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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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this is for all the single people out there....
do you class yourself as a swinger, or someone who just enjoys sex (and lots of it!)
I'd say I was the latter...which are you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I class myself as a swinger... never used to but now I go to clubs and meet with couples I do.
Before that I was just a slut looking for single male versions of me. |
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"this is for all the single people out there....
do you class yourself as a swinger, or someone who just enjoys sex (and lots of it!)
I'd say I was the latter...which are you?"
I agree I'm not a swinger as a single but when joining couples I become part of the swing world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id say a bit of both, I've had group sex with couples, they were swinging, therefore so was I, I've attended swingers clubs, I'm a member there so by definition I am also a swinger.
I also meet people one on one, that's not swinging.
Although I dont get why people are so precious about the term, some people guard the name like its a valuable commodity. Its just a word that describes a group of people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only adopted this lifestyle because my preferred situation is no longer an option.....
This lifestyle allows me to have a sex life with a degree of emotional detachment that help me deal with the circumstance I'm in......  |
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I love sex about as much as is humanly possible. I adore being around women more than I like being around oxygen. The fact that I'm not getting any at the minute is by the by  I just wouldn't see any point in putting a label on what is essentially just sex, albeit sex with a variety of people. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Technically singles are not swingers. I just shag around lol  "
Wikipedia says nothing about swingers only being couples.
I'm a swinger. I'm on Fabswingers, I go to Swingfields and swinging clubs, I have swinger friends. Ergo... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Technically singles are not swingers. I just shag around lol
Wikipedia says nothing about swingers only being couples.
I'm a swinger. I'm on Fabswingers, I go to Swingfields and swinging clubs, I have swinger friends. Ergo..."
*waits for someone to edit wikipedia* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id say a bit of both, I've had group sex with couples, they were swinging, therefore so was I, I've attended swingers clubs, I'm a member there so by definition I am also a swinger.
I also meet people one on one, that's not swinging.
Although I dont get why people are so precious about the term, some people guard the name like its a valuable commodity. Its just a word that describes a group of people"
I won't use the term 'Swinger' for myself because I'm not an elitist knob, which is the type of (some) people I think the term has been adopted by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is for all the single people out there....
do you class yourself as a swinger, or someone who just enjoys sex (and lots of it!)
I'd say I was the latter...which are you?"
Labels. Does it matter? What is the difference? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought you had to be part of a couple to be a swinger"
Some people think that.
In the 1960's.
Some people think being a swinger is a personal thing, about who you are and your attitude to sex. So anyone can be a swinger. |
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"I thought you had to be part of a couple to be a swinger
Some people think that.
In the 1960's.
Some people think being a swinger is a personal thing, about who you are and your attitude to sex. So anyone can be a swinger. "
Think I'm just someone who has sex then,it's far less confusing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is for all the single people out there....
do you class yourself as a swinger, or someone who just enjoys sex (and lots of it!)
I'd say I was the latter...which are you?"
They latter here too ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just enjoy it without the attachment that comes with dating.... The boundaries can be further apart also. I refuse to mislead someone into thinkin it might go somewhere if I know it won't from the outset. |
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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago
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I love sex and enjoy it with others. When i was in a relationship I was a swinger but now I am single I suppose I am just someone who is honest about what he wants which is sex but with a social side. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just enjoy it without the attachment that comes with dating.... The boundaries can be further apart also. I refuse to mislead someone into thinkin it might go somewhere if I know it won't from the outset. "
but do you class yourself as a swinger or not? |
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"Definitely the latter. I've never considered myself a swinging
a swinging?
My phone will get me into some serious trouble some day  
I'm thinking cheeky swinging monkey,no?!"
I'm a bit big to be a monkey possibly a gorilla |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting thread. I wonder if the term 'swinger' has such bad connotations it puts people off using it for themselves. "
Those dirty swingers are the other people that have sex with multiple partners! Eurgh!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just enjoy it without the attachment that comes with dating.... The boundaries can be further apart also. I refuse to mislead someone into thinkin it might go somewhere if I know it won't from the outset.
but do you class yourself as a swinger or not?"
I'm not really sure, wouldn't be offended if others thought I was.. I suppose I would describe myself as promiscuous (safe always until familiarity and both checked out).. Or the 1960's version of swinging, as opposed to wife swapping. Open minded about it really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting thread. I wonder if the term 'swinger' has such bad connotations it puts people off using it for themselves.
Those dirty swingers are the other people that have sex with multiple partners! Eurgh! "
It's scandalous!!  |
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