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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested  "
Seeing as you asked so nicely.....NO x |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Pics are enough to break the ice though? If you're attracted to me then surely you would want to get to know me?"
I can't speak for every woman on here but I find people attractive once I get to know them, not the other way round. My regulars have no public pics and yet I was attracted to them first. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But what if you you're attracted to my pics, but because I haven't written anything in my bio that turns you off? It's crazy, and lazy cause you don't want to take the time to ask questions about myself and get to know me |
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"But what if you you're attracted to my pics, but because I haven't written anything in my bio that turns you off? It's crazy, and lazy cause you don't want to take the time to ask questions about myself and get to know me"
Pics are just pics, you could be a god but if you're a jerk it makes you unattractive.
How is it lazy, for women with hundreds of messages to deal with, to not want to drag info out of another young guy's crap profile? |
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"But what if you you're attracted to my pics, but because I haven't written anything in my bio that turns you off? It's crazy, and lazy cause you don't want to take the time to ask questions about myself and get to know me"
Um. You're the one that's too lazy to write a profile and yet you demand everyone make the effort to get to know you?
Not how the world works. Lol. |
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It's like if you're looking for a job, but saying to every company who is looking for staff, "Yeah, I'm not writing a CV, why are you being so lazy and not asking why I'm perfect for the job?!"
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you're interested enough in that young guy his crap profile wouldn't matter, I've seen plenty of girls with shit profiles but they just get along with just their looks. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"But what if you you're attracted to my pics, but because I haven't written anything in my bio that turns you off? It's crazy, and lazy cause you don't want to take the time to ask questions about myself and get to know me"
You've spent more time writing that response than you did writing your profile. That to me is crazier. |
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"If you're interested enough in that young guy his crap profile wouldn't matter, I've seen plenty of girls with shit profiles but they just get along with just their looks. "
Well, then, by your logic, it's blatantly obvious that you're not interesting enough to overcome a "crap profile"...?
And girls aren't guys.
Just because guys are happy with a woman having no profile doesn't mean women should automatically be.
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"But what if you you're attracted to my pics, but because I haven't written anything in my bio that turns you off? It's crazy, and lazy cause you don't want to take the time to ask questions about myself and get to know me
You've spent more time writing that response than you did writing your profile. That to me is crazier."
LMFAO Ligeia |
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"If you're interested enough in that young guy his crap profile wouldn't matter, I've seen plenty of girls with shit profiles but they just get along with just their looks. "
I can see that the OP has been much misunderstood; rather than issuing an attention-seeking ploy of the kind we single males are all too prone to in moments of weakness, he is actually clearly engaged in some serious research here. Are you from Sydney University, OP? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you're interested enough in that young guy his crap profile wouldn't matter, I've seen plenty of girls with shit profiles but they just get along with just their looks.
I can see that the OP has been much misunderstood; rather than issuing an attention-seeking ploy of the kind we single males are all too prone to in moments of weakness, he is actually clearly engaged in some serious research here. Are you from Sydney University, OP?"
No I'm from Kent mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But what if you you're attracted to my pics, but because I haven't written anything in my bio that turns you off? It's crazy, and lazy cause you don't want to take the time to ask questions about myself and get to know me"
Post a like this say a lot.
This is how we get to know people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But what if you you're attracted to my pics, but because I haven't written anything in my bio that turns you off? It's crazy, and lazy cause you don't want to take the time to ask questions about myself and get to know me
Post a like this say a lot.
This is how we get to know people. "
I'm attracted to a few people looks wise but I think they are complete cocks to know so would never do anything. Personality is a big must for me x |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Pics are enough to break the ice though? If you're attracted to me then surely you would want to get to know me?"
Nope. If a man can't be bothered to tell me a bit about himself in his profile, I'm not going to ask a load of questions to try to find out.
I've put the effort into my profile, I'm not also going to put in the effort to find out about others.
There are loads of people who have bothered to write a profile, I'll move on to them.
Do you really think you're such a catch that women should be expected to make the effort to get to know you because you can't be bothered to write a profile? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested
No
Likewise
The difference here is she didn't ask if you would.  "
But everyone's being sarcastically smart so I'm just joining in |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested
No
Likewise "
I didn't ask you.
I don't need to trawl the forum begging for attention  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested
No
Likewise
The difference here is she didn't ask if you would. "
Some guys just can't take rejection. He obviously thinks he's something special so it's no surprise he's lashing out.
He shouldn't have asked if he didn't want to know *shrug* |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested
No
Likewise
I didn't ask you.
I don't need to trawl the forum begging for attention "
I honestly thought this site had a nice bunch of friendly people on it. Im not trawling at all. Just getting myself out there to meet decent people.Not to be trolled by bored keyboard warriors |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pics are enough to break the ice though? If you're attracted to me then surely you would want to get to know me?
Nope. If a man can't be bothered to tell me a bit about himself in his profile, I'm not going to ask a load of questions to try to find out.
I've put the effort into my profile, I'm not also going to put in the effort to find out about others.
There are loads of people who have bothered to write a profile, I'll move on to them.
Do you really think you're such a catch that women should be expected to make the effort to get to know you because you can't be bothered to write a profile?"
I've written my profile with the power of interpretive dance.
Unfortunately it wouldn't upload, so I just have a pile of pics instead  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested
No
Likewise
I didn't ask you.
I don't need to trawl the forum begging for attention
I honestly thought this site had a nice bunch of friendly people on it. Im not trawling at all. Just getting myself out there to meet decent people.Not to be trolled by bored keyboard warriors"
Nobody is trolling you at all.
You're being told you haven't done anything to tell us about who you are and you're not special enough that anyone is going to bother finding out about you.
You're accusing us of being lazy, when we're the ones that do have profiles, and you're the one that can't be arsed.
And now you are pouting and spitting your dummy because people are telling you they aren't interested.
Nobody has insulted you or "trolled" you in any way.
Decent people are telling you why they're not interested. You can learn from that and make a bit of effort or you can carry on with the strop. It's your call. |
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"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested
No
Likewise
I didn't ask you.
I don't need to trawl the forum begging for attention
I honestly thought this site had a nice bunch of friendly people on it. Im not trawling at all. Just getting myself out there to meet decent people.Not to be trolled by bored keyboard warriors"
No one is being a keyboard warrior. Lol. What, exactly, are we fighting against? Lol.
And the "sarcasm" is obviously in response to how ridiculous everyone thinks your threads are. People aren't "sarcastic" for no reason. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Pics are enough to break the ice though? If you're attracted to me then surely you would want to get to know me?
Nope. If a man can't be bothered to tell me a bit about himself in his profile, I'm not going to ask a load of questions to try to find out.
I've put the effort into my profile, I'm not also going to put in the effort to find out about others.
There are loads of people who have bothered to write a profile, I'll move on to them.
Do you really think you're such a catch that women should be expected to make the effort to get to know you because you can't be bothered to write a profile?
I've written my profile with the power of interpretive dance.
Unfortunately it wouldn't upload, so I just have a pile of pics instead "
Yeah, but you say you're not really looking for meets anyway. Still, I can dream over the photos...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested
No
Likewise
I didn't ask you.
I don't need to trawl the forum begging for attention
I honestly thought this site had a nice bunch of friendly people on it. Im not trawling at all. Just getting myself out there to meet decent people.Not to be trolled by bored keyboard warriors
Nobody is trolling you at all.
You're being told you haven't done anything to tell us about who you are and you're not special enough that anyone is going to bother finding out about you.
You're accusing us of being lazy, when we're the ones that do have profiles, and you're the one that can't be arsed.
And now you are pouting and spitting your dummy because people are telling you they aren't interested.
Nobody has insulted you or "trolled" you in any way.
Decent people are telling you why they're not interested. You can learn from that and make a bit of effort or you can carry on with the strop. It's your call."
Behave I'm not being stroppy at all that's not fair, don't paint a picture of someone you know nothing about please. I'm on here to meet decent people that's my only intention. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested
No
Likewise
I didn't ask you.
I don't need to trawl the forum begging for attention
I honestly thought this site had a nice bunch of friendly people on it. Im not trawling at all. Just getting myself out there to meet decent people.Not to be trolled by bored keyboard warriors
Nobody is trolling you at all.
You're being told you haven't done anything to tell us about who you are and you're not special enough that anyone is going to bother finding out about you.
You're accusing us of being lazy, when we're the ones that do have profiles, and you're the one that can't be arsed.
And now you are pouting and spitting your dummy because people are telling you they aren't interested.
Nobody has insulted you or "trolled" you in any way.
Decent people are telling you why they're not interested. You can learn from that and make a bit of effort or you can carry on with the strop. It's your call.
Behave I'm not being stroppy at all that's not fair, don't paint a picture of someone you know nothing about please. I'm on here to meet decent people that's my only intention. "
Me behave? That's rich!
You're coming across as stroppy and not very mature. |
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"Behave I'm not being stroppy at all that's not fair, don't paint a picture of someone you know nothing about please. I'm on here to meet decent people that's my only intention. "
Think we are all getting a good idea of what you're like, from the incessant "would you fuck me" threads, and the comments on them, that you keep making.
I'd definitely describe you as a bit "stroppy" lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested
No
Likewise
I didn't ask you.
I don't need to trawl the forum begging for attention
I honestly thought this site had a nice bunch of friendly people on it. Im not trawling at all. Just getting myself out there to meet decent people.Not to be trolled by bored keyboard warriors
Nobody is trolling you at all.
You're being told you haven't done anything to tell us about who you are and you're not special enough that anyone is going to bother finding out about you.
You're accusing us of being lazy, when we're the ones that do have profiles, and you're the one that can't be arsed.
And now you are pouting and spitting your dummy because people are telling you they aren't interested.
Nobody has insulted you or "trolled" you in any way.
Decent people are telling you why they're not interested. You can learn from that and make a bit of effort or you can carry on with the strop. It's your call.
Behave I'm not being stroppy at all that's not fair, don't paint a picture of someone you know nothing about please. I'm on here to meet decent people that's my only intention.
Me behave? That's rich!
You're coming across as stroppy and not very mature."
Really? You've got me so wrong. I was smiling when I started this thread and now you've just shat on my happiness |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested
No
Likewise
I didn't ask you.
I don't need to trawl the forum begging for attention
I honestly thought this site had a nice bunch of friendly people on it. Im not trawling at all. Just getting myself out there to meet decent people.Not to be trolled by bored keyboard warriors
Nobody is trolling you at all.
You're being told you haven't done anything to tell us about who you are and you're not special enough that anyone is going to bother finding out about you.
You're accusing us of being lazy, when we're the ones that do have profiles, and you're the one that can't be arsed.
And now you are pouting and spitting your dummy because people are telling you they aren't interested.
Nobody has insulted you or "trolled" you in any way.
Decent people are telling you why they're not interested. You can learn from that and make a bit of effort or you can carry on with the strop. It's your call.
Behave I'm not being stroppy at all that's not fair, don't paint a picture of someone you know nothing about please. I'm on here to meet decent people that's my only intention.
Me behave? That's rich!
You're coming across as stroppy and not very mature.
Really? You've got me so wrong. I was smiling when I started this thread and now you've just shat on my happiness "
It's *your* behaviour that people are getting their impression from.
You are the one in control of that, not me.
If you ask a question, you have to be prepared for an honest answer. Having a strop when you don't hear what you want is immature. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Really? You've got me so wrong. I was smiling when I started this thread and now you've just shat on my happiness
I need to high five you, Dee.
Right fucking now.
Lol"
Yeah real mature |
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"Really? You've got me so wrong. I was smiling when I started this thread and now you've just shat on my happiness
I need to high five you, Dee.
Right fucking now.
Lol"
I can't sleep for laughing now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People explained that a couple of pics on nothing on your profile made you look boring and uninteresting and lazy.
You have done nothing but argue with those who have taken the time to respond to what you asked.
An example of your response to this was this:
"But what if you you're attracted to my pics, but because I haven't written anything in my bio that turns you off? It's crazy, and lazy cause you don't want to take the time to ask questions about myself and get to know me"
So again, people explained that if you don't make yourself look interesting and stand out, they aren't going to be interested.
You then got more and more petulant about it. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"People explained that a couple of pics on nothing on your profile made you look boring and uninteresting and lazy.
You have done nothing but argue with those who have taken the time to respond to what you asked.
An example of your response to this was this:
But what if you you're attracted to my pics, but because I haven't written anything in my bio that turns you off? It's crazy, and lazy cause you don't want to take the time to ask questions about myself and get to know me
So again, people explained that if you don't make yourself look interesting and stand out, they aren't going to be interested.
You then got more and more petulant about it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really? You've got me so wrong. I was smiling when I started this thread and now you've just shat on my happiness
I need to high five you, Dee.
Right fucking now.
Lol
*holds up hand*"
Please Dee can I congratulate you and also give you a high five, people should take this site for what it is and have a laugh with it and just got with the flow and stop begging and posted crap like this.... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Really? You've got me so wrong. I was smiling when I started this thread and now you've just shat on my happiness
I need to high five you, Dee.
Right fucking now.
Lol
*holds up hand*
Please Dee can I congratulate you and also give you a high five, people should take this site for what it is and have a laugh with it and just got with the flow and stop begging and posted crap like this.... "
I'm not bothered if people post attention seeking posts. We're all after attention of one sort. We post things hoping for others to look at them and respond.
The problem is when people post wanting a particular outcome and don't take it well if they don't get it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Interested in what I attract, this is found to be interesting 
Lookswise , You look like a cute, cheeky wee bloke. I'm sure you'll do just fine on fab.. Personality permitting.  "
^Introducing someone decent in the world^ |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Interested in what I attract, this is found to be interesting
Lookswise , You look like a cute, cheeky wee bloke. I'm sure you'll do just fine on fab.. Personality permitting.
^Introducing someone decent in the world^"
Yes, if decent means "says something I want to hear rather than something I don't".
Nobody has been horrible to you on this thread and you've been given a lot of useful feedback. You just don't like it. |
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"Interested in what I attract, this is found to be interesting
Lookswise , You look like a cute, cheeky wee bloke. I'm sure you'll do just fine on fab.. Personality permitting.
^Introducing someone decent in the world^
Yes, if decent means "says something I want to hear rather than something I don't".
Nobody has been horrible to you on this thread and you've been given a lot of useful feedback. You just don't like it."
I said lookswise he's not bad looking, realistically, looks only take someone so far.
They spark initial attraction, if the personality isn't there , obviously the individual is doomed to recurring rejection and disappointment.
See the " personality permitting " caveat of my post.
A very truthful thread, the op should take note. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me personally I'm not bothered about the profile. I go by personality and looks. Having said that if the profile says I will fuck anything then it's a no no regardless of the looks n personality...oh and congratulations you got us all to look at you. |
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"If you're interested enough in that young guy his crap profile wouldn't matter, I've seen plenty of girls with shit profiles but they just get along with just their looks. "
But they have breasts and a vagina |
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"Lol Yeah pretty much a "would you fuck me" post. Boring profile aside. Just seeing if any woman/couples would be interested "
People may if you profile was less boring. Haven't we been here before...
You know if you did actually write more in your profile then you wouldn't need to keep asking this question,you'd have meets! |
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"But what if you you're attracted to my pics, but because I haven't written anything in my bio that turns you off? It's crazy, and lazy cause you don't want to take the time to ask questions about myself and get to know me"
Lazy? People are advising you you need to do more to your profile. When I see someone's profile and all it says is 'ask me' All I think is naff off if you can't be bothered writing something then I can't be bothered asking.
Are you going to be asking the same question next week,it's a little tedious when people try and help you and you don't listen you know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you're interested enough in that young guy his crap profile wouldn't matter, I've seen plenty of girls with shit profiles but they just get along with just their looks. "
The adoration they get from desperate men makes them big headed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But what if you you're attracted to my pics, but because I haven't written anything in my bio that turns you off? It's crazy, and lazy cause you don't want to take the time to ask questions about myself and get to know me"
I agree with this. If I liked the pics or even if there were no pics or profile but an interesting first message, I chat to find out more. 
There's a human being behind every profile ffs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op, I think your efforts would be better placed finding out a few things about women, like, men and women think differently about what is and isn't attractive, getting shirty with other people in a public place like the forums, is only young to get you a reputation as someone who is going to turn on people when they don't get their own way, whether its true or not.
And did you really think a man in here could get as much mail as a woman? |
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