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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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which do you prefer i have tried both and much prefer the friendliness of the forum.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums, definitely xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forum x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums - I've tried chat a couple of times, but goes so fast I've no clue what's going on. I know some people much prefer it though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like talking in the forums but every now and then I like getting naked in chat 
-Courtney |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
I do like the forums, even though I did miss out on a lot of the hottest topics and socials till after the fact or the thread gets too big. Upside being I can come back to whatever thread am in say during breaks.
With the chat room it's all there in the one room at the time, depending what's the crack at that time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums....no chance of seeing a cock wanking here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never tried chat
love the forum banter |
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I used to go in chat a lot...I was never doing a lot of chatting though. It was good fun having ladies watching me though
I prefer the forums now but I wouldn't mind heading back to chat for a bit of fun every now and then. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
On the downside of both, I notice while I can report my own forum post as inappropriate, I can't block or ban myself from chat. Can someone look into this?    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've tried chat on a couple of occasions, but it's like trying to be heard in a nightclub 
I also feel as if I'm butting in on a conversation .... "hey don't look at him, look at me instead"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've tried chat on a couple of occasions, but it's like trying to be heard in a nightclub
I also feel as if I'm butting in on a conversation .... "hey don't look at him, look at me instead" "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forum too many randomers on chat xx |
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"I've tried chat on a couple of occasions, but it's like trying to be heard in a nightclub
I also feel as if I'm butting in on a conversation .... "hey don't look at him, look at me instead" "
True. It becomes pretty insane actually if a woman's on there. Not even sure why it's called chat because half the time you can't chat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what mood I'm in. I've met as many friends via chat than I have on the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ventured into chat once, private messages came up!! Not for me, forums relaxed and can catch up when time allows. Also the diversity of subject is far more interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never tried chat, it doesn't really appeal ~ but I might give it a go one day |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I enjoy forum. Never even peeped in chat rooms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do find that there is a bit more cattyness in chat, though. The last time I went in I was alone, and Marc was using a different profile and I was giving him a show while others watched...
One woman who had apparently been getting loads of attention talking to guys made a bunch of nasty comments about me about how she doesn't need to get her tits out to get attention.
Thing is, I don't go into chat to talk, I go in for cam sex so we were there for different reasons...but it's still nastier than I am used to.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do find that there is a bit more cattyness in chat, though. The last time I went in I was alone, and Marc was using a different profile and I was giving him a show while others watched...
One woman who had apparently been getting loads of attention talking to guys made a bunch of nasty comments about me about how she doesn't need to get her tits out to get attention.
Thing is, I don't go into chat to talk, I go in for cam sex so we were there for different reasons...but it's still nastier than I am used to.
-Courtney "
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Ventured into chat once, private messages came up!! Not for me, forums relaxed and can catch up when time allows. Also the diversity of subject is far more interesting "
You can set permissions on the private messages you receive to either all, friends only or none |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"I do find that there is a bit more cattyness in chat, though. The last time I went in I was alone, and Marc was using a different profile and I was giving him a show while others watched...
One woman who had apparently been getting loads of attention talking to guys made a bunch of nasty comments about me about how she doesn't need to get her tits out to get attention.
Thing is, I don't go into chat to talk, I go in for cam sex so we were there for different reasons...but it's still nastier than I am used to.
-Courtney "
Ah yes, the good old silent competition/need for attention some (on cam) girls have shows itself in some rather interesting ways. One particular lady hates me as, while she may have 99 guys worshipping at the feet of her cam, because I don't pay her any attention gets her goat so she ignores the other 99 guys and spends time hurling abuse at me, so sad lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like talking in the forums but every now and then I like getting naked in chat
-Courtney "
I would like to subscribe to this newsletter!
I'm a fan of both. I started on the forums, but I like chat for its immediacy. I'm not a patient conversationalist. Lol.
But yeah it can get nastier quicker too, but I feel that that's an advantage, cos you see people's true colours more easily.
The conversation is a bit more naturally flowing in chat, and I feel you can build rapport with people more easily. |
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"I do find that there is a bit more cattyness in chat, though. The last time I went in I was alone, and Marc was using a different profile and I was giving him a show while others watched...
One woman who had apparently been getting loads of attention talking to guys made a bunch of nasty comments about me about how she doesn't need to get her tits out to get attention.
Thing is, I don't go into chat to talk, I go in for cam sex so we were there for different reasons...but it's still nastier than I am used to.
-Courtney
Ah yes, the good old silent competition/need for attention some (on cam) girls have shows itself in some rather interesting ways. One particular lady hates me as, while she may have 99 guys worshipping at the feet of her cam, because I don't pay her any attention gets her goat so she ignores the other 99 guys and spends time hurling abuse at me, so sad lol."
Oh wow.
Yeah, people who do that are just..... incomprehensible. Lol |
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Only yesterday i descovered the fun part of forums.. And i enjoy... So.. Forum no1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do find that there is a bit more cattyness in chat, though. The last time I went in I was alone, and Marc was using a different profile and I was giving him a show while others watched...
One woman who had apparently been getting loads of attention talking to guys made a bunch of nasty comments about me about how she doesn't need to get her tits out to get attention.
Thing is, I don't go into chat to talk, I go in for cam sex so we were there for different reasons...but it's still nastier than I am used to.
-Courtney
Ah yes, the good old silent competition/need for attention some (on cam) girls have shows itself in some rather interesting ways. One particular lady hates me as, while she may have 99 guys worshipping at the feet of her cam, because I don't pay her any attention gets her goat so she ignores the other 99 guys and spends time hurling abuse at me, so sad lol."
Don't ignore me then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums |
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Paul doesn't go in the chat rooms as he cant keep up but we both like the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chat is OK, but forums attract a better class of people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do find that there is a bit more cattyness in chat, though. The last time I went in I was alone, and Marc was using a different profile and I was giving him a show while others watched...
One woman who had apparently been getting loads of attention talking to guys made a bunch of nasty comments about me about how she doesn't need to get her tits out to get attention.
Thing is, I don't go into chat to talk, I go in for cam sex so we were there for different reasons...but it's still nastier than I am used to.
-Courtney
Ah yes, the good old silent competition/need for attention some (on cam) girls have shows itself in some rather interesting ways. One particular lady hates me as, while she may have 99 guys worshipping at the feet of her cam, because I don't pay her any attention gets her goat so she ignores the other 99 guys and spends time hurling abuse at me, so sad lol."
Hell have no fury like a cam woman ignored! |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"Chat is OK, but forums attract a better class of people"
You must be new! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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chat's good if you can keep up with chat and there's some fun people in.
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Forum. The chat room is less reasoned intercourse than here |
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"Forum. The chat room is less reasoned intercourse than here"
You can get intercourse on here ???! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forum. The chat room is less reasoned intercourse than here
You can get intercourse on here ???! "
Well "I" can, yes!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Forum. The chat room is less reasoned intercourse than here
You can get intercourse on here ???! "
Sometimes.......but its usually Mrs Thumb and her four daughters wink wink |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like talking in the forums but every now and then I like getting naked in chat
-Courtney "
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I used to go in chat a lot but then discovered the forums and prefer it in here now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to like chat rooms when I was a bit younger but I'm not massively used to the dynamic anymore.
I'd like to see Courtney get naked though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
I used chat many, many years ago and enjoyed it. Had many great nights of banter.
I then got bored of all the hi's and bye's.
Enjoy the forums better, but get equally bored at times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums...chat just seems to be full of blokes wanking whilst telling a headless torso, that they're gorgeous whilst asking if they'll watch them on cam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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forums definitely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forum |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
I like and use both for different reasons  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Forum. Chat is too hard to follow and the chance of there being anyone in there I want to chat to, or watch, is low. |
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Can't keep up with chat I never know who's talking to me so forum for me |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I ventured in for the first time in ages the other night. One thing I noticed in the past, especially if I have my cam on, is how much easier it is to float under the radar if I use the couples profile rather than my usual single one. I did once get d*unk on a night out and got my boobs out on cam though.  |
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"I ventured in for the first time in ages the other night. One thing I noticed in the past, especially if I have my cam on, is how much easier it is to float under the radar if I use the couples profile rather than my usual single one. I did once get d*unk on a night out and got my boobs out on cam though. "
You devil you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I ventured in for the first time in ages the other night. One thing I noticed in the past, especially if I have my cam on, is how much easier it is to float under the radar if I use the couples profile rather than my usual single one. I did once get d*unk on a night out and got my boobs out on cam though. "
That must have been a lovely sight xx. |
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it all depends what you are after at the time if it is a quick perv and random pervy chat chatrooms are great if you want something that can actually last a little longer either for serious chats eg EU, USpresident etc or for fun hot or not etc and knowing where to find each subject forums so yea both are worth the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chat is OK, but forums attract a better class of people
You must be new! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forum for me. I find chatrooms too fiddly |
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"I'm a forum fan. It's led to some interesting experiences. Especially seeing bladeys face when dan showed off his piercing lol
Shhhh it didn't happen........ happy place happy place la la la"
Hahahahaha you loved it really |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
Chat rooms for me, definitely. It's like a condensed version of the inbox system, much quicker to decide if there is a rapport, and I can quickly rule someone 'in' or 'out' within 10 mins or so (that said, there are a lot of 'out' type comments made/dick-cams etc - thank you Fab, for the Private Notes facility!).
If I have a solid 10 minutes + to spare, I go to the chat room. But Forums are great for when I only have a couple of minutes to spare ... threads are still there, when I next have a few minutes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Forum for me. I find chatrooms too fiddly "
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"I'm a forum fan. It's led to some interesting experiences. Especially seeing bladeys face when dan showed off his piercing lol
Shhhh it didn't happen........ happy place happy place la la la
Hahahahaha you loved it really "
Still having nightmares |
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"I'm a forum fan. It's led to some interesting experiences. Especially seeing bladeys face when dan showed off his piercing lol
Shhhh it didn't happen........ happy place happy place la la la
Hahahahaha you loved it really
Still having nightmares "
Booby hug to soothe your fears? |
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"I'm a forum fan. It's led to some interesting experiences. Especially seeing bladeys face when dan showed off his piercing lol
Shhhh it didn't happen........ happy place happy place la la la
Hahahahaha you loved it really
Still having nightmares
Booby hug to soothe your fears? "
Fuckinel he's not got them to has he  |
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Isn't this like being stood in McDonald's and asking which do you prefer mc Donald's or gregs |
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Forums as the topics are varied...the chat rooms are somewhat limited by their very nature |
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"I'm a forum fan. It's led to some interesting experiences. Especially seeing bladeys face when dan showed off his piercing lol
Shhhh it didn't happen........ happy place happy place la la la
Hahahahaha you loved it really
Still having nightmares
Booby hug to soothe your fears?
Fuckinel he's not got them to has he "
I meant from me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For chatting flirting and good banter I will always stick to the forums, I sometimes go into chat but it's been awhile since I had a actual conversation with anybody in there, I normally find a couples cam, Single Female or ones that are flirting with each other and watch them both, Seen a few from the forum and a few local couples but I don't/haven't let on I was watching them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really get chat
I don't have a can so no point being in there |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"For chatting flirting and good banter I will always stick to the forums, I sometimes go into chat but it's been awhile since I had a actual conversation with anybody in there, I normally find a couples cam, Single Female or ones that are flirting with each other and watch them both, Seen a few from the forum and a few local couples but I don't/haven't let on I was watching them
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Um, they can see who's watching... |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
I haven't used chat for a while. Maria. As a couple we have tried to use chat when we are out but it gets blocked because wherever we are says it has porn content. Bloody annoying |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"I haven't used chat for a while. Maria. As a couple we have tried to use chat when we are out but it gets blocked because wherever we are says it has porn content. Bloody annoying "
I meant to say that I use forums more just now but chat is a better way if and when we can get it to work for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For chatting flirting and good banter I will always stick to the forums, I sometimes go into chat but it's been awhile since I had a actual conversation with anybody in there, I normally find a couples cam, Single Female or ones that are flirting with each other and watch them both, Seen a few from the forum and a few local couples but I don't/haven't let on I was watching them
Um, they can see who's watching..."
I'm not sure if they would notice me amongst the hundreds who are watching
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"For chatting flirting and good banter I will always stick to the forums, I sometimes go into chat but it's been awhile since I had a actual conversation with anybody in there, I normally find a couples cam, Single Female or ones that are flirting with each other and watch them both, Seen a few from the forum and a few local couples but I don't/haven't let on I was watching them
Um, they can see who's watching...
I'm not sure if they would notice me amongst the hundreds who are watching
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Ah. I never got hundreds watching when I ventured in. But I did spot who was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums but i am fond of chat as that's where i started in here and where i got my first meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chat. It's a lot easier to get to know people. Easier for a female and a couple that show the female, but many men succeed too. It's just about joining in with what's going on at the time and talking to all, not focusing on one and ignoring the rest in the conversation. |
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I was a chat virgin until the other night, don't think I'll be going back any time soon. Ma cam doesn't seem to work in there anyway |
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From my perspective chat has nothing to offer ? |
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I've had some great times in chat and met some good people from there too.
Most if it is banal drivel but when some like minded people are in it can be good.
The biggest problem is the cam bunnies in the regional rooms, dragging all the dribblers in the room after them to direct them. |
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"I was a chat virgin until the other night, don't think I'll be going back any time soon. Ma cam doesn't seem to work in there anyway "
I was there, what more do you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From my perspective chat has nothing to offer ?"
What does the forum have to offer? |
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Cant cope with the chat rooms cant keep up especially when the pm boxes pop up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cant cope with the chat rooms cant keep up especially when the pm boxes pop up "
I have the pms turned off. I can't deal with them either, well not on top of main chat. |
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"I was a chat virgin until the other night, don't think I'll be going back any time soon. Ma cam doesn't seem to work in there anyway
I was there, what more do you want "
Well yes there was that
Granny amused me with her inane ramblings as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By asking this question in the Forums then you are going to get a high pro forum response personally I like both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forum.. It feels less like people are being nice just to get in your knickers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cant cope with the chat rooms cant keep up especially when the pm boxes pop up "
All sounds a bit full on, cba will all that multi tasking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely forum. So much easier to speak with people. And it doesn't just involve a constant stream of "show us that ass/tits" or any combination of the wonderful substitutes for vagina or "large cock on cam babe, do you watch?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No people just ask you to check their photos (in the forum) to receive compliments, to make sure cock is ok etc. The 2 are pretty similar with the range of topics discussed. Only in chat the conversation is quicker and doesn't get cut off over so many comments. Also, both chat and forums ban for different reasons, so I could say something in here and be banned for it, but in chat it wouldn't matter.
For me chat is a lot easier to meet people, yes it can be overwhelming at first, but the conversations are instant and make you stand out more than putting a few comments on a forum post. I tend to stick to the regional rooms, as they're the better places for chatting, with the occasional idiot coming in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Cali) Much prefers the forums, but Lee prefers the chat rooms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are prepared to go on cam your chances of getting a meet or just engaging in conversation will increase, But it moves way to fast for me and is full of random comments,
Even worse then the forums
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Forum.. It feels less like people are being nice just to get in your knickers "
If anything I've observed the opposite. More (guys) agreeing with (women) on forums to secure a future meet, with the opposite risking Fabicide which at least one other forumite will be quick to provide the link to in event of future debate. And yes, has happened to me, in fact I got called a troll for it.
In chat however you can have a difference if opinion rarely with negative consequence and most moving on by the next day as so many things get said in chat.
Oh crap, just realised I disagreed with you on a forum inadvertently risking Fabicide |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forum.. It feels less like people are being nice just to get in your knickers
If anything I've observed the opposite. More (guys) agreeing with (women) on forums to secure a future meet, with the opposite risking Fabicide which at least one other forumite will be quick to provide the link to in event of future debate. And yes, has happened to me, in fact I got called a troll for it.
In chat however you can have a difference if opinion rarely with negative consequence and most moving on by the next day as so many things get said in chat.
Oh crap, just realised I disagreed with you on a forum inadvertently risking Fabicide "
Hot guys can never commit fabicide btw.
At least in chat you can have a laugh with a few people in there who will just chat to anypne about anything. And it's fast turnover so doesn't get boring.
And yeah you get people being blatant and outright ask you for a meet/fuck/cam sex, whereas in the forums it's more sneakily and looks more desperate. Even more so when people make topics skirting round what they really want to say and then PM any female who replies in the hope of a fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chat in forums really enjoy and has got me chatting privately to maybe people that wouldn't have chatted to me as get to see someone personally more I'd say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No people just ask you to check their photos (in the forum) to receive compliments, to make sure cock is ok etc. The 2 are pretty similar with the range of topics discussed. Only in chat the conversation is quicker and doesn't get cut off over so many comments. Also, both chat and forums ban for different reasons, so I could say something in here and be banned for it, but in chat it wouldn't matter.
For me chat is a lot easier to meet people, yes it can be overwhelming at first, but the conversations are instant and make you stand out more than putting a few comments on a forum post. I tend to stick to the regional rooms, as they're the better places for chatting, with the occasional idiot coming in."
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over a year ago
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"which do you prefer i have tried both and much prefer the friendliness of the forum.
Silverspirit.... "
Seems that most prefer the forum.....just ventured in to the chat to get one last opinion for myself,the usual hi to the chatters with no response
I wonder how many would say hi if i was a couple or single fem ?????????.
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I do find that there is a bit more cattyness in chat, though. The last time I went in I was alone, and Marc was using a different profile and I was giving him a show while others watched...
One woman who had apparently been getting loads of attention talking to guys made a bunch of nasty comments about me about how she doesn't need to get her tits out to get attention.
Thing is, I don't go into chat to talk, I go in for cam sex so we were there for different reasons...but it's still nastier than I am used to.
-Courtney "
I know what you mean when I first went on cam in chat 2 regular chat users said somethings that were very unpleasant about me but after time they got to know me and accepted me as no longer a 'threat'.
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"which do you prefer i have tried both and much prefer the friendliness of the forum.
Silverspirit....
Seems that most prefer the forum.....just ventured in to the chat to get one last opinion for myself,the usual hi to the chatters with no response
I wonder how many would say hi if i was a couple or single fem ?????????.
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Depends on the room you go in, how many are in the room etc.. I know people that say hi to everyone that come in and say hi. As for saying hi if it's a female or couple, I never look to see what status they have, so makes no difference to me. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
".....just ventured in to the chat to get one last opinion for myself,the usual hi to the chatters with no response"
You should try Northern Swingers. Lots of Midlanders chat in Northern, because we are so friendly x |
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over a year ago
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"I do find that there is a bit more cattyness in chat, though. The last time I went in I was alone, and Marc was using a different profile and I was giving him a show while others watched...
One woman who had apparently been getting loads of attention talking to guys made a bunch of nasty comments about me about how she doesn't need to get her tits out to get attention.
Thing is, I don't go into chat to talk, I go in for cam sex so we were there for different reasons...but it's still nastier than I am used to.
-Courtney
I know what you mean when I first went on cam in chat 2 regular chat users said somethings that were very unpleasant about me but after time they got to know me and accepted me as no longer a 'threat'.
Red"
Sorry typo...
It can definitely be a bitch fest on chat... The regulars do seem to defend their territory until they accept someone into their group....
I've watched the pack behaviour on many occasions |
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over a year ago
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"I do find that there is a bit more cattyness in chat, though. The last time I went in I was alone, and Marc was using a different profile and I was giving him a show while others watched...
One woman who had apparently been getting loads of attention talking to guys made a bunch of nasty comments about me about how she doesn't need to get her tits out to get attention.
Thing is, I don't go into chat to talk, I go in for cam sex so we were there for different reasons...but it's still nastier than I am used to.
-Courtney
I know what you mean when I first went on cam in chat 2 regular chat users said somethings that were very unpleasant about me but after time they got to know me and accepted me as no longer a 'threat'.
Red
Sorry typo...
It can definitely be a bitch fest on chat... The regulars do seem to defend their territory until they accept someone into their group....
I've watched the pack behaviour on many occasions "
A lot like here at times, eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer chat, but i'm trying to get into the forums more, as it seems much more active than the chat with much more variety of discussion. Seems to be the same things in chat over and over.
Px |
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Forum is always good fun and a mix of lighthearted and more serious topics ... Chat is also great fun though but usually reserved for flirty chat
So anyone fancy a chat feel free to hit me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer chat, but i'm trying to get into the forums more, as it seems much more active than the chat with much more variety of discussion. Seems to be the same things in chat over and over.
Px"
Lots of guys in there asking exceptinally personal things.....forum seems to be a great place to chat to folks and have great banter |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
Forums every time.
Chat is far too technical for my brain to juggle all the steps required to keep pace with everyone, let alone getting online in the first place!
I've only been on Chat twice and was in a state of panic each time as I tried to work my way through it. Technology often loses me in life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Forums...chat just seems to be full of blokes wanking whilst telling a headless torso, that they're gorgeous whilst asking if they'll watch them on cam."
this as well
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forum, chat just flys by... and you can't get a word in edgeways |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums, definitely!
I don't use the chatrooms that often, but when I do it's to get myself off due to my exhibitionist side |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
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I'm more a chatroom person. Not really into forums. |
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Met more people from chat than forums but only pop in now and then. However, some ladies can get rather bitchy if you start getting attention.
Occasionally pop in the directing rooms and Domme the wankers. Quite funny |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"I'm more a chatroom person. Not really into forums. "
Aren't you just Elfie |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs! |
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"If you are prepared to go on cam your chances of getting a meet or just engaging in conversation will increase, But it moves way to fast for me and is full of random comments,
Even worse then the forums
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I don't cam in chat and I've had meets from there |
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over a year ago
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Whenever i go into chat i get 20 fellas all saying hi and i cant chat to them all so first i feel rude for picking one at random. Thrn said randomer along with the others ive ignored say "watch me wank V please". No matter how many times i say no they carry on amd wont take no for answer.
Im a forum girl through and through. Popped on last night and it was exactly the same... |
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"which do you prefer i have tried both and much prefer the friendliness of the forum.
Silverspirit.... "
Forums are better in that you can have an intelligent debate, chatrooms seem to be more oh I shagged xyz last night, I'm gonna bum you etc etc etc, mundane chat most of the time
I love a good debate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs!
persistence pays off. never give up on something easily. Best way for a single male in the chatrooms is to just join in and have a laugh. Some seem to think it's all sex talk...that'd get boring and the conversation would run dry pretty quick
I am glad I left the chat room behind for a little while and ventured into the forums. It changed my perspective and I met some lovely people who I possibly wouldn't have in the chat rooms. "
of course, you have different people using one or the other. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs!
persistence pays off. never give up on something easily. Best way for a single male in the chatrooms is to just join in and have a laugh. Some seem to think it's all sex talk...that'd get boring and the conversation would run dry pretty quick
I am glad I left the chat room behind for a little while and ventured into the forums. It changed my perspective and I met some lovely people who I possibly wouldn't have in the chat rooms. "
Oi! You know I'm in both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"which do you prefer i have tried both and much prefer the friendliness of the forum.
Silverspirit....
Forums are better in that you can have an intelligent debate, chatrooms seem to be more oh I shagged xyz last night, I'm gonna bum you etc etc etc, mundane chat most of the time
I love a good debate"
I too enjoy a good debate. I've had a fair few here and I can say it's been some well put together retorts I've seen whilst being a fence sitter too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs!
persistence pays off. never give up on something easily. Best way for a single male in the chatrooms is to just join in and have a laugh. Some seem to think it's all sex talk...that'd get boring and the conversation would run dry pretty quick
I am glad I left the chat room behind for a little while and ventured into the forums. It changed my perspective and I met some lovely people who I possibly wouldn't have in the chat rooms.
Oi! You know I'm in both "
I did phrase it in a fantastic way, using some and possibly. There are obviously the exceptions to this |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs!
persistence pays off. never give up on something easily. Best way for a single male in the chatrooms is to just join in and have a laugh. Some seem to think it's all sex talk...that'd get boring and the conversation would run dry pretty quick
I am glad I left the chat room behind for a little while and ventured into the forums. It changed my perspective and I met some lovely people who I possibly wouldn't have in the chat rooms.
Oi! You know I'm in both
I did phrase it in a fantastic way, using some and possibly. There are obviously the exceptions to this"
Better.....
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over a year ago
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"I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs!
persistence pays off. never give up on something easily. Best way for a single male in the chatrooms is to just join in and have a laugh. Some seem to think it's all sex talk...that'd get boring and the conversation would run dry pretty quick
I am glad I left the chat room behind for a little while and ventured into the forums. It changed my perspective and I met some lovely people who I possibly wouldn't have in the chat rooms.
Oi! You know I'm in both
I did phrase it in a fantastic way, using some and possibly. There are obviously the exceptions to this
Better.....
;-)"
will you be frequenting both again tonight? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really like the forum and reading what all you wonderful UK people say...even though I don't get most of the references to politics and such. I don't even care to answer my mail any more on fab. I prefer just to linger around the forum. Way more interesting....
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs!
persistence pays off. never give up on something easily. Best way for a single male in the chatrooms is to just join in and have a laugh. Some seem to think it's all sex talk...that'd get boring and the conversation would run dry pretty quick
I am glad I left the chat room behind for a little while and ventured into the forums. It changed my perspective and I met some lovely people who I possibly wouldn't have in the chat rooms.
Oi! You know I'm in both
I did phrase it in a fantastic way, using some and possibly. There are obviously the exceptions to this
Better.....
;-)
will you be frequenting both again tonight? "
Nooooo..... Did myself a mischief with my shenanigans of last 24hours! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went through a chat phase for a time and it was amusing and appealed to my exhibitionist tendencies. There were one of two good bits of banter, but sadly few and far between. Essentially I got bored. I poke my nose in every now and then, but at the mo it's not floating my boat so forums all the way.
There's more subject variety in the forums, better banter and some of my best meets have been as a result of forum frivolities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Went on chat when I first joined and hated it but I love forum |
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Forum all the way !!! Great fun plenty of banter and from there stems the odd coffee |
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To test, just been in chat for a couple of hours.
Some really nice folk but usual head butting stags, wanking idiots and passive aggressive women make it an awkward place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs!
persistence pays off. never give up on something easily. Best way for a single male in the chatrooms is to just join in and have a laugh. Some seem to think it's all sex talk...that'd get boring and the conversation would run dry pretty quick
I am glad I left the chat room behind for a little while and ventured into the forums. It changed my perspective and I met some lovely people who I possibly wouldn't have in the chat rooms.
Oi! You know I'm in both
I did phrase it in a fantastic way, using some and possibly. There are obviously the exceptions to this
Better.....
;-)
will you be frequenting both again tonight?
Nooooo..... Did myself a mischief with my shenanigans of last 24hours! "
Ah, a little mischief won't hurt every now and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both use both |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs!
persistence pays off. never give up on something easily. Best way for a single male in the chatrooms is to just join in and have a laugh. Some seem to think it's all sex talk...that'd get boring and the conversation would run dry pretty quick
I am glad I left the chat room behind for a little while and ventured into the forums. It changed my perspective and I met some lovely people who I possibly wouldn't have in the chat rooms.
Oi! You know I'm in both
I did phrase it in a fantastic way, using some and possibly. There are obviously the exceptions to this
Better.....
;-)
will you be frequenting both again tonight?
Nooooo..... Did myself a mischief with my shenanigans of last 24hours!
Ah, a little mischief won't hurt every now and then. "
Ooh I dunno, it's very tender!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs!
persistence pays off. never give up on something easily. Best way for a single male in the chatrooms is to just join in and have a laugh. Some seem to think it's all sex talk...that'd get boring and the conversation would run dry pretty quick
I am glad I left the chat room behind for a little while and ventured into the forums. It changed my perspective and I met some lovely people who I possibly wouldn't have in the chat rooms.
Oi! You know I'm in both
I did phrase it in a fantastic way, using some and possibly. There are obviously the exceptions to this
Better.....
;-)
will you be frequenting both again tonight?
Nooooo..... Did myself a mischief with my shenanigans of last 24hours!
Ah, a little mischief won't hurt every now and then.
Ooh I dunno, it's very tender!! "
Ooh it must have been rather fun in the early hours |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs!
persistence pays off. never give up on something easily. Best way for a single male in the chatrooms is to just join in and have a laugh. Some seem to think it's all sex talk...that'd get boring and the conversation would run dry pretty quick
I am glad I left the chat room behind for a little while and ventured into the forums. It changed my perspective and I met some lovely people who I possibly wouldn't have in the chat rooms.
Oi! You know I'm in both
I did phrase it in a fantastic way, using some and possibly. There are obviously the exceptions to this
Better.....
;-)
will you be frequenting both again tonight?
Nooooo..... Did myself a mischief with my shenanigans of last 24hours!
Ah, a little mischief won't hurt every now and then.
Ooh I dunno, it's very tender!!
Ooh it must have been rather fun in the early hours "
It was ALL good.....! |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm more a chatroom person. Not really into forums.
Aren't you just Elfie "
Hi hanky dear *waves* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has to be the forum for me.... I find the chat too fast especially as I chat on the forums while doing other things at home (it's true, I can multi task)
Lovely friendly bunch on the forums too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've checked out the chat rooms but as a shy and retiring type I get all tongue tied and never know how to play |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm more a chatroom person. Not really into forums.
Aren't you just Elfie
Hi hanky dear *waves* "
You alright gorgeous? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find the forum suits my extremely slow rate of one finger typing a lot better than chat.
The forums are a lot funnier too |
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over a year ago
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"I have changed my stand point on this. Previously, I was pro forum but now I'm back to fence hopping between the two. They both have their perks and if used in conjunction can make for a rather pleasant time on fabs!
persistence pays off. never give up on something easily. Best way for a single male in the chatrooms is to just join in and have a laugh. Some seem to think it's all sex talk...that'd get boring and the conversation would run dry pretty quick
I am glad I left the chat room behind for a little while and ventured into the forums. It changed my perspective and I met some lovely people who I possibly wouldn't have in the chat rooms.
Oi! You know I'm in both
I did phrase it in a fantastic way, using some and possibly. There are obviously the exceptions to this
Better.....
;-)
will you be frequenting both again tonight?
Nooooo..... Did myself a mischief with my shenanigans of last 24hours!
Ah, a little mischief won't hurt every now and then.
Ooh I dunno, it's very tender!!
Ooh it must have been rather fun in the early hours
It was ALL good.....! "
Glad to be of assistance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been in chat. Too scary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never been in chat. Too scary."
It's funny sometimes, usually most people are friendly, but you see the occasional guy chat you up as soon as you go in, you ignore him or reply saying something and he goes off to chat someone else up... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its great if you have a pair of tits...not so great if you have a cock |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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I like both ... I've gotten to know people in both the forum and one chat room quite local to me. Think it's quicker to make friends in chat though. |
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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago
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"Its great if you have a pair of tits...not so great if you have a cock "
I prefer the forum for this reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forum for me definitely!
When doing normal chatting I find it a little dull as there's only one other person involved - not lots!
Unless you mean the chat rooms?
Only tried that once and he kept shoving his hand down his trackies so I left! |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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solved this one if on computer just open two tabs simple really (i dont like decisions lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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chatrooms for him - forums for me - |
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By *jj46Man
over a year ago
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I've been on here 2 weeks found the forum a good laugh with the banter and starting to get to know people 2no time around and found this site better plus every ones been cool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used chat many, many years ago and enjoyed it. Had many great nights of banter.
I then got bored of all the hi's and bye's.
Enjoy the forums better, but get equally bored at times"
all depends on who is in chat and who has commented on forum and thread subject
obviously if you ask which is best on the forum, all forum _iewers will agree its the forum
same as; if you ask the question in chat, the ones in chat will say chat
why not enjoy the best of both worlds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forums, definitely xx"
not that good to make ya stay then unlos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums...may have its wankers but at least they ain't performing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have like to have thought that chat would have evolved from when I used chat rooms as a kid but no you still have grown men spamming demands "get ur tits owt saucysarah1975" over and over plus getting hit with waves and waves of "txt spk"
Maybe I went in the rooms at the wrong time but I thought it was gash and quickly scarpered |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind either...
plus I often get ignored on both mediums anyway
but I seem to have been stuck in the forums for a while..so I may venture back into the chatrooms soon..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I have difficulty keeping up with the forums |
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I am dyslexic and i need a bit longer to get my thoughts down in a way other can understand 
