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'fell' for a swinger??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only went as far as fancying ....
Still do and its been a while.
He knows how to push me buttons and i have total trust in him.
So worth hanging onto him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi all has anyone had a meet just for sex and fancied them or fell for them in a big way?"
We met on a meet. Met for a drink and been inseparable ever since, i moved in after a month  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i did once feel myself falling for a guy i met, but i put a stop to seeing him before my feelings got to strong
I dont feel its fair to tell someone you have met thro swinging you have fell for them, thats not what swinging is about and i didnt want to put him in a awkward situation so i told him i didnt want to meet him anymore to save myself from getting hurt i guess
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" yes and some times you can not help how you feel as much as you try to fight it."
Very true - you can be in over your head in no time!
The 'L' word - probably arouses more reaction on here from some than any swear word, but if you have a heart you're never immune! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"got together with someone couple weeks ago now got a clps profile going quite well having a FAB time "
i dont want to rain on your parade.... but surely if you "fall " for someone you wouldnt then have a couples profile straight away ....wouldnt you just want to be together ??? i dont quite get that ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"got together with someone couple weeks ago now got a clps profile going quite well having a FAB time
i dont want to rain on your parade.... but surely if you "fall " for someone you wouldnt then have a couples profile straight away ....wouldnt you just want to be together ??? i dont quite get that ??"
Got to say, I was thinking the same. I'd not feel comfortable playing with a couple who had only known each other for 2 weeks and weren't comfortable with each other. In my opinion you need to know someone inside out before you can invite someone else into your lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"probs my age, but yeah i have.
never been in love before (i hear everyone going 'awwwww') however i was very smitten "
You'll know when you are - its' like a steamroller hitting you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"probs my age, but yeah i have.
never been in love before (i hear everyone going 'awwwww') however i was very smitten
You'll know when you are - its' like a steamroller hitting you!"
ouch, dont think id like it haha
i have a commitment phobia,, i tend to run away and push a guy away when things get too much. Ive seen friends go through heartache and i'll be dammed if i suffer it :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"probs my age, but yeah i have.
never been in love before (i hear everyone going 'awwwww') however i was very smitten "
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I did not know how great love could be until I met my late partner when I was in my late 30s.
I have not ruled out bumping into another person who could light my fireworks the way he did.
Hopeless romantic deep down here!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"probs my age, but yeah i have.
never been in love before (i hear everyone going 'awwwww') however i was very smitten
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I did not know how great love could be until I met my late partner when I was in my late 30s.
I have not ruled out bumping into another person who could light my fireworks the way he did.
Hopeless romantic deep down here! "
i hope you find it again, i might get there one day if i stop pushing decent guys away haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"got together with someone couple weeks ago now got a clps profile going quite well having a FAB time
i dont want to rain on your parade.... but surely if you "fall " for someone you wouldnt then have a couples profile straight away ....wouldnt you just want to be together ??? i dont quite get that ??"
theres a difference between falling for someone and finding yourself a fuck buddie lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i hope you find it again, i might get there one day if i stop pushing decent guys away haha"
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It is in my nature to be optimistic and hopeful, however, thanks for the good wishes!
It is true that it is better have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.
So be brave, and don't be afraid of failures. I am not!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i really dont think i could be arsed with having another relationship, i think with my track record its time to accept some people are ment to be single and im one of them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i really dont think i could be arsed with having another relationship, i think with my track record its time to accept some people are ment to be single and im one of them lol "
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I feel the same as you, however, I would not say never never, and if an arrow hit me in my heart again, I shan't resist! |
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By *uxsman OP Man
over a year ago
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thanks for all your views, keep them coming, if i was looking for romance, dont think i would find it on a swingers site, i just wonder how couples feel when they meet a guy for mmf, then f falls for the guy? have couples split? can be a dangerous game to play for couples, any opinions? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would not dismiss the possibility of finding love and romance on a site like FAB.
I don't play with couples, only single gents, to avoid any complications, personal choice, due to non-swinging events of the past.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i would deffo not have a relationship with someone off here
if i ever did have a relationship it would be with someone who had nothing to do with swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The chances of me meeting an eligiable gent via the vanilla route is remote.  "
yeah very because i dont really mix with 'vanilla' men lol
i just dont think i could swing as a couple so meeting and being with a guy i met via swinging just wouldnt work for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strangely enough I met someone from the internet chatted for a while. Eventually met. Fell deeply in love and embarked on an affair that lasted 5 years. Only Circumstances ened the affair. sadly  "
Life has a habbit of being cruel! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh yerrrr
Still seeing one i met three years ago. lmao
he only came for a cuppa "
Difference bieng is i love the fella i see but im NOT in love with him.
Big difference.
We are mates and we have fun together when time allows.
I will ALWAYS be single. No chance of that changing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strangely enough I met someone from the internet chatted for a while. Eventually met. Fell deeply in love and embarked on an affair that lasted 5 years. Only Circumstances ened the affair. sadly "
you mean your wife found out? lol
sorry couldnt resist
Taxi for NN |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strangely enough I met someone from the internet chatted for a while. Eventually met. Fell deeply in love and embarked on an affair that lasted 5 years. Only Circumstances ened the affair. sadly
you mean your wife found out? lol
sorry couldnt resist
Taxi for NN "
You're Naughty! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strangely enough I met someone from the internet chatted for a while. Eventually met. Fell deeply in love and embarked on an affair that lasted 5 years. Only Circumstances ened the affair. sadly
you mean your wife found out? lol
sorry couldnt resist
Taxi for NN
You're Naughty! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i duuno if its falling for a swinger,, but ive been missing talking to someone latetly. odd thing is ive not even met him.
think i need a slap round the head, any offers? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i duuno if its falling for a swinger,, but ive been missing talking to someone latetly. odd thing is ive not even met him.
think i need a slap round the head, any offers? lol"
*holds hand up* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i duuno if its falling for a swinger,, but ive been missing talking to someone latetly. odd thing is ive not even met him.
think i need a slap round the head, any offers? lol"
Go to Youtube and search for "monty python fish slapping dance". I'll be round on Tuesday to administer it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i duuno if its falling for a swinger,, but ive been missing talking to someone latetly. odd thing is ive not even met him.
think i need a slap round the head, any offers? lol
*holds hand up* "
go easy,, bruising isnt sexy lol - secretly im a wimp lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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go easy,, bruising isnt sexy lol - secretly im a wimp lol
I'll use a very small fish then. I don't think you can bruise someone with an anchovy "
would you kiss me better if the anchovy hurt me??? |
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go easy,, bruising isnt sexy lol - secretly im a wimp lol
I'll use a very small fish then. I don't think you can bruise someone with an anchovy
would you kiss me better if the anchovy hurt me??? "
oh yes i would....BUT it wouldnt make you better . its hard to improve on perfection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ave been there, done that got the tshirt........
now tshirt is on the bonfire an am free and single and intend on staying that way
i reckon we just should shag them and leave them, only stay long enough to sign the visitors book and not any longer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would you kiss me better if the anchovy hurt me???
oh yes i would....BUT it wouldnt make you better . its hard to improve on perfection"
haha charmer! far from perfect trust me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would you kiss me better if the anchovy hurt me???
oh yes i would....BUT it wouldnt make you better . its hard to improve on perfection
haha charmer! far from perfect trust me Oh but I do"
you are 10years older than my dad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Three years ago I embarked on this lifestyle. I got talking to a man from another site and we agreed to meet but I fell ill and ended up being bandaged from toe to knees in four layers of compression bandages. My legs became ulcerated and every week I had to go through the painful process of having the bandages removed, ulcers cleaned and dressed and rebandaged.
Naturally I wasn't in any state to meet...compression bandages NOT a hot look. Any how, I was still talking to this man and one day I must have sounded pretty down - I was going to be off work for eight weeks. He offered to come and see me and bring me sushi and a Starbuck's.
He's the first man I've ever invited to my home for a social meet and he arrived with sushi and coffee. We sat talking, one thing led to another and we ended up in bed...again the first man I've ever slept with on a first meet.
It was amazing, and my mummified legs didn't put him off...he felt more nervous than me and his body is toned and fit from running marathons etc.
After he left I thought well that's that. Four months of friendship over for the sake of a tumble...oh well. When he'd got back to his office he phoned and apologised for being so nervous, felt he hadn't performed well enough to please me and hoped I'd see him again.
Three years on we still talk a couple of times every day. We've met and play five times this year already, and he is a very close friend.
He has never met or played with anyone since we've been together and I know he doesn't like me meeting other people, but we met on a swinging site and he knows the score.
I like him very much, but I don't want an exclusive relationship for now.
I was married for 24 years. Looking to the future I'd like to be part of a couple again...it feels nice. When I get bored with this - and I shall - I'll see how it goes...who knows. One thing for sure, I would love to try for my "happy ever after"...again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for all your views, keep them coming, if i was looking for romance, dont think i would find it on a swingers site, i just wonder how couples feel when they meet a guy for mmf, then f falls for the guy? have couples split? can be a dangerous game to play for couples, any opinions? "
Not a dangerous game at all as far as we go,I have massive rushs of lust for my playmates and thats as far as it goes,thats all I want,I have been with my husband since I was a teenager and can't imagine ever having a relationship with another man apart from him as he is part of my heart and soul
I can't even think about what I would do if I "fell" for a playmate because in the 4 yrs we have been doing this the thought has never even occured to me......nor have the feelings
Im too busy fucking them to think about wanting to have a relationship with them
On the opposite side of your question,I would stop seeing a guy if I felt that he was wanting more than the occasional playtime with us,I don't play with anyone that mentions looking for fun and maybe more on their profiles.......I run a mile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"got together with someone couple weeks ago now got a clps profile going quite well having a FAB time
i dont want to rain on your parade.... but surely if you "fall " for someone you wouldnt then have a couples profile straight away ....wouldnt you just want to be together ??? i dont quite get that ??"
agree with what your saying but we have known each other for a while and have had our own singles profile but both feel now is the right time to play as a couple .. |
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I've been in 2 long term relationships/marriages. The first for 15 years, the second for 13 so when my marriage broke up last year (he traded me in for a 21yr old student ) I swore never again would I allow myself to be hurt.
Six months later I got chatting to Wolf on another (non-swinging) site, we emailed, met and everything just clicked for both of us. It's taken just over 3 months for either of us to admit we're even in a relationship never mind anything else but we're good together and I'm happier than I've been in years.
I fell for a swinger without knowing he was one. But we talked about lots of things and he showed me his single profile on here.....the rest, as they say, is history.
On another note, my best friend is also a swinger and I love him to pieces. I'm not, as earlier mentioned by someone else, IN love with him but he probably knows more about me that anyone else and I'm the same with him. We have had a sexual relationship in the past and probably will again when the time is right. We talk every day.
I consider myself incredibly lucky to have these two men in my life whom I love and adore, both in different ways, who also get on with each other.
Here's to love, the pain and the pleasure of it!!
Vixen
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By (user no longer on site)
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you are 10years older than my dad
Quote of the week goes to Sassy! 
yay wooop wooop!
oh dear the yokes on me lol"
I once doused a rather persistant young guy's passions in the chatroom by saying he was too young for me, in fact he was too young to even be a toy-boy for my daughter. |
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