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"been on here a bit did like to go in mids chat room but all I said was I was having trouble meeting people next thing I know a certain group of people on there ganed up on me to close me down not letting me have a point of view I hate bullies xxxxx" I know its hard, but try not to be so sensitive about it. They are just random strangers at a keyboard and who knows what issues they have .... trying to make themselves feel better by putting others down? Just see it for what it is and feel sorry for them? | |||
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"been on here a bit did like to go in mids chat room but all I said was I was having trouble meeting people next thing I know a certain group of people on there ganed up on me to close me down not letting me have a point of view I hate bullies xxxxx" I was in the mids chat when you were in last night No one ganged up on you You stated everyone yes EVERYONE was a timewaster and did not meet, you were also stating this from a fake couples profiles which I see admin have changed to a single man. After your statement others simply pointed out that they do meet, some naming others in the chat room that they have met. I didnt participate in the conversation but I did read it, you were not bullied in any way shape or form, you were actually just told people do meet | |||
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"been on here a bit did like to go in mids chat room but all I said was I was having trouble meeting people next thing I know a certain group of people on there ganed up on me to close me down not letting me have a point of view I hate bullies xxxxx I was in the mids chat when you were in last night No one ganged up on you You stated everyone yes EVERYONE was a timewaster and did not meet, you were also stating this from a fake couples profiles which I see admin have changed to a single man. After your statement others simply pointed out that they do meet, some naming others in the chat room that they have met. I didnt participate in the conversation but I did read it, you were not bullied in any way shape or form, you were actually just told people do meet" Not sure you should have gone into any detail about the op's profile and its status there, it could be seen as nit picking someone's profile. | |||
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"been on here a bit did like to go in mids chat room but all I said was I was having trouble meeting people next thing I know a certain group of people on there ganed up on me to close me down not letting me have a point of view I hate bullies xxxxx I was in the mids chat when you were in last night No one ganged up on you You stated everyone yes EVERYONE was a timewaster and did not meet, you were also stating this from a fake couples profiles which I see admin have changed to a single man. After your statement others simply pointed out that they do meet, some naming others in the chat room that they have met. I didnt participate in the conversation but I did read it, you were not bullied in any way shape or form, you were actually just told people do meet Not sure you should have gone into any detail about the op's profile and its status there, it could be seen as nit picking someone's profile." Its a fact i stated not a lie, and not a dig at him either, was plain truth. I also haven't critiqued his profile The fact is though the OP wasn't bullied in any shape or form like he is making out. I was impartial as I did not join in the conversation at all, it was a single man on a rant, accusing every single person of being fake, and couldn't handle others opinions to his rants, and now suddenly those people are bullies | |||
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"I wish some of the fab ladies would gang up with me
mmmmm count me in "Go easy on me | |||
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"I wish some of the fab ladies would gang up with me
mmmmm count me in
Go easy on me "Would love to xxx | |||
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"been on here a bit did like to go in mids chat room but all I said was I was having trouble meeting people next thing I know a certain group of people on there ganed up on me to close me down not letting me have a point of view I hate bullies xxxxx I was in the mids chat when you were in last night No one ganged up on you You stated everyone yes EVERYONE was a timewaster and did not meet, you were also stating this from a fake couples profiles which I see admin have changed to a single man. After your statement others simply pointed out that they do meet, some naming others in the chat room that they have met. I didnt participate in the conversation but I did read it, you were not bullied in any way shape or form, you were actually just told people do meet Not sure you should have gone into any detail about the op's profile and its status there, it could be seen as nit picking someone's profile. Its a fact i stated not a lie, and not a dig at him either, was plain truth. I also haven't critiqued his profile The fact is though the OP wasn't bullied in any shape or form like he is making out. I was impartial as I did not join in the conversation at all, it was a single man on a rant, accusing every single person of being fake, and couldn't handle others opinions to his rants, and now suddenly those people are bullies " I was just saying it can be easy to fall foul of the rules some times and end up breaking them without realising that what you have said is against the rules I know I have, and I wouldn't want anyone else to make the same mistake | |||
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"been on here a bit did like to go in mids chat room but all I said was I was having trouble meeting people next thing I know a certain group of people on there ganed up on me to close me down not letting me have a point of view I hate bullies xxxxx I was in the mids chat when you were in last night No one ganged up on you You stated everyone yes EVERYONE was a timewaster and did not meet, you were also stating this from a fake couples profiles which I see admin have changed to a single man. After your statement others simply pointed out that they do meet, some naming others in the chat room that they have met. I didnt participate in the conversation but I did read it, you were not bullied in any way shape or form, you were actually just told people do meet Not sure you should have gone into any detail about the op's profile and its status there, it could be seen as nit picking someone's profile. Its a fact i stated not a lie, and not a dig at him either, was plain truth. I also haven't critiqued his profile The fact is though the OP wasn't bullied in any shape or form like he is making out. I was impartial as I did not join in the conversation at all, it was a single man on a rant, accusing every single person of being fake, and couldn't handle others opinions to his rants, and now suddenly those people are bullies I was just saying it can be easy to fall foul of the rules some times and end up breaking them without realising that what you have said is against the rules I know I have, and I wouldn't want anyone else to make the same mistake" I don't see how speaking the truth can be a rule break, but thanks anyway | |||
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"been on here a bit did like to go in mids chat room but all I said was I was having trouble meeting people next thing I know a certain group of people on there ganed up on me to close me down not letting me have a point of view I hate bullies xxxxx I was in the mids chat when you were in last night No one ganged up on you You stated everyone yes EVERYONE was a timewaster and did not meet, you were also stating this from a fake couples profiles which I see admin have changed to a single man. After your statement others simply pointed out that they do meet, some naming others in the chat room that they have met. I didnt participate in the conversation but I did read it, you were not bullied in any way shape or form, you were actually just told people do meet Not sure you should have gone into any detail about the op's profile and its status there, it could be seen as nit picking someone's profile. Its a fact i stated not a lie, and not a dig at him either, was plain truth. I also haven't critiqued his profile The fact is though the OP wasn't bullied in any shape or form like he is making out. I was impartial as I did not join in the conversation at all, it was a single man on a rant, accusing every single person of being fake, and couldn't handle others opinions to his rants, and now suddenly those people are bullies I was just saying it can be easy to fall foul of the rules some times and end up breaking them without realising that what you have said is against the rules I know I have, and I wouldn't want anyone else to make the same mistake I don't see how speaking the truth can be a rule break, but thanks anyway" nether do I, but hey, shit happens | |||
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"been on here a bit did like to go in mids chat room but all I said was I was having trouble meeting people next thing I know a certain group of people on there ganed up on me to close me down not letting me have a point of view I hate bullies xxxxx" Sorry to hear that fella! There can be a pack mentality on here at times, 99 times out of a hundred it's the 'less well known' male members that get it. I'm not sure why, perhaps easy game. They think they're being funny, but at times it crosses over into spiteful bitchiness, which can grind my gears. The popular male members and females, on the whole, get away with it. Then often other males will wade in and start white knighting the ladies even if they're in the wrong. All part of the game my friend, ignore them and keep smiling. Don't let words on an Internet forum get you down. I hope you find what you're looking for 
Edit: I haven't read the whole thread so don't know the ins and outs of this particular case but talking in general terms not specifically this one | |||
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"been on here a bit did like to go in mids chat room but all I said was I was having trouble meeting people next thing I know a certain group of people on there ganed up on me to close me down not letting me have a point of view I hate bullies xxxxx Sorry to hear that fella! There can be a pack mentality on here at times, 99 times out of a hundred it's the 'less well known' male members that get it. I'm not sure why, perhaps easy game. They think they're being funny, but at times it crosses over into spiteful bitchiness, which can grind my gears. The popular male members and females, on the whole, get away with it. Then often other males will wade in and start white knighting the ladies even if they're in the wrong. All part of the game my friend, ignore them and keep smiling. Don't let words on an Internet forum get you down. I hope you find what you're looking for
Edit: I haven't read the whole thread so don't know the ins and outs of this particular case but talking in general terms not specifically this one " | |||
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