam "I guess mine failed too | |||
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"If I wore six inch heels id be a tranny. So what? That French guy who stood next to Carla Bruni looked like one too; what was his name?
My attempt at humour failed I do apologise Madam
As a gesture of apology I have fabbed one of your pics and sent you a cheque for a million pounds
I guess mine failed too " | |||
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"This^ I used to have a bigger preference for guys taller than me, and then realised that that didn't guarantee better meets at all. Lol. Now I don't even look at height. Lol. And plus, I'm 5'10, so I assume most guys are my height or shorter.
Really im 5'11 and most of my male mates are taller."I guess I'm really just talking about men on here. Only 3 guys I've met (out of about 60) have been taller than me. | |||
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"If I wore six inch heels id be a tranny. So what? That French guy who stood next to Carla Bruni looked like one too; what was his name? "Michelle | |||
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"This^ I used to have a bigger preference for guys taller than me, and then realised that that didn't guarantee better meets at all. Lol. Now I don't even look at height. Lol. And plus, I'm 5'10, so I assume most guys are my height or shorter.
Really im 5'11 and most of my male mates are taller.
I guess I'm really just talking about men on here. Only 3 guys I've met (out of about 60) have been taller than me. "Maybe you are just attracted to short guys but didn't realise | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom "Yes Demontres, There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply. And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable. | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
"But people do, sorry, you come across as someone with a chip on their shoulder. There are profiles with "no blacks" and "no oompah loompahs". I have too choices, stew in my own juice and bemoan the fact someone on a sex site/in general doesn't want to shag me, or enjoy those that do. I don't know your personal circumstances, I'm talking from my own viewpoint, no bitterness eating me up here. | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
"Rubbish. If you prefer women with large boobs, that's fine. As is wanting tall men. We all have preferences. Some people are vile when it comes to expressing those preferences but that's a different discussion completely. | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
But people do, sorry, you come across as someone with a chip on their shoulder.
There are profiles with "no blacks" and "no oompah loompahs". I have too* choices, stew in my own juice and bemoan the fact someone on a sex site/in general doesn't want to shag me, or enjoy those that do.
I don't know your personal circumstances, I'm talking from my own viewpoint, no bitterness eating me up here."*two | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
But people do, sorry, you come across as someone with a chip on their shoulder.
There are profiles with "no blacks" and "no oompah loompahs". I have too choices, stew in my own juice and bemoan the fact someone on a sex site/in general doesn't want to shag me, or enjoy those that do.
I don't know your personal circumstances, I'm talking from my own viewpoint, no bitterness eating me up here." If a profile says 'no overweight women', I move on. If it says 'no fatties', I tend to think 'that's fine because I don't want to meet arseholes' and move on.
It's not like I'm short of people who do want to meet me, and even if I was, where would be the fun in flogging a dead horse? | |||
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"I don't mind because there probably still taller than me lol "How big are your heels | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
Rubbish. If you prefer women with large boobs, that's fine. As is wanting tall men.
We all have preferences.
Some people are vile when it comes to expressing those preferences but that's a different discussion completely."Exactly: as per my oompah loompahs comment as I've seen on several profiles. | |||
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"... Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. ...
And the men should insist on women being slim and pretty. As long as they themselves don't play the part of the Elephant Man without using make-up or resemble a beached whale with loads of environmentalists helping him back into the water
They should? Why?
Are you suggesting slim and pretty is the holy grail and what every man should want?"mmm slim and pretty much my preference. xxx | |||
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"I don't mind because there probably still taller than me lol
How big are your heels "I have lots depends on the guy | |||
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"I don't mind because there probably still taller than me lol
How big are your heels
I have lots depends on the guy " | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
But people do, sorry, you come across as someone with a chip on their shoulder.
There are profiles with "no blacks" and "no oompah loompahs". I have too choices, stew in my own juice and bemoan the fact someone on a sex site/in general doesn't want to shag me, or enjoy those that do.
I don't know your personal circumstances, I'm talking from my own viewpoint, no bitterness eating me up here.
If a profile says 'no overweight women', I move on. If it says 'no fatties', I tend to think 'that's fine because I don't want to meet arseholes' and move on.
It's not like I'm short of people who do want to meet me, and even if I was, where would be the fun in flogging a dead horse?"I guess that is where the difference lies between me and some others. I don't see them as a**eholes; I see them as 'motivators' If I see "no fatties", I move on too; I am a "fatty" and unless I loose 8 kgs, will remain a "fatty". Rather than blame someone else for my laziness and lack of self-control, it actually spearheads me into moving my backside faster in the gym and putting less of the calorie and fat-rich garbage in my gob And although it still makes me jealous of those 'skinny b**tches', I don't see it as their fault either. I bet they didn't get to look so good by sitting like me in an office all day and stuffing my face with crisps and cookies He can say, "no overweights"; but I know he is talking about me; the "fatty" | |||
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"In short....this post is bringing out people with short tempers....but I'm going out shortly and will miss it all." WHERE ARE YOU GOING? You WILL stay put, or else ..... | |||
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"In short....this post is bringing out people with short tempers....but I'm going out shortly and will miss it all. WHERE ARE YOU GOING? You WILL stay put, or else ..... "I'm going to buy some heels .... | |||
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"This^ I used to have a bigger preference for guys taller than me, and then realised that that didn't guarantee better meets at all. Lol. Now I don't even look at height. Lol. And plus, I'm 5'10, so I assume most guys are my height or shorter.
Really im 5'11 and most of my male mates are taller.
I guess I'm really just talking about men on here. Only 3 guys I've met (out of about 60) have been taller than me.
Maybe you are just attracted to short guys but didn't realise "Sure. Considering I don't even realize they're shorter than me till I meet them, because I don't even look at the height info, let's put this down to "I'm unknowingly attracted to shorter men" rather than "I am the average height of men in the UK, therefore many will be shorter than me." That seems far more logical. | |||
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"In short....this post is bringing out people with short tempers....but I'm going out shortly and will miss it all. WHERE ARE YOU GOING? You WILL stay put, or else .....
I'm going to buy some heels ....
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"I am not attracted to men smaller than me. I don't over analyse it. I don't sit for hours pondering why I am not attracted to skinny males or males with long rat like faces. I've never lost sleep wondering why i'm not attracted to lard arses that weeble along with dough oozing over their elasticated trousers. Come to think of it i'm not attracted to very tall streaks of piss with gangly arms and legs......... Sorry short men. I can't answer that Q...... It is what it is." I do hope you don't get insulted or offended when people say they're not attracted to wrinkly old biddies? Purely a description of course | |||
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"I am not attracted to men smaller than me. I don't over analyse it. I don't sit for hours pondering why I am not attracted to skinny males or males with long rat like faces. I've never lost sleep wondering why i'm not attracted to lard arses that weeble along with dough oozing over their elasticated trousers. Come to think of it i'm not attracted to very tall streaks of piss with gangly arms and legs......... Sorry short men. I can't answer that Q...... It is what it is. I do hope you don't get insulted or offended when people say they're not attracted to wrinkly old biddies? Purely a description of course " Is that 'biddies' or 'buddies'? To many FabS 'straight' here so just wanted to make certain | |||
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I like what I like. I don't have to explain myself to anyone but me.
I don't give a shit about shoe size. | |||
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x"They can'trust reach to Fuck me standing up. Doggy can be problematic and don't get me started on a 69! Plus I like to wear heels and I like to be on eye-level at least with men. OK? | |||
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"This^ I used to have a bigger preference for guys taller than me, and then realised that that didn't guarantee better meets at all. Lol. Now I don't even look at height. Lol. And plus, I'm 5'10, so I assume most guys are my height or shorter.
Really im 5'11 and most of my male mates are taller.
I guess I'm really just talking about men on here. Only 3 guys I've met (out of about 60) have been taller than me.
Maybe you are just attracted to short guys but didn't realise
Sure. Considering I don't even realize they're shorter than me till I meet them, because I don't even look at the height info, let's put this down to "I'm unknowingly attracted to shorter men" rather than "I am the average height of men in the UK, therefore many will be shorter than me."
That seems far more logical. "Ok 3 out of 60 seems a bit low though out of 60 meets.If you were the average height I would have thought it would be more even. | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
But people do, sorry, you come across as someone with a chip on their shoulder.
There are profiles with "no blacks" and "no oompah loompahs". I have too choices, stew in my own juice and bemoan the fact someone on a sex site/in general doesn't want to shag me, or enjoy those that do.
I don't know your personal circumstances, I'm talking from my own viewpoint, no bitterness eating me up here.
If a profile says 'no overweight women', I move on. If it says 'no fatties', I tend to think 'that's fine because I don't want to meet arseholes' and move on.
It's not like I'm short of people who do want to meet me, and even if I was, where would be the fun in flogging a dead horse?
I guess that is where the difference lies between me and some others. I don't see them as a**eholes; I see them as 'motivators'
If I see "no fatties", I move on too; I am a "fatty" and unless I loose 8 kgs, will remain a "fatty". Rather than blame someone else for my laziness and lack of self-control, it actually spearheads me into moving my backside faster in the gym and putting less of the calorie and fat-rich garbage in my gob
And although it still makes me jealous of those 'skinny b**tches', I don't see it as their fault either. I bet they didn't get to look so good by sitting like me in an office all day and stuffing my face with crisps and cookies
He can say, "no overweights"; but I know he is talking about me; the "fatty""Where am I blaming anyone else for my weight?
I don't see people being rude as "motivators" though. I won't be bullied into changing to fit someone else's preferences.
"I don't want to meet overweight women" and "no fatties" mean the same thing but one is rude, and said by arseholes, the other isn't.
In fact, "no fatties" is likely to make me stick two fingers up and say "fuck you" rather than want to change anything because I'm fine as I am.
If *I* want to change, that's one thing, but anyone being nasty to try to make me (or "motivate" me) want to change can fuck right off.
And actually, I am losing weight at the moment, for various reasons of my own. I've 5 stone to go, so it's going to take a while. And yet, when I am slim, I am still unlikely to meet the "no fatties" people because I still won't meet arseholes. | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
But people do, sorry, you come across as someone with a chip on their shoulder.
There are profiles with "no blacks" and "no oompah loompahs". I have too choices, stew in my own juice and bemoan the fact someone on a sex site/in general doesn't want to shag me, or enjoy those that do.
I don't know your personal circumstances, I'm talking from my own viewpoint, no bitterness eating me up here.
If a profile says 'no overweight women', I move on. If it says 'no fatties', I tend to think 'that's fine because I don't want to meet arseholes' and move on.
It's not like I'm short of people who do want to meet me, and even if I was, where would be the fun in flogging a dead horse?
I guess that is where the difference lies between me and some others. I don't see them as a**eholes; I see them as 'motivators'
If I see "no fatties", I move on too; I am a "fatty" and unless I loose 8 kgs, will remain a "fatty". Rather than blame someone else for my laziness and lack of self-control, it actually spearheads me into moving my backside faster in the gym and putting less of the calorie and fat-rich garbage in my gob
And although it still makes me jealous of those 'skinny b**tches', I don't see it as their fault either. I bet they didn't get to look so good by sitting like me in an office all day and stuffing my face with crisps and cookies
He can say, "no overweights"; but I know he is talking about me; the "fatty"
Where am I blaming anyone else for my weight?
I don't see people being rude as "motivators" though. I won't be bullied into changing to fit someone else's preferences.
"I don't want to meet overweight women" and "no fatties" mean the same thing but one is rude, and said by arseholes, the other isn't.
In fact, "no fatties" is likely to make me stick two fingers up and say "fuck you" rather than want to change anything because I'm fine as I am.
If *I* want to change, that's one thing, but anyone being nasty to try to make me (or "motivate" me) want to change can fuck right off.
And actually, I am losing weight at the moment, for various reasons of my own. I've 5 stone to go, so it's going to take a while. And yet, when I am slim, I am still unlikely to meet the "no fatties" people because I still won't meet arseholes."the difference is you got yourself fat, I didn't make myself small. You can do something about it but I can't. Anyway, just wanted to make the point about double standards - never mentioned fatties. xxx | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
But people do, sorry, you come across as someone with a chip on their shoulder.
There are profiles with "no blacks" and "no oompah loompahs". I have too choices, stew in my own juice and bemoan the fact someone on a sex site/in general doesn't want to shag me, or enjoy those that do.
I don't know your personal circumstances, I'm talking from my own viewpoint, no bitterness eating me up here.
If a profile says 'no overweight women', I move on. If it says 'no fatties', I tend to think 'that's fine because I don't want to meet arseholes' and move on.
It's not like I'm short of people who do want to meet me, and even if I was, where would be the fun in flogging a dead horse?
I guess that is where the difference lies between me and some others. I don't see them as a**eholes; I see them as 'motivators'
If I see "no fatties", I move on too; I am a "fatty" and unless I loose 8 kgs, will remain a "fatty". Rather than blame someone else for my laziness and lack of self-control, it actually spearheads me into moving my backside faster in the gym and putting less of the calorie and fat-rich garbage in my gob
And although it still makes me jealous of those 'skinny b**tches', I don't see it as their fault either. I bet they didn't get to look so good by sitting like me in an office all day and stuffing my face with crisps and cookies
He can say, "no overweights"; but I know he is talking about me; the "fatty"
Where am I blaming anyone else for my weight?
I don't see people being rude as "motivators" though. I won't be bullied into changing to fit someone else's preferences.
"I don't want to meet overweight women" and "no fatties" mean the same thing but one is rude, and said by arseholes, the other isn't.
In fact, "no fatties" is likely to make me stick two fingers up and say "fuck you" rather than want to change anything because I'm fine as I am.
If *I* want to change, that's one thing, but anyone being nasty to try to make me (or "motivate" me) want to change can fuck right off.
And actually, I am losing weight at the moment, for various reasons of my own. I've 5 stone to go, so it's going to take a while. And yet, when I am slim, I am still unlikely to meet the "no fatties" people because I still won't meet arseholes.
the difference is you got yourself fat, I didn't make myself small. You can do something about it but I can't. Anyway, just wanted to make the point about double standards - never mentioned fatties. xxx"As I said, though, you are entitled to your preferences, as is everyone else. There are no double standards, except possibly in the case of a few individuals. I wouldn't criticise your preferences, the OPs preferences or anyone else's preferences, whether they exclude me or not. There's no rule saying some preferences are acceptable and some aren't, regardless of what some people think and how much some moan about it. The only issue I have with preferences are when people are rude in how they express them. I treat that as another filter. | |||
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"Doesnt bother me im 5ft 1 so everyones taller No Vara but there are plenty of women my height who would not go out with me just because of it. " Not what i said. I said height doesnt bother me... | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
But people do, sorry, you come across as someone with a chip on their shoulder.
There are profiles with "no blacks" and "no oompah loompahs". I have too choices, stew in my own juice and bemoan the fact someone on a sex site/in general doesn't want to shag me, or enjoy those that do.
I don't know your personal circumstances, I'm talking from my own viewpoint, no bitterness eating me up here.
If a profile says 'no overweight women', I move on. If it says 'no fatties', I tend to think 'that's fine because I don't want to meet arseholes' and move on.
It's not like I'm short of people who do want to meet me, and even if I was, where would be the fun in flogging a dead horse?
I guess that is where the difference lies between me and some others. I don't see them as a**eholes; I see them as 'motivators'
If I see "no fatties", I move on too; I am a "fatty" and unless I loose 8 kgs, will remain a "fatty". Rather than blame someone else for my laziness and lack of self-control, it actually spearheads me into moving my backside faster in the gym and putting less of the calorie and fat-rich garbage in my gob
And although it still makes me jealous of those 'skinny b**tches', I don't see it as their fault either. I bet they didn't get to look so good by sitting like me in an office all day and stuffing my face with crisps and cookies
He can say, "no overweights"; but I know he is talking about me; the "fatty"
Where am I blaming anyone else for my weight?
I don't see people being rude as "motivators" though. I won't be bullied into changing to fit someone else's preferences.
"I don't want to meet overweight women" and "no fatties" mean the same thing but one is rude, and said by arseholes, the other isn't.
In fact, "no fatties" is likely to make me stick two fingers up and say "fuck you" rather than want to change anything because I'm fine as I am.
If *I* want to change, that's one thing, but anyone being nasty to try to make me (or "motivate" me) want to change can fuck right off.
And actually, I am losing weight at the moment, for various reasons of my own. I've 5 stone to go, so it's going to take a while. And yet, when I am slim, I am still unlikely to meet the "no fatties" people because I still won't meet arseholes.
the difference is you got yourself fat, I didn't make myself small. You can do something about it but I can't. Anyway, just wanted to make the point about double standards - never mentioned fatties. xxx"When has anyone dismissed you as an arsehole because you won't meet women with small boobs? | |||
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"Why's it not ok for men to say "no fatties" but ok for usually women to say "no skinny's? " I'm not suggesting for one second it is ok to categorise overweight people as fatties but the same rule should apply when it comes to underweight? It isn't." Yet there's loads of profiles stating no skinny men or from ladies saying if you want a skinny minny move on.... Doesn't really bother me, just have my PC head on when reading this thread | |||
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"Id have a hard job finding a man shorter than me to be fair although is Warwick Davis on here...... "m In an Ewok costume? | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
But people do, sorry, you come across as someone with a chip on their shoulder.
There are profiles with "no blacks" and "no oompah loompahs". I have too choices, stew in my own juice and bemoan the fact someone on a sex site/in general doesn't want to shag me, or enjoy those that do.
I don't know your personal circumstances, I'm talking from my own viewpoint, no bitterness eating me up here.
If a profile says 'no overweight women', I move on. If it says 'no fatties', I tend to think 'that's fine because I don't want to meet arseholes' and move on.
It's not like I'm short of people who do want to meet me, and even if I was, where would be the fun in flogging a dead horse?
I guess that is where the difference lies between me and some others. I don't see them as a**eholes; I see them as 'motivators'
If I see "no fatties", I move on too; I am a "fatty" and unless I loose 8 kgs, will remain a "fatty". Rather than blame someone else for my laziness and lack of self-control, it actually spearheads me into moving my backside faster in the gym and putting less of the calorie and fat-rich garbage in my gob
And although it still makes me jealous of those 'skinny b**tches', I don't see it as their fault either. I bet they didn't get to look so good by sitting like me in an office all day and stuffing my face with crisps and cookies
He can say, "no overweights"; but I know he is talking about me; the "fatty"
Where am I blaming anyone else for my weight?
I don't see people being rude as "motivators" though. I won't be bullied into changing to fit someone else's preferences.
"I don't want to meet overweight women" and "no fatties" mean the same thing but one is rude, and said by arseholes, the other isn't.
In fact, "no fatties" is likely to make me stick two fingers up and say "fuck you" rather than want to change anything because I'm fine as I am.
If *I* want to change, that's one thing, but anyone being nasty to try to make me (or "motivate" me) want to change can fuck right off.
And actually, I am losing weight at the moment, for various reasons of my own. I've 5 stone to go, so it's going to take a while. And yet, when I am slim, I am still unlikely to meet the "no fatties" people because I still won't meet arseholes.
the difference is you got yourself fat, I didn't make myself small. You can do something about it but I can't. Anyway, just wanted to make the point about double standards - never mentioned fatties. xxx
When has anyone dismissed you as an arsehole because you won't meet women with small boobs?
"We are talking about different things. You are talking abouts meets and I'm talking about relationships. If I didn't go out with a woman because of yhe size of her breasts id get all sorts of criticism but a woman is fine, if I ask her out, to say no because she likes tall men...anyway...I'm moving on. Xxx | |||
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"Id have a hard job finding a man shorter than me to be fair although is Warwick Davis on here...... m
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"Of course the other good reason for a short woman to meet a tall man is that we don't have to kneel down when suckin thier cocks "But if you knelt down you couldnt reach it | |||
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"it's like jack russel they just want to hup your leg can't reach any higher "cruel but funny x | |||
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"Of course the other good reason for a short woman to meet a tall man is that we don't have to kneel down when suckin thier cocks
But if you knelt down you couldnt reach it"No but I could give some good tounge action to their knees! | |||
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"Of course the other good reason for a short woman to meet a tall man is that we don't have to kneel down when suckin thier cocks
But if you knelt down you couldnt reach it
No but I could give some good tounge action to their knees!"Also handy for spotting belly button fluff | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
But people do, sorry, you come across as someone with a chip on their shoulder.
There are profiles with "no blacks" and "no oompah loompahs". I have too choices, stew in my own juice and bemoan the fact someone on a sex site/in general doesn't want to shag me, or enjoy those that do.
I don't know your personal circumstances, I'm talking from my own viewpoint, no bitterness eating me up here.
If a profile says 'no overweight women', I move on. If it says 'no fatties', I tend to think 'that's fine because I don't want to meet arseholes' and move on.
It's not like I'm short of people who do want to meet me, and even if I was, where would be the fun in flogging a dead horse?
I guess that is where the difference lies between me and some others. I don't see them as a**eholes; I see them as 'motivators'
If I see "no fatties", I move on too; I am a "fatty" and unless I loose 8 kgs, will remain a "fatty". Rather than blame someone else for my laziness and lack of self-control, it actually spearheads me into moving my backside faster in the gym and putting less of the calorie and fat-rich garbage in my gob
And although it still makes me jealous of those 'skinny b**tches', I don't see it as their fault either. I bet they didn't get to look so good by sitting like me in an office all day and stuffing my face with crisps and cookies
He can say, "no overweights"; but I know he is talking about me; the "fatty"
Where am I blaming anyone else for my weight?
I don't see people being rude as "motivators" though. I won't be bullied into changing to fit someone else's preferences.
"I don't want to meet overweight women" and "no fatties" mean the same thing but one is rude, and said by arseholes, the other isn't.
In fact, "no fatties" is likely to make me stick two fingers up and say "fuck you" rather than want to change anything because I'm fine as I am.
If *I* want to change, that's one thing, but anyone being nasty to try to make me (or "motivate" me) want to change can fuck right off.
And actually, I am losing weight at the moment, for various reasons of my own. I've 5 stone to go, so it's going to take a while. And yet, when I am slim, I am still unlikely to meet the "no fatties" people because I still won't meet arseholes.
the difference is you got yourself fat, I didn't make myself small. You can do something about it but I can't. Anyway, just wanted to make the point about double standards - never mentioned fatties. xxx"I can't make myself white, so your point is? | |||
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"Yes it's a preference and so one just has to accept it. But it goes a bit deeper in that research has shown that over 95% of females would not contemplate dating men who are not taller than them. Women often criticise men for being shallow if they express a preference for slim pretty women, but it's a manifestation of the same thing. Anyhow, short people can fly economy and have plenty of legroom
Yes Demontres,
There is a double standard. If I say I wont go out with a woman who has small breasts, ok one can dismiss me but I am dismissed as being an arsehole. In the case of height the same does not apply.
And , of course we get on with our lives but there are double standards, in this case it is seen as acceptable.
But people do, sorry, you come across as someone with a chip on their shoulder.
There are profiles with "no blacks" and "no oompah loompahs". I have too choices, stew in my own juice and bemoan the fact someone on a sex site/in general doesn't want to shag me, or enjoy those that do.
I don't know your personal circumstances, I'm talking from my own viewpoint, no bitterness eating me up here.
If a profile says 'no overweight women', I move on. If it says 'no fatties', I tend to think 'that's fine because I don't want to meet arseholes' and move on.
It's not like I'm short of people who do want to meet me, and even if I was, where would be the fun in flogging a dead horse?
I guess that is where the difference lies between me and some others. I don't see them as a**eholes; I see them as 'motivators'
If I see "no fatties", I move on too; I am a "fatty" and unless I loose 8 kgs, will remain a "fatty". Rather than blame someone else for my laziness and lack of self-control, it actually spearheads me into moving my backside faster in the gym and putting less of the calorie and fat-rich garbage in my gob
And although it still makes me jealous of those 'skinny b**tches', I don't see it as their fault either. I bet they didn't get to look so good by sitting like me in an office all day and stuffing my face with crisps and cookies
He can say, "no overweights"; but I know he is talking about me; the "fatty"
Where am I blaming anyone else for my weight?
I don't see people being rude as "motivators" though. I won't be bullied into changing to fit someone else's preferences.
"I don't want to meet overweight women" and "no fatties" mean the same thing but one is rude, and said by arseholes, the other isn't.
In fact, "no fatties" is likely to make me stick two fingers up and say "fuck you" rather than want to change anything because I'm fine as I am.
If *I* want to change, that's one thing, but anyone being nasty to try to make me (or "motivate" me) want to change can fuck right off.
And actually, I am losing weight at the moment, for various reasons of my own. I've 5 stone to go, so it's going to take a while. And yet, when I am slim, I am still unlikely to meet the "no fatties" people because I still won't meet arseholes.
the difference is you got yourself fat, I didn't make myself small. You can do something about it but I can't. Anyway, just wanted to make the point about double standards - never mentioned fatties. xxx
As I said, though, you are entitled to your preferences, as is everyone else.
There are no double standards, except possibly in the case of a few individuals.
I wouldn't criticise your preferences, the OPs preferences or anyone else's preferences, whether they exclude me or not.
There's no rule saying some preferences are acceptable and some aren't, regardless of what some people think and how much some moan about it.
The only issue I have with preferences are when people are rude in how they express them. I treat that as another filter."Exactly! | |||
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"Why's it not ok for men to say "no fatties" but ok for usually women to say "no skinny's? " I'm not suggesting for one second it is ok to categorise overweight people as fatties but the same rule should apply when it comes to underweight? It isn't. Yet there's loads of profiles stating no skinny men or from ladies saying if you want a skinny minny move on.... Doesn't really bother me, just have my PC head on when reading this thread "And there are just as many threads saying "no fatties", "no Oompah Loompahs" etc. It doesn't make any of it acceptable. | |||
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x"Can I toss you please ? | |||
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"I'm probably going to get a lot of hate for this comment, but quite frankly, being a short man is like being a perpetually overweight woman, in terms of one's appeal on the market." Not even in same universe, curvy girls could get laid forever on here | |||
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x"It's never nice to be in a group that is specifically not of interest to a user because you are tall/short black/white but if it says so on the profile at least it has saved you wasting any more time ,just move on to a profile that suits both | |||
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"I am not attracted to men smaller than me. I don't over analyse it. I don't sit for hours pondering why I am not attracted to skinny males or males with long rat like faces. I've never lost sleep wondering why i'm not attracted to lard arses that weeble along with dough oozing over their elasticated trousers. Come to think of it i'm not attracted to very tall streaks of piss with gangly arms and legs......... Sorry short men. I can't answer that Q...... It is what it is. I do hope you don't get insulted or offended when people say they're not attracted to wrinkly old biddies? Purely a description of course " A wrinkly old biddie might be insulted but I wouldn't be. | |||
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"In case, people have misunderstood me. On here, there's not a problem, it's just sexual preference. It is in real life, relationships etc. Many women - even small women - are discounting very eligible guys for no other reason than they don't fit their 5'10" - 6'"criteria. Especially, on dating sites like POF, they modify their search to eliminate anyone under 5'10". I like small dark latin girls but I wouldn't search solely on that basis because it would exclude Marilyn Monroe, Jayne Mansfield and Diana Dors. We all have a preference but a complete exclusion on that basis is ridiculous and if the boot were on the other foot it wouldn't be acceptable " I'm curious, do you really believe people should go against their preferences and give everyone who ask a chance? | |||
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"In case, people have misunderstood me. On here, there's not a problem, it's just sexual preference. It is in real life, relationships etc. Many women - even small women - are discounting very eligible guys for no other reason than they don't fit their 5'10" - 6'"criteria. Especially, on dating sites like POF, they modify their search to eliminate anyone under 5'10". I like small dark latin girls but I wouldn't search solely on that basis because it would exclude Marilyn Monroe, Jayne Mansfield and Diana Dors. We all have a preference but a complete exclusion on that basis is ridiculous and if the boot were on the other foot it wouldn't be acceptable I'm curious, do you really believe people should go against their preferences and give everyone who ask a chance? " But of course; it is called equal opportunities and there are nine protected categories. One has to log sexual activity with each and every one of them | |||
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"In case, people have misunderstood me. On here, there's not a problem, it's just sexual preference. It is in real life, relationships etc. Many women - even small women - are discounting very eligible guys for no other reason than they don't fit their 5'10" - 6'"criteria. Especially, on dating sites like POF, they modify their search to eliminate anyone under 5'10". I like small dark latin girls but I wouldn't search solely on that basis because it would exclude Marilyn Monroe, Jayne Mansfield and Diana Dors. We all have a preference but a complete exclusion on that basis is ridiculous and if the boot were on the other foot it wouldn't be acceptable I'm curious, do you really believe people should go against their preferences and give everyone who ask a chance? " As I say I am not talking about sex on here. I think they should broaden their minds and consider other criteria that might over-ride....like, for example, a fantastic, attractive personality with a great physique and face - but too small to appear in their ctiteria search on POF. I'm not sure why that should be so controversial | |||
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"I was looking for (among other characteristics) tall men. Got talking with one man who was 1 inch shorter than me. He ticked many boxes apart from that. So we met. Twas good. "Just couldn't tip the very top boxes? I have that problem but on the flip side I don't bang my head so much | |||
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"The short guys I have met are not short in the trouser snake dept
Exactly.. My gay bff told me that years ago and I've always kept it with me...keep an eye out or down for the short guy"ssshh, it's our best kept secret | |||
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"Women are hard-wired to seek out taller men. It's just how it is. It does make being a short guy quite shitty, though. Even when you try your best to ensure every other aspect of your appearance and character is as desirable as possible, you're still often overlooked for the lofty guy to your left "That could be one reason. The other reason could be that the norm is that men are taller than women Remember the Pioneer plaques; the plaques show the nude figures of a human male and female along with several symbols that are designed to provide information about the origin of the spacecraft; the bloke depicted is taller than the gal I think I recognise that couple on FabS | |||
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x"I've heard they attract bears. | |||
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" That could be one reason. The other reason could be that the norm is that men are taller than women " That can be assimilated into my point, though. Men are generally taller than women because we evolved as a species in which males were considered the protectors of females. Women prefer taller men because, subconsciously, they associate that extra height with extra protection, and, now that I think about it, taller offspring. I appreciate that some women are able to evaluate potential partners against a whole range of criteria, like looks, intelligence, and sexual prowess...but height seems to be a deal-breaker for a lot of women. And that makes me sad. | |||
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"In case, people have misunderstood me. On here, there's not a problem, it's just sexual preference. It is in real life, relationships etc. Many women - even small women - are discounting very eligible guys for no other reason than they don't fit their 5'10" - 6'"criteria. Especially, on dating sites like POF, they modify their search to eliminate anyone under 5'10". I like small dark latin girls but I wouldn't search solely on that basis because it would exclude Marilyn Monroe, Jayne Mansfield and Diana Dors. We all have a preference but a complete exclusion on that basis is ridiculous and if the boot were on the other foot it wouldn't be acceptable I'm curious, do you really believe people should go against their preferences and give everyone who ask a chance? As I say I am not talking about sex on here. I think they should broaden their minds and consider other criteria that might over-ride....like, for example, a fantastic, attractive personality with a great physique and face - but too small to appear in their ctiteria search on POF. I'm not sure why that should be so controversial" Believe it or not most of us don't want a soul mate, a confidante a partner, just a fantasy figure for a moment or two. I can accept at 55, wearing size 20 clothes and being black I will have limited appeal and most certainly don't expect anyone to "give me a chance". I don't see why THAT should be so hard to accept. | |||
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"In case, people have misunderstood me. On here, there's not a problem, it's just sexual preference. It is in real life, relationships etc. Many women - even small women - are discounting very eligible guys for no other reason than they don't fit their 5'10" - 6'"criteria. Especially, on dating sites like POF, they modify their search to eliminate anyone under 5'10". I like small dark latin girls but I wouldn't search solely on that basis because it would exclude Marilyn Monroe, Jayne Mansfield and Diana Dors. We all have a preference but a complete exclusion on that basis is ridiculous and if the boot were on the other foot it wouldn't be acceptable I'm curious, do you really believe people should go against their preferences and give everyone who ask a chance? As I say I am not talking about sex on here. I think they should broaden their minds and consider other criteria that might over-ride....like, for example, a fantastic, attractive personality with a great physique and face - but too small to appear in their ctiteria search on POF. I'm not sure why that should be so controversial Believe it or not most of us don't want a soul mate, a confidante a partner, just a fantasy figure for a moment or two. I can accept at 55, wearing size 20 clothes and being black I will have limited appeal and most certainly don't expect anyone to "give me a chance". I don't see why THAT should be so hard to accept." You're on my list of people I'd love to meet if that helps! | |||
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"Women are hard-wired to seek out taller men. It's just how it is. It does make being a short guy quite shitty, though. Even when you try your best to ensure every other aspect of your appearance and character is as desirable as possible, you're still often overlooked for the lofty guy to your left "When it comes to nsa sex, some of us prefer taller men but are flexible. That's why I have a separate "deal breakers" section in my profile, stating the criteria where there is no flexibility. I won't, for example, meet smokers. I would, if I like a guy under 6ft, consider meeting him. Height isn't important enough to me to be a deal breaker. Smoking is. We all have our own preferences though. | |||
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"In case, people have misunderstood me. On here, there's not a problem, it's just sexual preference. It is in real life, relationships etc. Many women - even small women - are discounting very eligible guys for no other reason than they don't fit their 5'10" - 6'"criteria. Especially, on dating sites like POF, they modify their search to eliminate anyone under 5'10". I like small dark latin girls but I wouldn't search solely on that basis because it would exclude Marilyn Monroe, Jayne Mansfield and Diana Dors. We all have a preference but a complete exclusion on that basis is ridiculous and if the boot were on the other foot it wouldn't be acceptable I'm curious, do you really believe people should go against their preferences and give everyone who ask a chance? As I say I am not talking about sex on here. I think they should broaden their minds and consider other criteria that might over-ride....like, for example, a fantastic, attractive personality with a great physique and face - but too small to appear in their ctiteria search on POF. I'm not sure why that should be so controversial" Because if people only want to meet/date/shag people in a particular height range then it's up to them. Any expectation that people should be willing to meet people they think they are unlikely to want to date/shag, just to give those people the chance to prove them wrong is downright unreasonable, never mind controversial! | |||
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"In case, people have misunderstood me. On here, there's not a problem, it's just sexual preference. It is in real life, relationships etc. Many women - even small women - are discounting very eligible guys for no other reason than they don't fit their 5'10" - 6'"criteria. Especially, on dating sites like POF, they modify their search to eliminate anyone under 5'10". I like small dark latin girls but I wouldn't search solely on that basis because it would exclude Marilyn Monroe, Jayne Mansfield and Diana Dors. We all have a preference but a complete exclusion on that basis is ridiculous and if the boot were on the other foot it wouldn't be acceptable I'm curious, do you really believe people should go against their preferences and give everyone who ask a chance? As I say I am not talking about sex on here. I think they should broaden their minds and consider other criteria that might over-ride....like, for example, a fantastic, attractive personality with a great physique and face - but too small to appear in their ctiteria search on POF. I'm not sure why that should be so controversial Believe it or not most of us don't want a soul mate, a confidante a partner, just a fantasy figure for a moment or two. I can accept at 55, wearing size 20 clothes and being black I will have limited appeal and most certainly don't expect anyone to "give me a chance". I don't see why THAT should be so hard to accept. You're on my list of people I'd love to meet if that helps! " | |||
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"Doesnt bother me im 5ft 1 so everyones taller put the shrimps on the Barbie "I dont like fish, steak please | |||
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"Doesnt bother me im 5ft 1 so everyones taller put the shrimps on the Barbie
I dont like fish, steak please "Good for you Vara. But llok ay MzQT 25 hours ago. She's only 5'2" but wont even consider a relationship with anyone under 5'7" so she can wear heels. | |||
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"I see a lot of people say they don't meet short guys buts what's wrong with them they judge people on the shoe size and every thing and that's wrong because that's not true x"OP why wont you meet people who are 24 or 59? | |||
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"Doesnt bother me im 5ft 1 so everyones taller put the shrimps on the Barbie
I dont like fish, steak please
Good for you Vara. But llok ay MzQT 25 hours ago. She's only 5'2" but wont even consider a relationship with anyone under 5'7" so she can wear heels."So what? You have your preferences, she has hers. This only bothers you because it excludes you. Why should she not only meet men taller than she is when she's wearing heels? She doesn't owe anyone shorter than 5' 7" anything. Not even if they are lovely people and ideal for her in every other way. I'll never understand the amount of time and energy people spend worrying and complaining about those that don't want to meet them. Why not put that energy into looking for the people who are interested. | |||
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"I think the height issue is a submissive aspect ingrained in women from a young age. " Odd that. I think the height issue is a submissive aspect ingrained into men's thinking from a young age. | |||
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"Doesnt bother me im 5ft 1 so everyones taller put the shrimps on the Barbie
I dont like fish, steak please
Good for you Vara. But llok ay MzQT 25 hours ago. She's only 5'2" but wont even consider a relationship with anyone under 5'7" so she can wear heels."They way i see it when im in flats which is most the time. Hubs at 5'6 can balence his pint on my head. When im in heels i can hold his hand without looking like im waving down a taxi. | |||
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"I think the height issue is a submissive aspect ingrained in women from a young age. " Ha, yeah I feel really submissive when I'm Topping a 6' 4", fit, well muscled man. Ingrained, my arse. I prefer tall men but it's fuck all to do with being submissive! 
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"I think the height issue is a submissive aspect ingrained in women from a young age. " Actually i dont think thats bonkers personally | |||
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"Doesnt bother me im 5ft 1 so everyones taller put the shrimps on the Barbie
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"Doesnt bother me im 5ft 1 so everyones taller put the shrimps on the Barbie
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Good for you Vara. But llok ay MzQT 25 hours ago. She's only 5'2" but wont even consider a relationship with anyone under 5'7" so she can wear heels.
So what?
You have your preferences, she has hers.
This only bothers you because it excludes you.
Why should she not only meet men taller than she is when she's wearing heels?
She doesn't owe anyone shorter than 5' 7" anything. Not even if they are lovely people and ideal for her in every other way.
I'll never understand the amount of time and energy people spend worrying and complaining about those that don't want to meet them. Why not put that energy into looking for the people who are interested."For some people they truly, truly struggle to see why everyone isn't falling at their feet. They can have preferences, everyone else can have preferences...as long as it doesn't exclude them and they'll argue the toss trying to convince others to change their mind rather than focus their energies elsewhere. Waste of time arguing with such people: exercise in futility. | |||
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"I think the height issue is a submissive aspect ingrained in women from a young age. Actually i dont think thats bonkers personally
It is in my case. I don't have submissive aspects. If any attempts were made to ingrain them, they failed."I think the problem i see time and again is it being treated like dating. Its sex so preferences and excluding people baded on what may seem trivial is all good. We are living out fantasys not finding the perfect person for us in life | |||
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"Doesnt bother me im 5ft 1 so everyones taller put the shrimps on the Barbie
I dont like fish, steak please
Good for you Vara. But llok ay MzQT 25 hours ago. She's only 5'2" but wont even consider a relationship with anyone under 5'7" so she can wear heels.
So what?
You have your preferences, she has hers.
This only bothers you because it excludes you.
Why should she not only meet men taller than she is when she's wearing heels?
She doesn't owe anyone shorter than 5' 7" anything. Not even if they are lovely people and ideal for her in every other way.
I'll never understand the amount of time and energy people spend worrying and complaining about those that don't want to meet them. Why not put that energy into looking for the people who are interested.
For some people they truly, truly struggle to see why everyone isn't falling at their feet. They can have preferences, everyone else can have preferences...as long as it doesn't exclude them and they'll argue the toss trying to convince others to change their mind rather than focus their energies elsewhere.
Waste of time arguing with such people: exercise in futility. "Very true. "But I can't help my height/eye colour/skin colour/whatever so it's not fair to exclude me based on that. They should give me a chance to prove how great I am and what they are missing out on".
Would these people, I wonder, apply for a job they aren't qualified for and expect to be given a chance to see if they can do it?
Well, no, I'm not a brain surgeon but it's not fair to refuse me a job as a brain surgeon based on that. I might be great. You need to be more open-minded and give me a chance!
Well, no, I didn't get the grades required for the conditional university offer you made me but I am really good at lots of other things, so it's unfair if you won't give me a chance!
Well, no, I can't afford this Ferrari but that's not my fault and I could be the best Ferrari owner ever, so it's really unfair you're judging me on whether I can afford it. You should give me a chance! | |||
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"I think the height issue is a submissive aspect ingrained in women from a young age. Actually i dont think thats bonkers personally
It is in my case. I don't have submissive aspects. If any attempts were made to ingrain them, they failed.
I think the problem i see time and again is it being treated like dating. Its sex so preferences and excluding people baded on what may seem trivial is all good. We are living out fantasys not finding the perfect person for us in life"Absolutely. There are probably some who look for the same things in NSA sex partners as in life partners but certainly many don't. Even when looking for life partners though, it's not unreasonable to exclude people on criteria that seems trivial, inexplicable or unfair to others. In this country, at least, we're free to shag or date whomever we like. Those people butthurt over being excluded for some reason, whether it's something they can change or not, need to get over it. Nobody will ever appeal to absolutely everyone. | |||
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"I prefer guys taller than me. Somehow it feels a bit odd looking down on a guy "Laying naked on your back looking up with a smile there wouldn't be any height issue | |||
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"I think the height issue is a submissive aspect ingrained in women from a young age. Actually i dont think thats bonkers personally
It is in my case. I don't have submissive aspects. If any attempts were made to ingrain them, they failed.
I think the problem i see time and again is it being treated like dating. Its sex so preferences and excluding people baded on what may seem trivial is all good. We are living out fantasys not finding the perfect person for us in life
Absolutely. There are probably some who look for the same things in NSA sex partners as in life partners but certainly many don't.
Even when looking for life partners though, it's not unreasonable to exclude people on criteria that seems trivial, inexplicable or unfair to others.
In this country, at least, we're free to shag or date whomever we like.
Those people butthurt over being excluded for some reason, whether it's something they can change or not, need to get over it. Nobody will ever appeal to absolutely everyone."Yes i agree i meant reasons they think are trivial. Theres lot of reasons i thinj are trivial to be excluded when it comes to fating but for sex not so many. But those reasons are personal to the individual and ppl need to accept that and move on xx | |||
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