We have been trying to sort out a meet for a mff for quite sometime now but we keep getting let down or messed around and it starting to have a negative affect on my Mrs who is considering calling time on it all now! We have been together a long time and she has never before shown any intrest in being bi but after taking her to lap dance as a dare for her and bit of a fantasy for me,she loved it! (You can imagine my surprise!) We have had many of wild sex session after the dances we've had since our first one and I know she really wants the feel of a woman.So I feel we would both be missing out if we just walked away!? |
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I'm not really sure you can put time limits on this kinda thing. Surely it's better to wait till the right person appears than just dive in and meet anyone.
Does your wife get involved in chatting to women or is it you doing the looking? |
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"I'm not really sure you can put time limits on this kinda thing. Surely it's better to wait till the right person appears than just dive in and meet anyone.
Does your wife get involved in chatting to women or is it you doing the looking? "
I prefer it when it's her doing the chatting tbh. |
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Have you tried looking for a couple? I'm slightly bi. Why I class myself as straight not enough men to keep me happy in mff but There are also some couples where the guy prefers to watch if inviting a guy in doesn't do it for you |
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It's one of the hardest things to find on this site and everyone is looking for it.
Personally, we gave up on it pretty soon after joining the site. And then we happened upon a few situations where we were able to enjoy an ffm. Each time it was at clubs (though one was facilitated by fab  ).
Anyway, if you just keep looking for it it's just going to frustrate you, in my opinion.
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"Have you tried looking for a couple? I'm slightly bi. Why I class myself as straight not enough men to keep me happy in mff but There are also some couples where the guy prefers to watch if inviting a guy in doesn't do it for you "
No it doesn't appeal to us at all, we have intrest from couples before stating similar but it's not what we was hoping for.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Have you tried looking for a couple? I'm slightly bi. Why I class myself as straight not enough men to keep me happy in mff but There are also some couples where the guy prefers to watch if inviting a guy in doesn't do it for you No it doesn't appeal to us at all, we have intrest from couples before stating similar but it's not what we was hoping for. "
If you're that specific and set on what you want, you'll either have to be patient or pay a professional to join the two of you.
The latter us the only way you're going to be able to do it to suit your timescale.
Other than that, clubs are your best bet but if you don't want to go that route, you'll have to accept what you are looking for is not easy to find and be patient. |
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"Have you tried a club?
Was giving this some thought but it's a confidence thing I think.
Pluck up the courage, this is probably the best way to go."
this was looking like a more likely way for us to go but I think the more we have been let down the more the confidence as been ate away at. |
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You've been given some great advice  let downs do happen, even on the day of a meet, its a case not taking it personally and letting it get to you.
There are a vast amount of Bifem couples who would be more than happy to play girl girl with your wife. That is how I have had the majority of my girl on girl fun, with the females of other couples
Perhaps more rarely you may find a lady of a couple who may be happy to play with both of you, so I wouldn't rule couples out.
Good luck
Bun |
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"You've been given some great advice let downs do happen, even on the day of a meet, its a case not taking it personally and letting it get to you.
There are a vast amount of Bifem couples who would be more than happy to play girl girl with your wife. That is how I have had the majority of my girl on girl fun, with the females of other couples
Perhaps more rarely you may find a lady of a couple who may be happy to play with both of you, so I wouldn't rule couples out.
Good luck
Bun "
correct we have and I am greatfull, I personally feel we should look at maybe a club because although we would like it to play out the way we have talked about over & over again but that is ideal world the one we don't live in. Ha. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"You've been given some great advice let downs do happen, even on the day of a meet, its a case not taking it personally and letting it get to you.
There are a vast amount of Bifem couples who would be more than happy to play girl girl with your wife. That is how I have had the majority of my girl on girl fun, with the females of other couples
Perhaps more rarely you may find a lady of a couple who may be happy to play with both of you, so I wouldn't rule couples out.
Good luck
Bun correct we have and I am greatfull, I personally feel we should look at maybe a club because although we would like it to play out the way we have talked about over & over again but that is ideal world the one we don't live in. Ha. "
Maybe this is part of the problem; you're focused on how you want it to play out, and your timescale and maybe aren't remembering that there is another person involved.
If you make a woman feel like you only want her as a glorified sex toy, she'll run a mile. |
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"You've been given some great advice let downs do happen, even on the day of a meet, its a case not taking it personally and letting it get to you.
There are a vast amount of Bifem couples who would be more than happy to play girl girl with your wife. That is how I have had the majority of my girl on girl fun, with the females of other couples
Perhaps more rarely you may find a lady of a couple who may be happy to play with both of you, so I wouldn't rule couples out.
Good luck
Bun correct we have and I am greatfull, I personally feel we should look at maybe a club because although we would like it to play out the way we have talked about over & over again but that is ideal world the one we don't live in. Ha.
Maybe this is part of the problem; you're focused on how you want it to play out, and your timescale and maybe aren't remembering that there is another person involved.
If you make a woman feel like you only want her as a glorified sex toy, she'll run a mile."
We don't do that at all we have yet to put across to anyone what our personal preference is, we if anything listen and work around what the other person has stated they want & like. That's the frustrating thing we work to what others want and they still let us down. We feel we have been very accommodating. |
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Its often said to single guys you have to stand out in the crowd.. well when you're a couple seeking the elusive hi female. you have to stand out .. do you think you stand out from the other couples ?? 
