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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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...how high?? Dance monkey dance.
How often you been in this situation. I'm wide awake to it just not able to make the right decision.
This is not a woe is me thread btw.
So go on let's hear about anyone else's similar storiesif you have them. X  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"...how high?? Dance monkey dance.
How often you been in this situation. I'm wide awake to it just not able to make the right decision.
This is not a woe is me thread btw.
So go on let's hear about anyone else's similar storiesif you have them. X "
Yep. There's one person who can make me behave like an absolute idiot.
I stay away now but it's difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Know your value, stick to your worth, stand by your principles...
He'll be crawling by your feet really damn soon with a surprisingly renewed attitude. (; |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to happen many moons ago but not now I prefer to be high value but easy to lose.
There's only one man I let have control over me and that's my friend and PT simply because I know he has my interests at heart....even then I sometimes dig my heels in lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...how high?? Dance monkey dance.
How often you been in this situation. I'm wide awake to it just not able to make the right decision.
This is not a woe is me thread btw.
So go on let's hear about anyone else's similar storiesif you have them. X "
You can't control other peoples' behaviour but you can control your reaction to it x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...how high?? Dance monkey dance.
How often you been in this situation. I'm wide awake to it just not able to make the right decision.
This is not a woe is me thread btw.
So go on let's hear about anyone else's similar storiesif you have them. X
You can't control other peoples' behaviour but you can control your reaction to it x"
Yup....always that "what if" though isn't there. I hate that b*tch "what if"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Treat n mean n all that.
There you go then. Treat HIM mean for a while.
Giving it a go....
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Do this for the rest of your life. He'll fuck off for good when he has to make some effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ignore him - completely ! If someone doesn't add to your life , be it just sexually or otherwise - show them the door !! I've learnt that the hard way, as I've been where you are now. It's much less exhausting letting them go.
Sarah |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Men don't actually like the women they can make jump."
We all know this. Like i said I'm totally awake to it but just an absolute dufus.
But like i said there's still a part of me that thinks...maybe. |
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Accept him for what he is and the limitations he comes with,if you can live with him after doing that, Good luck.
many women/ men spend too much time trying to change unsuitable partners; It doesn't work...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Completely with you. I've been chasing a guy for some time now. Don't know what it is about him but he has a real hold on me. He gets my hopes up then crush them! ! Wish I could ignore but as soon as he clicks his fingers I go running...hate myself for it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Accept him for what he is and the limitations he comes with,if you can live with him after doing that, Good luck.
many women/ men spend too much time trying to change unsuitable partners; It doesn't work...
I'd never dream of changing him. Just wish i could change the situation and my weak will.
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"Accept him for what he is and the limitations he comes with,if you can live with him after doing that, Good luck.
many women/ men spend too much time trying to change unsuitable partners; It doesn't work...
I'd never dream of changing him. Just wish i could change the situation and my weak will.
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Do you want to change it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Accept him for what he is and the limitations he comes with,if you can live with him after doing that, Good luck.
many women/ men spend too much time trying to change unsuitable partners; It doesn't work...
I'd never dream of changing him. Just wish i could change the situation and my weak will.
Do you want to change it? "
Maybe just go back in time and prevent it because in reality no...its not really possible. |
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"Accept him for what he is and the limitations he comes with,if you can live with him after doing that, Good luck.
many women/ men spend too much time trying to change unsuitable partners; It doesn't work...
I'd never dream of changing him. Just wish i could change the situation and my weak will.
Do you want to change it?
Maybe just go back in time and prevent it because in reality no...its not really possible. "
Well you're aware of the situation and have your eyes wide open.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Army guy I dated in 2014 when he went away in the October he said it was best we don't see each other again when he gets back. Gets back in December and contacts me to say he was back but didn't want to meet, just asked if I had found anyone. Went away again in January '15 came back in May, contacts me and I nag him to see me and even though he says it's not a good idea meet him anyway, end up begging him if I can suck his dick and he finally gave in and let me, he went away again and came back in December and contacts me to let me know he's back and if I'm with anyone, doesn't ask to see me or give any indication that he wants to meet me at all and that's that. Think I'll alway think of this guy as the one I couldn't get! |
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"Army guy I dated in 2014 when he went away in the October he said it was best we don't see each other again when he gets back. Gets back in December and contacts me to say he was back but didn't want to meet, just asked if I had found anyone. Went away again in January '15 came back in May, contacts me and I nag him to see me and even though he says it's not a good idea meet him anyway, end up begging him if I can suck his dick and he finally gave in and let me, he went away again and came back in December and contacts me to let me know he's back and if I'm with anyone, doesn't ask to see me or give any indication that he wants to meet me at all and that's that. Think I'll alway think of this guy as the one I couldn't get!"
I could bloody slap you with that army guy....delete delete delete!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could bloody slap you with that army guy....delete delete delete!!!! "
I know, now times that by about 100 and that's how my best friend feels! Honestly never met a guy that made me feel like he did, dunno if that was military instilled or just him but his mannerisms and the way he held himself and just being around him.
Think the last thing I said to him was he'd end up that old man living alone where the kids post dog shit through his letterbox! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Army guy I dated in 2014 when he went away in the October he said it was best we don't see each other again when he gets back. Gets back in December and contacts me to say he was back but didn't want to meet, just asked if I had found anyone. Went away again in January '15 came back in May, contacts me and I nag him to see me and even though he says it's not a good idea meet him anyway, end up begging him if I can suck his dick and he finally gave in and let me, he went away again and came back in December and contacts me to let me know he's back and if I'm with anyone, doesn't ask to see me or give any indication that he wants to meet me at all and that's that. Think I'll alway think of this guy as the one I couldn't get!"
Oh god...mines a marine!!! Exactly same thing xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice is don't dance, don't jump and don't be an idiot, I'd rather dance alone than wait for someone to tell me I can dance "
One day you'll break the cycle - easier said than done though. |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
How many times has he clicked & you jumped?
Why is he back now? As the last monkey resigned or give him the elbow?
Personally i think men & women like this play a big power trip. But they only have the power while you give it them
Good luck
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"So we've had a cordial conversatio n....feeling better about stuff. Quite platonic. Got some answers i wanted.
Thanks for your help guys x"
That sounds positive and don't be down on yourself we've all got or had that 'one' guy!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Army guy I dated in 2014 when he went away in the October he said it was best we don't see each other again when he gets back. Gets back in December and contacts me to say he was back but didn't want to meet, just asked if I had found anyone. Went away again in January '15 came back in May, contacts me and I nag him to see me and even though he says it's not a good idea meet him anyway, end up begging him if I can suck his dick and he finally gave in and let me, he went away again and came back in December and contacts me to let me know he's back and if I'm with anyone, doesn't ask to see me or give any indication that he wants to meet me at all and that's that. Think I'll alway think of this guy as the one I couldn't get!
I could bloody slap you with that army guy....delete delete delete!!!! "
same but hugs anyway - reckon we all there at some point over someone or something xxx |
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