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Decisions ...to make an i dont want to be hasty
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
I have a few decisions in life to make ..i don't want to rush decisions as i have several to make
I don't want to rush an be hasty..question is do I sleep on it..
How do u decide when you have decisions to make ..Some of them are important
As I've been in a low mood today I don't want to decide an regret the decisions when I'm in this mood
Some of the decisions are personal..One is work related |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a few decisions in life to make ..i don't want to rush decisions as i have several to make
I don't want to rush an be hasty..question is do I sleep on it..
How do u decide when you have decisions to make ..Some of them are important
As I've been in a low mood today I don't want to decide an regret the decisions when I'm in this mood
Some of the decisions are personal..One is work related"
I always follow my heart for better or worst and that way i dont regret things you can sometimes overthink |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"I have a few decisions in life to make ..i don't want to rush decisions as i have several to make
I don't want to rush an be hasty..question is do I sleep on it..
How do u decide when you have decisions to make ..Some of them are important
As I've been in a low mood today I don't want to decide an regret the decisions when I'm in this mood
Some of the decisions are personal..One is work related
I always follow my heart for better or worst and that way i dont regret things you can sometimes overthink"
Same here. It's head or heart for me. I don't want to regret a few decisions ..nor do I want to decide when I'm in a lowish mood
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gut instinct always serves me well. Do you have to make the decisions in a specific time frame ? If there is no rush then don't rush.
Can you use a good friend as a sounding board as well ? I always find talking out loud helps me decide as well.
Sarah |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Gut instinct always serves me well. Do you have to make the decisions in a specific time frame ? If there is no rush then don't rush.
Can you use a good friend as a sounding board as well ? I always find talking out loud helps me decide as well.
Sarah "
Thanks Sarah
I don't want to rush the decisions ..In haste
I feel i don't want to load on to my friends plus they don't know I do nsa 
Work decision is do I go back to my original job in my dept
Personal a cpl of decisions in life |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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There really are very few decisions that are utterly bad and can't be fixed. Even leaving something too late to make a decision is a decision.
If you're really stuck then make a pros and cons list for each decision. Do it now in your low mood and then review tomorrow or the next day when you're feeling a little better. Then make your decision.
Good luck.
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X"
Good idea i will do that
An see what the pros an cons are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As one of my friends on here can attest to, I'm bloody useless at making decisions, be it important ones, or what I want to eat at a restaurant.
Personally I'd say go with your gut and make it up at the spur of the moment as you go along. Works for me, though I'll happily admit it's not a method that works for everyone. |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"There really are very few decisions that are utterly bad and can't be fixed. Even leaving something too late to make a decision is a decision.
If you're really stuck then make a pros and cons list for each decision. Do it now in your low mood and then review tomorrow or the next day when you're feeling a little better. Then make your decision.
Good luck.
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Thanks for the good luck
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Take your time
Relax and breath deep
You have one stab at life make it count
Only you know the consequences of a bad decision
Never follow advice xx
Never think with your gut , realise said idea has come from your brain and why it sits there it may be good it may not be understand why
Never follow advice but understand it
Eat a very good meal
If you want to xx |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Take your time
Relax and breath deep
You have one stab at life make it count
Only you know the consequences of a bad decision
Never follow advice xx
Never think with your gut , realise said idea has come from your brain and why it sits there it may be good it may not be understand why
Never follow advice but understand it
Eat a very good meal
If you want to xx"
Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tomorrow is always another day and things can seem so different.
Tomorrow is another day
I still may feel the same"
That's true..don't rush anything,hope things work out for you. |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Tomorrow is always another day and things can seem so different.
Tomorrow is another day
I still may feel the same
That's true..don't rush anything,hope things work out for you."
Thank you
Personal life decisions are the hardest to make .. |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X
same here i then talk to friends and family "
No family to talk to an don't want to burden my friends |
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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago
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"Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X
same here i then talk to friends and family
No family to talk to an don't want to burden my friends "
If they are good friends you wont be a burden |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Op, you seem to have outlined your perfect strategy - not to rush.
Take the time it needs, possibly planning how you'll come to your decisions. Further analysis, weighing up pros and cons etc."
I won't rush the decision but don't want to make a decision when I'm tired or in a low mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X"
This is the best way. Plus get as much info as you, internet etc. and dont be rushed! Good luck x |
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By *helbee OP Couple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Always write down the decision on a piece of paper and try to list the positives and negatives. It can help clarify your thoughts X
This is the best way. Plus get as much info as you, internet etc. and dont be rushed! Good luck x"
Thanks x |
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