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By *uzzb OP Man
over a year ago
nr Sherborne |
Hi
I'm mostly gay because I like to be anally stimulated. However, I still like women, but am not going to change my profile from gay to bi to suit the circumstances - I prefer to be honest. A bi-guy, when he makes love to a guy,is being gay, so not a lot of difference in reality, and can you believe what a guy says anyway?
So, are women generally offended by being approached by men who call themselves gay, or am I being stupid in not having a different profile for when I wish to contact women? |
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It works very different for every girl. I have seen profile of girls which prefer bi man or even play only with bi man
For me personally is huge turn of. As I have many gay friends when comes to sex I like man to be manly.
Anyway you likening your ass stimulated don't make you bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't even answer a message from a man who classed himself as gay, I wouldn't be offended but I'd assume that, because they're gay, they are not interested in women.
Just as I wouldn't proposition a woman while having 'straight' on my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A gay guy would put me off as I'm female and a gay guy would not be interested in me
Regardless of what you want to put on your profile if your sexually active with men and women your bi and I love bi guys so that wouldn't put me off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also what you say op makes not the least bit of sense.
If your attracted to men and women it doesn't matter what sex your with at the time your still bi"
I was thinking that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a meet last year from another site with a couple x I was fully dressed and the female wanted to try it as lesbians while her husband watched xx was hot hot |
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By *uzzb OP Man
over a year ago
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interesting comments, thanks. I can see most people are baffled, but it is the ambiguity in most of us that baffles me. If I am interested in a woman, then at that point I'm not being gay, but feel it only fair to point out that the majority of my experiences are with other guys, so I call myself gay. I suppose I am 90% gay / 5% straight / 5% bi !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The meaning of Bisexual to me is that you are attracted to members of both sex, Gay means you are only attracted to the same sex.
If a gay man came on to me I would feel that was a sign that I looked like a man... not something a woman wants to feel!
if you like men and women sexually you are bi, no matter how much you like either sex as a % of your sexuality. |
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Yes but, no, I ain't no lezza, what you mean, you're saying gay but you aint? You want it up the backdoor, so can't say straight, as bi bloke is gone gay when he gives it you? Now you want the women, so you have some front tunnel?
Whatever |
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"Hi
I'm mostly gay because I like to be anally stimulated. However, I still like women, but am not going to change my profile from gay to bi to suit the circumstances - I prefer to be honest. A bi-guy, when he makes love to a guy,is being gay, so not a lot of difference in reality, and can you believe what a guy says anyway?
So, are women generally offended by being approached by men who call themselves gay, or am I being stupid in not having a different profile for when I wish to contact women?"
If you're attracted to women too you're bi. As other people have said. It really is that simple. Plenty of women like bi men. Plenty of women don't. I can't imagine many women would jump at the chance to shag a gay man though. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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If a man claiming to be gay messaged me about meeting I'd wonder why on Earth he was approaching a woman. Gay, for a man, means sexually attracted to men only.
I wouldn't get involved because I'd consider him very confused and potentially more hassle than I want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm bisexual..
most of my sexual experiences have been with men..
Most of my experiences with women have been with a man present...
I find women attractive I find men attractive....
I am bisexual... .
And so are you OP
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So,by using that reasoning,the men on here who mostly like women, but once in a while fuck a man,really are straight. "
I occasionally like to be fucked by a man so i'm definitely a bisexualist...does fucker or fuckee make a difference? I wouldn't have thunk it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi
I'm mostly gay because I like to be anally stimulated."
So do many men but that doesn't make them gay or bi... because they like it from women... Sorry to be picky but this sentence really stood out for me here!
And yes, if you like to have intercourse with women and men then you are bi.
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"Hi
I'm mostly gay because I like to be anally stimulated. However, I still like women, but am not going to change my profile from gay to bi to suit the circumstances - I prefer to be honest. A bi-guy, when he makes love to a guy,is being gay, so not a lot of difference in reality, and can you believe what a guy says anyway?
So, are women generally offended by being approached by men who call themselves gay, or am I being stupid in not having a different profile for when I wish to contact women?"
They'd Probably be confused more than anything else as "gay" implies exclusive attraction to members of the same gender. Offended is a bit of a strong word.. People that mail me I have no physical interest in; their interest is flattering and far from offensive.
Also anal stimulation has nothing to do with sexuality.. The prostate is a sexual sweet spot for every biologically male person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" If I am interested in a woman, then at that point I'm not being gay, but feel it only fair to point out that the majority of my experiences are with other guys"
The vast majority of my sexual conquests have been with my right hand. In that point I'm not being a-sexual... |
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