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What are the downsides to fab meets?

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

For instance, if I meet a lot, I'm pretty susceptible to UTIs.

Are there any downsides to meeting from fab, for you? Or is it all just peachy sailing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

UTI??

No downside for me really, I just hope that some of them want to meet again lol

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

Heh. Urinary tract infection. Cystitis. It's a relatively common effect of "lots of sex" for many women. Lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have been known to get cystitis if I've been very active on a club party night.

But I wised up!to!that and always make sure I've got lots of cystitis stuff in if I'm going to be doing that.

Biggest problem is choosing what to wear lol

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

I suppose the biggest downside would be finally having a meet with someone you think is going to be dynamite but it's rather mediocre.

Rather disappointing

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman over a year ago

Dartford

"I suppose the biggest downside would be finally having a meet with someone you think is going to be dynamite but it's rather mediocre.

Rather disappointing

I'd agree with this

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

"I suppose the biggest downside would be finally having a meet with someone you think is going to be dynamite but it's rather mediocre.

Rather disappointing

I'd agree with this "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Downsides -

Knowing what you are missing if you leave.

Huge in_oxes and fancy a fuck messages.

Mine is being here and having so little free time that I already get some of that.

If you're not using fab then the loss of the forum is massive.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

Downsides are wishing you'd kept messaging as they were more interesting that way and wanting more than a one off meet.

Deciding what to wear also figures xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None, if you have good judgment

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"None, if you have good judgment

No amount of judgment's going to give me a bigger urethra. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For instance, if I meet a lot, I'm pretty susceptible to UTIs.

Are there any downsides to meeting from fab, for you? Or is it all just peachy sailing?

Wrong forum

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"For instance, if I meet a lot, I'm pretty susceptible to UTIs.

Are there any downsides to meeting from fab, for you? Or is it all just peachy sailing?

Wrong forum "

Is it?

Which forum should it be in?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure. Maibe I should meet some and see lol.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Not sure. Maibe I should meet some and see lol."

Shag, you're such a tease. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For instance, if I meet a lot, I'm pretty susceptible to UTIs.

Are there any downsides to meeting from fab, for you? Or is it all just peachy sailing?

Wrong forum

Is it?

Which forum should it be in? "

Err swingers chat ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When its hometime!

Doll x

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"For instance, if I meet a lot, I'm pretty susceptible to UTIs.

Are there any downsides to meeting from fab, for you? Or is it all just peachy sailing?

Wrong forum

Is it?

Which forum should it be in?

Err swingers chat ?"

Huh.

I thought it'd be a bit too informal for there. Apologies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Herpes

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman over a year ago

Dartford

"When its hometime!

Doll x "

Hahahahaha very true x

Also that moment where you realise that they aren't going to get hard again so you can't have another fuck

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

"When its hometime!

Doll x

Hahahahaha very true x

Also that moment where you realise that they aren't going to get hard again so you can't have another fuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure. Maibe I should meet some and see lol.

Shag, you're such a tease. Lol"
lol and that is right I am, ok. I will check my calendar and see when I am available

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"For instance, if I meet a lot, I'm pretty susceptible to UTIs.

Are there any downsides to meeting from fab, for you? Or is it all just peachy sailing?

I had that once; it was my own stupidity for letting him stick his fingers in me; never again

I was so embarrased when I had to go to my GP's surgery. Thankfully, it cleared in a week with drinking gallons of Cranberry juice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also that moment where you realise that they aren't going to get hard again so you can't have another fuck

So true. I once made the mistake of giving a bj first.

That was his one and only erection. What a dull meet for me!

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Also that moment where you realise that they aren't going to get hard again so you can't have another fuck

So true. I once made the mistake of giving a bj first.

That was his one and only erection. What a dull meet for me! "

Oh... GOD!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rash on my chin/dry lips from too much snogging

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Rash on my chin/dry lips from too much snogging

And the dry skin too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also that moment where you realise that they aren't going to get hard again so you can't have another fuck

So true. I once made the mistake of giving a bj first.

That was his one and only erection. What a dull meet for me! "

Fucking hell

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman over a year ago

Dartford

"Also that moment where you realise that they aren't going to get hard again so you can't have another fuck

So true. I once made the mistake of giving a bj first.

That was his one and only erection. What a dull meet for me!

Fucking hell "

That's awful

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

When you know not matter what you try and do that either you not going to get hard again

Or that you in a club met a loverly couple but don't get there fab name

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman over a year ago

Dartford

When you have sore legs the next day

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

Well for the bareback brigade, STI's, and God knows what else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

UTIs and BV are a pain.

People moving away or getting into a relationship,when the sex is good.

Not enough time to meet.

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman over a year ago

Dartford

"UTIs and BV are a pain.

People moving away or getting into a relationship,when the sex is good.

Not enough time to meet."

BV?

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Not sure. Maibe I should meet some and see lol."

I'm looking forward to meeting you

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Downsides? A few but noting to worry about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"UTIs and BV are a pain.

People moving away or getting into a relationship,when the sex is good.

Not enough time to meet.

BV? "

Bacterial Vaginosis

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure. Maibe I should meet some and see lol.

I'm looking forward to meeting you

"
Yes thanks. I am looking forward to meet you as well x.

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

"UTIs and BV are a pain.

People moving away or getting into a relationship,when the sex is good.

Not enough time to meet.

BV? "

Bacterial vaginosis

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

I get asked to meet way after my bedtime

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By *ty31Man over a year ago

NW London

The disapproving looks I get from the staff at the club when I visit Following on from my last escapade/scrape there...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you have sore legs the next day

Sore everything. Sometimes I have to sit in a cold bath for as long as I can stand it.

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"The disapproving looks I get from the staff at the club when I visit Following on from my last escapade/scrape there..."

Oh dear!

Are you one of those guys that stalks couples at clubs then?

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By *ty31Man over a year ago

NW London

"The disapproving looks I get from the staff at the club when I visit Following on from my last escapade/scrape there...

Oh dear!

Are you one of those guys that stalks couples at clubs then?

The exact opposite. I talk to/abuse/banter/sledge anyone and Everyone. I just usually manage to do something memorable...

Maybe I'm doing clubs all wrong. Perhaps as a single guy I should copy the Wanking Dead and I would have more success.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've not yet had a meet so I cannot possibly comment on experience but the one thing il be bitterly disappointed with is if the lady or couple I met looked very different from their profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No downsides for us , it's all good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

FOr me would be all the build up before hand. The chatting of what yous want to do with each other . Exchanging pics. Both really excited for this meet to happen . Time passes chatting stops . Then restarts all the excitement rushs back . The anticipation of the meet comes it arrives . All nervous and excited. You's meet and boom the meet was a major flop. Total gutting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it's how nervous I get. I have felt as though I would literally pass out from nerves and it is really embarrassing to meet with someone when you are shaking like a leaf

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"For me it's how nervous I get. I have felt as though I would literally pass out from nerves and it is really embarrassing to meet with someone when you are shaking like a leaf

That's quite endearing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me it's how nervous I get. I have felt as though I would literally pass out from nerves and it is really embarrassing to meet with someone when you are shaking like a leaf

That's quite endearing "

Haha I'm not sure my previous meets would agree.

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"For me it's how nervous I get. I have felt as though I would literally pass out from nerves and it is really embarrassing to meet with someone when you are shaking like a leaf

That's quite endearing

Haha I'm not sure my previous meets would agree.

I'd need to find out for myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose the biggest downside would be finally having a meet with someone you think is going to be dynamite but it's rather mediocre.

Rather disappointing

This made me giggle

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By *ighland_RoseCouple over a year ago

Brigadoon

Having to clean the house before anyone visits. Or is it just me that's a slut and a slattern!? :D

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By *oxesMan over a year ago

Southend, Essex

speaking to like minded people inteligent, interesting people to whom i know i can only speck to on here on in a club. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Real life getting in the way so never having time to meet. Otherwise, all good!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've only had 2 meets, but both have ended with a lot of soaked fabric. Be it clothes or bed sheets

... Yeah woe is me

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

No downside for me.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

Getting a sore arse if the guy doesn't know what he is doing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When (humblebrag) I get to the point where I know I'm not going to cum anymore but I'm still hard and want to carry on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me it's how nervous I get. I have felt as though I would literally pass out from nerves and it is really embarrassing to meet with someone when you are shaking like a leaf

I think feeling nervous is totally natural and for me personally it adds to the overall excitement of the whole experience. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me it's how nervous I get. I have felt as though I would literally pass out from nerves and it is really embarrassing to meet with someone when you are shaking like a leaf

I think feeling nervous is totally natural and for me personally it adds to the overall excitement of the whole experience. xxx "

I agree I think most people feel nervous. I just wish I didn't rattle so much lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meeting people who pretend to be seeking mutually enjoyable activities only for them to want something they didn't even mention which is definitely off your play list.

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