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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My turn to be shat on last night and especially annoying as they initiated the meet, kept emailing up until the last minute and then didn’t turn up so a completely wasted six hour round trip!
I think it would be in everyone’s interests if dross like that should at the very least be named in an easily accessible No-show Blacklist so people can know in advance who the tossers/fakes are on the website. Feasible? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need platinum membership dude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The rules sais no name and shame, that is why you should keep it local lol. |
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Have they been online since and have you asked what happened?
Sorry you had to do a 6 hour round trip thats pretty shitty.
Chin up mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Up, you arranged to meet me the other week and didn't show. I'll put your name in the blacklist then!!
Obviously it didn't happen but do you are his easy it would be to abuse a list like that? Your word against mine and no prove it didn't happen.
People would use it to get at people that may have I'll feelings towards, someone who knocked them back etc so it is a really bad idea. |
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The main and constant problem would be verifying who was telling the truth.
Say I arrange to meet but don't bother turning up however I swear I was at the meeting point and the other person wasn't. Who decides who's telling the truth? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Up, you arranged to meet me the other week and didn't show. I'll put your name in the blacklist then!!
Obviously it didn't happen but do you are his easy it would be to abuse a list like that? Your word against mine and no prove it didn't happen.
People would use it to get at people that may have I'll feelings towards, someone who knocked them back etc so it is a really bad idea."
Do you see how easy even lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do sometimes wonder why people travel so far. Hell of a risk to take. Sorry it happened to you though. |
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I agree that the black list thing is a bad idea.
But let the guy vent his frustration as he just wasted 6 hours.
anyone would be a bit ticked off, hes just sharing his frustration at what happend as its probably the only place he feels he can and hopes theres others who have experienced the same.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
No, not feasible.
I'd suggest not agreeing to do a 6 hour round trip for total strangers in future.
I'd never travel that far for someone I hadn't met before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My turn to be shat on last night and especially annoying as they initiated the meet, kept emailing up until the last minute and then didn’t turn up so a completely wasted six hour round trip!
I think it would be in everyone’s interests if dross like that should at the very least be named in an easily accessible No-show Blacklist so people can know in advance who the tossers/fakes are on the website. Feasible?"
Sorry it happened. Did you telephone them (antiquated, I know)? Why on earth did you travel that far? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do sometimes wonder why people travel so far. Hell of a risk to take. Sorry it happened to you though."
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Site FAQs are your friends:
* Don't put yourself in a situation where if someone doesn't turn up, you'll be upset. So don't travel 100s of miles and book into a hotel in the expectation of meeting someone unless you've met them beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the chance you take when meeting someone from here. Sadly there are some fucked up people who like giving others the run around,or get off on the talk and pics but don't actually want to meet. A list wouldn't help anyone,it would be as easy as deleting your profile and starting again,to get around it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Between the wife and myself we have a list of no shows, just don't post em up anywhere, they can be found on our block list though. |
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"My turn to be shat on last night and especially annoying as they initiated the meet, kept emailing up until the last minute and then didn’t turn up so a completely wasted six hour round trip!
I think it would be in everyone’s interests if dross like that should at the very least be named in an easily accessible No-show Blacklist so people can know in advance who the tossers/fakes are on the website. Feasible?"
Isnt that what the Hotlist is for.??
Bit of a silly choice to make just to get some sex. Did you cam Facetime or speak to them ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do sometimes wonder why people travel so far. Hell of a risk to take. Sorry it happened to you though."
Half hour max........anything else is sorta spooky really
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My turn to be shat on last night and especially annoying as they initiated the meet, kept emailing up until the last minute and then didn’t turn up so a completely wasted six hour round trip!
I think it would be in everyone’s interests if dross like that should at the very least be named in an easily accessible No-show Blacklist so people can know in advance who the tossers/fakes are on the website. Feasible?"
they might have been abducted by aliens and could not contact you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's way better to just let people in your area know about them , and tell anyone who will listen when you are chatting .
You'd be surprised how many of these people in our area have left the site as a result of the grapevine .
It's the only way you can do it , and hopefully make a difference .
People like them are the bane of the site . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What if she turned up and didnt fancy you theres no obligation to go through with sex. Thats why i always have socials first and meet locally. That way what have a i lost? Gained a lovely coffee and 20 mins to myself though.
Its not failed me yet, never had a no show xx |
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You travelled 3 hours for a ride? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why travel so far? Madness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Name and shame doesn't work, but rant away - it's a shitty thing for someone to do. This is why I no longer travel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do sometimes wonder why people travel so far. Hell of a risk to take. Sorry it happened to you though.Half hour max........anything else is sorta spooky really"
Agreed. We like swinging but not *that* much! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"It's way better to just let people in your area know about them , and tell anyone who will listen when you are chatting .
You'd be surprised how many of these people in our area have left the site as a result of the grapevine .
It's the only way you can do it , and hopefully make a difference .
People like them are the bane of the site ."
Not much point in letting people local to him know if they live 3 hours drive away though. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
Site owners have said (on another thread) that 'naming and shaming' will never be allowed. Report the profile, using the 'arranged a meet and didn't turn up' option, and leave it to the Admins to deal with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if she turned up and didnt fancy you theres no obligation to go through with sex. Thats why i always have socials first and meet locally. That way what have a i lost? Gained a lovely coffee and 20 mins to myself though.
Its not failed me yet, never had a no show xx"
Same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's way better to just let people in your area know about them , and tell anyone who will listen when you are chatting .
You'd be surprised how many of these people in our area have left the site as a result of the grapevine .
It's the only way you can do it , and hopefully make a difference .
People like them are the bane of the site .
Not much point in letting people local to him know if they live 3 hours drive away though."
That's true .... |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
"Site owners have said (on another thread) that 'naming and shaming' will never be allowed. Report the profile, using the 'arranged a meet and didn't turn up' option, and leave it to the Admins to deal with."
This |
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