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By *odareyou OP Man over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Reinforcement...

So if someone wanted to change a habit or behaviour of yours ...

What would do it.?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I wouldn't change a behaviour based on someone else's request of me.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

Nothing would, you can only change something if you yourself wants to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of money.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would depend on if I wanted to please that person enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing would, you can only change something if you yourself wants to "

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I wouldn't change a behaviour based on someone else's request of me."

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I wouldn't change a behaviour based on someone else's request of me."

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"I wouldn't change a behaviour based on someone else's request of me."
unless it meant sex obviously

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"I wouldn't change a behaviour based on someone else's request of me."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Reinforcement...

So if someone wanted to change a habit or behaviour of yours ...

What would do it.?"

Have you been getting ideas from Sheldon?

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

If I want to change the way I behave, I will. But, no one else can make me change it. I would listen to advise or suggestions, but it is my decision.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I wouldn't change a behaviour based on someone else's request of me.unless it meant sex obviously "

good for you, enjoy it when it happens

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

It would depend who it was and the context.

If for instance I was consistently late for work the threat of losing my job would make me either turn up on time or resign.

If a neighbour asked me to stop planting beetroot in my garden nothing would make me change that behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on what it is. Like, I bite my nails. Not a nice habit. If I was with someone who didn't like it I'd try and stop. Indeed I have done in the past. Shame her bad habit didn't stop, but that's another story

If you're talking major personality changes, then I probbaly wouldn't change

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

What a strange and contrary lot you are!! I hope I never reach a day when I am not still growing and changing, and open to all sorts of re-alignment.

Anyway, positive reinforcement just means any kind of reward that makes a behaviour more likely to reoccur. If I noticed that every time I cooked my partner steak we had the most amazing sex later, damn straight I'll cook him more steak!!

I reckon all kinds of pleasant consequences could modify all kinds of behaviour of mine, and I'm often perfectly willing to do things for people I care about anyway - as I hope they would do for me.

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