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over a year ago
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When one or the other starts having feelings..and it stops being fun..
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I have a few regular meets.. its all NSA.
Depends how you define relationships too... friendships are a relationship.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When do repeat 'swinging' meets stop being NSA sex and start becoming a relationship?"
It's really strange that so many on this forum enjoy very liberal minded physical entanglements yet there's so many who talk of any sort of emotional connection as if it's evil in every way.
Repeat swinging sessions become a relationship if both parties feel that they wish to go into a relationship. If they don't, they don't. I have fuck buddies from the past I still talk to as we developed strong emotional connections. It's nice to have those still going. |
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A friendship, by its very definition is a relationship, because you have a 'relationship' with that person, we have a relationship with our parents or our children, but the meaning of the word relationship is quite broad, and can only be interpreted by what it means between one person and another, there are different types of relationships. So to put the original question into context, it might be better to ask, when does it become a 'romantic relationship' and for some the answer may well be never, 'we are just friends' I personally have only ever been active (indulged) on the scene with a partner whom I have been in a romantic relationship with, ie girlfriend. I imagine if I was seeing someone purely for sex, I would question if it meant something more from the point where we met up for other activities as well, and sex became less of the only focus of that relationship. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"When do repeat 'swinging' meets stop being NSA sex and start becoming a relationship?"
As in an emotional relationship?
Never for us.
We meet for NSA sex, even if we meet the person more than once, it is still NSA sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its a good question..people will percieve the word relationship in different ways ..
I think every time I meet someone..at any time..I have a relationship with them ....
However I think ...that the OP is alluding to something else....whch I`m finding hard to answer .....
Mabye the difference in my relationships are the ones I feel are superficial...and those I attach meaning to....
Very good question .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When do repeat 'swinging' meets stop being NSA sex and start becoming a relationship?"
i would have thought after the point that the people involved have talked about it and decided to move onto being a relationshop
other wise you can meet someone a 100 times and its still NSA
i dont think its the amount of times you meet its when you decide to take it onto the next stage |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When do repeat 'swinging' meets stop being NSA sex and start becoming a relationship?
As in an emotional relationship?
Never for us.
We meet for NSA sex, even if we meet the person more than once, it is still NSA sex."
So the sex you have with other people is entirely emotionally passive? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When do repeat 'swinging' meets stop being NSA sex and start becoming a relationship?
i would have thought after the point that the people involved have talked about it and decided to move onto being a relationshop
other wise you can meet someone a 100 times and its still NSA
i dont think its the amount of times you meet its when you decide to take it onto the next stage"
100 times! Do you believe you could meet and have sex with someone that many times based on just initial physical attraction with no other emotion involved? |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"When do repeat 'swinging' meets stop being NSA sex and start becoming a relationship?
i would have thought after the point that the people involved have talked about it and decided to move onto being a relationshop
other wise you can meet someone a 100 times and its still NSA
i dont think its the amount of times you meet its when you decide to take it onto the next stage
100 times! Do you believe you could meet and have sex with someone that many times based on just initial physical attraction with no other emotion involved?"
yes it's possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When do repeat 'swinging' meets stop being NSA sex and start becoming a relationship?
i would have thought after the point that the people involved have talked about it and decided to move onto being a relationshop
other wise you can meet someone a 100 times and its still NSA
i dont think its the amount of times you meet its when you decide to take it onto the next stage
100 times! Do you believe you could meet and have sex with someone that many times based on just initial physical attraction with no other emotion involved?"
lol it was only an example
what i ment is its not the amount of times that you meet someone that makes it into a relationship
I have met guys on a regular basis in the past, i used to meet one guy for about 3 years on and off and i had no feelings for him at all besides he was a nice guy i liked to have sex with
Personally yes i do think you could have sex with someone a 100 times and feel nothing emotionally towards them, it depends on what your looking for i suppose
But im not nor have i ever been looking for a relationship so i just dont see guys i meet in that way
Its just sex |
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In all honesty I'd be wary of real relationships forming from here, even if you do develop serious feelings for your playmate. Its quite often the case that what you see as the startings of something, however tentative, its never quite what is expected. Look at the realism of it and actually sit back and take stock, should anyone be thinking of it, its never as easy and as straightforward as you'd think ... more often than not you read more into it than you should and thats when it all goes belly up .... better to be straightforward, upfront and 100% honest and open .. If you don't expect anything, you can't get hurt, if you don't expect anything, then anything unexpected is a bonus |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I am not looking for a 'proper' relationship (in the traditional sense), I'm only interested in NSA on here sprinkled with the odd short term 'vanilla fling' off here, (that could be the name of a cocktail lol), but I must say even I would struggle to be motivated to meet the same women 100 times if I had no other emotion for her than purely physical....the truth is I'd probably get bored! It's why I like variety I suppose.
I appreciate the '100 times' thing is just an example. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When do repeat 'swinging' meets stop being NSA sex and start becoming a relationship?
i would have thought after the point that the people involved have talked about it and decided to move onto being a relationshop
other wise you can meet someone a 100 times and its still NSA
i dont think its the amount of times you meet its when you decide to take it onto the next stage"
Agree.
I dont have a "relationship" with the guy i see.
But its normally a regular meet as such .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When do repeat 'swinging' meets stop being NSA sex and start becoming a relationship?
i would have thought after the point that the people involved have talked about it and decided to move onto being a relationshop
other wise you can meet someone a 100 times and its still NSA
i dont think its the amount of times you meet its when you decide to take it onto the next stage
100 times! Do you believe you could meet and have sex with someone that many times based on just initial physical attraction with no other emotion involved?"
yep, I have been doing exactly that with someone for the past 4 years.We are friends but there is no emotional attachment there that is not the same for any of my other friends..the sex is just a bonus lol |
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