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"I'd be interested in knowing if anyone actually takes you up on this. -Courtney " so will I Courtney so will i | |||
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"So I've no plans for the saturday. If you want to meet for a coffee Saturday afternoon live in relatively easy travel distance from me by train. I will even travel to you. If you turn up clean and tidy and on time you get a decent verification." Ohhh! How sweet! What a lovely idea. I hope people do take you up. There's enough whinging about no meets, etc. Good luck with this! | |||
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"I don't live close, don't publish my verifications and don't really know why I'm replying!!!! Hope you have a fun time though and whoever you meets brings you chaps and flowers " lol, I don't want any of that. Guys are always saying they can't get verifications I'm happy to meet one Saturday afternoon and give him a verification. Doesn't matter what he looks like just clean and presentable and on time | |||
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"That's very nice of you, hope you don't turn up and he has a tight foreskin !!! Good luck in this " what difference would that make, it says in the op I'm offering to meet someone for coffee not shag them over the Costa counter | |||
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"Good idea. I think everyone in each city should do this." its going to be my new thing, everytime I'm going out for the day I shall put up where I'm going as I will be stopping for coffee at some point anyway | |||
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"This thread deserves a charity record to accompany it. A very generous offer." I agree... It's lovely. | |||
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"This thread deserves a charity record to accompany it. A very generous offer." Agreed! Very nice of you op! Ok I'll do the same in my neck of the woods! Coffee only - this weekend daytime - and you'd need to be able to get to Leyland! | |||
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"So I've no plans for the saturday. If you want to meet for a coffee Saturday afternoon live in relatively easy travel distance from me by train. I will even travel to you. If you turn up clean and tidy and on time you get a decent verification." So it's not just me that has dropped my expectation levels on fab? It shows the lack of genuine prospects on here when a verification is to be considered worthy fab used to be ok but I think the party is over now | |||
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"This thread deserves a charity record to accompany it. A very generous offer. Agreed! Very nice of you op! Ok I'll do the same in my neck of the woods! Coffee only - this weekend daytime - and you'd need to be able to get to Leyland! " I'm potentially also happy to do something similar. Banbury town centre coffee. Not sure what my weekend plans are. | |||
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"So I've no plans for the saturday. If you want to meet for a coffee Saturday afternoon live in relatively easy travel distance from me by train. I will even travel to you. If you turn up clean and tidy and on time you get a decent verification. So it's not just me that has dropped my expectation levels on fab? It shows the lack of genuine prospects on here when a verification is to be considered worthy fab used to be ok but I think the party is over now" really, there are plenty of guys that say not having a verification hinders them and indeed some people will only meet verified people. So yes plenty of people do see it as worthy. Personally I don't but if your compatable with someone and the only reason your not compatable is because you don't have a verification then I'm happy to help | |||
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"This thread deserves a charity record to accompany it. A very generous offer. Agreed! Very nice of you op! Ok I'll do the same in my neck of the woods! Coffee only - this weekend daytime - and you'd need to be able to get to Leyland! I'm potentially also happy to do something similar. Banbury town centre coffee. Not sure what my weekend plans are." | |||
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"I would do it but meeting me might put others off meeting anyone who has a veri from me " don't talk so wet | |||
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"This is a very good deed. I could do this too. If I was as nice as you are. " Dirty is a pussy cat all fluffy and pink Ha ha ha ha | |||
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"Good idea. I think everyone in each city should do this." Someone else can do my city way too many crazy people Seduced yiur up | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? " or maybe they must happen to be free and in the same area and verificationless | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? " Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? " Maybe they're already going into town? ... two birds one stone kind of scenario | |||
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"So I've no plans for the saturday. If you want to meet for a coffee Saturday afternoon live in relatively easy travel distance from me by train. I will even travel to you. If you turn up clean and tidy and on time you get a decent verification." It's a shame that you are little bit further afield then would be reasonable to travel. You seem a lovely lady and the type to enjoy a good chinwag with. | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Maybe they're already going into town? ... two birds one stone kind of scenario " that was the idea behind the thread, I couldn't decide where I wanted to go Saturday fancied a day out and thought of this little brainwave | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? " Verifications help single guys get people to meet them so if they are keen on meeting people and are free then its a good idea. Better than being negative like some people !!!! | |||
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"This is a very good deed. I could do this too. If I was as nice as you are. Dirty is a pussy cat all fluffy and pink Ha ha ha ha " I've never claimed to be anything else... I just don't do verifications. | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? " Good grief... way to go pissing on a nice idea. Did someone piss in your chips? | |||
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"I, the fem, would also do this on saturday morning local to me. I will turn my filters off as i would prefer people to messege me otherwise i might forget !!!! I am out saturday morning anyway and will stop for a coffee so i am happy to meet for a coffee and chat and i will give you a verification if you turn up on time, are clean and respectful. Only a coffee and chat though. Hubby might also be with me but im not sure of his plans yet " that's exactly the idea, most of us stop of and have coffee when we are out and about anyway so we would only be doing something we normally do | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? " You're right. I spend all of my weekends doing amazingly constructive and fulfilling things. Not a minute wasted. All in my pajamas of course -Courtney | |||
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"That's very nice of you, hope you don't turn up and he has a tight foreskin !!! Good luck in this what difference would that make, it says in the op I'm offering to meet someone for coffee not shag them over the Costa counter " Hello are you new around here guys think 1st with their penis they don't have female logical minds | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) " Lmao!!! | |||
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"That's very nice of you, hope you don't turn up and he has a tight foreskin !!! Good luck in this what difference would that make, it says in the op I'm offering to meet someone for coffee not shag them over the Costa counter Hello are you new around here guys think 1st with their penis they don't have female logical minds " "Female logical minds?" Are you taking the piss?!?! Haha! | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Maybe they're already going into town? ... two birds one stone kind of scenario that was the idea behind the thread, I couldn't decide where I wanted to go Saturday fancied a day out and thought of this little brainwave " It's a great idea. Got to be better then drinking coffee alone. Starbucks have a really delicious coffee flavour at the moment... pistachio and rose mocha. Tastes better then it sounds. | |||
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"That's very nice of you, hope you don't turn up and he has a tight foreskin !!! Good luck in this what difference would that make, it says in the op I'm offering to meet someone for coffee not shag them over the Costa counter Hello are you new around here guys think 1st with their penis they don't have female logical minds " and what do you think they are actually going to do with their penis's in a coffee shop? | |||
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"Since there are so Many guys on here who think ( or say) they can't get anywhere without a verification, and do many who seem distraught about it; I think it's a great idea; well done OP! ( and any other ladies who follow suit) It will be interesting to see if anyone / how many go for it.... ( or if the " can't get a meet/ verification" gang are actually mostly dreamers.)" I offered too | |||
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"That's very nice of you, hope you don't turn up and he has a tight foreskin !!! Good luck in this what difference would that make, it says in the op I'm offering to meet someone for coffee not shag them over the Costa counter Hello are you new around here guys think 1st with their penis they don't have female logical minds and what do you think they are actually going to do with their penis's in a coffee shop?" Stick it thru a doughnut ?? | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) " Its not a case of being negative in the forums, if I agreed with something chances are I wouldnt post, whats the point? I just find it a bit condescending to men. 'Lets throw you some crumbs' | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? " Just cos couples can pick and chose local ones, men have to travel for a tick cos women are rare lol. | |||
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"That's very nice of you, hope you don't turn up and he has a tight foreskin !!! Good luck in this what difference would that make, it says in the op I'm offering to meet someone for coffee not shag them over the Costa counter Hello are you new around here guys think 1st with their penis they don't have female logical minds and what do you think they are actually going to do with their penis's in a coffee shop?" Stir their coffee? | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) Its not a case of being negative in the forums, if I agreed with something chances are I wouldnt post, whats the point? I just find it a bit condescending to men. 'Lets throw you some crumbs'" But the men want the crumbs!!! They're happy to take the crumbs! | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) Its not a case of being negative in the forums, if I agreed with something chances are I wouldnt post, whats the point? I just find it a bit condescending to men. 'Lets throw you some crumbs'" guess some will always find something negative in people innocently doing a good turn. But your are entitled to your opinions | |||
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"That's very nice of you, hope you don't turn up and he has a tight foreskin !!! Good luck in this what difference would that make, it says in the op I'm offering to meet someone for coffee not shag them over the Costa counter Hello are you new around here guys think 1st with their penis they don't have female logical minds and what do you think they are actually going to do with their penis's in a coffee shop? Stir their coffee? " I did that once, when I was young and stupid. I couldnt have sex for a week! Ouchhhhhh! | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) Its not a case of being negative in the forums, if I agreed with something chances are I wouldnt post, whats the point? I just find it a bit condescending to men. 'Lets throw you some crumbs'" I'm sure its open to both sex's. | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? " No; but it appears to be massively important to some people to get that first verification; and to them it's worth it. And anyway, they might be going out shopping or something anyway . | |||
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"That's very nice of you, hope you don't turn up and he has a tight foreskin !!! Good luck in this what difference would that make, it says in the op I'm offering to meet someone for coffee not shag them over the Costa counter Hello are you new around here guys think 1st with their penis they don't have female logical minds " female logical minds? all females?? that's open to debate | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) Its not a case of being negative in the forums, if I agreed with something chances are I wouldnt post, whats the point? I just find it a bit condescending to men. 'Lets throw you some crumbs' I'm sure its open to both sex's. " both sexes and couples, I'm happy to meet anyone, but generally it seems to be the guys that can't get the verifications | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) Its not a case of being negative in the forums, if I agreed with something chances are I wouldnt post, whats the point? I just find it a bit condescending to men. 'Lets throw you some crumbs'" Ok let's put it this way! I very rarely meet unverified men! I want to know that they look like their pictures, that they turn up when they say they will, and they're likely to be safe to be with! A verification is no guarantee of that but it helps! The op - and now a few others - are simply offering a few guys a helping hand on the fab ladder! Where, pray tell, is the harm in that? | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) Its not a case of being negative in the forums, if I agreed with something chances are I wouldnt post, whats the point? I just find it a bit condescending to men. 'Lets throw you some crumbs' I'm sure its open to both sex's. both sexes and couples, I'm happy to meet anyone, but generally it seems to be the guys that can't get the verifications" You're so right there OP Brilliant thread x | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) Its not a case of being negative in the forums, if I agreed with something chances are I wouldnt post, whats the point? I just find it a bit condescending to men. 'Lets throw you some crumbs' Ok let's put it this way! I very rarely meet unverified men! I want to know that they look like their pictures, that they turn up when they say they will, and they're likely to be safe to be with! A verification is no guarantee of that but it helps! The op - and now a few others - are simply offering a few guys a helping hand on the fab ladder! Where, pray tell, is the harm in that? " | |||
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"This is such an awesome idea! I'm gonna do this too when I have a free day. Good stuff, OP!! " | |||
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"it's kind offer from op to use her time for others but what the desperation for verification....I mean I chat to and would try to arrange meetings with females with no veris...so why? " Because you aren't a woman? | |||
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"it's kind offer from op to use her time for others but what the desperation for verification....I mean I chat to and would try to arrange meetings with females with no veris...so why? " I'm not mother Theresa I wouldn't be doing anything I don't normally do | |||
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"it's kind offer from op to use her time for others but what the desperation for verification....I mean I chat to and would try to arrange meetings with females with no veris...so why? " BecAuse it is a recurring theme on here that blokes say they can't get meets because they don't have veris; or that they are blocked because they don't have veris: So this is a great way to help genuine blokes " get off the ground" ( if it matters to them) | |||
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"If any ladies want a verification I'm free for a shag this weekend. " You're a good egg. | |||
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"it's kind offer from op to use her time for others but what the desperation for verification....I mean I chat to and would try to arrange meetings with females with no veris...so why? I'm not mother Theresa I wouldn't be doing anything I don't normally do " Great idea OP. | |||
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"If any ladies want a verification I'm free for a shag this weekend. " An offer I can't refuse | |||
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"I don't live close, don't publish my verifications and don't really know why I'm replying!!!! Hope you have a fun time though and whoever you meets brings you chaps and flowers lol, I don't want any of that. Guys are always saying they can't get verifications I'm happy to meet one Saturday afternoon and give him a verification. Doesn't matter what he looks like just clean and presentable and on time" Will you be turning up presentable and on time? | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Verifications help single guys get people to meet them so if they are keen on meeting people and are free then its a good idea. Better than being negative like some people !!!!" It is a good idea,but isn't it a shame that people can't make up their own mind about meeting someone rather than waiting for someone else to meet them first. | |||
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"I don't live close, don't publish my verifications and don't really know why I'm replying!!!! Hope you have a fun time though and whoever you meets brings you chaps and flowers lol, I don't want any of that. Guys are always saying they can't get verifications I'm happy to meet one Saturday afternoon and give him a verification. Doesn't matter what he looks like just clean and presentable and on time Will you be turning up presentable and on time? " No, I'd turn up in scruffs... Torn jeans with mud, paint and plaster all over them. Oh, and a stained t shirt with a gash in it. | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Verifications help single guys get people to meet them so if they are keen on meeting people and are free then its a good idea. Better than being negative like some people !!!! It is a good idea,but isn't it a shame that people can't make up their own mind about meeting someone rather than waiting for someone else to meet them first." | |||
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"I don't live close, don't publish my verifications and don't really know why I'm replying!!!! Hope you have a fun time though and whoever you meets brings you chaps and flowers lol, I don't want any of that. Guys are always saying they can't get verifications I'm happy to meet one Saturday afternoon and give him a verification. Doesn't matter what he looks like just clean and presentable and on time Will you be turning up presentable and on time? " I've got enough verifications to show them if they want to see them | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) Its not a case of being negative in the forums, if I agreed with something chances are I wouldnt post, whats the point? I just find it a bit condescending to men. 'Lets throw you some crumbs'" Do you know what I felt a little like this . It doesn't take away the fact it is a good idea though. | |||
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"As these will soon become the norm, like social, webcam we need a name for these type of meets - any suggestions My 1st suggestion would be Meerkat Meets " " compare ze vereefeecation " Will Sergei be there too? | |||
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"I, the fem, would also do this on saturday morning local to me. I will turn my filters off as i would prefer people to messege me otherwise i might forget !!!! I am out saturday morning anyway and will stop for a coffee so i am happy to meet for a coffee and chat and i will give you a verification if you turn up on time, are clean and respectful. Only a coffee and chat though. Hubby might also be with me but im not sure of his plans yet that's exactly the idea, most of us stop of and have coffee when we are out and about anyway so we would only be doing something we normally do" Yep | |||
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"Good idea. I think everyone in each city should do this.its going to be my new thing, everytime I'm going out for the day I shall put up where I'm going as I will be stopping for coffee at some point anyway" That sounds good, so a coffee and some biscuits at nandos | |||
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"Good idea. I think everyone in each city should do this.its going to be my new thing, everytime I'm going out for the day I shall put up where I'm going as I will be stopping for coffee at some point anywayThat sounds good, so a coffee and some biscuits at nandos " don't worry shag if I'm ever around your area I shag personally come get you and frog march you there | |||
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"I don't live close, don't publish my verifications and don't really know why I'm replying!!!! Hope you have a fun time though and whoever you meets brings you chaps and flowers lol, I don't want any of that. Guys are always saying they can't get verifications I'm happy to meet one Saturday afternoon and give him a verification. Doesn't matter what he looks like just clean and presentable and on time Will you be turning up presentable and on time? I've got enough verifications to show them if they want to see them" I was joking by the way | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) Its not a case of being negative in the forums, if I agreed with something chances are I wouldnt post, whats the point? I just find it a bit condescending to men. 'Lets throw you some crumbs' Ok let's put it this way! I very rarely meet unverified men! I want to know that they look like their pictures, that they turn up when they say they will, and they're likely to be safe to be with! A verification is no guarantee of that but it helps! The op - and now a few others - are simply offering a few guys a helping hand on the fab ladder! Where, pray tell, is the harm in that? " When you look at some verifications and at who has done the verifying it can have the opposite effect of making you feel they are 'safe', I mean user joined 2 weeks ago has got 24 verifications from a lot of the less choosy fabbers, how the hell can that user be safer than a user with no verifications? | |||
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"As these will soon become the norm, like social, webcam we need a name for these type of meets - any suggestions My 1st suggestion would be Meerkat Meets " | |||
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"So I've no plans for the saturday. If you want to meet for a coffee Saturday afternoon live in relatively easy travel distance from me by train. I will even travel to you. If you turn up clean and tidy and on time you get a decent verification." my comments on this thread do not take anything away from your kind offer,I am simply pointing out the verification system can work both ways as for me, more verifications = not who I am looking for but some have the opposite view that more veris = genuine. At the end of the day we are all individuals with some unique traits and some common traits,the verification system is intended to help you filter those unsuitable for you and so if it helps then that is fine. | |||
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"Good idea. I think everyone in each city should do this.its going to be my new thing, everytime I'm going out for the day I shall put up where I'm going as I will be stopping for coffee at some point anywayThat sounds good, so a coffee and some biscuits at nandos don't worry shag if I'm ever around your area I shag personally come get you and frog march you there" That sounds like a good plan and the frog march too. I will have the haribos ready as well | |||
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"As these will soon become the norm, like social, webcam we need a name for these type of meets - any suggestions My 1st suggestion would be Meerkat Meets " Excellent name! | |||
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"So I've no plans for the saturday. If you want to meet for a coffee Saturday afternoon live in relatively easy travel distance from me by train. I will even travel to you. If you turn up clean and tidy and on time you get a decent verification." Don't you have to be verified to use the forum? | |||
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"So I've no plans for the saturday. If you want to meet for a coffee Saturday afternoon live in relatively easy travel distance from me by train. I will even travel to you. If you turn up clean and tidy and on time you get a decent verification. Don't you have to be verified to use the forum?" Can be photo verified only I believe | |||
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"So I've no plans for the saturday. If you want to meet for a coffee Saturday afternoon live in relatively easy travel distance from me by train. I will even travel to you. If you turn up clean and tidy and on time you get a decent verification. Don't you have to be verified to use the forum?" Dont know? | |||
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"Hmmmm , I fancy a free Costa coffee this weekend , thanks Goddess B Are you bringing the hobknobs " didnt know costa where doing free coffee this weekend. Thats a bonus | |||
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"At least if any guys post moany threads about not being able to get a meet on this site between here and Saturday we can all direct them to this thread. " Without pissing on the OP...I am not sure this is the kind of meet they will be complaining about. | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? Are your lives so empty that all you can do is be negative in the forums. (The green arrow tells so much) Its not a case of being negative in the forums, if I agreed with something chances are I wouldnt post, whats the point? I just find it a bit condescending to men. 'Lets throw you some crumbs' Ok let's put it this way! I very rarely meet unverified men! I want to know that they look like their pictures, that they turn up when they say they will, and they're likely to be safe to be with! A verification is no guarantee of that but it helps! The op - and now a few others - are simply offering a few guys a helping hand on the fab ladder! Where, pray tell, is the harm in that? When you look at some verifications and at who has done the verifying it can have the opposite effect of making you feel they are 'safe', I mean user joined 2 weeks ago has got 24 verifications from a lot of the less choosy fabbers, how the hell can that user be safer than a user with no verifications?" Why is that not safe? Define safe please. | |||
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"If any ladies want a verification I'm free for a shag this weekend. " *as if like magic,Libs!s number one stalker appears in a puff of smoke* did someone mention a shag? | |||
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"Are guys lives so empty they'd give up time on a weekend to get a tick on a website? or maybe they must happen to be free and in the same area and verificationless " And have a coffee with someone new. I hope you have a story to tell afterwards | |||
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"it's kind offer from op to use her time for others but what the desperation for verification....I mean I chat to and would try to arrange meetings with females with no veris...so why? " You can chat privately in the chat rooms if you are verified properly. Being able to chat in the chatrooms can be a big help in meeting people. | |||
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"So I've no plans for the saturday. If you want to meet for a coffee Saturday afternoon live in relatively easy travel distance from me by train. I will even travel to you. If you turn up clean and tidy and on time you get a decent verification. Don't you have to be verified to use the forum? Dont know? " It can be photo verified. | |||
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"I mean user joined 2 weeks ago has got 24 verifications from a lot of the less choosy fabbers, how the hell can that user be safer than a user with no verifications?" Who knows? Why are you making this nice thread about your paranoia? I am free Saturday afternoon for a tea or pint if any single guy fancies it. | |||
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"This thread deserves a charity record to accompany it. A very generous offer. Agreed! Very nice of you op! Ok I'll do the same in my neck of the woods! Coffee only - this weekend daytime - and you'd need to be able to get to Leyland! " I might take you up on that Peachy | |||
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"Good idea. I think everyone in each city should do this." You could volunteer for Penge, Shag | |||
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"So I've no plans for the saturday. If you want to meet for a coffee Saturday afternoon live in relatively easy travel distance from me by train. I will even travel to you. If you turn up clean and tidy and on time you get a decent verification." What a wonderful offer , a true diamond I hope it goes well xxxx I have come over all moist now xxxx | |||
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"This thread deserves a charity record to accompany it. A very generous offer. Agreed! Very nice of you op! Ok I'll do the same in my neck of the woods! Coffee only - this weekend daytime - and you'd need to be able to get to Leyland! I might take you up on that Peachy " No worries! Just pm me with the thread title! X | |||
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"So I've no plans for the saturday. If you want to meet for a coffee Saturday afternoon live in relatively easy travel distance from me by train. I will even travel to you. If you turn up clean and tidy and on time you get a decent verification." I did this once, not one single man took up the idea, i even copied the link of the post into messages of men moaning cant get verified, and yet not one single person took up the offer | |||
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"So a guy just has to turn up clean and tidy to get a decent verification. Now apart from that being a little condescending and patronising, clean and tidy, supposing said guy has already been given a bunch of verifications but they were bad ones due to lets say, dubious sexual behaviour or whatever and has chosen to hide or not accept them, then who is this verification going to help? Certainly not his next vict... sorry, meet. I understand you're doing it with good intentions but sorry, I don't get it and in many ways makes a mockery of the verification system, which frankly is a bit of a farce anyway Good luck and have fun" if theyve already been verified they have a green tick whether they show it or not. Now what is the verification for if not to prove the person is how they say they are. | |||
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"So a guy just has to turn up clean and tidy to get a decent verification. Now apart from that being a little condescending and patronising, clean and tidy, supposing said guy has already been given a bunch of verifications but they were bad ones due to lets say, dubious sexual behaviour or whatever and has chosen to hide or not accept them, then who is this verification going to help? Certainly not his next vict... sorry, meet. I understand you're doing it with good intentions but sorry, I don't get it and in many ways makes a mockery of the verification system, which frankly is a bit of a farce anyway Good luck and have fun" i do think your over thinking this half the bloody veris on the site are from social meets | |||
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"So a guy just has to turn up clean and tidy to get a decent verification. Now apart from that being a little condescending and patronising, clean and tidy, supposing said guy has already been given a bunch of verifications but they were bad ones due to lets say, dubious sexual behaviour or whatever and has chosen to hide or not accept them, then who is this verification going to help? Certainly not his next vict... sorry, meet. I understand you're doing it with good intentions but sorry, I don't get it and in many ways makes a mockery of the verification system, which frankly is a bit of a farce anyway Good luck and have fun" Funny how people love to be so negative; Some guys really want ( say they want) that first essential verification. The Advice is always " do a social" Here's a social . Yet again, like so many others you are using verifications as a " performance record" : that's not its purpose; it's just to confirm that the person is who they say they are. | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goes" im actually out now as im sorted for saturday | |||
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"So a guy just has to turn up clean and tidy to get a decent verification. Now apart from that being a little condescending and patronising, clean and tidy, supposing said guy has already been given a bunch of verifications but they were bad ones due to lets say, dubious sexual behaviour or whatever and has chosen to hide or not accept them, then who is this verification going to help? Certainly not his next vict... sorry, meet. I understand you're doing it with good intentions but sorry, I don't get it and in many ways makes a mockery of the verification system, which frankly is a bit of a farce anyway Good luck and have fun" You cant reject a verification, once one is sent to your profile its automatically accepted. You can however not display it which everyone has right to not display if they choose. As soon as you receive a verification a green tick icon appears on your profile, you cant hide that green tick, so other members know you have received a verification Equally, you could meet someone that has 50 great verifications, doesn't make them a safe person, they could still do something bad | |||
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"If any ladies want a verification I'm free for a shag this weekend. " If I hide my veris, would I qualify | |||
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"Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goes" Good idea | |||
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"If any ladies want a verification I'm free for a shag this weekend. If I hide my veris, would I qualify " You're the closest to me in this thread | |||
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"I don't normally reply in forums. It's my partner here normally. But why are people being so negative about a generous gesture? Being a former single male on here I know how difficult it can be to get established. So good on you for your offer ! Shame there aren't more like you!t B" it is a shame and some could be put off offering. Not me though the next time im out and about i shall offer again then they will have a whole new thread to be negative on | |||
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"This thread deserves a charity record to accompany it. A very generous offer. Agreed! Very nice of you op! Ok I'll do the same in my neck of the woods! Coffee only - this weekend daytime - and you'd need to be able to get to Leyland! I'm potentially also happy to do something similar. Banbury town centre coffee. Not sure what my weekend plans are." Ok I'll join in as well. If you live in or around Watford and a verification and are available on Saturday PM me xx. PS it will just be a coffee and nothing else, unless you're drop dead gorgeous lol xx | |||
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"If any ladies want a verification I'm free for a shag this weekend. If I hide my veris, would I qualify You're the closest to me in this thread " If you mean me, I'm sorry but I'm working, unless I'm getting shagged by Lib! Then I'm phoning in sick | |||
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"If any ladies want a verification I'm free for a shag this weekend. If I hide my veris, would I qualify You're the closest to me in this thread If you mean me, I'm sorry but I'm working, unless I'm getting shagged by Lib! Then I'm phoning in sick " Ouch | |||
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"I don't normally reply in forums. It's my partner here normally. But why are people being so negative about a generous gesture? Being a former single male on here I know how difficult it can be to get established. So good on you for your offer ! Shame there aren't more like you!t Bit is a shame and some could be put off offering. Not me though the next time im out and about i shall offer again then they will have a whole new thread to be negative on " I'll consider doing it, if I'm planning to be out. I might be too scary though | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goes" I offered to meet socially and give them a verification however i have mostly had wasted messeges as they guys seem to be expecting more than just coffee, a chat and a verification !!! | |||
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"So a guy just has to turn up clean and tidy to get a decent verification. Now apart from that being a little condescending and patronising, clean and tidy, supposing said guy has already been given a bunch of verifications but they were bad ones due to lets say, dubious sexual behaviour or whatever and has chosen to hide or not accept them, then who is this verification going to help? Certainly not his next vict... sorry, meet. I understand you're doing it with good intentions but sorry, I don't get it and in many ways makes a mockery of the verification system, which frankly is a bit of a farce anyway Good luck and have fun" Do you ever have anything nice to say?.. | |||
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"My 2 cents... I think this thread is targeting the wrong people. I've never met a single man who was actually a woman pretending to be a man. However...... A veri just lets you know that the object of your desire is what they say they are. If anyone needs verification it's women and couples." The verifications can work both ways though. Personally i dont bother with recent verifications anyway but i was happy to help a guy get one which would show he was real and the age he says plus that he turns up | |||
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"My 2 cents... I think this thread is targeting the wrong people. I've never met a single man who was actually a woman pretending to be a man. However...... A veri just lets you know that the object of your desire is what they say they are. If anyone needs verification it's women and couples." Fact is that I once meet someone who had a man's profile here and when he turned up,,,,, it was a guy. Infact, each and every guy was a guy; so there [ erm, OK; this needs a rethink ] | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goes I offered to meet socially and give them a verification however i have mostly had wasted messeges as they guys seem to be expecting more than just coffee, a chat and a verification !!!" I'm unfortunately not surprised at this. There was another similar thread a while ago and the men had no clue. They thought a social meant a shag. No loss though, those types will always struggle. | |||
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"So a guy just has to turn up clean and tidy to get a decent verification. Now apart from that being a little condescending and patronising, clean and tidy, supposing said guy has already been given a bunch of verifications but they were bad ones due to lets say, dubious sexual behaviour or whatever and has chosen to hide or not accept them, then who is this verification going to help? Certainly not his next vict... sorry, meet. I understand you're doing it with good intentions but sorry, I don't get it and in many ways makes a mockery of the verification system, which frankly is a bit of a farce anyway Good luck and have fun Do you ever have anything nice to say?.." | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goes I offered to meet socially and give them a verification however i have mostly had wasted messeges as they guys seem to be expecting more than just coffee, a chat and a verification !!! I'm unfortunately not surprised at this. There was another similar thread a while ago and the men had no clue. They thought a social meant a shag. No loss though, those types will always struggle. " Men eh? What do they expect on a swinging site... | |||
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"So a guy just has to turn up clean and tidy to get a decent verification. Now apart from that being a little condescending and patronising, clean and tidy, supposing said guy has already been given a bunch of verifications but they were bad ones due to lets say, dubious sexual behaviour or whatever and has chosen to hide or not accept them, then who is this verification going to help? Certainly not his next vict... sorry, meet. I understand you're doing it with good intentions but sorry, I don't get it and in many ways makes a mockery of the verification system, which frankly is a bit of a farce anyway Good luck and have fun Do you ever have anything nice to say?.." If someone shares my view of things in the forums occasionally yes but mostly not, don't see much point in that, I like to try and put a different take on things. If that annoys you, good. Now if you'll excuse me I'm off to make myself clean and tidy before I leave the house | |||
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"As these will soon become the norm, like social, webcam we need a name for these type of meets - any suggestions My 1st suggestion would be Meerkat Meets " compare ze vereefeecation " Will Sergei be there too? " Sergei will definitely not be there. He's already been verified by Nicole Kidman! | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goesim actually out now as im sorted for saturday" Pointless thread then really... | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goesim actually out now as im sorted for saturday Pointless thread then really..." Why is it pointless ? | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goesim actually out now as im sorted for saturday Pointless thread then really... Why is it pointless ?" because the offer was given then taken back | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goesim actually out now as im sorted for saturday Pointless thread then really... Why is it pointless ? because the offer was given then taken back" I haven't taken my offer back x | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goesim actually out now as im sorted for saturday Pointless thread then really... Why is it pointless ? because the offer was given then taken back I haven't taken my offer back x" | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goesim actually out now as im sorted for saturday Pointless thread then really..." why is it pointless if I've sorted meeting a guy for coffee on Saturday which was the point of the thread. Haven't taken the offer back my offer has been accepted lol | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goesim actually out now as im sorted for saturday Pointless thread then really...why is it pointless if I've sorted meeting a guy for coffee on Saturday which was the point of the thread. Haven't taken the offer back my offer has been accepted lol" | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goesim actually out now as im sorted for saturday Pointless thread then really... Why is it pointless ? because the offer was given then taken back" just how was it given and then taken back? | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goesim actually out now as im sorted for saturday Pointless thread then really...why is it pointless if I've sorted meeting a guy for coffee on Saturday which was the point of the thread. Haven't taken the offer back my offer has been accepted lol " so how was the offer taken back? | |||
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"in principle, this is really nice idea but not had time to read the entire thread yet " I think its a lovely idea x | |||
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"Im up fir meeting someone for coffee to in my area, i wont be getting on trains though, be a case of meeting me in my local town (hinckley) If interested message as may lose track of this thread. Ladies offering to meet, should we check back in saturday night to feedback how this goesim actually out now as im sorted for saturday Pointless thread then really...why is it pointless if I've sorted meeting a guy for coffee on Saturday which was the point of the thread. Haven't taken the offer back my offer has been accepted lol" It sounded to me like you were doing something else,apologies if I'm wrong. Hope he gets his verification | |||
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