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SOCIALS BEWARE

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

To all those going to socials tonight the press (news of the world, the star and sunday sport) are all sniifing round there is an undercover couples on this site working for the newspapers they have been in to chameleons and spoke to lynn and dawn. And there is supposed to be a reporter at the peterborough social tonight everything is going to be exposed.

I have just had a 2 reporterS ring me ACCUSING ME OF BEING A MADAM and offer me £5000 to talk and I refused. Because I organised the Peterborough social.

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By *amschwingerzCouple over a year ago

West

For 5k I would tell them anything!!!...(made up of course!) reporters dont let the truth get in the way of a good story!

Wouldnt they stand out a little at Chams?..sitting there fully clothed, camera around their neck..with 'press' printed on a card sticking out of their trilby hats?

Seriously though..they should be easy to spot..hardly moving from the bar..they wouldnt be joining in the 'festivities'...asking people loads of questions about swinging..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What I would like to know is how the newspapers got your phone number...fuck me i have bin posting my number to them for ages and they still dont ring me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

so have you cancelled your social then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am in the process of cancelling

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Someone of fabs gave them my number

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone of fabs gave them my number"

thats awefull

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By *ruitWoman over a year ago

near kings lynn

Bar stewards/bitches. So whatsoever happening then Shaz about this eve. Is it cancelled

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone of fabs gave them my number"

Well any one who wished to still attend a social form your list can come to ours your all more than welcome including yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

dont cancel tho, all they will see is some friends having a good time, hardly news worthy, i thought that people didnt play at socials hence the name

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By *ruitWoman over a year ago

near kings lynn

Shame its hours and hours away

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By *ummy mummyWoman over a year ago

southampton-ish

"Shame its hours and hours away"

I am coming up from southampton

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone of fabs gave them my number

Well any one who wished to still attend a social form your list can come to ours your all more than welcome including yourself. "

uh oh Kat....u mean only those verified as in having played before and knowing peops of course

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By *ruitWoman over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have children to get back to once the eve is done and wish i could afford the fuel and accomodation. Enjoy tho as am sure you Will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i reckon the way to get round it is this

get everyone to expose themselves upon entry....take a snap and refuse to delete pic until afterwards lol

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By *ruitWoman over a year ago

near kings lynn

That sounds good mmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone of fabs gave them my number

Well any one who wished to still attend a social form your list can come to ours your all more than welcome including yourself. "

Call me stupid but haven't you just put out an invite to the reporters going to the Peterborough social an invite to your social?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone of fabs gave them my number

Well any one who wished to still attend a social form your list can come to ours your all more than welcome including yourself.

Call me stupid but haven't you just put out an invite to the reporters going to the Peterborough social an invite to your social? "

Well using a little common sense, its obvious everyone would be under the same security scrutinies. (see other thread)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What did they think they were going to see? I saw more action up town last than you'd see at a swingers social!! It was being held in a pub!!! I know my flirtings bad, but don't think its news worthy lol. I was really looking forward to a good laugh huge amounts of flirting and just a nice relaxing evening. Is there nothing more interesting to report on than a bunch of people having a Piss up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone of fabs gave them my number

Well any one who wished to still attend a social form your list can come to ours your all more than welcome including yourself.

Call me stupid but haven't you just put out an invite to the reporters going to the Peterborough social an invite to your social?

Well using a little common sense, its obvious everyone would be under the same security scrutinies. (see other thread)"

I know i read it but i would guess if there are under cover reporters about they would have a profile up and have got it verified. These people have fooled all sorts in the past and are pretty devious. If they want a story and have invested time and money they are not put of easily i am guessing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It doesn't matter what they might or might not have seen or what might or might not have happened.

In the eyes of the red tops swingers are perverts and, had they infiltrated the event, the headline would have been 'Pervs invade Peterborough'or similar and they'd have printed a few library pics with faces blanked out and the background unidentifiable.

If their intervention has caused the event to be cancelled, they'll claim the credit for 'Peterborough saved from Perverts by NOTW' and still publish the stock pics and some 'sources close to' or ' according to a website' "quotes".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It doesn't matter what they might or might not have seen or what might or might not have happened.

As long as they don't print profile pictures! Think i will change mine just to be safe.

These sort of reporters don't give up though. Look how they hounded princess Diana and others

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By *arolxxpaulCouple over a year ago

sheffield

i know we dont name and shame on here but if you know any of the ids can you email us and let us know and inform admin.

so i take it one of your friends with your phone number is the one who stitch you up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i know we dont name and shame on here but if you know any of the ids can you email us and let us know and inform admin.

so i take it one of your friends with your phone number is the one who stitch you up"

Perhaps the social organiser left a phone number with the venue when she arranged to book some tables.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd tell all for £50 but that's cause I'm cheap

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

and im sorry if you look at the person profile who sorted this social the social address is printed on her profile so at the end of the day why would thay have to go to any lengths to find out details sorry im no james bond or pvt eye detective but it dont take alot of working out if its true were thay got the details from she did it for them by printing the details on her profile sorry but i dont see it being true what so ever

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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Don't put phone numbers onto the forums please, especially of a third pary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

people been swinging for years its old news would be boring in the papers .. yes sex storys in the papers people like but people standing around having a drink and a chat ..... whats it all about , lol wheres the sex in that ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"people been swinging for years its old news would be boring in the papers .. yes sex storys in the papers people like but people standing around having a drink and a chat ..... whats it all about , lol wheres the sex in that ?"

Footballers have been cheating for years, pop stars taking drugs for years, film stars exposing flesh for years but its still news and people will read it. Very little reported in the papers hasn't been reported on others before. Swingers party's will always be if interest to those who like to expose unfortunately.

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By *ruitWoman over a year ago

near kings lynn

Wonder what everyone Will do now

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By *ummy mummyWoman over a year ago

southampton-ish

of course there is nothing stopping a few people still getting together ...as said it is in a pub...who is to know that a table of 10 aren't just regular patrons...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder what everyone Will do now"
not sure xx tease maybe never been to new club. See what offers come in.

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By *ex.IncCouple over a year ago

Castleford

5k though to talk about it. If it was offered to me id be there like a shot. Just my honest opinion though.

Its a shame they have to ruin it for the majority. No wonder journo's have always had a bad name.

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By *ruitWoman over a year ago

near kings lynn

"Wonder what everyone Will do now not sure xx tease maybe never been to new club. See what offers come in."

am thinking the same as wanting an eve out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That rather misses the point. In the eyes of parts of the media swingers are perverts and perverts are always perverts - even when they're not doing anything perverted.

It's all about selling papers and anything that smacks of pervery sells papers.

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By *arolxxpaulCouple over a year ago

sheffield

"and im sorry if you look at the person profile who sorted this social the social address is printed on her profile so at the end of the day why would thay have to go to any lengths to find out details sorry im no james bond or pvt eye detective but it dont take alot of working out if its true were thay got the details from she did it for them by printing the details on her profile sorry but i dont see it being true what so ever "

got to say i wouldnt dream of posting the venue on a forum and to let anyone else reading this my social i want to se more than one verification and the venue details will not be given till last minute.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been to a social? People do get a little more friendly than that at some socials.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"of course there is nothing stopping a few people still getting together ...as said it is in a pub...who is to know that a table of 10 aren't just regular patrons..."

If, as I've mentioned above, the 'leak' came from the venue they'll know exactly which tables were booked by the organiser and consequently which tables the 'pervs' are sitting at.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Posting details at the last minute won't stop them though will it? They will already know the area and they are i would guess not going to turn up with a full film crew!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly.

Your solution still isn't perfect but it's a lot better than publishing details for all and sundry to read. You might as well email an invite to the NOTW.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lets face it what reporter contacts someone offering money BEFORE they have done the undercover spy bit

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By *arolxxpaulCouple over a year ago

sheffield

Posting details at the last minute won't stop them though will it? They will already know the area and they are i would guess not going to turn up with a full film crew! "

i dont post the details on any forum its email only and i will be stepping up on things to like i said to come to mine you need a cpl verifications to come. iv seen reporters in clubs before so im not that daft.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been to a social? People do get a little more friendly than that at some socials. "
yes and people flirt and have sex after maybe at a hotel or there car or friends houses not there ... well the ones i have been at in pubs have been very layed back, I have been doing this over 10 years on and off sdc partys local party and socials .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That rather assumes that the verification system is reliable. Numerous threads and posts suggest this isn't the case.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lets face it what reporter contacts someone offering money BEFORE they have done the undercover spy bit

"
I read this and was thinking in all my years what a wind up x I just did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you been to a social? People do get a little more friendly than that at some socials. yes and people flirt and have sex after maybe at a hotel or there car or friends houses not there ... well the ones i have been at in pubs have been very layed back, I have been doing this over 10 years on and off sdc partys local party and socials ."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That rather assumes that the verification system is reliable. Numerous threads and posts suggest this isn't the case. "

Well we don't put much faith by it. Many have said in the past its abused and looking at some profiles you get the opinion it is not exactly reliable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If it's to be believed and I was offered £5k I'd talk to them and I'd make it really juicy too nothing that's in the NOTW is true anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All sorts go on at socials if you care to take notice. Most of it is subtle but there is more than just chat in the dark corners. That is what the papers are looking for as it is titillation and fills pages and gets people reading. Not nice but it does happen."
yes ones in village halls never in a open pubs ...... yes i know where your coming from as some i have been to own room in big hotel people do get up to all sorts even know people had sex in loo. lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All sorts go on at socials if you care to take notice. Most of it is subtle but there is more than just chat in the dark corners. That is what the papers are looking for as it is titillation and fills pages and gets people reading. Not nice but it does happen. yes ones in village halls never in a open pubs ...... yes i know where your coming from as some i have been to own room in big hotel people do get up to all sorts even know people had sex in loo. lol "

Village halls? Are you sure you go to swingers socials? Most of the ones we have attended are in a function room in a pub and rarely in an open pub! Others are in private swingers venues or a closed pub like the other social today.

When we go to a social its always with an open mind and we have got up to some fun well before the night has finished, maybe its the difference between city and village life!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When we go to a social its always with an open mind and we have got up to some fun well before the night has finished, maybe its the difference between city and village life! "
yes i know people who go to village halls , lol not from this site. I have been doing this years so i know what go on. Never once have papers come into it x

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By *eighleedsMan over a year ago

leeds

" even know people had sex in loo. lol "

hyave seen / heard that in a normal nightclub many times, nothing new or out of the oridinary worth them reporting there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why the worry ?

Swinging isn't a crime.

You can't be sure it was reporters or that anyone gave out your number.

More than likely pranksters.

Name the newspaper they claim to be from and i'll ring the paper and make enquiries..

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

the owner of la cham does a write up for the sport

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd tell all for £50 but that's cause I'm cheap"

I'll go to a fiver n a bag of chips ...... no more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been told by my nephew that swingers hold what he called "conventions" in zincs in Cardiff. I just looked amazed and said what are swingers, and he works for local rag i just think its just a bit of gossip, but to be sure i stay away from socials advertised in forum xxxx sticks to quiet ones only advertised by word of mouth i.e. the phone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell you what let's split it sweets

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i know we dont name and shame on here but if you know any of the ids can you email us and let us know and inform admin.

so i take it one of your friends with your phone number is the one who stitch you up

Perhaps the social organiser left a phone number with the venue when she arranged to book some tables."

Yes I did as a contact number but did not mention swinging just that I was having a party/social. I have hid my profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have nothing to hide, and am still coming up for the social and Chams the day after.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tell you what let's split it sweets "

K ..... I get the fiver you get the chips ..... no back shouts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if you read the first post granny it states news of the world and the sunday sport lol i did post a number saying about ringing the news desk but admin got rid of it for some reason

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The whole point of a social is that any one can go, because, its not a sexual event, its a party....It a SOCIAL occasion to meet other like minded people, so why on earth couldn't shaz post the details on the forums? Its hardly any more secure if she was to pm everyone who asked.

I dont think Shaz should be slated at all, she gave her time and effort to try and arrange a fun night out. Maybe you should try and arrange something next time if you think you could do a better job!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

First and last social I try to organise people ask me to post the address of the pub I did my mistake people ask can I post whose coming so I do a list in the forums You live and learn and today has been a day from hell. But I would never sell a story or rat out any of my friends never.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if you read the first post granny it states news of the world and the sunday sport lol i did post a number saying about ringing the news desk but admin got rid of it for some reason "

I did read the first post. It doesn't say which papers called offering money.

I can read 'properly' but thanks for trying to answer what I never asked you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

These sort of reporters don't give up though. Look how they hounded princess Diana and others

Lol oh come on, anyone on here is hardly Princess Diana quality. Ok I guess its a bit interesting, sex sells doesnt it, but the story of swingers has been told time and time again. Is it really that newsworthy and to be honest what is remotely interesting about us lot, we would hardly be front page material. Celebrity sells newspapers, stick a celebrity with a sex story and theres money to be made. I really cant see how interesting us lot really are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tell you what let's split it sweets

K ..... I get the fiver you get the chips ..... no back shouts. "

You tight fisted so and so call yourself a lady?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

mmmmmmmmmm can't remember the lady bit...

you're not even gettin the chips now ..... :P

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"First and last social I try to organise people ask me to post the address of the pub I did my mistake people ask can I post whose coming so I do a list in the forums You live and learn and today has been a day from hell. But I would never sell a story or rat out any of my friends never."
your not to blame for this ... I just feel it could be a wind -up and your here thinking of other people not wishing them and you to get in the shit i know this ..... but people will do all sorts could be a person not wishing you to have a meet there x could be all sorts ... xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"mmmmmmmmmm can't remember the lady bit...

you're not even gettin the chips now ..... :P"

Your off my valentines card list now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"First and last social I try to organise people ask me to post the address of the pub I did my mistake people ask can I post whose coming so I do a list in the forums You live and learn and today has been a day from hell. But I would never sell a story or rat out any of my friends never. your not to blame for this ... I just feel it could be a wind -up and your here thinking of other people not wishing them and you to get in the shit i know this ..... but people will do all sorts could be a person not wishing you to have a meet there x could be all sorts ... xx"

Thanks hun I have met some amazing people through fabs and chams and I will not put anyone at risk or rat anybody out. I thought the first phone call was a hoax but after the 5th one dont think so offering me obscene amounts of money. I refused. I am a true swinger and will not hurt the ones I care about.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"if you read the first post granny it states news of the world and the sunday sport lol i did post a number saying about ringing the news desk but admin got rid of it for some reason "

One of the rules you see before you post is........

Don't post phone numbers

One of the reasons for that rule is so people don't post other people phone number, which you did

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By *arolxxpaulCouple over a year ago

sheffield

That rather assumes that the verification system is reliable. Numerous threads and posts suggest this isn't the case.

Well we don't put much faith by it. Many have said in the past its abused and looking at some profiles you get the opinion it is not exactly reliable.

im with you on that you do get a feel for profile after been in the game a long time

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By *arolxxpaulCouple over a year ago

sheffield

"the owner of la cham does a write up for the sport"

it isnt la chambre they are on about when they say chams.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you get a phonecall from someone claiming to be a reporter ask for their NUJ number and dept head at the paper they say they work for, Contact the NUJ to verify they are a reporter as anyone can say they work for any of the red tops.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Someone of fabs gave them my number

Well any one who wished to still attend a social form your list can come to ours your all more than welcome including yourself.

Call me stupid but haven't you just put out an invite to the reporters going to the Peterborough social an invite to your social?

Well using a little common sense, its obvious everyone would be under the same security scrutinies. (see other thread)

oh you can be sure of that. there will be pleny coins of silver on offer.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

These sort of reporters don't give up though. Look how they hounded princess Diana and others

I think it probably is quite newsworthy these days as it is more and more common.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

and I mean that in "the nicest possible way".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Years ago i come across somthing a bit like this .... person making out from local- paper saying thay was going to be there under cover .... but thay found out it was a person who was just saying it as there club would miss out on people going there if thay had the meet at the pub . Like i say people can do all sorts ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Years ago i come across somthing a bit like this .... person making out from local- paper saying thay was going to be there under cover .... but thay found out it was a person who was just saying it as there club would miss out on people going there if thay had the meet at the pub . Like i say people can do all sorts ..."

he he it's a bit like those "Does he know that she knows that I know that he knows" thingys we used to do as ados.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you sure you aren't the victim of some kind of wind up here?

Because your first post mentions 3 separate newspapers. What are the chances of 3 separate newspapers all working on the same undercover story at the same time?

Secondly what kind of "undercover" reporter rings the organiser to tip them off that reporters will be a the event and offer them £5000 to presumably provide an inter_iew?

I think someone is winding you up.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

oh dearie me...

a risk of being named in the Sport.

I would end it now.

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By *ex.IncCouple over a year ago

Castleford

We first got into swinging by seeing a report in the Sport. It was of a female who went with her male partner to private parties at couples houses. Documented fully about what he and she did (only hand action).

Big 2 page spread. It was a somewhat interesting read though.

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman over a year ago

Fabville !!!

some people would not wish to be confronted by press at any social or club. As others have said posting phone numbers is not always safe, one never knows who could use that number or pass it on.

And giving out venue, i have been to socials that i know are invite only, or people have to be known to that person organising etc.. safer that way. and have never been to one yet where i have felt unsafe, (from intruders) lol

It is nice to meet new people at socials to be honest you never know who you are chatting to lol

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By *ust JoanWoman over a year ago

caerphilly

None of the gutter press would need to take pictures, they would just download them from the internet and obscure the faces, the steamier the pictures the more sales they will get. None of the pictures would depict actual goings on, the story will include the girl aged about 30 in the corner performing sex acts on 2 men at the same time, who they later speek to and allegidly assertain her name is Julie or Alice, and the 2 women on the dance floor with their tongues down each others throat.

The point I am trying to make here is they have no need to even attend the social, the story will have already been writen (assuming there is a story in the first place) all they need is the name of the venue they don't even need the date as the story won't come out for 2 weeks after the event, these people are not jurnalists, they are cartoonists, the last real news any of them covered was the death of Princess Diana, and not all of that was accurate, and thats just the NOTW and the Sun (which is the same company incedently), and who would ever believe the Sport (yes that's the one who reported the double decker bus and spitfire found on the moon), so if I had organised the social it would go on as planned as no matter what, the story will go ahead without reporters attending, it will still be classed as an "EXCLUSIVE" if it is canceled it will still be an "EXCLUSIVE, but this time it will read NOTW stops swinging event.

Please don't underestimate these people though, they can turn nothing into something, and can ruin someone's career on a whim (remember only a few months ago one of the members of this site was exposed, and she happened to be a chief constable for one of the large police forces), if they want to report they will, nothing you or I can do about it.

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By *umourCouple over a year ago

Rushden

Well.. Firstly I must say that it is highly unlikely that someone from a newspaper would warn you before hand, let alone three! Second, they offer no money at all unless they can't get the info from the venue and people there.

Thirdly and more sinister, it looks like someone wanted your social cancelled. Perhaps another social organiser wanted your "catch". But that would only work if money was involved.

There is the chance that it was all a wind up and it has backfired and now they can't say anything because of the cancellation. Your next phone bill could be interesting. It should have the number who called. They might have blocked the number, but you never know...

Swinging always used to be a private affair, but now with the advent of new facilities it is no longer the case. Club owners are actually inviting newspapers in to clubs on play nights! One last weekend had the Sport along on a Friday!

Others, like has been said do pieces for the papers. it is almost as if they think they can change editor opinions of what goes on, but they can't. Next slow news day and there you have your story, jigged to make it more sellable...

One of the reasons we don't go to clubs at the moment..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your next phone bill could be interesting. It should have the number who called. They might have blocked the number, but you never know..."

I'm confused, I only see the numbers I've called on my bill - can you do that then?

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By *umourCouple over a year ago

Rushden

"Your next phone bill could be interesting. It should have the number who called. They might have blocked the number, but you never know...

I'm confused, I only see the numbers I've called on my bill - can you do that then? "

Actually we can, but we did ask for it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your next phone bill could be interesting. It should have the number who called. They might have blocked the number, but you never know...

I'm confused, I only see the numbers I've called on my bill - can you do that then?

Actually we can, but we did ask for it!"

Awesome, I might give that a spin. I wasn't trying to be clever, was genuinely asking

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By *umourCouple over a year ago

Rushden

"Your next phone bill could be interesting. It should have the number who called. They might have blocked the number, but you never know...

I'm confused, I only see the numbers I've called on my bill - can you do that then?

Actually we can, but we did ask for it!

Awesome, I might give that a spin. I wasn't trying to be clever, was genuinely asking

No problem, we were having problems and our phone company did this for a three month period.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well we still had our social we just changed the venue and was more discreet still had around 40 couples turn up so not too bad considering it was a last minute thing. And it was a fabulous night. So those who tried to fuck it up failed miserably. And wow the after parties were amazing.

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By *umourCouple over a year ago

Rushden

"Well we still had our social we just changed the venue and was more discreet still had around 40 couples turn up so not too bad considering it was a last minute thing. And it was a fabulous night. So those who tried to fuck it up failed miserably. And wow the after parties were amazing."

Good for you. Hope you don't give up arranging socials, there is not much more you can learn now lol. But after all your problems, you still went ahead and made a success of it. Now you know, give it another shot!

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By *arambarMan over a year ago

swindon

Nice one!

Glad you still went ahead with it and that you all had a good time.

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By *ruitWoman over a year ago

near kings lynn

O yes, just a shame it wasnt a child free weekend for me as I would have been there with you being naughty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sickening that the media has nothing better to do than harrass and hound a lifestyle choice made legally by concenting adults! No doubt they will be using all the old stereotypes. Jog on journos

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hope they print site address think of all the new members the site will get lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What I would like to know is how the newspapers got your phone number...fuck me i have bin posting my number to them for ages and they still dont ring me"

lol bi pussy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont cancel tho, all they will see is some friends having a good time, hardly news worthy, i thought that people didnt play at socials hence the name"

Thats what I thought socials where just that a social meet, so everyone could just say to anyone asking questions about swinging " what do you mean ?? Im at a birthday party "

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By *immy444Man over a year ago

bristol

imfamy imfamy everyone got it in for me -kenneth williams classic quote

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By *heWolfMan over a year ago

warwickshire

"imfamy imfamy everyone got it in for me -kenneth williams classic quote"

PMSL, no no no, I hate to break it to you, but that's not it.

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By *amschwingerzCouple over a year ago

West

"Sickening that the media has nothing better to do than harrass and hound a lifestyle choice made legally by concenting adults! No doubt they will be using all the old stereotypes. Jog on journos"

Even more sickening when you think that most of the shite papers that carry these stories about the dirty underground cloak and dagger disease ridden world of swingers also carry page fulls of adverts for massage parlours, wank lines and personal escorts..

Journos are like solicitors...decent ones with good morals are like rocking horse shit..

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By *arambarMan over a year ago

swindon

"dont cancel tho, all they will see is some friends having a good time, hardly news worthy, i thought that people didnt play at socials hence the name

Thats what I thought socials where just that a social meet, so everyone could just say to anyone asking questions about swinging " what do you mean ?? Im at a birthday party "

It's my Nan's birthday in a few month's time. I might phone up the newspapers and tell them to get down to the club where she's having a surprise party and say that there'll be a bunch of those perverted, depraved swingers having one of their sex-fuelled parties.

There'll have the shock of their lives when they get greeted by my 90 year old granny singing Knees Up Mother Brown!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"dont cancel tho, all they will see is some friends having a good time, hardly news worthy, i thought that people didnt play at socials hence the name

Thats what I thought socials where just that a social meet, so everyone could just say to anyone asking questions about swinging " what do you mean ?? Im at a birthday party "

Ruby hun, they are supposed to be exactly that. but..... i have normally managed a little extra

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By *heekychezzaWoman over a year ago

warrington

"Ruby hun, they are supposed to be exactly that. but..... i have normally managed a little extra

.....ho hum....you ALWAYS manage to get a lot extra

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yo my girlie....i sure miss u hun xxxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Ruby hun, they are supposed to be exactly that. but..... i have normally managed a little extra

understatement of the year???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ruby hun, they are supposed to be exactly that. but..... i have normally managed a little extra

understatement of the year???

Never a dull moment when Bi Pussy is about I can tell you!

MWAH!

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By *ummy mummyWoman over a year ago

southampton-ish

"Ruby hun, they are supposed to be exactly that. but..... i have normally managed a little extra

understatement of the year???

Never a dull moment when Bi Pussy is about I can tell you!

MWAH!

yes...that poor monkey will be traumatised for life...hehehe

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