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NSA - what does it mean to you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Noticed sometimes in profiles or messages that a heavy emphasis is placed on it being NSA.
Looked it up just and one definition came up as :-lets have some fun without creating any obligations beyond the moment. We do what we do tonight and dont ever have to see each other again. But without the negative connotation of a one-night stand, even if that is what it is.
Generally we repeat meet, not to create strings, but because we like a connection and have become friends with some lovely people that we've met.
How do you think of NSA? Is that what you look for?
Sarah
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me NSA means that we would be free to meet up maybe once a week or so for sex spend the time enjoying our selves for the day/ evening and then get on with our other lives with the understanding that it's just sex/ friendship.
It can work have had it in the past that lasted a couple of years with one woman she eventually moved too far away for it to be easy to meet up and we parted friends  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is not a dating site (as far as I know), so, I would suggest many members (like myself) are here to enjoy the benefits of swinging without the attachment of a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me NSA means that we would be free to meet up maybe once a week or so for sex spend the time enjoying our selves for the day/ evening and then get on with our other lives with the understanding that it's just sex/ friendship.
It can work have had it in the past that lasted a couple of years with one woman she eventually moved too far away for it to be easy to meet up and we parted friends "
That's my understanding too. I call it friendship with benefits. After all to see each other repeatedly you must have more than sexual compatibility - for me anyway. |
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To me it means not being asked to help move a sofa on a Saturday morning, that I don't need to consider anything but "do I find them attractive?" none of that "are they a good person?" schnizzle, in short no obligations, no in depth stuff. |
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"Noticed sometimes in profiles or messages that a heavy emphasis is placed on it being NSA.
Looked it up just and one definition came up as :-lets have some fun without creating any obligations beyond the moment. We do what we do tonight and dont ever have to see each other again. But without the negative connotation of a one-night stand, even if that is what it is.
Generally we repeat meet, not to create strings, but because we like a connection and have become friends with some lovely people that we've met.
How do you think of NSA? Is that what you look for?
Sarah
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yes I agree with that definition completly. And if you do see them again all well and good. Or become friends with them. But for the sex side of it I couldn't agree more. I've always said when a guy knocks on my door, we have a good fun night good sex, good company. The minute he leaves we go straight back to our normal lives doing what we want and not giving a second thought to what each other are doing. That's my definition of NSA. Whether it's someome I see often or someone I see once.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me NSA means that we would be free to meet up maybe once a week or so for sex spend the time enjoying our selves for the day/ evening and then get on with our other lives with the understanding that it's just sex/ friendship.
It can work have had it in the past that lasted a couple of years with one woman she eventually moved too far away for it to be easy to meet up and we parted friends
That's my understanding too. I call it friendship with benefits. After all to see each other repeatedly you must have more than sexual compatibility - for me anyway."
This. Sex - for me anyway - is better if there is at least one string or two! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we do repeats - purely because we have such a good time first time around - we are very friendly but i guess for some they have to have that coldness about them to just meet people one time only - that isnt a criticism btw its almost praiseworthy as then it is nsa and just good sex - we have strings with some but they are just strings of friendship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Noticed sometimes in profiles or messages that a heavy emphasis is placed on it being NSA.
Looked it up just and one definition came up as :-lets have some fun without creating any obligations beyond the moment. We do what we do tonight and dont ever have to see each other again. But without the negative connotation of a one-night stand, even if that is what it is.
Generally we repeat meet, not to create strings, but because we like a connection and have become friends with some lovely people that we've met.
How do you think of NSA? Is that what you look for?
Sarah
yes I agree with that definition completly. And if you do see them again all well and good. Or become friends with them. But for the sex side of it I couldn't agree more. I've always said when a guy knocks on my door, we have a good fun night good sex, good company. The minute he leaves we go straight back to our normal lives doing what we want and not giving a second thought to what each other are doing. That's my definition of NSA. Whether it's someome I see often or someone I see once.
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I think you have summed it up perfectly. I have had one off meets, return meets and have been playing with one couple for 16 months. A couple a few years ago for 8 years. We meet up and have fun. We then go back to our everyday lives until next time. Those that I play with on a more regular basis I remain in contact outside of playing, but I don't necessarily want to join them every minute of every day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me NSA means that we would be free to meet up maybe once a week or so for sex spend the time enjoying our selves for the day/ evening and then get on with our other lives with the understanding that it's just sex/ friendship.
It can work have had it in the past that lasted a couple of years with one woman she eventually moved too far away for it to be easy to meet up and we parted friends
That's my understanding too. I call it friendship with benefits. After all to see each other repeatedly you must have more than sexual compatibility - for me anyway."
Yes I agree with that, you can be friends as well as playmates after all it would be pretty cold to just meet fuck and go everytime.
But as in my case being married but not in a physical way it would be nice to find a woman to meet up with regularly so have good sex and then go back to my normal life.
Not likely to happen but never give up trying to find one 
A lot of single woman seem to be ultimately be looking for more than that, I don't do the going out for drinks e.c.t so probably gong to be an uphill struggle LoL |
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For men NSA means - have a wife/gf at home that doesn't know they are shagging about (you can usually confirm this if they can't accom)
For women NSA means - tied down in a tired marriage and hubby will kill me if he knew I was on here shagging about.
For TV/S NSA means - because men only want me as a woman it can only be NSA as I go to work in the daytime as a man.
For everyone else NSA means - want to have as much sex with as many people as I possibly can before my sexual organs dry up.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I am only interested in NSA sex...... I am not on here for life long friendships, Friends with benefits type connections or any other.
I want to meet up and have respectful sex, then leave..
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By (user no longer on site)
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For us NSA means just just that , no commitment , no expectation of anything more than mutual sexual fun .
With single guys that often means it usually is just the one off meet , as opportunities to explore more scenarios are limited .
We happily meet couples again , but with a different agenda on subsequent meets .
Friendship in a vanilla sense is certainly not what we are looking for .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep I like that description....
"No obligations beyond the moment"
That very much works for me....  "
It's interesting, because that's how I run my 'meaningful' relationships too. No obligations beyond the moment. No obligations beyond having fun together, right now.
I wouldn't say that's intrinsic to NSA for me, although it's obviously a part of it. But it's also a part of my long term relationship, and a part of the relationship I have with the man I live with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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NO strings attached to me means no contact between meets.. only to arrange another meet if that's on the cards.. No friendship just fuck n go.
While some people will like this and all the best to them.. I can't. |
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