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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh hell yes! I've thought this many times

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

ugly as fXXX

did they say no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've seen far uglier attitudes than faces

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive thought this many a times but only in my head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. .... ( ugly is such a nasty word )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So because someone is ugly in your eyes they shouldnt have standards too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does it really bother you that much op?

More luck to them, I say!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow "

Absolutely right , and usually those who complain that they can't find what they are looking for !

Still , that's ok with us , more fun for us munters

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No its not the standard but realistic yh beauty is so y so shallow are they perfect hmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow "

Nice person.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Yep, that's me, always trying to punch well above my weight.

So what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why so serious....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Im not being mean but just really dont understand iv had people say it on here many times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think they have been watching to much mr grey lol.

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I've seen far uglier attitudes than faces "

Now isn't that the absolute truth!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

when I was meeting, I met beautiful 3 weeks out of 4, the uglies on the 4th week.

it's my way of giving back.....

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow "

fugly FatMingers, eh?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let them get on with it. Not worth a jot of worry

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow "

So you're saying that people who are ugly (in your eyes) can't have standards on who they meet ?

Why not ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't understand why people put each other down on here.. Kind of against the ethos..

Peace n love I say

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

You realise, OP, that although your username seems to suggest you consider yourselves sexy, some may not agree. They also may not agree that "curvy" is the best description of the female half, or, in fact, anything you claim about yourselves.

Looks are subjective.

Look for the people you want to meet and leave everyone else to worry about who they want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ugly attitude im just saying wot lots think

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I don't understand why people put each other down on here.. Kind of against the ethos..

Peace n love I say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im not being mean but just really dont understand iv had people say it on here many times "

Yes but there gold supporters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"when I was meeting, I met beautiful 3 weeks out of 4, the uglies on the 4th week.

it's my way of giving back....."

Brilliant , you are all heart

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know "

So, since you are deciding who is and isn't "ugly", you must be perfect. Yes?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"when I was meeting, I met beautiful 3 weeks out of 4, the uglies on the 4th week.

it's my way of giving back.....

Brilliant , you are all heart

I know, I even claimed Gift Aid on my petrol expenses going to fuck them....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow "

They turned you down didn't they...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand why people put each other down on here.. Kind of against the ethos..

Peace n love I say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab allows couples and females to punch above their ability but that's life ,we all aspire to greater ,good luck to them I say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love the last line of your profile btw

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"when I was meeting, I met beautiful 3 weeks out of 4, the uglies on the 4th week.

it's my way of giving back.....

Brilliant , you are all heart

I know, I even claimed Gift Aid on my petrol expenses going to fuck them...."

Fucking lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know people may not find me attractive i dont care but iv seen so many people on here feeling there confidence be knocked by not so perfect people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow "

Ahahhaa brilliant

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman over a year ago

Hereabouts

What's the sense in being cruel about the way people look? Just because you don't find them attractive, doesn't mean other people don't. All this post says about you is that you're a judgemental, shallow person.. And in my eyes, that makes you uglier than any face.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow

fugly FatMingers, eh?

Actually it means fucking ugly, its from mean girls ironically enough...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im not being mean but just really dont understand iv had people say it on here many times "

You donlt understand that 'sexy' is very much a subjective term?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I never claimed to b perfect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know "

Youve just put people down

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know "

You mean like you just did?

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman over a year ago

Hereabouts

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know "

Isn't that exactly what you've done by posting this thread?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok haha just my _iew we all have are _iews thats mine

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow

fugly FatMingers, eh?

Nah. Fugly *curvy* Mingers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know people may not find me attractive i dont care but iv seen so many people on here feeling there confidence be knocked by not so perfect people "

So to tackle the issue of people having their confidence knocked by people calling them ugly you started a thread calling people ugly?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ill will say many a profiles are seeking hot...fit...etc....i tend to avoid these profiles like the plague. Not because i dont think i am...more to do with not wanting to meet that kind of person

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I know people may not find me attractive i dont care but iv seen so many people on here feeling there confidence be knocked by not so perfect people

So to tackle the issue of people having their confidence knocked by people calling them ugly you started a thread calling people ugly?"

You couldn't make it up, huh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ill will say many a profiles are seeking hot...fit...etc....i tend to avoid these profiles like the plague. Not because i dont think i am...more to do with not wanting to meet that kind of person "
this is wot im talking about

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually "

So if someone isn't great looking you are saying that they shouldn't have preferences?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've seen far uglier attitudes than faces "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I know people may not find me attractive i dont care but iv seen so many people on here feeling there confidence be knocked by not so perfect people

So to tackle the issue of people having their confidence knocked by people calling them ugly you started a thread calling people ugly?"
no im saying some people aint amazing yet they have a bloody list

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are looking for hot and fit people. I don't see the problem. It's all subjective to what people find hot and fit.

So shoot me.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually "

They may be great looking to the next person though. My idea of hot is probably not the same as yours. I just accept that I won't be everyone's cuppa but on a sex site, why shouldn't we all look for specific things that we find attractive? It's not up to me to decide what you look for. Why would I decide for you?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow

fugly FatMingers, eh?

Nah. Fugly *curvy* Mingers"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

So if someone isn't great looking you are saying that they shouldn't have preferences?"
theres a preference but a fxxking list really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know

Isn't that exactly what you've done by posting this thread?!"

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

So if someone isn't great looking you are saying that they shouldn't have preferences?theres a preference but a fxxking list really"

I have a list.

I like lists.

And you're a grown up... you can say fucking out loud.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I'm slightly confused.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know "
Like you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are looking for hot and fit people. I don't see the problem. It's all subjective to what people find hot and fit.

So shoot me. "

I can only imagine the kind of people that message yourselfs....what ever floats your boat thou

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I dont understand why people are jumping down my throat yet loads are saying this on there profile without being so forward

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ugly attitude im just saying wot lots think "

Takes one to know one, sometimes....

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

So if someone isn't great looking you are saying that they shouldn't have preferences?theres a preference but a fxxking list really

I have a list.

I like lists.

And you're a grown up... you can say fucking out loud.

I have a list too.

In fact I think I might go and add a few things to it now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's the sense in being cruel about the way people look? Just because you don't find them attractive, doesn't mean other people don't. All this post says about you is that you're a judgemental, shallow person.. And in my eyes, that makes you uglier than any face. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

And its not for you to say whos hot and whos not. Because as you said. 1 persons not hot is anothers hot

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By *eliciousladyWoman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

What exactly is 'perfection' though?

Why shouldn't anyone chose to have a list of their requirements, if you don't fit it move on to the next profile.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I dont understand why people are jumping down my throat yet loads are saying this on there profile without being so forward "

Yes, that you don't understand why you are getting this response is the problem.

That you seem not to realise you are doing exactly what you are bitching about is just ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow "

How some one looks is irrelevant to their likes/dislikes and their standards though?

I mean surely you don't jump into bed with every one who messages you?

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I've seen far uglier attitudes than faces "

Me too

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know "

Can someone link OP to a dictionary definition of "irony" please.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are looking for hot and fit people. I don't see the problem. It's all subjective to what people find hot and fit.

So shoot me.

I can only imagine the kind of people that message yourselfs....what ever floats your boat thou

Just nice normal people to be honest. Only ever get very very rare abusive messages.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

And its not for you to say whos hot and whos not. Because as you said. 1 persons not hot is anothers hot "

Which is why having hot, sexy etc in usernames is pointless.

It just comes across as conceited a lot of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont understand why people are jumping down my throat yet loads are saying this on there profile without being so forward "

not seen you post on the forums before...is it your 1st time? If so welcome. If was you op contact admin and ask for this thread to be taken down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok end of post cant be asked

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

And its not for you to say whos hot and whos not. Because as you said. 1 persons not hot is anothers hot "

Um... I never said anyone was hot or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

And its not for you to say whos hot and whos not. Because as you said. 1 persons not hot is anothers hot

Which is why having hot, sexy etc in usernames is pointless.

It just comes across as conceited a lot of the time."

What about profiles

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know "

Hang on, pot, kettle, black....

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow

How some one looks is irrelevant to their likes/dislikes and their standards though?

I mean surely you don't jump into bed with every one who messages you?

They're sexy though, apparently, so they're allowed standards.

It's just us mingers that aren't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

And its not for you to say whos hot and whos not. Because as you said. 1 persons not hot is anothers hot

Um... I never said anyone was hot or not.

They may be great looking to the other person

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know

Can someone link OP to a dictionary definition of "irony" please.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"They may be great looking to the other person "

You're cute

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont understand why people are jumping down my throat yet loads are saying this on there profile without being so forward "

Because your saying that all ugly people shouldnt have standards and just fuck anyone that offers

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

And its not for you to say whos hot and whos not. Because as you said. 1 persons not hot is anothers hot

Which is why having hot, sexy etc in usernames is pointless.

It just comes across as conceited a lot of the time.

What about profiles

I suppose it's fair enough for people to say they consider themselves attractive, but it means sod all without decent photos so others can decide if they agree or not.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman over a year ago

Hereabouts

"I dont understand why people are jumping down my throat yet loads are saying this on there profile without being so forward "

You posted a negative topic on a public forum full of people who're sick of hearing negative _iewpoints and who are sick of people being bitchy about other people for no good reason. Mostly.

Rethink your posts in future

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

shag them in front of one of those circus mirrors, they will be lookers then

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

And its not for you to say whos hot and whos not. Because as you said. 1 persons not hot is anothers hot

Um... I never said anyone was hot or not.

They may be great looking to the other person "

And?

They might be?

What's your point caller?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 23/02/16 20:52:39]

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm hot.

but I've just taken my jumper off so I'm better now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab allows couples and females to punch above their ability but that's life ,we all aspire to greater ,good luck to them I say

Rate this guy !!!!!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Joseph Merrick had needs...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know "

Oh the irony...you should start by practising what you preach!

'Sexy', 'gorg' and 'curvy' are also rather subjective in my opinion

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Ok end of post cant be asked "

OK everyone go home the post has ended, and we're asking the cant for something or other. Anyway put down your drinks and pull up your pants, the post is end. Go home.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"shag them in front of one of those circus mirrors, they will be lookers then"

Paper bags and beer, making mingers fuckable since the invention of bags and beer.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm taking my ball and going home.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

And its not for you to say whos hot and whos not. Because as you said. 1 persons not hot is anothers hot

Um... I never said anyone was hot or not.

They may be great looking to the other person

And?

They might be?

What's your point caller?

the power gone to your head mod

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

totally agree. i get deleted cos i have a dad body

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I'm taking my ball and going home.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ok end of post cant be asked "

Kitchen got a bit too hot for you, OP?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven't really read the whole thread...

But has anyone else noticed a rise in negative, kinda mean, posts over the past 3-4 days?

-Courtney

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"No im saying sum aint grwat looking to have a list of wot they want visually

And its not for you to say whos hot and whos not. Because as you said. 1 persons not hot is anothers hot

Um... I never said anyone was hot or not.

They may be great looking to the other person

And?

They might be?

What's your point caller?

the power gone to your head mod"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well thanx for your _iews

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Insecure comes to mind i actually fort my post had truth to it but clearly not or mayb i just have the guts to say it but hey

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I haven't really read the whole thread...

But has anyone else noticed a rise in negative, kinda mean, posts over the past 3-4 days?

-Courtney "

Not really, this place is always full of negative, mean posts.

NSA sex is largely down to attraction, which seems to lead to certain attributes being compared and judged rather a lot.

People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

I hate that about the site but as I am often told, it's the nature of the place and it won't change.

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By *lanwoodMan over a year ago

Alton

"when I was meeting, I met beautiful 3 weeks out of 4, the uglies on the 4th week.

it's my way of giving back.....

Brilliant , you are all heart

I know, I even claimed Gift Aid on my petrol expenses going to fuck them...."

No, that's illegal. You can't claim gift aid as you got something in return. It wasn't a pure gift. Just saying.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"when I was meeting, I met beautiful 3 weeks out of 4, the uglies on the 4th week.

it's my way of giving back....."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well thanx for your _iews "

Contact admin from the right link at the bottom of the page and ask for thread to be deleted otherwise will be here forever

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"shag them in front of one of those circus mirrors, they will be lookers then

Paper bags and beer, making mingers fuckable since the invention of bags and beer.

SAFETY TIP:

Must cut hole for breathing. All other holes are desirable but optional

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Insecure comes to mind i actually fort my post had truth to it but clearly not or mayb i just have the guts to say it but hey "

Maybe you need to put more fort into it.

Incidentally, there's a lot more to attraction than looks.

Some people think a nice nature is important. Some people value education and intellect.

And some people will have totally different _iews on what is and is not hot to you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I haven't really read the whole thread...

But has anyone else noticed a rise in negative, kinda mean, posts over the past 3-4 days?

-Courtney

Not really, this place is always full of negative, mean posts.

NSA sex is largely down to attraction, which seems to lead to certain attributes being compared and judged rather a lot.

People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

I hate that about the site but as I am often told, it's the nature of the place and it won't change."

Fair enough. Maybe I'm just seeing it more as a contrast to the luvy duvy valentines stuff.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"Well thanx for your _iews

Contact admin from the right link at the bottom of the page and ask for thread to be deleted otherwise will be here forever

Maybe the right advice is to report the post instead of contacting Admin through the contact button

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Insecure comes to mind i actually fort my post had truth to it but clearly not or mayb i just have the guts to say it but hey "

The guts to post something unpleasant and expect people to agree?

Wow, I wish I had that special power

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

Id disagree with that its not the post but it does usually head that way by whats posted under it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Insecure comes to mind i actually fort my post had truth to it but clearly not or mayb i just have the guts to say it but hey "

Nothing says insecure more than slagging off strangers for their percived lack of attractiveness

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I haven't really read the whole thread...

But has anyone else noticed a rise in negative, kinda mean, posts over the past 3-4 days?

-Courtney

Not really, this place is always full of negative, mean posts.

NSA sex is largely down to attraction, which seems to lead to certain attributes being compared and judged rather a lot.

People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

I hate that about the site but as I am often told, it's the nature of the place and it won't change.

Fair enough. Maybe I'm just seeing it more as a contrast to the luvy duvy valentines stuff.

Meh. For those that got Valentine's. Not that I am bitter or anything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well thanx for your _iews

Contact admin from the right link at the bottom of the page and ask for thread to be deleted otherwise will be here forever

Maybe the right advice is to report the post instead of contacting Admin through the contact button"

Attention

Right you are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Insecure comes to mind i actually fort my post had truth to it but clearly not or mayb i just have the guts to say it but hey "

It's not really about that though. I get where you're coming from with your post, as I'm sure many others do. People looking for perfection is not really attractive. However, there are ways to say that without calling others ugly...there are better ways to make an apt point.

-Courtney

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I haven't really read the whole thread...

But has anyone else noticed a rise in negative, kinda mean, posts over the past 3-4 days?

-Courtney "

I think it varies from day to day, though sometimes I do think it must be in the stars.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I haven't really read the whole thread...

But has anyone else noticed a rise in negative, kinda mean, posts over the past 3-4 days?

-Courtney "

Yep... Nearly easter though

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Insecure comes to mind i actually fort my post had truth to it but clearly not or mayb i just have the guts to say it but hey

Nothing says insecure more than slagging off strangers for their percived lack of attractiveness"

And then throwing the toys out when people disagree.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"Well thanx for your _iews

Contact admin from the right link at the bottom of the page and ask for thread to be deleted otherwise will be here forever

Maybe the right advice is to report the post instead of contacting Admin through the contact button

Attention

Right you are

I am female, I am always right

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

"I dont understand why people are jumping down my throat yet loads are saying this on there profile without being so forward

Because your saying that all ugly people shouldnt have standards and just fuck anyone that offers

Agreed.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Insecure comes to mind i actually fort my post had truth to it but clearly not or mayb i just have the guts to say it but hey

-Courtney "

Well, as one of the fat mingers who likes toned, muscular men, I'm guilty as charged by the OP. And I'm quite happy with my preferences and won't be changing a thing.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

Id disagree with that its not the post but it does usually head that way by whats posted under it x"

Yeah, I also don't think expressing like for one thing necessarily = dislike for another.

I love pizza doesn't mean the same as I hate noodles.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Yea, Nobody is perfect, but that doesn't mean they cant strive for perfection

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Insecure comes to mind i actually fort my post had truth to it but clearly not or mayb i just have the guts to say it but hey

-Courtney

Well, as one of the fat mingers who likes toned, muscular men, I'm guilty as charged by the OP. And I'm quite happy with my preferences and won't be changing a thing."

But that's my point....it's not the way that you look that makes the looking for perfection bad. Attraction is subjective anyway. I can see the frustration with people who want perfection, although I would never complain about them looking for perfection because that's kinda the nature of the site.

I'm looking for my version of that, as are you. So it's all too subjective and it shouldn't really effect us what others are looking for anyway. If that makes sense.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know

Hang on, pot, kettle, black....

"
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Given her posts I doubt she'd understand yours

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a list of what I like and what I don't..... We all have preferences

Am I ugly as f@"k? ;(

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

Id disagree with that its not the post but it does usually head that way by whats posted under it x

Yeah, I also don't think expressing like for one thing necessarily = dislike for another.

I love pizza doesn't mean the same as I hate noodles. "

True, but physical comparisons like that always go badly on here.

Say you like large women and someone will mention skeletons and bags of bones. Say you like slim women and someone will bring lazy, greedy tubs of lard into it. Say you like big cocks and someone will trot out a line about slack fannies...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's my vagina I'll be as fussy as I god damn please, if I don't get any that's my problem and my problem alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

Id disagree with that its not the post but it does usually head that way by whats posted under it x

Yeah, I also don't think expressing like for one thing necessarily = dislike for another.

I love pizza doesn't mean the same as I hate noodles. "

I fecking love pizza!!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

it's about self worth...... said many times, I believe in me, like me, aspire to have the best for me and it's all about me.......

and I don't undersell myself.

if others truly adopted that sense of belief, less angst, disappointment and feeling aggrieved

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Insecure comes to mind i actually fort my post had truth to it but clearly not or mayb i just have the guts to say it but hey

-Courtney

Well, as one of the fat mingers who likes toned, muscular men, I'm guilty as charged by the OP. And I'm quite happy with my preferences and won't be changing a thing.

I'm looking for my version of that, as are you. So it's all too subjective and it shouldn't really effect us what others are looking for anyway. If that makes sense.

-Courtney "

Absolutely, I have no idea why some people care so much what other people are looking for.

Hence my post early on saying "so what?"

Attractiveness is a package deal anyway, so even if a guy matches every single thing in my profile, I may not find him attractive. Yet, another guy, who doesn't match everything might make me totally hot and bothered.

Trying to define what we find attractive is difficult.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's my vagina I'll be as fussy as I god damn please, if I don't get any that's my problem and my problem alone."

^ this!

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I've seen lots of forms of ugly on this site - not all visual

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"it's about self worth...... said many times, I believe in me, like me, aspire to have the best for me and it's all about me.......

and I don't undersell myself.

if others truly adopted that sense of belief, less angst, disappointment and feeling aggrieved"

You're right

Though learning to feel like that about yourself can be tricky. It's taken me several years but I am there now

The most difficult bit, for me, was accepting that liking yourself doesn't make you selfish or self-centred. It just makes you a happier person

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Everyone has their own opinions as to what constitutes beauty. For me it's a person who I like as a person and therefore find attractive. Each to their own; I shall continue to look for those I don't know I'll find attractive until I get to know a bit about them. It makes every fab day an adventure.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

The most difficult bit, for me, was accepting that liking yourself doesn't make you selfish or self-centred. It just makes you a happier person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know

Can someone link OP to a dictionary definition of "irony" please.

And 'you' and 'should' and 'their'

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"when I was meeting, I met beautiful 3 weeks out of 4, the uglies on the 4th week.

it's my way of giving back....."

Now I know why I was 4th , 8th, 12th n 16th .... pftttttt

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"when I was meeting, I met beautiful 3 weeks out of 4, the uglies on the 4th week.

it's my way of giving back.....

Now I know why I was 4th , 8th, 12th n 16th .... pftttttt "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok well i get the point im fat ugly and nasty or as said a bitch witch is fine its only preference and i dont care lol

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"it's about self worth...... said many times, I believe in me, like me, aspire to have the best for me and it's all about me.......

and I don't undersell myself.

if others truly adopted that sense of belief, less angst, disappointment and feeling aggrieved"

I don't like every aspect of me. However, I do know what I like and what I don't, and there's no way I'll settle for what I don't want . If that means going without, if what I do want isn't available, so be it.

You don't have to love yourself to believe you're worth what you want and to feel justified in not accepting any less.

I'm sure it's easier when you're completely happy with yourself though.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

"People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else."

Erm...no?

If someone says 'I love brunettes' it doesn't also mean 'blondes are terrible'.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

"Just dont get why people shud put other people down when there not perfect u know "

But aren't you doing the same thing? Putting people down for being ugly

Pot calling kettle me thinks

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Ok well i get the point im fat ugly and nasty or as said a bitch witch is fine its only preference and i dont care lol"

Perhaps that's the problem, no one has said that but you think it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Loads have said this in this post

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By *ruegent101Man over a year ago

down by the river side

Seen a profile with a whole list of dislikes and only a handful of likes personal preference n all that but Jeeso

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

Personally I am less interested in whether people are " attractive" or "ugly":

But I do like people who can write English, can spell, and who use punctuation.....

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

Erm...no?

If someone says 'I love brunettes' it doesn't also mean 'blondes are terrible'. "

Ok, I phrased it badly but those threads always end up turning nasty.

Comparing visual or physical attributes never goes well.

I remember a "do you prefer real or enhanced breasts" thread a while ago.

It's a simple question and it should be possible to answer it without saying anything negative about anyone. I prefer x, or I prefer y. Easy.

Except that thread had references to "tupperware tits", fake boobs looking like "tennis balls stuck to velcro", real boobs being "saggy" and so on.

Some people just can't stick to being nice without qualifying it by being horrible.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Loads have said this in this post "

I've not seen anyone call you those things.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

Id disagree with that its not the post but it does usually head that way by whats posted under it x

Yeah, I also don't think expressing like for one thing necessarily = dislike for another.

I love pizza doesn't mean the same as I hate noodles.

True, but physical comparisons like that always go badly on here.

Ah, yes, I see what you mean.

Those people annoy the fuck out of me. Lol

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Ok well i get the point im fat ugly and nasty or as said a bitch witch is fine its only preference and i dont care lol"

Bitch-Witch??? Is that an insult or a compliment?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen a profile with a whole list of dislikes and only a handful of likes personal preference n all that but Jeeso

Is that me by any chance?

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Ok well i get the point im fat ugly and nasty or as said a bitch witch is fine its only preference and i dont care lol"

"Loads have said this in this post

I've not seen anyone call you those things."

Yup, same, not a single person has criticized the way you look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok thats a shame as im dyslexic now iv been put down on that also in my thread sooooo whos really nasty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

Erm...no?

If someone says 'I love brunettes' it doesn't also mean 'blondes are terrible'.

Ok, I phrased it badly but those threads always end up turning nasty.

Comparing visual or physical attributes never goes well.

I remember a "do you prefer real or enhanced breasts" thread a while ago.

It's a simple question and it should be possible to answer it without saying anything negative about anyone. I prefer x, or I prefer y. Easy.

Except that thread had references to "tupperware tits", fake boobs looking like "tennis balls stuck to velcro", real boobs being "saggy" and so on.

Some people just can't stick to being nice without qualifying it by being horrible."

People are bound to objectify and analyse physical attributes on a sex site though. I see it as the best filter going.

I was going to meet a guy set a date etc till he started a fatty thread and then i was like thank fuck i saw that before

No theres no need to put people down i agree but like i say aids filtering

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

Id disagree with that its not the post but it does usually head that way by whats posted under it x

Yeah, I also don't think expressing like for one thing necessarily = dislike for another.

I love pizza doesn't mean the same as I hate noodles.

True, but physical comparisons like that always go badly on here.

Ah, yes, I see what you mean.

Those people annoy the fuck out of me. Lol"

Maybe I should have said that when someone starts one of those threads they are opening the way for some really nasty, judgemental comments.

If the threads stuck to what people like, great, but there are always some who turn the focus to what they don't like.

Most of the threads are posted with good intentions, I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok thats a shame as im dyslexic now iv been put down on that also in my thread sooooo whos really nasty "

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow "

People can set their standards what ever level they wish . I don't see anyone is in the postion to dictate what is acceptable for others to be looking for . So what if they are shooting for the stars !! They are affecting no one else by doing this , worse case senario they may not get meets they want ! But as they say if you don't try you'll never succeed .

Why others find it their business to police others people's profiles,preferences ect is beyond me . Just deal with what you do on here , what others do or don't do is of no concern to anyone .

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

Erm...no?

If someone says 'I love brunettes' it doesn't also mean 'blondes are terrible'.

Ok, I phrased it badly but those threads always end up turning nasty.

Comparing visual or physical attributes never goes well.

I remember a "do you prefer real or enhanced breasts" thread a while ago.

It's a simple question and it should be possible to answer it without saying anything negative about anyone. I prefer x, or I prefer y. Easy.

Except that thread had references to "tupperware tits", fake boobs looking like "tennis balls stuck to velcro", real boobs being "saggy" and so on.

Some people just can't stick to being nice without qualifying it by being horrible.

People are bound to objectify and analyse physical attributes on a sex site though. I see it as the best filter going.

I was going to meet a guy set a date etc till he started a fatty thread and then i was like thank fuck i saw that before

No theres no need to put people down i agree but like i say aids filtering

Very true

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow "

You'd best be brangelina....Oh wait...

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

sometimes people like to be in the position of being put down upon, it's their preferred position. It feeds their insecurities, their insecurities feeds their preferred position.....

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Oh dear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not gods gift by a long shot, but i will not meet or have sex with anyone im not attracted too, so OP am i right in thinking im putting these people who i turn down, down?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People forget that when they start an "I love (attribute)" post, they are also effectively criticising everyone else.

Erm...no?

If someone says 'I love brunettes' it doesn't also mean 'blondes are terrible'.

Ok, I phrased it badly but those threads always end up turning nasty.

Comparing visual or physical attributes never goes well.

I remember a "do you prefer real or enhanced breasts" thread a while ago.

It's a simple question and it should be possible to answer it without saying anything negative about anyone. I prefer x, or I prefer y. Easy.

Except that thread had references to "tupperware tits", fake boobs looking like "tennis balls stuck to velcro", real boobs being "saggy" and so on.

Some people just can't stick to being nice without qualifying it by being horrible.

People are bound to objectify and analyse physical attributes on a sex site though. I see it as the best filter going.

I was going to meet a guy set a date etc till he started a fatty thread and then i was like thank fuck i saw that before

No theres no need to put people down i agree but like i say aids filtering

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seen a profile with a whole list of dislikes and only a handful of likes personal preference n all that but Jeeso

Is that me by any chance? "

I've just read your profile and I don't think it's rude or nasty at all.

It just says exactly what you're looking for

Nothing wrong with it at all.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ok thats a shame as im dyslexic now iv been put down on that also in my thread sooooo whos really nasty "

But these ugly people you are slating, it's ok to put them down because that's something they have a choice about?

Apparently you don't like being judged. Go figure.

But it's ok when it's you being judgemental and nasty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it so funny on here some people set there standards so high and have a list of who they like yet there ugly as fxxk lmao had to be said reading some profiles wow

You'd best be brangelina....Oh wait...

crying

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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I think all has been said now.

To the OP...maybe have a little bit of respect for others and what they are looking for and you won't go far wrong.

To the people who think it is ok to pick holes at others spelling, it isn't so please don't do it as it puts people off from posting.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Ok thats a shame as im dyslexic now iv been put down on that also in my thread sooooo whos really nasty "

I hope you find time to look into why what, you think, other people say bothers you so much.

This is Fab and meant to be fun. Which it is for those who take it for what it is and don't worry about what everyone else says, does or thinks.

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I've seen far uglier attitudes than faces "

I couldn't agree more!

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