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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you think 2016 will be the year I finally get a boyfriend, if so what month do you think it will happen?
Bare in mind I'm not speaking to anyone, not on any dating sites and haven't had a boyfriend since 2009! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think 2016 will be the year I finally get a boyfriend, if so what month do you think it will happen?
Bare in mind I'm not speaking to anyone, not on any dating sites and haven't had a boyfriend since 2009! "
wow . Av made 2 kids . And had 3 rekationships since 2009 |
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"Do you think 2016 will be the year I finally get a boyfriend, if so what month do you think it will happen?
Bare in mind I'm not speaking to anyone, not on any dating sites and haven't had a boyfriend since 2009! "
I think to find a boyfriend, u need to lift the not looking for males section off your profile and let them message you... That's just a start |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you think 2016 will be the year I finally get a boyfriend, if so what month do you think it will happen?
Bare in mind I'm not speaking to anyone, not on any dating sites and haven't had a boyfriend since 2009!
wow . Av made 2 kids . And had 3 rekationships since 2009 "
Show off!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes.. Late August, you will meet at the park  "
Late August you say, in a park hmmm strange you say that as I meet all my social people by my local KFC, which is on a services that has park in the title! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think 2016 will be the year I finally get a boyfriend, if so what month do you think it will happen?
Bare in mind I'm not speaking to anyone, not on any dating sites and haven't had a boyfriend since 2009!
wow . Av made 2 kids . And had 3 rekationships since 2009
Show off!
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theyre adorable . 2 little girls . They make me soo happy . Nothing beats a 3 n 5 yr old throw there arms around you and tell you ......... I wove you daddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes.. Late August, you will meet at the park
Late August you say, in a park hmmm strange you say that as I meet all my social people by my local KFC, which is on a services that has park in the title!"
It just so happens august is a very important nonth for me . My mams birthday the 26th . And this year my probation ends in august |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you think 2016 will be the year I finally get a boyfriend, if so what month do you think it will happen?
Bare in mind I'm not speaking to anyone, not on any dating sites and haven't had a boyfriend since 2009!
wow . Av made 2 kids . And had 3 rekationships since 2009
Show off!
theyre adorable . 2 little girls . They make me soo happy . Nothing beats a 3 n 5 yr old throw there arms around you and tell you ......... I wove you daddy "
Yeah they're funny! I've got a 6 year old, me and her father split just before I had her we were together almost 10 years!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes.. Late August, you will meet at the park
Late August you say, in a park hmmm strange you say that as I meet all my social people by my local KFC, which is on a services that has park in the title!"
I have never been to south Wales.. I'm not stalking you  ....I hope you find who you are meant to find  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right so been sending out some messages and requesting some pictures, no one suitable so far which makes me feel like a dick cos I've initiated the contact but is this reply nice and not too harsh? Been saying "I like guys to have a certain jawline and eyebrows so for those reasons I'd say you weren't my type but thanks for sending me the pictures" That's ok isn't it? |
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By *accaMan
over a year ago
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"Do you think 2016 will be the year I finally get a boyfriend, if so what month do you think it will happen?
Bare in mind I'm not speaking to anyone, not on any dating sites and haven't had a boyfriend since 2009! "
I'll get to work on making you my other half   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you and the gun will marry
I'll have a fiver on that!
whats the odds ? Might put a 10 er on :-/
Dunno, we need a bookie!  "
I'll give you some odds, slim to none. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right so been sending out some messages and requesting some pictures, no one suitable so far which makes me feel like a dick cos I've initiated the contact but is this reply nice and not too harsh? Been saying "I like guys to have a certain jawline and eyebrows so for those reasons I'd say you weren't my type but thanks for sending me the pictures" That's ok isn't it?"
If you put it on your profile the Men who fit that description might find you |
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By *accaMan
over a year ago
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"I think you and the gun will marry
I'll have a fiver on that!
whats the odds ? Might put a 10 er on :-/
Dunno, we need a bookie!
I'll give you some odds, slim to none. "
Lol that's very grim odds lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Right so been sending out some messages and requesting some pictures, no one suitable so far which makes me feel like a dick cos I've initiated the contact but is this reply nice and not too harsh? Been saying "I like guys to have a certain jawline and eyebrows so for those reasons I'd say you weren't my type but thanks for sending me the pictures" That's ok isn't it?
If you put it on your profile the Men who fit that description might find you"
I tweak my profile all the time, check it in 2 minutes and let me know if it covers all bases. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you and the gun will marry
I'll have a fiver on that!
whats the odds ? Might put a 10 er on :-/
Dunno, we need a bookie!
I'll give you some odds, slim to none. "
Al settle for that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He will be a boxer. You will meet him at a wedding. He will be wearing a blue shirt and shiny shoes. "
iv had a few brawls . The odds must be increasing :-/ |
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"I think you and the gun will marry
I'll have a fiver on that!
whats the odds ? Might put a 10 er on :-/
Dunno, we need a bookie!
I'll give you some odds, slim to none.
Al settle for that lol "
Haha, you're blind optimism is quite endearing! |
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"I think you and the gun will marry
I'll have a fiver on that!
whats the odds ? Might put a 10 er on :-/
Dunno, we need a bookie!
I'll give you some odds, slim to none. "
Oh gooo-on, I'm itching for a new hat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id say 5-1 but if your wearing a low lying top that would be cut to 2-11
I can get interest no problem just can't get the bastards to stay!"
al but ya some cuffs n a tracker device to stick up my arse lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Id say 5-1 but if your wearing a low lying top that would be cut to 2-11
I can get interest no problem just can't get the bastards to stay!"
if they don't hang around they ain't the one your supposed to have.. Stepping stones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They must be crazy not to stay haha 
Nah it's the other way around! I have in the past shown my crazy too soon and it's put people off. "
just be yourself, the person thats meant for you wont even notice your crazy and will love you just tge way you are |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They must be crazy not to stay haha
Nah it's the other way around! I have in the past shown my crazy too soon and it's put people off.
just be yourself, the person thats meant for you wont even notice your crazy and will love you just tge way you are "
Aww that's kind.
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you think 2016 will be the year I finally get a boyfriend, if so what month do you think it will happen?
Bare in mind I'm not speaking to anyone, not on any dating sites and haven't had a boyfriend since 2009! "
Kinda in the same boat as you Seawitch (but on dating sites), but if you can't get a boyfriend, how about us lot?  |
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Having taken the liberty of checking out your profile, seawitch, I can't help noticing that your requirements are fairly specific.
Unfortunately, after having reviewed your requirements, although I meet all of them, I am myself looking for someone with size 4 and a half feet.
Thankyou for your interest and I wish you all the best in your search. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you think 2016 will be the year I finally get a boyfriend, if so what month do you think it will happen?
Bare in mind I'm not speaking to anyone, not on any dating sites and haven't had a boyfriend since 2009!
Kinda in the same boat as you Seawitch (but on dating sites), but if you can't get a boyfriend, how about us lot? "
Sucks doesn't it  Everyone around my age in a 30 mile radius has already been snapped up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having taken the liberty of checking out your profile, seawitch, I can't help noticing that your requirements are fairly specific.
Unfortunately, after having reviewed your requirements, although I meet all of them, I am myself looking for someone with size 4 and a half feet.
Thankyou for your interest and I wish you all the best in your search."
She could cut her toes off |
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"Do you think 2016 will be the year I finally get a boyfriend, if so what month do you think it will happen?
Bare in mind I'm not speaking to anyone, not on any dating sites and haven't had a boyfriend since 2009!
Kinda in the same boat as you Seawitch (but on dating sites), but if you can't get a boyfriend, how about us lot?
Sucks doesn't it Everyone around my age in a 30 mile radius has already been snapped up! "
Could you send me your cast offs please - I'm having the same problem - xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I hope you find happiness, I think that will come when you change your ways a bit - something might happen which changes your perspective of expectation and you relax.
Try not to let it worry or concern you, and stick to good guys in situations you know are good for you (e.g. not miles away and never met). Good luck if you're looking properly, I can't say it's quite as long, but I'm single too and meeting a woman who ticks the right boxes is difficult, so I appreciate your struggle - I personally don't see this site as very helpful for relationships though, it's just fun for the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right so been sending out some messages and requesting some pictures, no one suitable so far which makes me feel like a dick cos I've initiated the contact but is this reply nice and not too harsh? Been saying "I like guys to have a certain jawline and eyebrows so for those reasons I'd say you weren't my type but thanks for sending me the pictures" That's ok isn't it?"
Iv never come across someone so fussy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really.. You need to forget your list of criteria.
And get out off internet and meet people.
Attraction is tricky.
By having 27 must have items, you will fail.
What if you met a perfect man, but he was the wring height/eye colour? You'd miss out! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Judging by how precise your type is I think you may already have a person in mind lol if not I'd be perfect except I'm out of your age limit "
Aww a baby para! I'm still getting over the last para trooper that broke my heart if I'm honest. Wouldn't want another one! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do you want a boyfriend ? "
Because I've been single for almost 7 years, I do want another child I'd like a son. I want regular sex with someone and someone to go to asda with and help carry the shopping in to the house. Want someone to watch films with and go out for food and to the cinema. Someone to tickle my back and spoon with in the nights. |
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"Right so been sending out some messages and requesting some pictures, no one suitable so far which makes me feel like a dick cos I've initiated the contact but is this reply nice and not too harsh? Been saying "I like guys to have a certain jawline and eyebrows so for those reasons I'd say you weren't my type but thanks for sending me the pictures" That's ok isn't it?"
It was the bawling that did it for me when I saw Mr's photo on here ... so I hear you on that one. He has sunglasses on in all of his single male photos, so I didn't know about the eyes until I saw him .... the rest is history I guess. |
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"They must be crazy not to stay haha
Nah it's the other way around! I have in the past shown my crazy too soon and it's put people off.
just be yourself, the person thats meant for you wont even notice your crazy and will love you just tge way you are "
that's a really nice comment to post |
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"They must be crazy not to stay haha
Nah it's the other way around! I have in the past shown my crazy too soon and it's put people off.
just be yourself, the person thats meant for you wont even notice your crazy and will love you just tge way you are
that's a really nice comment to post "
It is, he gets a million brownie points for that one! And a women who is properly loved has no need to act crazy - she knows she is secure.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They must be crazy not to stay haha
Nah it's the other way around! I have in the past shown my crazy too soon and it's put people off.
just be yourself, the person thats meant for you wont even notice your crazy and will love you just tge way you are
that's a really nice comment to post
It is, he gets a million brownie points for that one! And a women who is properly loved has no need to act crazy - she knows she is secure. "
True! It's only the beginning stages I need to get through, once they've fallen in love I'm alright. It's just the courting stage where they're still making their mind up and can be easily put off. In the past I've lost my shit if I see they've read a whatsapp message and been online but not replied or I've tried ringing and they haven't answered it called back. Need to keep all that stuff under control, have this forum now to keep my mind off things so dating this time should be better. It's my mind that overthinks and then thinks of ridiculous things to fill in the gaps and all my logic goes out the window. |
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"They must be crazy not to stay haha
Nah it's the other way around! I have in the past shown my crazy too soon and it's put people off.
just be yourself, the person thats meant for you wont even notice your crazy and will love you just tge way you are
that's a really nice comment to post
It is, he gets a million brownie points for that one! And a women who is properly loved has no need to act crazy - she knows she is secure.
True! It's only the beginning stages I need to get through, once they've fallen in love I'm alright. It's just the courting stage where they're still making their mind up and can be easily put off. In the past I've lost my shit if I see they've read a whatsapp message and been online but not replied or I've tried ringing and they haven't answered it called back. Need to keep all that stuff under control, have this forum now to keep my mind off things so dating this time should be better. It's my mind that overthinks and then thinks of ridiculous things to fill in the gaps and all my logic goes out the window. "
Yeah, brain chemistry gone haywire is all...well I hope you find someone who falls so hard so quick you can skip that stage too lol! |
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