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over a year ago
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When I'm dating intelligence and altruism are important. For sex I'll stick mostly with appearance and personality. I'm shallow that way, I suppose.
-Courtney |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
There are some people on here that I fancy rotten because of some aspect of who they are and their personalities.
Some of them are people I would probably not otherwise be attracted to.
I very often find I am attracted to people I don't immediately fancy, once I get to know them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And their boobs.
I was going to say bums. "
I was trying to look past the purely physical aspect of things!
I know loads of people who have become far more attractive in my eyes through who they are and how they make me feel about myself, not just how tight their ass might be |
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I think if this was a dating site I could so understand your statement I find quirky people attractive both on here and my dating world, those who looks are quirky and individual. However if we are looking in here people want to shag their fantasy man whoever that maybe whether it's the gym goer who has a ripped body with tattoos I'm not going to lie I'm highly attracted to beard clad men with loads of tattoos however I don't attract those sort of men. I like men with something about them...people want their fantasy on here and personality comes second to many on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We objectified people for their sense of humour or their intelligence or their altruism.
I'm not going to wank over your altruism."
So long as you wipe it off afterwards, I just had it steam cleaned |
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I fell in love with jay because of his personality and him me because of mine. Looks wise we had no physical attraction until we fell in love. When i say no i dont mean we found each other repulsive to look at but oh you know what I mean |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"There's a certain person I am hoping to shag silly very soon that I am interested in mainly because we're on the same sexual wavelength and because he is absolutely filthy."
Told you already, It ain't happening ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think if this was a dating site I could so understand your statement I find quirky people attractive both on here and my dating world, those who looks are quirky and individual. However if we are looking in here people want to shag their fantasy man whoever that maybe whether it's the gym goer who has a ripped body with tattoos I'm not going to lie I'm highly attracted to beard clad men with loads of tattoos however I don't attract those sort of men. I like men with something about them...people want their fantasy on here and personality comes second to many on here. "
Is it about the fantasy person? I'm not here to shag a fantasy, I'm here to meet a likeminded person that I find attractive. Body shape isn't a major issue for me but personality is. I dont care if they look like a goddess, if they cant make me laugh or hold a conversation then I really don't want to know |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"There's a certain person I am hoping to shag silly very soon that I am interested in mainly because we're on the same sexual wavelength and because he is absolutely filthy.
Told you already, It ain't happening "
Pffft. You're nowhere near deviant enough! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I think if this was a dating site I could so understand your statement I find quirky people attractive both on here and my dating world, those who looks are quirky and individual. However if we are looking in here people want to shag their fantasy man whoever that maybe whether it's the gym goer who has a ripped body with tattoos I'm not going to lie I'm highly attracted to beard clad men with loads of tattoos however I don't attract those sort of men. I like men with something about them...people want their fantasy on here and personality comes second to many on here.
Is it about the fantasy person? I'm not here to shag a fantasy, I'm here to meet a likeminded person that I find attractive. Body shape isn't a major issue for me but personality is. I dont care if they look like a goddess, if they cant make me laugh or hold a conversation then I really don't want to know"
That's your view though there are some on here that just want the looks and the shagging which is fine. There are some who want the whole package. For me I Shag people that I would also date. That's just me though ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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