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Unrequited lust
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen? |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
Quite a few. But it's nice to dream. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a few. But it's nice to dream. "
 this x |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
A couple. But where there's a will there's a way. Only if the feeling's mutual though; I am no masochist (well, not that type anyway). |
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No, I don't lust after anyone.....well maybe Hugh Jackman, so if anyone knows his profile name....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is always 1 but thats the fun of life, she is straight so will remain a girl crush x |
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Yep.....One or two from across the water. But never say never |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few that are just too far away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only one, but it's not unrequited...circumstances and location mean it will be incredibly difficult for us to meet. But not impossible  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One in particular and one I want to take a big cock I find for him. Neither will happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty. But so many in my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a real t-girl would be my dream come true pre-op so have cock and real boobs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If two people lust for each other ,they will find away to meet .Distance and time can be a slight disadvantage but not impossible.  |
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No but yes. It's lovely to have other pleasure with people and I feel as if I've been fulfilled with a few. I don't yearn and am flexible.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not really. Theres some i wouldnt approach because they are too far away. If someones not interested who is near me i dont dwell on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If two people lust for each other ,they will find away to meet .Distance and time can be a slight disadvantage but not impossible. "
The problem is unrequited. I lust over those who don't need to return it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a couple of frustrating ones where it isn't unrequited, just lacking in mutual availability....i don't give up though. Hence why a couple of guys have taken a couple of years to meet! |
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Yes I have one, tall, gorgeous, we're friends but he doesn't fancy me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple. A guy who's age range I'm out of. And a woman who is straight. |
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In no particular order:
Scarlet Seduction
Female half of Nicecouple561
naughtynymphos
Honey Pot, or whatever her latest incarnation is |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"A couple. But where there's a will there's a way. Only if the feeling's mutual though; I am no masochist (well, not that type anyway)."
It's mutual  |
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?"
Nope, why waste time pursing others that aren't interested. Best to move on and leave them to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dunno how to answer this. There are people I would have sex with given the chance, but it isn't gunna happen for whatever reason. But I don't think I'd class it as "unrequited lust." That makes it sound like I'm longing for them or something when it isn't quite the case.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno how to answer this. There are people I would have sex with given the chance, but it isn't gunna happen for whatever reason. But I don't think I'd class it as "unrequited lust." That makes it sound like I'm longing for them or something when it isn't quite the case.
-Courtney "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be unfair to say "I know it will never happen" as my belief they'd never be interested stops me from asking, but yes, there are a few |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a number of sexy ladies that i would love to meet on here but due to travel issues will never happen. #1 on my list is Cho Cho from the couples profile CLCC. Everything about her is beautiful. A few of the other ladies i lust have even posted on this forum topic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was one, he was so far that I didn't think it'd happen. Then we spoke after I saw he rewrote a profile for Tina Turner and now we're in love.  |
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Yep. I only really want the ones I can't have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno how to answer this. There are people I would have sex with given the chance, but it isn't gunna happen for whatever reason. But I don't think I'd class it as "unrequited lust." That makes it sound like I'm longing for them or something when it isn't quite the case.
-Courtney .
Break to me gently why don't you "
Mwah! 
-Courtney |
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"a real t-girl would be my dream come true pre-op so have cock and real boobs x"
Get yourself along to this months Birmingham Bizare Bazaar and I'll introduce you to my transgender friend who matches your specifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a guy not far from me..... We've never chatted but his pics are mmmm. He did however fab a couple of my pics yesterday - still no message  |
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Pretty much most of our hotlist...Isn't that what it's for ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a guy not far from me..... We've never chatted but his pics are mmmm. He did however fab a couple of my pics yesterday - still no message "
You should message him first. Make his day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that is basically anyone you have ever lusted for on fab |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"There's a guy not far from me..... We've never chatted but his pics are mmmm. He did however fab a couple of my pics yesterday - still no message "
Um, message him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a guy not far from me..... We've never chatted but his pics are mmmm. He did however fab a couple of my pics yesterday - still no message
Um, message him?"
He's not meeting...... |
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By *el65Man
over a year ago
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yip all of my hotlist!! hahaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some who I think I'd have a good fuck with but it's extremely unlikely to ever happen so I don't allow myself to lust after them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup. One or two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some who because of distance it will probably never happen but in some ways I'm quite glad because often the reality is never as good as it is in my mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some on here that I would love to meet given the opportunity but no one that I'm specifically in lust with, besides my cup runneth over at moment |
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There's a few people I like the look of, but I wouldn't say I lust after them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno how to answer this. There are people I would have sex with given the chance, but it isn't gunna happen for whatever reason. But I don't think I'd class it as "unrequited lust." That makes it sound like I'm longing for them or something when it isn't quite the case.
-Courtney .
Break to me gently why don't you
Mwah!
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Ahhhhh now your just keeping me on tender hooks..
I'm refusing your advances and going to the pub in disgust |
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I don't know if any of the people I lust after don't lust after me back, I just assume they don't, cos they're all absolute hotties. Lol.
Except one. I know one definitely doesn't fancy me back. *siiiggghhh* I can dream too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a few on our hotlist - we both add people separately, I'm the worst culprit ! Not sure lust is the right word, but their photos do it for me or B and their approach to Fab.
Sarah
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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A few, but all are miles away and I'd like to think I'm pretty good friends with them, instead |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?"
Long to have sex with...no!
However, there are a fair few that I wouldn't say no to,if the right chance came up.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loads |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"I dunno how to answer this. There are people I would have sex with given the chance, but it isn't gunna happen for whatever reason. But I don't think I'd class it as "unrequited lust." That makes it sound like I'm longing for them or something when it isn't quite the case.
-Courtney "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno how to answer this. There are people I would have sex with given the chance, but it isn't gunna happen for whatever reason. But I don't think I'd class it as "unrequited lust." That makes it sound like I'm longing for them or something when it isn't quite the case.
-Courtney "
This. They're all bloody miles away, boohoo! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dunno how to answer this. There are people I would have sex with given the chance, but it isn't gunna happen for whatever reason. But I don't think I'd class it as "unrequited lust." That makes it sound like I'm longing for them or something when it isn't quite the case.
-Courtney "
This is one of my questions that's open to a bit of individual interpretation. I'm not so much suggesting that the kind of sexual tryst I'm describing NEEDS to happen and you feel down in the knowledge that it most likely won't, it's more along the lines of ok, it's pretty unrealistic, but just HOW good would it feel if somehow you were able to unite that way, those feelings of, having fantasised and lusted for so long, the realisation of that moment when you finally feel the warm, animal wetness of them deep inside you (or you them), knowing you now have this person in your sexual embrace, and it's time to release all that longing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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SB, I know you're a philosophical and deep thinking guy who feels strongly about stuff and thinks that it's better to explain everything in detail.
But, and I say this with as much delicacy as I can: can you please summarise and get to the point because I'm tired and I can't read all that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and he knows it x |
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By *enny79TV/TS
over a year ago
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Lots but they don't seam to like me ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If two people lust for each other ,they will find away to meet .Distance and time can be a slight disadvantage but not impossible. "
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"SB, I know you're a philosophical and deep thinking guy who feels strongly about stuff and thinks that it's better to explain everything in detail.
But, and I say this with as much delicacy as I can: can you please summarise and get to the point because I'm tired and I can't read all that "
Ok.
How would it feel to finally fuck the person of your dreams on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a few. But it's nice to dream. "
yup |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"SB, I know you're a philosophical and deep thinking guy who feels strongly about stuff and thinks that it's better to explain everything in detail.
But, and I say this with as much delicacy as I can: can you please summarise and get to the point because I'm tired and I can't read all that
Ok.
How would it feel to finally fuck the person of your dreams on here?"
It was amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"SB, I know you're a philosophical and deep thinking guy who feels strongly about stuff and thinks that it's better to explain everything in detail.
But, and I say this with as much delicacy as I can: can you please summarise and get to the point because I'm tired and I can't read all that
Ok.
How would it feel to finally fuck the person of your dreams on here?
It was amazing. "
And then your dreams just get even better |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I have never fantasised about shagging anyone on this site. It either happens, or it doesn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah but it doesn't get me down. I just go with the flow and try to make it happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes but such is life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your mum. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes I have one, tall, gorgeous, we're friends but he doesn't fancy me "
I have a friend like this too. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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"Yes I have one, tall, gorgeous, we're friends but he doesn't fancy me
I have a friend like this too."
It's good, it means they actually like us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno how to answer this. There are people I would have sex with given the chance, but it isn't gunna happen for whatever reason. But I don't think I'd class it as "unrequited lust." That makes it sound like I'm longing for them or something when it isn't quite the case.
-Courtney
This is one of my questions that's open to a bit of individual interpretation. I'm not so much suggesting that the kind of sexual tryst I'm describing NEEDS to happen and you feel down in the knowledge that it most likely won't, it's more along the lines of ok, it's pretty unrealistic, but just HOW good would it feel if somehow you were able to unite that way, those feelings of, having fantasised and lusted for so long, the realisation of that moment when you finally feel the warm, animal wetness of them deep inside you (or you them), knowing you now have this person in your sexual embrace, and it's time to release all that longing?"
I think there's a big risk if you build someone up that much that it could be a letdown. The "never meet your heroes" thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I know through messages that the feeling is mutual, but logistics get in the way.
One day.... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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There are a few I fancy rotten but they're not into me. I don't lust after them because there's no point. I do still appreciate some of their photos occasionally.
There are a few I fancy but haven't contacted, or haven't done more than light-heartedly flirt with, because distance makes it impractical.
There are one or two I haven't contacted because I'm fairly sure I'm not their type.
There's nobody I dream of or fantasise over though. That's just torturing myself unnecessarily.
I do occasionally wish I was my friends type but nothing more. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes I have one, tall, gorgeous, we're friends but he doesn't fancy me
I have a friend like this too.
It's good, it means they actually like us "
I think, on balance, that means more than wanting to shag me.
I'd prefer him to like me AND want to shag me, of course. But if it has to be one or the other, being friends is good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, because I either turn unrequited into requited or turn my attention elsewhere.
Off here, well that's a completely different matter.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno how to answer this. There are people I would have sex with given the chance, but it isn't gunna happen for whatever reason. But I don't think I'd class it as "unrequited lust." That makes it sound like I'm longing for them or something when it isn't quite the case.
-Courtney
This is one of my questions that's open to a bit of individual interpretation. I'm not so much suggesting that the kind of sexual tryst I'm describing NEEDS to happen and you feel down in the knowledge that it most likely won't, it's more along the lines of ok, it's pretty unrealistic, but just HOW good would it feel if somehow you were able to unite that way, those feelings of, having fantasised and lusted for so long, the realisation of that moment when you finally feel the warm, animal wetness of them deep inside you (or you them), knowing you now have this person in your sexual embrace, and it's time to release all that longing?
I think there's a big risk if you build someone up that much that it could be a letdown. The "never meet your heroes" thing."
This. It's become my personal disclaimer when chatting to people
In all seriousness and to answer the question, I think it's a waste of my time, so once it becomes obvious (either through preferences or a flat-out refusal of overtures) that a meet isn't on the cards, I mentally switch off to that profile so the sense of longing doesn't exist |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"This is one of my questions that's open to a bit of individual interpretation. I'm not so much suggesting that the kind of sexual tryst I'm describing NEEDS to happen and you feel down in the knowledge that it most likely won't, it's more along the lines of ok, it's pretty unrealistic, but just HOW good would it feel if somehow you were able to unite that way, those feelings of, having fantasised and lusted for so long, the realisation of that moment when you finally feel the warm, animal wetness of them deep inside you (or you them), knowing you now have this person in your sexual embrace, and it's time to release all that longing?"
I think if you start overthinking and imagining how it would feel you are falling in lust with the idea of a person rather than the reality. That doesn't mean I haven't had the odd naughty thought about people I haven't met and would like to but longing for them the way you describe isn't going to make that lust a reality and I like to experience my lusts in actuality. Then what pops into my head has a tangible basis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heavens yes , victims of geography,though where there is a will there is a way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I don't lust after anyone.....well maybe Hugh Jackman, so if anyone knows his profile name.... "
I think it's huge blackman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's always those people on here that you'd think "in another time and another place.." personally I have a few, but well you just have to roll with what you can get I suppose, or keep on waiting for the right one to come along. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My hotlist has all the answers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno how to answer this. There are people I would have sex with given the chance, but it isn't gunna happen for whatever reason. But I don't think I'd class it as "unrequited lust." That makes it sound like I'm longing for them or something when it isn't quite the case.
-Courtney
This "
Same here too! Fab is full of lovely men - why get hung up over one in particular? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dunno how to answer this. There are people I would have sex with given the chance, but it isn't gunna happen for whatever reason. But I don't think I'd class it as "unrequited lust." That makes it sound like I'm longing for them or something when it isn't quite the case.
-Courtney .
Break to me gently why don't you
Mwah!
-Courtney "
*waves.... ermm hi you guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?"
Worse it's when you had sex with someone, you liked it so much, but you know that will never happen again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There's two or three people I'd really love to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's ok then... |
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By *urvy38hWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Yes there is one and he is the only one in my 'Hotlist' x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a few in here and in real life |
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"My hotlist has all the answers "
Nicely summarised.
There are so many in my hotlist that it feels like hell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There have been one or two over the years but then you chat and I think ... 'Thank god I never met them... Would have been such a disappointment |
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By *urvy38hWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Yes there is one and he is the only one in my 'Hotlist' x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There have been one or two over the years but then you chat and I think ... 'Thank god I never met them... Would have been such a disappointment "
Thankfully I've never chatted to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get caught up in the site enough to feel that way about someone on it. |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There have been one or two over the years but then you chat and I think ... 'Thank god I never met them... Would have been such a disappointment "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been quite fortunate by having a hotlisted person become a friends listed person that in turn I've ended up meeting regularly so I consider myself very lucky in that respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen? yes but you have to be philosophical here     
You just love your smileys don't you!  I would answer you but you've never answered one single message I sent you after we both started the same themed threads on here months ago
I think this is somewhat untrue. Also an answer oh its true sent loads but alas no replies
I have responded, I do have lot's of messages so they disappear down the page pretty quickly.... you responded when the threads were going on and just after ,sent you maybe 10/15 messages after when I saw you online but nothing ,gave up in the end
Would you like to manage my inbox? if I could I would ,doesn't solve the fact you never replied but hey its of no consequence now 
Sweetie, I really think you need to let it go with the replying thing.
Just because someone is online, doesn't mean they're always available to reply to every message.
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we were chatting and getting on its just the messaging thing gets on my nerves ,I've in the past sent you messages to, I've given up now its pointless trying to talk to very attractive women you're so popular that a conversation is impossible and for me that's a part of this place ,so no conversation no me x |
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?"
Oh yes, quite a few, but there is always hope xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen? yes but you have to be philosophical here
You just love your smileys don't you! I would answer you but you've never answered one single message I sent you after we both started the same themed threads on here months ago
I think this is somewhat untrue. Also an answer oh its true sent loads but alas no replies
I have responded, I do have lot's of messages so they disappear down the page pretty quickly.... you responded when the threads were going on and just after ,sent you maybe 10/15 messages after when I saw you online but nothing ,gave up in the end
Would you like to manage my inbox? if I could I would ,doesn't solve the fact you never replied but hey its of no consequence now
Sweetie, I really think you need to let it go with the replying thing.
Just because someone is online, doesn't mean they're always available to reply to every message.
we were chatting and getting on its just the messaging thing gets on my nerves ,I've in the past sent you messages to, I've given up now its pointless trying to talk to very attractive women you're so popular that a conversation is impossible and for me that's a part of this place ,so no conversation no me x "
I get that it can be difficult & frustrating but whether you believe it or not it can be frustrating to have messages that you can't reply too as well.
It's why I've ended up with the bare minimum profile as I'm too busy to meet, each to their own though.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen? yes but you have to be philosophical here
You just love your smileys don't you! I would answer you but you've never answered one single message I sent you after we both started the same themed threads on here months ago
I think this is somewhat untrue. Also an answer oh its true sent loads but alas no replies
I have responded, I do have lot's of messages so they disappear down the page pretty quickly.... you responded when the threads were going on and just after ,sent you maybe 10/15 messages after when I saw you online but nothing ,gave up in the end
Would you like to manage my inbox? if I could I would ,doesn't solve the fact you never replied but hey its of no consequence now
Sweetie, I really think you need to let it go with the replying thing.
Just because someone is online, doesn't mean they're always available to reply to every message.
we were chatting and getting on its just the messaging thing gets on my nerves ,I've in the past sent you messages to, I've given up now its pointless trying to talk to very attractive women you're so popular that a conversation is impossible and for me that's a part of this place ,so no conversation no me x
I get that it can be difficult & frustrating but whether you believe it or not it can be frustrating to have messages that you can't reply too as well.
It's why I've ended up with the bare minimum profile as I'm too busy to meet, each to their own though.x"
hey its just this place am used to it now I know my limitations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feel like I'm butting in but .... Yes... There are a few. (in answer to the original question)
V xxxx |
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen? yes but you have to be philosophical here
You just love your smileys don't you! I would answer you but you've never answered one single message I sent you after we both started the same themed threads on here months ago
I think this is somewhat untrue. Also an answer oh its true sent loads but alas no replies
I have responded, I do have lot's of messages so they disappear down the page pretty quickly.... you responded when the threads were going on and just after ,sent you maybe 10/15 messages after when I saw you online but nothing ,gave up in the end
Would you like to manage my inbox? if I could I would ,doesn't solve the fact you never replied but hey its of no consequence now
Sweetie, I really think you need to let it go with the replying thing.
Just because someone is online, doesn't mean they're always available to reply to every message.
we were chatting and getting on its just the messaging thing gets on my nerves ,I've in the past sent you messages to, I've given up now its pointless trying to talk to very attractive women you're so popular that a conversation is impossible and for me that's a part of this place ,so no conversation no me x
I get that it can be difficult & frustrating but whether you believe it or not it can be frustrating to have messages that you can't reply too as well.
It's why I've ended up with the bare minimum profile as I'm too busy to meet, each to their own though.x"
Or maybe women realise that someone who consistently puts all available smilies at the end of every post and sends 10 - 15 consecutive messages having not received a reply to one of them is not quite right and sensibly avoid? |
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I've had unrequited lusts in the past but, as is usual when something is unrequited, they lose their appeal after a while. So I'm currently without a special "if only" person...I'll start interviewing for the position on Monday! |
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"No
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Liar, ok so it might happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think I've been active on the forums long enough to develop anything close to being 'unrequited', but there is a small handful of ladies who have definitely piqued my interest.
I don't really like cold messaging though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. My hot list is more like a fantasy list because everyone is so far away and I don't drive or I am not what they are looking for.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Or maybe women realise that someone who consistently puts all available smilies at the end of every post and sends 10 - 15 consecutive messages having not received a reply to one of them is not quite right and sensibly avoid?"
I think that theory has some merit. A lot of merit, even. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Or maybe women realise that someone who consistently puts all available smilies at the end of every post and sends 10 - 15 consecutive messages having not received a reply to one of them is not quite right and sensibly avoid?"
Bingo. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?
Worse it's when you had sex with someone, you liked it so much, but you know that will never happen again "
Yes I've been there too, sadly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or maybe women realise that someone who consistently puts all available smilies at the end of every post and sends 10 - 15 consecutive messages having not received a reply to one of them is not quite right and sensibly avoid?
Bingo."
Ouch! (please apply cold fluid to the burnt area) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?
Worse it's when you had sex with someone, you liked it so much, but you know that will never happen again
Yes I've been there too, sadly."
I think the phrase is "dont be sad that its over, be glad that it happened" |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?"
No
But Harrison Ford and a time machine ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been seeing a man for almost 3 years. I lust for him greatly.
He picked me up late Friday night for a quickly. He was in tux after a corporate do. I can't get him out of my mind since....My silver fox |
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A couple of sexy blokes I would like to meet, but lust over...no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One or 2 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?
Worse it's when you had sex with someone, you liked it so much, but you know that will never happen again
Yes I've been there too, sadly.
I think the phrase is "dont be sad that its over, be glad that it happened""
There is that, but sometimes one scoop of ice cream isn't enough. |
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By *llebWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?"
Quite a few , until we get a train that travels to London in an hour from here ! |
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"Yes I have one, tall, gorgeous, we're friends but he doesn't fancy me
I have a friend like this too.
It's good, it means they actually like us
I think, on balance, that means more than wanting to shag me.
I'd prefer him to like me AND want to shag me, of course. But if it has to be one or the other, being friends is good."
I agree |
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"Quite a few , until we get a train that travels to London in an hour from here ! "
Got that here |
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?
Worse it's when you had sex with someone, you liked it so much, but you know that will never happen again
Yes I've been there too, sadly.
I think the phrase is "dont be sad that its over, be glad that it happened"
There is that, but sometimes one scoop of ice cream isn't enough."
Oh I know! I had a scoop of the most delicious coconut ice cream and never saw it to try again. I lust after it for sure.
O.T? Shut up, it's your fault, you mentioned ice cream! |
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The really disappointing ones are those who want me for my mind and not my body  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen? yes but you have to be philosophical here
You just love your smileys don't you! I would answer you but you've never answered one single message I sent you after we both started the same themed threads on here months ago
I think this is somewhat untrue. Also an answer oh its true sent loads but alas no replies
I have responded, I do have lot's of messages so they disappear down the page pretty quickly.... you responded when the threads were going on and just after ,sent you maybe 10/15 messages after when I saw you online but nothing ,gave up in the end
Would you like to manage my inbox? if I could I would ,doesn't solve the fact you never replied but hey its of no consequence now
Sweetie, I really think you need to let it go with the replying thing.
Just because someone is online, doesn't mean they're always available to reply to every message.
we were chatting and getting on its just the messaging thing gets on my nerves ,I've in the past sent you messages to, I've given up now its pointless trying to talk to very attractive women you're so popular that a conversation is impossible and for me that's a part of this place ,so no conversation no me x
I get that it can be difficult & frustrating but whether you believe it or not it can be frustrating to have messages that you can't reply too as well.
It's why I've ended up with the bare minimum profile as I'm too busy to meet, each to their own though.x
Or maybe women realise that someone who consistently puts all available smilies at the end of every post and sends 10 - 15 consecutive messages having not received a reply to one of them is not quite right and sensibly avoid?"
she answers when she's sees the messages but she doesn't see them often that's why I gave up in the end ,as a guy you know that's how it happens sometimes ,your chatting to someone maybe someone who's new to site your chatting for ages ,not many pics but all of a sudden she blossoms sexy pics start going up she goes in forums and chatrooms next thing you know she doesn't see messages coz she's getting 100 a day and they go over page ,got picture now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welcome to Fab. Hope you enjoy your stay |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Welcome to Fab. Hope you enjoy your stay "
Welcome back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welcome to Fab. Hope you enjoy your stay
Welcome back. "
Thank you. I'm so rusty, you'd need a tetanus jab if you came into contact with me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen? yes but you have to be philosophical here
You just love your smileys don't you! I would answer you but you've never answered one single message I sent you after we both started the same themed threads on here months ago
I think this is somewhat untrue. Also an answer oh its true sent loads but alas no replies
I have responded, I do have lot's of messages so they disappear down the page pretty quickly.... you responded when the threads were going on and just after ,sent you maybe 10/15 messages after when I saw you online but nothing ,gave up in the end
Would you like to manage my inbox? if I could I would ,doesn't solve the fact you never replied but hey its of no consequence now
Sweetie, I really think you need to let it go with the replying thing.
Just because someone is online, doesn't mean they're always available to reply to every message.
we were chatting and getting on its just the messaging thing gets on my nerves ,I've in the past sent you messages to, I've given up now its pointless trying to talk to very attractive women you're so popular that a conversation is impossible and for me that's a part of this place ,so no conversation no me x
I get that it can be difficult & frustrating but whether you believe it or not it can be frustrating to have messages that you can't reply too as well.
It's why I've ended up with the bare minimum profile as I'm too busy to meet, each to their own though.x
Or maybe women realise that someone who consistently puts all available smilies at the end of every post and sends 10 - 15 consecutive messages having not received a reply to one of them is not quite right and sensibly avoid? she answers when she's sees the messages but she doesn't see them often that's why I gave up in the end ,as a guy you know that's how it happens sometimes ,your chatting to someone maybe someone who's new to site your chatting for ages ,not many pics but all of a sudden she blossoms sexy pics start going up she goes in forums and chatrooms next thing you know she doesn't see messages coz she's getting 100 a day and they go over page ,got picture now "
I'm not new |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales |
"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?"
Nope. Been there, done that....
And we're still doing it. |
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"Or maybe women realise that someone who consistently puts all available smilies at the end of every post and sends 10 - 15 consecutive messages having not received a reply to one of them is not quite right and sensibly avoid? she answers when she's sees the messages but she doesn't see them often that's why I gave up in the end ,as a guy you know that's how it happens sometimes ,your chatting to someone maybe someone who's new to site your chatting for ages ,not many pics but all of a sudden she blossoms sexy pics start going up she goes in forums and chatrooms next thing you know she doesn't see messages coz she's getting 100 a day and they go over page ,got picture now "
If you're messaging newbies and when they find their feet they stop messaging you it may simply mean they've found others they consider better than you. |
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By *urvy38hWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Yes there is one and he is the only one in my 'Hotlist' x."
But then I've pushed him away a couple of times, thinking I'm not attractive enough for him.
He as always wanted to have sex with me, but doesn't want a relationship, just sex on a regular basis. I then thought yes I would with him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always but life is always that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is pretty fucking amazing when you get naked with someone you find incredibly hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always seem to like the guys who are married or attached and their partner is unaware.
Damn my moral code! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Next question? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. Next question?"
My hotlist
My friends list
Oh and probable the Women I have already met
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
Has anyone given the obligatory "your mum" option yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course.. fab geography is a huge pain in the backside a lot of the time but I'm more than happy to perv from afar |
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"Has anyone given the obligatory "your mum" option yet?"
hang 0n |
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Hell yes. They remain very far out of my league, nice to keep them in the wank bank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes there are loads, but it is a good fantasy lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just want their naked bodies for my pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always seem to like the guys who are married or attached and their partner is unaware.
Damn my moral code! "
Oh well, more for us that live by different moral codes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?"
yes just one but hey she is beautiful and one faces reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was one girl who messaged me and is really hot, now she just sits on my hotlist. And another one who is in Ireland lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah there's a few but one in particular in the last few days. Anyone got a magic lamp I can rub? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always seem to like the guys who are married or attached and their partner is unaware.
Damn my moral code!
Oh well, more for us that live by different moral codes "
I know. I'm gutted. There seems to be only a tiny percentage of genuinely single guys here, or anywhere for that matter (or who are able to play as a single with the blessing of their partner).
It has temporarily put me off this lifestyle numerous times. I've tried to be ridiculously careful and rarely meet, but then then last time I managed to get a string of incredibly angry and scary kik messages from one "single" guy's fiancée, who had all my messages, naked pics and face pics.
Ive been chatted up by three guys in recent weeks in clubs who all turned out to have girlfriends.
Even a long term fuck buddy then told me sheepishly he had been seeing someone for a while.
I'm not sure in the last couple of years I've actually had a meet with anyone genuinely single, thinking about it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know about have sex with, but there are a few I would like to meet for a social and see how many bottles of wine we could get through....
There are some beautiful women on this site (note I am a single guy, so its coming from that perspective), and some really interesting profiles/forum posts, that catch my eye and make me sigh... |
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By *llebWoman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
Yes, too many to mention , one lives in hope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ye there is a few
Maybe one day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anyone in particular on the site who you long to have sex with, but know it'll almost never happen?"
god yeah, she know it too, lol |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
a land up north..... of leicester |
Aye there are some... And some that I wouldn't meeting again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no one on my hotlist ATM...
So no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fun thing about plans is that you can make them! |
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