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"is my profile boring "i dont know, what do you think? | |||
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"is my profile boring i dont know, what do you think?"probably | |||
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"yes its boring shows no personality, maybe write down what you;d like to find/ get out of the site " you have learnt a lot in such a short space of time!!  | |||
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"Well true but atleast i know some one has actually looked at it" and perhaps that was the intention all along  | |||
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"Is the opinion of strangers more important than your own?" mine is...... | |||
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"yes .....its aimed at strangers" Ahh...so you are more interested in finding out what people would like to hear than being honest?...I find that singular  | |||
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" yes .....its aimed at strangers Ahh...so you are more interested in finding out what people would like to hear than being honest?...I find that singular "If his profile doesn't appeal to other people then he won't get meets. It works like that in many situations in life. If you want to get on you have to value other peoples opinion. | |||
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"nope its honest." Try putting more pictures up that always helps and its being you isn't it so if people see and like you will get more attention. | |||
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"nope its honest. Try putting more pictures up that always helps and its being you isn't it so if people see and like you will get more attention." will do......thanks | |||
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"nope its honest." That, with respect, is nonesense | |||
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"nope its honest. Try putting more pictures up that always helps and its being you isn't it so if people see and like you will get more attention. will do......thanks" Well it never harms and a pep up on the layout of your profile as it all helps a little.  | |||
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"i believe a profile should reflect the individual and you can't do that if you are following instructions from others. you are then writing what they think is the perfect profile...may as well go copy and paste one of someone else!" So say someone had bad grammar, poor spelling then that should reflect in their profile? Everyone projects an image in their profile which is not always what they are totally like even you will and us to an extent. | |||
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"i believe a profile should reflect the individual and you can't do that if you are following instructions from others. you are then writing what they think is the perfect profile...may as well go copy and paste one of someone else! So say someone had bad grammar, poor spelling then that should reflect in their profile? Everyone projects an image in their profile which is not always what they are totally like even you will and us to an extent. " well, yes...unless you want to personally go out and be the grammar police?! what if the person is bad in bed....should we all assist there too? i think the only thing to be is honest. | |||
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"i believe a profile should reflect the individual and you can't do that if you are following instructions from others. you are then writing what they think is the perfect profile...may as well go copy and paste one of someone else! So say someone had bad grammar, poor spelling then that should reflect in their profile? Everyone projects an image in their profile which is not always what they are totally like even you will and us to an extent. well, yes...unless you want to personally go out and be the grammar police?! what if the person is bad in bed....should we all assist there too? i think the only thing to be is honest. " I don’t personally care how people type in the forums and to some extent on their profile, however it makes sense that people can read it so getting ideas or help is acceptable as I see it. The example of someone being bad in bed just doesn’t seem relevant as I haven’t seen a profile saying that and besides that’s always relevant to who you are with. One question for you though. If you think its best to be honest why don’t you have a picture of you sat typing on your keyboard in your jeans and slippers rather than projecting the image of basque and stockings. Wouldn’t that be more honest if as you keep pushing that a profile should be honest? | |||
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" One question for you though. If you think its best to be honest why don’t you have a picture of you sat typing on your keyboard in your jeans and slippers rather than projecting the image of basque and stockings. Wouldn’t that be more honest if as you keep pushing that a profile should be honest? " i don't own slippers and i'm not wearing a basque either...and stockings probably get worn just as often as jeans. ...and i'm laid on my back with my laptop resting on my thighs right now....so, not altogether unrealistic huh?! | |||
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" One question for you though. If you think its best to be honest why don’t you have a picture of you sat typing on your keyboard in your jeans and slippers rather than projecting the image of basque and stockings. Wouldn’t that be more honest if as you keep pushing that a profile should be honest? i don't own slippers and i'm not wearing a basque either...and stockings probably get worn just as often as jeans. ...and i'm laid on my back with my laptop resting on my thighs right now....so, not altogether unrealistic huh?! " But not a totally honest profile as you keep pushing though is it? Ok i am bordering on nit picking but your profile text says "I only have a private picture on here as I guard my identity" but you clearly have 3. Don't get me wrong i am for people putting what they like on their profile but you can't tell others that a profile should be honest and not do it your self. | |||
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" One question for you though. If you think its best to be honest why don’t you have a picture of you sat typing on your keyboard in your jeans and slippers rather than projecting the image of basque and stockings. Wouldn’t that be more honest if as you keep pushing that a profile should be honest? i don't own slippers and i'm not wearing a basque either...and stockings probably get worn just as often as jeans. ...and i'm laid on my back with my laptop resting on my thighs right now....so, not altogether unrealistic huh?! But not a totally honest profile as you keep pushing though is it? Ok i am bordering on nit picking but your profile text says "I only have a private picture on here as I guard my identity" but you clearly have 3. Don't get me wrong i am for people putting what they like on their profile but you can't tell others that a profile should be honest and not do it your self. " nit picking doesnt really come close to it...you picked up on my comment to the op and interjected...then continued. my advice was to the op. he can take it or leave it. i didn't agree with your opinion, however, it was yours and i at least did respect that. as for my profile, i don't have a face pic on there other than in my private gallery in which to identify myself....i would hope that no-one could identify me from my thighs! i shan't repay the compliment of hovering over your profile to look for the obvious mistakes....hope you're not offended | |||
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" One question for you though. If you think its best to be honest why don’t you have a picture of you sat typing on your keyboard in your jeans and slippers rather than projecting the image of basque and stockings. Wouldn’t that be more honest if as you keep pushing that a profile should be honest? i don't own slippers and i'm not wearing a basque either...and stockings probably get worn just as often as jeans. ...and i'm laid on my back with my laptop resting on my thighs right now....so, not altogether unrealistic huh?! But not a totally honest profile as you keep pushing though is it? Ok i am bordering on nit picking but your profile text says "I only have a private picture on here as I guard my identity" but you clearly have 3. Don't get me wrong i am for people putting what they like on their profile but you can't tell others that a profile should be honest and not do it your self. nit picking doesnt really come close to it...you picked up on my comment to the op and interjected...then continued. my advice was to the op. he can take it or leave it. i didn't agree with your opinion, however, it was yours and i at least did respect that. as for my profile, i don't have a face pic on there other than in my private gallery in which to identify myself....i would hope that no-one could identify me from my thighs! i shan't repay the compliment of hovering over your profile to look for the obvious mistakes....hope you're not offended " Not at all but there and again i dont push my point of view on others yet not follow it my self. | |||
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" One question for you though. If you think its best to be honest why don’t you have a picture of you sat typing on your keyboard in your jeans and slippers rather than projecting the image of basque and stockings. Wouldn’t that be more honest if as you keep pushing that a profile should be honest? i don't own slippers and i'm not wearing a basque either...and stockings probably get worn just as often as jeans. ...and i'm laid on my back with my laptop resting on my thighs right now....so, not altogether unrealistic huh?! But not a totally honest profile as you keep pushing though is it? Ok i am bordering on nit picking but your profile text says "I only have a private picture on here as I guard my identity" but you clearly have 3. Don't get me wrong i am for people putting what they like on their profile but you can't tell others that a profile should be honest and not do it your self. nit picking doesnt really come close to it...you picked up on my comment to the op and interjected...then continued. my advice was to the op. he can take it or leave it. i didn't agree with your opinion, however, it was yours and i at least did respect that. as for my profile, i don't have a face pic on there other than in my private gallery in which to identify myself....i would hope that no-one could identify me from my thighs! i shan't repay the compliment of hovering over your profile to look for the obvious mistakes....hope you're not offended Not at all but there and again i dont push my point of view on others yet not follow it my self. " Alright now we've all had a drink.lets just cool down and have a coffee and kiss and make up. | |||
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"What is certainly true is...if you do not write your OWN profile then it is not honest!" You may need to read what the OP was asking. He didn't ask anyone to write his profile he was asking for advice. Now as i see things there is nothing wrong with asking for advice we all it from time to time. | |||
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" Not at all but there and again i dont push my point of view on others yet not follow it my self. " my profile is true to me, i wrote it...it was entirely of my creation. you've picked up one issue that YOU beleive is dishonest...which is about my picture...which i have adequately answered....which i didn't have to as this thread is not about me. though, any attention is better than none and i guess i should be flattered that you are affording me so much of your attention | |||
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" Not at all but there and again i dont push my point of view on others yet not follow it my self. " your opinion being "put up more pictures" right? anyone know what the dictionary definition of hypocrite is?! btw....grammar....tutut...wasn't that advice from you too? | |||
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"What is certainly true is...if you do not write your OWN profile then it is not honest! You may need to read what the OP was asking. He didn't ask anyone to write his profile he was asking for advice. Now as i see things there is nothing wrong with asking for advice we all it from time to time. " Or maybe YOU should read it again. The original post does not ask for advice it asks for an opinion! | |||
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" Not at all but there and again i dont push my point of view on others yet not follow it my self. my profile is true to me, i wrote it...it was entirely of my creation. you've picked up one issue that YOU beleive is dishonest...which is about my picture...which i have adequately answered....which i didn't have to as this thread is not about me. though, any attention is better than none and i guess i should be flattered that you are affording me so much of your attention " No what i have done is use an example. I really don't care what you put on your profile as its your profile. I just think when someone asks for advice i don't really think it is helpful to tell someone they shouldn't follow advice from others. | |||
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" No what i have done is use an example. I really don't care what you put on your profile as its your profile. I just think when someone asks for advice i don't really think it is helpful to tell someone they shouldn't follow advice from others. " but that is MY advice.....i have a right to that! you, however, have no right to tell me my opinion is wrong...you can disagree, but that doesn't make you right and me wrong. | |||
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"beginning to wish that I had not asked for an opinion or advice.....loosing the will now "Has any of it helped you though?  | |||
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"What is certainly true is...if you do not write your OWN profile then it is not honest! You may need to read what the OP was asking. He didn't ask anyone to write his profile he was asking for advice. Now as i see things there is nothing wrong with asking for advice we all it from time to time. Or maybe YOU should read it again. The original post does not ask for advice it asks for an opinion!" He asked ids his profile boring. Now that although no no question mark is added is a question. You do not need to use capitals by the way to put your point across. I am well aware you mainly trawl the forums looking for an argument. Why not try and be constructive with people rather than pull them down as it isn't helping anyone. | |||
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"beginning to wish that I had not asked for an opinion or advice.....loosing the will now "Which did you ask for? | |||
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"What is certainly true is...if you do not write your OWN profile then it is not honest! You may need to read what the OP was asking. He didn't ask anyone to write his profile he was asking for advice. Now as i see things there is nothing wrong with asking for advice we all it from time to time. Or maybe YOU should read it again. The original post does not ask for advice it asks for an opinion! He asked ids his profile boring. Now that although no no question mark is added is a question. You do not need to use capitals by the way to put your point across. I am well aware you mainly trawl the forums looking for an argument. Why not try and be constructive with people rather than pull them down as it isn't helping anyone." What you are 'well aware' of and what I am...are, perhaps, two different things! | |||
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"beginning to wish that I had not asked for an opinion or advice.....loosing the will now "You should ask for advice and you shouldn't feel that if people give it your not being your self if it is used. You don't need to copy some one else's profile but take tips and ideas and fine tune yours to make it more appealing. | |||
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"What is certainly true is...if you do not write your OWN profile then it is not honest! You may need to read what the OP was asking. He didn't ask anyone to write his profile he was asking for advice. Now as i see things there is nothing wrong with asking for advice we all it from time to time. Or maybe YOU should read it again. The original post does not ask for advice it asks for an opinion! He asked ids his profile boring. Now that although no no question mark is added is a question. You do not need to use capitals by the way to put your point across. I am well aware you mainly trawl the forums looking for an argument. Why not try and be constructive with people rather than pull them down as it isn't helping anyone. What you are 'well aware' of and what I am...are, perhaps, two different things!" No i think on this point i am correct. It doesn't harm to be positive and help someone rather than pull them down. | |||
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" No i think on this point i am correct. It doesn't harm to be positive and help someone rather than pull them down." no, what you think is different to others. that does not mean you are right you need to respect that not everyone has the same opinion as you and you are actually being a bigger hypocrite than anyone else who you have accused. | |||
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be good and play nice.... ding ding round over!!! | |||
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argue with each other until the cows come home by pm and not on the forums please | |||
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