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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

its so annoying too see the grama police on here some off us didn't have a chance for education I can only speak for my self but yea cant spell very well or do maths that good but im sure I can do a lot more than most who are good at the above gggrrrrrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're quite old to still be worried about primary school skills.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

I agree, i am fully aware each and every person is educated differently, some take in everything easily, some struggle, some have dyslexia etc

I hate seeing people put down because their grammar isnt perfect

I do laugh however when the grammar police get their own grammar wrong whilst correcting folk

Lighten up folks, we are here for sex not english lessons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its so annoying too see the grama police on here some off us didn't have a chance for education I can only speak for my self but yea cant spell very well or do maths that good but im sure I can do a lot more than most who are good at the above gggrrrrrrrrrrr

Totally agree with you - and have said so on here so many times .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

False dichotomy. Good grammar does not equal bad at the sensual arts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as you can understand someone it really does not matter. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's an issue if people can understand what's written.

However when it's clearly incoherent due to poor grammar, then messages can be taken out of context, hence it's importance.

If you feel you missed out on education, then why not take adult learning courses? With adagogy you benefit from a class eager to learn creating a better environment. Good luck.

Ps any mistakes here are the result of typing on a phone!

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

yes im 54 and have got thru life im ex forces I left with the rank off sgt also I passed as an mot tester and fully skilled mechanic lol most cant even change a wheel without rac but hate when I read on here about spelling

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By *irty RascalMan over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"I agree, i am fully aware each and every person is educated differently, some take in everything easily, some struggle, some have dyslexia etc

I hate seeing people put down because their grammar isnt perfect

I do laugh however when the grammar police get their own grammar wrong whilst correcting folk

Lighten up folks, we are here for sex not english lessons"

"We are here for sex" now I remember why I joined

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"I agree, i am fully aware each and every person is educated differently, some take in everything easily, some struggle, some have dyslexia etc

I hate seeing people put down because their grammar isnt perfect

I do laugh however when the grammar police get their own grammar wrong whilst correcting folk

Lighten up folks, we are here for sex not english lessons"

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

" I don't think it's an issue if people can understand what's written.

However when it's clearly incoherent due to poor grammar, then messages can be taken out of context, hence it's importance.

If you feel you missed out on education, then why not take adult learning courses? With adagogy you benefit from a class eager to learn creating a better environment. Good luck.

Ps any mistakes here are the result of typing on a phone!

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ok you ov read my message and understood so whats the point ???

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By *irty RascalMan over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

I bet everyone's checking their spelling on this discussion especially their predictive text

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" hate when I read on here about spelling "

How about not reading on here then. You know what I hate? Inverted snobbery over poor spelling and grammar.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The issue is one of context. Some posts are not even possible to follow.With that said, picking up on the slightest error is not right.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes im 54 and have got thru life im ex forces I left with the rank off sgt also I passed as an mot tester and fully skilled mechanic lol most cant even change a wheel without rac but hate when I read on here about spelling "

Spelling and grammar isn't necessarily a sign of intelligence, it indicates skills in the written word.

I'm sure you are very talented in your chosen specialism.

The reason grammar is deemed important, is that allows us to communicate and understand more effectively.

I don't suggest people should be ridiculed for poor grammar but it shouldn't be brushed aside as something only the stuck up need ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree, i am fully aware each and every person is educated differently, some take in everything easily, some struggle, some have dyslexia etc

I hate seeing people put down because their grammar isnt perfect

I do laugh however when the grammar police get their own grammar wrong whilst correcting folkB

Lighten up folks, we are here for sex not english lessons"

Well said

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

well im so glad that people understand what we are saying as the lady said its a sex site not a bloody English lesson

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"well im so glad that people understand what we are saying as the lady said its a sex site not a bloody English lesson

You're quite right. However you started a debate on spelling?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree, i am fully aware each and every person is educated differently, some take in everything easily, some struggle, some have dyslexia etc

I hate seeing people put down because their grammar isnt perfect

I do laugh however when the grammar police get their own grammar wrong whilst correcting folk

Lighten up folks, we are here for sex not english lessons"

Whilst I agree we are here for sex rather than English lessons, in order for sex to take place it is necessary for there to be attraction.

Attraction covers many things including physical attributes as well as other attributes such as personality and how somebody conducts themselves.

You will therefore find, not unreasonably, that some people will be put off a person is unable to spell.

I suspect this is not going to go down well with some people but that is my genuine view.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"well im so glad that people understand what we are saying as the lady said its a sex site not a bloody English lesson

You're quite right. However you started a debate on spelling?

at this rate it's going to turn into a mass debate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I bet everyone's checking their spelling on this discussion especially their predictive text

With infinite care

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If it's coherent and gets your point across then that should be fine by everybody.

Dare I say forums are maybe not the best place to be, if your written English is really so bad ?

Not aimed at the OP just some of the stuff I've seen on here defies belief.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Spelling and grammar isn't necessarily a sign of intelligence, it indicates skills in the written word.

I'm sure you are very talented in your chosen specialism.

The reason grammar is deemed important, is that allows us to communicate and understand more effectively.

I don't suggest people should be ridiculed for poor grammar but it shouldn't be brushed aside as something only the stuck up need ?"

Quite.

I note, also, it's not ok to look down on someone for poor English but it's ok to look down on them if they can't change a wheel.

OP you are doing exactly what you are complaining about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree, i am fully aware each and every person is educated differently, some take in everything easily, some struggle, some have dyslexia etc

I hate seeing people put down because their grammar isnt perfect

I do laugh however when the grammar police get their own grammar wrong whilst correcting folk

Lighten up folks, we are here for sex not english lessons

Whilst I agree we are here for sex rather than English lessons, in order for sex to take place it is necessary for there to be attraction.

Attraction covers many things including physical attributes as well as other attributes such as personality and how somebody conducts themselves.

You will therefore find, not unreasonably, that some people will be put off a person is unable to spell.

I suspect this is not going to go down well with some people but that is my genuine view. "

*if a person*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's horses for courses. A lawyer or teacher needs good grammar and spelling.

A sargeant in the army doesn't always (mainly because they used to get the corporals (me!) to write everything out

It doesn't mean one is better than the other, just have different skill sets.

What I dislike is poor grammar being used as an instrument to put others down. That always shows to me the one taking the higher grammar ground does not have anything else worth saying.

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

well blow me down here is me thinking a came onto fab swingers too have sex with others who think on same lines as ourselves but hey ho looks like we have it wrong omg night class bookings needed mmmm do they do night classes for swinging lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good English, grammar and spelling are more important to some than others. However I myself would not correct someone especially on a thread it seems unkind to highlight it within a discussion.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"well blow me down here is me thinking a came onto fab swingers too have sex with others who think on same lines as ourselves but hey ho looks like we have it wrong omg night class bookings needed mmmm do they do night classes for swinging lol

Did you honestly expect everyone to have the same likes and values as you?

Swingers are individual people with their own likes and dislikes.

Why would that surprise you?

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"Good English, grammar and spelling are more important to some than others. However I myself would not correct someone especially on a thread it seems unkind to highlight it within a discussion."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the most common miss spelled word on here is DISCREET why do so many spell this word as DISCRETE ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's horses for courses. A lawyer or teacher needs good grammar and spelling.

A sargeant in the army doesn't always (mainly because they used to get the corporals (me!) to write everything out

It doesn't mean one is better than the other, just have different skill sets.

What I dislike is poor grammar being used as an instrument to put others down. That always shows to me the one taking the higher grammar ground does not have anything else worth saying."

Everything should be taken in context. Of course if demeaning language or inferences are made then it's unkind.

By the way it's Sergeant. .not sargeant, corporal

...junkers for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP I'm confused as it's your thread?

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

OP I'm confused as it's your thread?"
why are you as hey it was a pun im not going too go too spelling classes we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"the most common miss spelled word on here is DISCREET why do so many spell this word as DISCRETE ?? "

Discrete is an actual word, they just don't know there are 2 spellings with 2 different meanings.

Accommodate is often spelt incorrectly too, as is professional.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP I'm confused as it's your thread?"

With due respect to the OP, I get the impression you are quite self conscious about the issue and sought other peoples views to feel better. When those views don't accord with your own, you don't like it.

Perhaps just accept spelling is important to some people and not others. It is not a question of being right or wrong, it is a question of personal preference.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

OP I'm confused as it's your thread?

Perhaps just accept spelling is important to some people and not others. It is not a question of being right or wrong, it is a question of personal preference. "

^yup

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

The second rule of wisdom is that not everyone thinks the same way you do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's horses for courses. A lawyer or teacher needs good grammar and spelling.

A sargeant in the army doesn't always (mainly because they used to get the corporals (me!) to write everything out

It doesn't mean one is better than the other, just have different skill sets.

What I dislike is poor grammar being used as an instrument to put others down. That always shows to me the one taking the higher grammar ground does not have anything else worth saying.

Everything should be taken in context. Of course if demeaning language or inferences are made then it's unkind.

By the way it's Sergeant. .not sargeant, corporal

...junkers for you."

I never bloody made it to those dizzy heights so never had to spell sergeant! Not that I'm bitter you understand...!!!

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

OP I'm confused as it's your thread?

Perhaps just accept spelling is important to some people and not others. It is not a question of being right or wrong, it is a question of personal preference. "
I do fully understand what you are saying and no offence taken here but its sad when people put posts on here about what ever there problem is but no there commented over there spelling not there issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

Oh dear. Well good luck... with that attitude you'll need it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So use it as a filter and just don't meet any of those grammar police types. Personally written communication is important to me, so I can be put off by text speak, poor spelling and poor grammar. That doesn't mean I think they're a lesser person in any way, just that I think we're less likely to get on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP I'm confused as it's your thread?why are you as hey it was a pun im not going too go too spelling classes we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

It is a swinging site and good luck, no doubt you'll probably be more successful than I will!

I simply noted that you suggested you had a poor education suggesting you felt you'd missed out, hence I suggested evening classes.

Good luck.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

OP I'm confused as it's your thread?

Perhaps just accept spelling is important to some people and not others. It is not a question of being right or wrong, it is a question of personal preference. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's horses for courses. A lawyer or teacher needs good grammar and spelling.

A sargeant in the army doesn't always (mainly because they used to get the corporals (me!) to write everything out

It doesn't mean one is better than the other, just have different skill sets.

What I dislike is poor grammar being used as an instrument to put others down. That always shows to me the one taking the higher grammar ground does not have anything else worth saying.

Everything should be taken in context. Of course if demeaning language or inferences are made then it's unkind.

By the way it's Sergeant. .not sargeant, corporal

...junkers for you.

I never bloody made it to those dizzy heights so never had to spell sergeant! Not that I'm bitter you understand...!!!"

always need good corporals so never be bitter or compare.

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

Oh dear. Well good luck... with that attitude you'll need it..."
don't think luck comes into it think more off down too earth people who are not stuck up there own arses because they can spell ps with kind regards I could take offence as most people on here over simple things too me like strip any engine re build and running but that's my fortay lol

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"So use it as a filter and just don't meet any of those grammar police types. Personally written communication is important to me, so I can be put off by text speak, poor spelling and poor grammar. That doesn't mean I think they're a lesser person in any way, just that I think we're less likely to get on. "

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

fair comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's horses for courses. A lawyer or teacher needs good grammar and spelling.

A sargeant in the army doesn't always (mainly because they used to get the corporals (me!) to write everything out

It doesn't mean one is better than the other, just have different skill sets.

What I dislike is poor grammar being used as an instrument to put others down. That always shows to me the one taking the higher grammar ground does not have anything else worth saying.

Everything should be taken in context. Of course if demeaning language or inferences are made then it's unkind.

By the way it's Sergeant. .not sargeant, corporal

...junkers for you.

I never bloody made it to those dizzy heights so never had to spell sergeant! Not that I'm bitter you understand...!!!

always need good corporals so never be bitter or compare. "

Never said I was any good! Anyway I was infantry. Point rifle, pull trigger. Job done!

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By *igjrvMan over a year ago

blackwood

My grandma is prefect I did skool and was god at it. Leev us alown and pik on some one els.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm also not keen on people for condemning others as up their own arses and snobs because they have different preferences.

I don't understand the suggestion that all swingers, because they're into swinging, should be the same and like/dislike the same things.

That would be sooo boring.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Point rifle, pull trigger. Job done!

Sounds like my sex life!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

who, not for*

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By *ohnjones3210Man over a year ago

Chester

Eye carnt spel wel eeever.

Just try your best and ignore any haters. Ok, grammar is fairly important when writing, but it isn't the end of the world if you don't get it correct.

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"It's horses for courses. A lawyer or teacher needs good grammar and spelling.

A sargeant in the army doesn't always (mainly because they used to get the corporals (me!) to write everything out

It doesn't mean one is better than the other, just have different skill sets.

What I dislike is poor grammar being used as an instrument to put others down. That always shows to me the one taking the higher grammar ground does not have anything else worth saying.

Everything should be taken in context. Of course if demeaning language or inferences are made then it's unkind.

By the way it's Sergeant. .not sargeant, corporal

...junkers for you.

I never bloody made it to those dizzy heights so never had to spell sergeant! Not that I'm bitter you understand...!!!

always need good corporals so never be bitter or compare.

Never said I was any good! Anyway I was infantry. Point rifle, pull trigger. Job done!

"
same here ex 2LI watch and shoot watch and shoot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

Oh dear. Well good luck... with that attitude you'll need it...don't think luck comes into it think more off down too earth people who are not stuck up there own arses because they can spell ps with kind regards I could take offence as most people on here over simple things too me like strip any engine re build and running but that's my fortay lol"

People have tried to be polite to you in explaining why the issue is important. If you continue to suggest that it is stuck up, then people will lose their patience with you.

I can only assume you feel the need to brag abut your accomplishments because you feel insecure about the issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm also not keen on people for condemning others as up their own arses and snobs because they have different preferences.

I don't understand the suggestion that all swingers, because they're into swinging, should be the same and like/dislike the same things.

That would be sooo boring."

Absolutely. No doubt we will all disagree over some issues at some stage. It doesn't mean we dislike that person or think we're better than they are.

It's how we manage our differences that matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My grandma is prefect I did skool and was god at it. Leev us alown and pik on some one els. "

I'm sure your grandma's lovely too....have you got her number?

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

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Different people have different skills . However I do not see many people on here being criticised for either poor spelling or grammar . If mistakes are made, is it not better to be advised of them. ? We should be constantly trying to learn throughout life improving ourselves .

I do find it odd that those who say spelling and grammar do not matter are still prepared to judge people on their looks.

It is a lot easier to improve spelling and grammar than how you look.

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

People have tried to be polite to you in explaining why the issue is important. If you continue to suggest that it is stuck up, then people will lose their patience with you.

I can only assume you feel the need to brag abut your accomplishments because you feel insecure about the issue

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totally wrong im not bragging im saying we all good at something and as said before its a swinging site ie sex off what ever persons choice ??

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

and with regards any comp people could add a spell checker on here so it would not show and how you going too tell then mmmm put a spelling test sheet on table before any swinging happens come on people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

You know people that are academically gifted can also strip engines?

Even people that aren't able to spell/read can follow the pictures in a Hayne's.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

People have tried to be polite to you in explaining why the issue is important. If you continue to suggest that it is stuck up, then people will lose their patience with you.

I can only assume you feel the need to brag abut your accomplishments because you feel insecure about the issue

totally wrong im not bragging im saying we all good at something and as said before its a swinging site ie sex off what ever persons choice ??"

Some people value how English is used though. That forms part of the way they make that choice. It's a swinging site but swingers are not all the same. We're regular people, not a different species.

Calling people stuck up for caring about things you don't think are important is not very nice. You don't like people judging you so why would you do the same?

Are you stuck up because you look down on people who can't change a wheel?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

Good for you. Coincidentally, I am also fully capable of stripping and rebuilding any combustion engine, usually big diesels, as well as complex hydraulic systems and transmissions.

I don't however, see this skill as being mutually exclusive, and am also capable of using my devices spellchecker etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never said I was any good! Anyway I was infantry. Point rifle, pull trigger. Job done!

same here ex 2LI watch and shoot watch and shoot

We'll forgive the poor spelling but not the fact you buggers couldn't march properly! That strange little skip on a halt......!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

Good for you. Coincidentally, I am also fully capable of stripping and rebuilding any combustion engine, usually big diesels, as well as complex hydraulic systems and transmissions.

I don't however, see this skill as being mutually exclusive, and am also capable of using my devices spellchecker etc.

Oooh get you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's so stupid that some people who struggle with reading and writing expect those who don't to be apologetic for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This site is about foreplay not wordplay. I'm annoyed when I see grammar mistakes in The Guardian but I don't ask a woman to spell what we are about to enjoy. Context is everything.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oooh get you!

Beware the Tgirl with a big box of tools

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

People have tried to be polite to you in explaining why the issue is important. If you continue to suggest that it is stuck up, then people will lose their patience with you.

I can only assume you feel the need to brag abut your accomplishments because you feel insecure about the issue

totally wrong im not bragging im saying we all good at something and as said before its a swinging site ie sex off what ever persons choice ??

Some people value how English is used though. That forms part of the way they make that choice. It's a swinging site but swingers are not all the same. We're regular people, not a different species.

Calling people stuck up for caring about things you don't think are important is not very nice. You don't like people judging you so why would you do the same?

Are you stuck up because you look down on people who can't change a wheel?"
ohhhh dear see thing is ive mixed with the educated people and too be honest things ive seen and lestend too lol mmmmmm glad im where I am

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's so stupid that some people who struggle with reading and writing expect those who don't to be apologetic for it. "

True.

But those who do struggle don't deserve to have the piss taken. Particularly, those on here who don't have English as a first language don't deserve to be ridiculed.

I don't see any problem with it figuring in decisions who to meet though, if it matters to someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's so stupid that some people who struggle with reading and writing expect those who don't to be apologetic for it. "

This.

The strange inverted snobbery that somehow being not being able to spell makes you a more 'down to earth' person.

Personally, we're attracted to intelligence...

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"we are here too swing not do a spelling test lol

People have tried to be polite to you in explaining why the issue is important. If you continue to suggest that it is stuck up, then people will lose their patience with you.

I can only assume you feel the need to brag abut your accomplishments because you feel insecure about the issue

totally wrong im not bragging im saying we all good at something and as said before its a swinging site ie sex off what ever persons choice ??

Some people value how English is used though. That forms part of the way they make that choice. It's a swinging site but swingers are not all the same. We're regular people, not a different species.

Calling people stuck up for caring about things you don't think are important is not very nice. You don't like people judging you so why would you do the same?

Are you stuck up because you look down on people who can't change a wheel?ohhhh dear see thing is ive mixed with the educated people and too be honest things ive seen and lestend too lol mmmmmm glad im where I am "

It's a question. Why are they stuck up for their judgement if you aren't? Seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's so stupid that some people who struggle with reading and writing expect those who don't to be apologetic for it.

This.

The strange inverted snobbery that somehow being not being able to spell makes you a more 'down to earth' person.

Personally, we're attracted to intelligence..."

Intelligence takes many different forms. That's an unfair statement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's so stupid that some people who struggle with reading and writing expect those who don't to be apologetic for it.

True.

But those who do struggle don't deserve to have the piss taken. Particularly, those on here who don't have English as a first language don't deserve to be ridiculed.

I don't see any problem with it figuring in decisions who to meet though, if it matters to someone."

This is the complete opposite though. Taking pride in it and being rude to people who just have better spelling skills is backwards, the energy would be better spent learning how to spell and improving themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"and with regards any comp people could add a spell checker on here so it would not show and how you going too tell then mmmm put a spelling test sheet on table before any swinging happens come on people

I am afraid that I am a spelling nazi, at least to a degree. I tend to disregard messages and profiles which contain bad spelling. That might well make me a snob but I do believe that I am not likely to get on with people who cannot spell properly. I know that I will not want sex with someone I do not get on with.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's so stupid that some people who struggle with reading and writing expect those who don't to be apologetic for it.

True.

But those who do struggle don't deserve to have the piss taken. Particularly, those on here who don't have English as a first language don't deserve to be ridiculed.

I don't see any problem with it figuring in decisions who to meet though, if it matters to someone.

I don't disagree.

I'm in the stuck-up camp, apparently. I can change a wheel too though so I don't know if that makes me more stuck-up or less stuck-up.

I was trying very hard to be nice to the OP but being called stuck-up is wearing thin.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Intelligence takes many different forms. That's an unfair statement."

It's unfair to say we're attracted to intelligence?

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's so stupid that some people who struggle with reading and writing expect those who don't to be apologetic for it.

This.

The strange inverted snobbery that somehow being not being able to spell makes you a more 'down to earth' person.

Personally, we're attracted to intelligence...

Intelligence takes many different forms. That's an unfair statement."

I don't know how refusing to learn to spell and holding yourself back is a sign of intelligence. Seems like the opposite of what an intelligent person would do.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's so stupid that some people who struggle with reading and writing expect those who don't to be apologetic for it.

This.

The strange inverted snobbery that somehow being not being able to spell makes you a more 'down to earth' person.

Personally, we're attracted to intelligence..."

I appreciate good attention to detail, taking care and willingness to make an effort. Poor English demonstrates someone doesn't care about those things.

They're probably not on my wavelength.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's so stupid that some people who struggle with reading and writing expect those who don't to be apologetic for it.

This.

The strange inverted snobbery that somehow being not being able to spell makes you a more 'down to earth' person.

Personally, we're attracted to intelligence..."

But spelling and grammar are mainly gained through education - intelligence and education aren't the same thing

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If they are using a spell checker then they're making an effort to get it right. If the spelling is right, it's not going to put those who care about spelling off. It doesn't matter how the spelling is right if it is.

Spell checkers can't usually manage grammar correctly though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As long as you can understand someone it really does not matter. X"

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Different people have different skills . However I do not see many people on here being criticised for either poor spelling or grammar . If mistakes are made, is it not better to be advised of them. ? We should be constantly trying to learn throughout life improving ourselves .

I do find it odd that those who say spelling and grammar do not matter are still prepared to judge people on their looks.

It is a lot easier to improve spelling and grammar than how you look. "

People judge people on how they look because they may or may not want to fuck them .

Now that is totally reasonable in my eyes .

What's odd is that one may decide they don't want to fuck someone because they can't spell very well .

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"As long as you can understand someone it really does not matter. X

Exactly."

Amen, brother!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I do find it odd that those who say spelling and grammar do not matter are still prepared to judge people on their looks.

It is a lot easier to improve spelling and grammar than how you look.

People judge people on how they look because they may or may not want to fuck them .

Now that is totally reasonable in my eyes .

What's odd is that one may decide they don't want to fuck someone because they can't spell very well .

Or I decide I don't want to fuck them because they don't appreciate attention to detail in the way I do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's so stupid that some people who struggle with reading and writing expect those who don't to be apologetic for it.

This.

The strange inverted snobbery that somehow being not being able to spell makes you a more 'down to earth' person.

Personally, we're attracted to intelligence...

Intelligence takes many different forms. That's an unfair statement.

I don't know how refusing to learn to spell and holding yourself back is a sign of intelligence. Seems like the opposite of what an intelligent person would do. "

Ok, but I've made a spelling mistake which was pointed out earlier in the thread. Does that make me unintelligent?

I personally can't strip a car engine. I can't even cut a piece of wood straight. I have no desire to learn to do so. Maybe the OP doesn't have the desire to learn to spell, or correct grammar.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"As long as you can understand someone it really does not matter. X

Exactly.

Amen, brother! "

But, but you can understand people with cock avatars and you don't like those...

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

I do find it odd that those who say spelling and grammar do not matter are still prepared to judge people on their looks.

It is a lot easier to improve spelling and grammar than how you look.

People judge people on how they look because they may or may not want to fuck them .

Now that is totally reasonable in my eyes .

What's odd is that one may decide they don't want to fuck someone because they can't spell very well .

"
at long last someone who understands about swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do find it odd that those who say spelling and grammar do not matter are still prepared to judge people on their looks.

It is a lot easier to improve spelling and grammar than how you look.

People judge people on how they look because they may or may not want to fuck them .

Now that is totally reasonable in my eyes .

What's odd is that one may decide they don't want to fuck someone because they can't spell very well .

Because understanding the context of things can occasions be important.

I'm going to get a bit anal on this, can after all cause much distress to some if taken out of context

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well done you.xx

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Ah well, I'm stuck-up, so that's me told.

My preferences suit me just fine so I'll continue being stuck-up.

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"Ah well, I'm stuck-up, so that's me told.

My preferences suit me just fine so I'll continue being stuck-up."
good for you lass you stick too your principles x

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By *un and fabulousCouple over a year ago

Tottington

Spelling doesn't matter to me but text speak... Now that does matter!

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

Well done you.xx"
thank you for a positive reply omg spell checker just did positive for me lol x

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ah well, I'm stuck-up, so that's me told.

My preferences suit me just fine so I'll continue being stuck-up.good for you lass you stick too your principles x"

If anyone was actually stuck-up about spelling and grammar, they'd have corrected yours by now. You'll note nobody has.

You haven't answered, by the way, does looking down on people who can't change a wheel make you stuck up? If not, why not?

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By *uesday wednesdayWoman over a year ago

Chichester

Spelling and grammar isn't necessarily a sign of intelligence, it indicates skills in the written word.

I'm sure you are very talented in your chosen specialism.

The reason grammar is deemed important, is that allows us to communicate and understand more effectively.

I don't suggest people should be ridiculed for poor grammar but it shouldn't be brushed aside as something only the stuck up need ?"

I agree!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Well done you.

xxthank you for a positive reply omg spell checker just did positive for me lol x"

You expect to be congratulated for the things you can do, whilst you insult people who can spell well, for what they are good at?

Wow. Just wow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Spelling and grammar isn't necessarily a sign of intelligence, it indicates skills in the written word.

I'm sure you are very talented in your chosen specialism.

The reason grammar is deemed important, is that allows us to communicate and understand more effectively.

I don't suggest people should be ridiculed for poor grammar but it shouldn't be brushed aside as something only the stuck up need ?

I agree!"

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"Ah well, I'm stuck-up, so that's me told.

My preferences suit me just fine so I'll continue being stuck-up.good for you lass you stick too your principles x

If anyone was actually stuck-up about spelling and grammar, they'd have corrected yours by now. You'll note nobody has.

You haven't answered, by the way, does looking down on people who can't change a wheel make you stuck up? If not, why not?"
yes I agree too no person corrected me however as my hole point been its swinging site not that we can spell or change a wheel cant you see my point and as said about spell checker and question sheet on a meet ??? and ps yes I have done and organised large shoots on game old girl so yes I can mix with the gents rather ha haha but I don't want too fuck most off them well apart from lady tara lol

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ah well, I'm stuck-up, so that's me told.

My preferences suit me just fine so I'll continue being stuck-up.good for you lass you stick too your principles x

If anyone was actually stuck-up about spelling and grammar, they'd have corrected yours by now. You'll note nobody has.

You haven't answered, by the way, does looking down on people who can't change a wheel make you stuck up? If not, why not?yes I agree too no person corrected me however as my hole point been its swinging site not that we can spell or change a wheel cant you see my point and as said about spell checker and question sheet on a meet ??? and ps yes I have done and organised large shoots on game old girl so yes I can mix with the gents rather ha haha but I don't want too fuck most off them well apart from lady tara lol "

WTF have shoots got to do with anything? You seem to have some sort of class issue now. I thought this was about spelling and grammar.

People have explained why it matters to them. It's been pointed out that "swinger" isn't a different breed and we're not all the same.

Some people care about it. Calling them stuck-up won't change that and it won't make them agree to fuck you if you ask.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Another "how I do things is right and anyone who thinks differently to me is wrong"

What is the point?

Head/desk

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"Ah well, I'm stuck-up, so that's me told.

My preferences suit me just fine so I'll continue being stuck-up.good for you lass you stick too your principles x

If anyone was actually stuck-up about spelling and grammar, they'd have corrected yours by now. You'll note nobody has.

WTF have shoots got to do with anything? You seem to have some sort of class issue now. I thought this was about spelling and grammar.

People have explained why it matters to them. It's been pointed out that "swinger" isn't a different breed and we're not all the same.

Some people care about it. Calling them stuck-up won't change that and it won't make them agree to fuck you if you ask."
hank god we not all the same and please give your answer too the spell checker I would be very interested as too you determin if they can spell ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah well, I'm stuck-up, so that's me told.

My preferences suit me just fine so I'll continue being stuck-up.good for you lass you stick too your principles x

If anyone was actually stuck-up about spelling and grammar, they'd have corrected yours by now. You'll note nobody has.

WTF have shoots got to do with anything? You seem to have some sort of class issue now. I thought this was about spelling and grammar.

People have explained why it matters to them. It's been pointed out that "swinger" isn't a different breed and we're not all the same.

Some people care about it. Calling them stuck-up won't change that and it won't make them agree to fuck you if you ask.hank god we not all the same and please give your answer too the spell checker I would be very interested as too you determin if they can spell ?"

Spell checkers typically only spot spelling errors, and not grammatical or syntax errors. Just because things are spelled correctly, it doesn't mean the sentence makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is no spell-checking tool here, so I know.

If someone, knowing perhaps that they have a problem with spelling, used an external tool then I would not know and would not need to know. They had gone to the trouble of correcting their mistakes. I would appreciate the effort.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ah well, I'm stuck-up, so that's me told.

My preferences suit me just fine so I'll continue being stuck-up.good for you lass you stick too your principles x

If anyone was actually stuck-up about spelling and grammar, they'd have corrected yours by now. You'll note nobody has.

WTF have shoots got to do with anything? You seem to have some sort of class issue now. I thought this was about spelling and grammar.

People have explained why it matters to them. It's been pointed out that "swinger" isn't a different breed and we're not all the same.

Some people care about it. Calling them stuck-up won't change that and it won't make them agree to fuck you if you ask.

hank god we not all the same and please give your answer too the spell checker I would be very interested as too you determin if they can spell ?"

I did answer. You still haven't actually answered mine though.

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"Ah well, I'm stuck-up, so that's me told.

My preferences suit me just fine so I'll continue being stuck-up.good for you lass you stick too your principles x

If anyone was actually stuck-up about spelling and grammar, they'd have corrected yours by now. You'll note nobody has.

WTF have shoots got to do with anything? You seem to have some sort of class issue now. I thought this was about spelling and grammar.

People have explained why it matters to them. It's been pointed out that "swinger" isn't a different breed and we're not all the same.

Some people care about it. Calling them stuck-up won't change that and it won't make them agree to fuck you if you ask.

hank god we not all the same and please give your answer too the spell checker I would be very interested as too you determin if they can spell ?

I did answer. You still haven't actually answered mine though."
ok not sure which question you are referring too if its the shoot thing then all im trying too say I can mix with people off better education than myself and hold my head up high didn't meen too upset anyone but I just don't understand the diff between having sex and spelling god how would people get along in clubs well exuse me but before I fuck you can you spell or would they go on looks and think hell yea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this thread has got well out of hand

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"this thread has got well out of hand "
I agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this thread has got well out of hand "

You don't think the OP was being rude unnecessarily by saying they can do a lot more than those who can spell? They're an insecure braggart.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

" ok not sure which question you are referring too if its the shoot thing then all im trying too say I can mix with people off better education than myself and hold my head up high didn't meen too upset anyone but I just don't understand the diff between having sex and spelling god how would people get along in clubs well exuse me but before I fuck you can you spell or would they go on looks and think hell yea"

I didn't ask if you can mix with upper class people though.

You called people who care about spelling stuck up. You made a comment apparently looking down your nose at people who can't change a wheel.

The question was are you stuck up for looking down at people who can't change a wheel?

Spelling has nothing to do with clubs. It is to do with how people present themselves *on here*. Some people have very poor English skills. That puts some other people off them, for various reasons that have been explained in this thread.

Technically anyone can have sex with anyone else. Do you think everyone should be willing to meet anyone and everyone just because they are capable of sex? We all have different criteria. For some, on here, communication in good English is important. For some it isn't.

Find the people that suit you, quit worrying about it. And quit calling people who do have good English skills stuck-up. We worked for those skills the same way that you worked for the skills you have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"well im so glad that people understand what we are saying as the lady said its a sex site not a bloody English lesson

You're quite right. However you started a debate on spelling?

at this rate it's going to turn into a mass debate

I hope it's not going to be messy

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"this thread has got well out of hand

You don't think the OP was being rude unnecessarily by saying they can do a lot more than those who can spell? They're an insecure braggart. "
insercure / braggart well been called a few things but this is new well done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally don't care bout spelling as long as its just about understandable lol xx I understand that there is very nice people out there who might have dyslexia x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do find it odd that those who say spelling and grammar do not matter are still prepared to judge people on their looks.

It is a lot easier to improve spelling and grammar than how you look.

People judge people on how they look because they may or may not want to fuck them .

Now that is totally reasonable in my eyes .

What's odd is that one may decide they don't want to fuck someone because they can't spell very well .

Or I decide I don't want to fuck them because they don't appreciate attention to detail in the way I do."

Well i guess I'm assuming that from pics and a message or two before meeting up for a coffee , there will be a level of attraction or not .

If the pre fuck ritual involves a spelling test , and upon failing it their looks and personality are forgotten , so be it .

But in all seriousness it doesn't make one iota of difference to us at all .

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I do find it odd that those who say spelling and grammar do not matter are still prepared to judge people on their looks.

It is a lot easier to improve spelling and grammar than how you look.

People judge people on how they look because they may or may not want to fuck them .

Now that is totally reasonable in my eyes .

What's odd is that one may decide they don't want to fuck someone because they can't spell very well .

Or I decide I don't want to fuck them because they don't appreciate attention to detail in the way I do.

Well i guess I'm assuming that from pics and a message or two before meeting up for a coffee , there will be a level of attraction or not .

If the pre fuck ritual involves a spelling test , and upon failing it their looks and personality are forgotten , so be it .

But in all seriousness it doesn't make one iota of difference to us at all .

I need a mental connection too. Someone on my wavelength.

Different strokes and all that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this thread has got well out of hand

You don't think the OP was being rude unnecessarily by saying they can do a lot more than those who can spell? They're an insecure braggart. "

I think he was more saying that his skills are elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do find it odd that those who say spelling and grammar do not matter are still prepared to judge people on their looks.

It is a lot easier to improve spelling and grammar than how you look.

People judge people on how they look because they may or may not want to fuck them .

Now that is totally reasonable in my eyes .

What's odd is that one may decide they don't want to fuck someone because they can't spell very well .

Or I decide I don't want to fuck them because they don't appreciate attention to detail in the way I do.

Well i guess I'm assuming that from pics and a message or two before meeting up for a coffee , there will be a level of attraction or not .

If the pre fuck ritual involves a spelling test , and upon failing it their looks and personality are forgotten , so be it .

But in all seriousness it doesn't make one iota of difference to us at all .

I need a mental connection too. Someone on my wavelength.

Different strokes and all that."

And that's what makes fab and the lifestyle in general so interesting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this thread has got well out of hand

You don't think the OP was being rude unnecessarily by saying they can do a lot more than those who can spell? They're an insecure braggart.

I think he was more saying that his skills are elsewhere."

Why not say that then instead of saying they can do a lot more? Clearly they think they're better than people who can spell and communicate coherently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this thread has got well out of hand

You don't think the OP was being rude unnecessarily by saying they can do a lot more than those who can spell? They're an insecure braggart. insercure / braggart well been called a few things but this is new well done

I spelled insecure correctly just above your post, you could've checked it by just glancing up. You sure you're not just lazy when it comes to spelling?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My spelling is only understandable because predicted text lol and that don't work sometimes x but yet I can play midwife to farm animals, plumbing, most electrical work in a house, build a conservatory and make the best bisto tubs lol xx ( female here) x

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"this thread has got well out of hand

You don't think the OP was being rude unnecessarily by saying they can do a lot more than those who can spell? They're an insecure braggart.

I think he was more saying that his skills are elsewhere."

But he expected to be respected for his skills because he worked for them at the same time as being rude about people who can spell well and who care about it. That's also a skill people worked for.

He can't have it both ways, expecting respect for what he can do and being rude about people who can do things he can't.

That's my issue with the posts.

I agree with a lot of what's been said otherwise, like people shouldn't be ridiculed for poor English.

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

I do find it odd that those who say spelling and grammar do not matter are still prepared to judge people on their looks.

It is a lot easier to improve spelling and grammar than how you look.

People judge people on how they look because they may or may not want to fuck them .

Now that is totally reasonable in my eyes .

What's odd is that one may decide they don't want to fuck someone because they can't spell very well .

Or I decide I don't want to fuck them because they don't appreciate attention to detail in the way I do.

Well i guess I'm assuming that from pics and a message or two before meeting up for a coffee , there will be a level of attraction or not .

If the pre fuck ritual involves a spelling test , and upon failing it their looks and personality are forgotten , so be it .

But in all seriousness it doesn't make one iota of difference to us at all .

I need a mental connection too. Someone on my wavelength.

Different strokes and all that."
ahhh rite well I do apologise and im not a bad stroker ive been told and it wasn't in a letter lol sorry that's my humour but hope I haven't upset you as yea the dyslexi does affect in a lot I do but I cant change that sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I struggle with spelling and grammar,to this day I will not fill a form out infront of people.I know its sad,but this is how I am.I do find it funny though when someone comes onto the forum and declares..Im a teacher..then they have spelling mistakes in their posts,while correcting someone else's spelling and grammar.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I do find it odd that those who say spelling and grammar do not matter are still prepared to judge people on their looks.

It is a lot easier to improve spelling and grammar than how you look.

People judge people on how they look because they may or may not want to fuck them .

Now that is totally reasonable in my eyes .

What's odd is that one may decide they don't want to fuck someone because they can't spell very well .

Or I decide I don't want to fuck them because they don't appreciate attention to detail in the way I do.

Well i guess I'm assuming that from pics and a message or two before meeting up for a coffee , there will be a level of attraction or not .

If the pre fuck ritual involves a spelling test , and upon failing it their looks and personality are forgotten , so be it .

But in all seriousness it doesn't make one iota of difference to us at all .

I need a mental connection too. Someone on my wavelength.

Different strokes and all that.ahhh rite well I do apologise and im not a bad stroker ive been told and it wasn't in a letter lol sorry that's my humour but hope I haven't upset you as yea the dyslexi does affect in a lot I do but I cant change that sorry

I don't think badly of you, or anyone, because they can't spell. I use it as a guide we are different types of people and would probably not get on.

My only issue was you calling people who do care about spelling stuck-up.

If you expect everyone to be nice to you, you can't insult them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do find it odd that those who say spelling and grammar do not matter are still prepared to judge people on their looks.

It is a lot easier to improve spelling and grammar than how you look.

People judge people on how they look because they may or may not want to fuck them .

Now that is totally reasonable in my eyes .

What's odd is that one may decide they don't want to fuck someone because they can't spell very well .

at long last someone who understands about swinging "

What bothers me about this thread is that the OP is insistent that their views on swinging (that we are here for sex and not a spelling test) is the correct way to swing and all others must be wrong.

Clearly you judge on looks and do not factor in spelling, I respect that. However you should also respect that other people do judge on other factors and they are entitled to do so. It does not mean they do not understand swinging

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

For some of us, there is more to wanting to fuck someone than looks

There isn't one right way to swing.

The point is finding the people who want the same as you.

Telling everyone who doesn't like the same things you do that they are wrong and don't understand swinging is both ridiculous and patronising.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

When men ask for profile advice and they have spelling / grammar mistakes in their profile I point it out. They don't have to change anything if they don't want to but I always think 'why put up barriers to meets?' because for some, a poorly presented profile is a barrier. I think allowances are generally made for smart phone fumble fingers and dyslexia and not English as a first language etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this thread has got well out of hand

You don't think the OP was being rude unnecessarily by saying they can do a lot more than those who can spell? They're an insecure braggart.

I think he was more saying that his skills are elsewhere.

Why not say that then instead of saying they can do a lot more? Clearly they think they're better than people who can spell and communicate coherently. "

Do you not feel that may be misconstruing what the op was trying to say? He's admitted his written communication is bad, therefore perhaps exploring what he means may have been better than leaping all over him?

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

ok got it now never ment too offend anyone or patronise I do understand we all look at swinging in different ways and I openly offer my oppoliges too any persons I have offended

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this thread has got well out of hand

You don't think the OP was being rude unnecessarily by saying they can do a lot more than those who can spell? They're an insecure braggart.

I think he was more saying that his skills are elsewhere.

Why not say that then instead of saying they can do a lot more? Clearly they think they're better than people who can spell and communicate coherently.

No, I don't. He was questioned and still insisted he can do things better and that people who can spell are stuck up. When a point is reiterated again and again, it's pretty clear what the point is.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

"It's so stupid that some people who struggle with reading and writing expect those who don't to be apologetic for it.

This.

The strange inverted snobbery that somehow being not being able to spell makes you a more 'down to earth' person.

Personally, we're attracted to intelligence..."

People can be highly intelligent without knowing correct grammar or spelling

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"ok got it now never ment too offend anyone or patronise I do understand we all look at swinging in different ways and I openly offer my oppoliges too any persons I have offended

Fair enough. I apologise if I misunderstood you.

I wish you the best of luck on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tihs is a tset to see if polpe can raed tihs . You can so waht is the issue wtih grmamer ? .... Tehre anit one hahahaha

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

I didn't ask if you can mix with upper class people though.

You called people who care about spelling stuck up. You made a comment apparently looking down your nose at people who can't change a wheel.

The question was are you stuck up for looking down at people who can't change a wheel?

But in a club environment those stating spelling matters wouldnt know if those they are sleeping with are good spellers, they might not find that out until they go look up the profile on here to verify.

So in that theory spelling doesnt matter

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I didn't ask if you can mix with upper class people though.

You called people who care about spelling stuck up. You made a comment apparently looking down your nose at people who can't change a wheel.

The question was are you stuck up for looking down at people who can't change a wheel?

So in that theory spelling doesnt matter"

No, it doesn't. There are also a lot of people on here who won't meet married people but who never ask if someone is married in a club.

Clubs are different to on here. The OP was about on here, not clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think what some people are trying to saying is...yes I'm poor at spelling,but I can strip a engine down and rebuild it again.Yes it's a skill,and it comes easy to them,as does spelling and grammar to others.The difference is when they hand the keys back to the person,they don't take the piss out of them for not being able to repair their car.At the end of the day,anyone can learn how to rebuild a engine.

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

I have ov upset dee and said im sorry for doing this it was not my intension my intension was too point out we all have our own good and bad points some people like some they don't I was only saying if people cant spell its not the all and end all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this thread has got well out of hand

You don't think the OP was being rude unnecessarily by saying they can do a lot more than those who can spell? They're an insecure braggart.

I think he was more saying that his skills are elsewhere.

Why not say that then instead of saying they can do a lot more? Clearly they think they're better than people who can spell and communicate coherently.

No, I don't. He was questioned and still insisted he can do things better and that people who can spell are stuck up. When a point is reiterated again and again, it's pretty clear what the point is."

I think you're being a little disingenuous in taking his first post as you did. After all, your first post, post number 2 in the thread could be seen as rather high handed and very patronising.

However, the op has apologised so that should be the end of the matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a bad speller, I put it down to not attending Hogwarts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of us are guilty of a level of poor grammar, spelling or punctuation however I think it can be off putting when it's to a level that might as well be a different language

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think what some people are trying to saying is...yes I'm poor at spelling,but I can strip a engine down and rebuild it again.Yes it's a skill,and it comes easy to them,as does spelling and grammar to others.The difference is when they hand the keys back to the person,they don't take the piss out of them for not being able to repair their car.At the end of the day,anyone can learn how to rebuild a engine."

as they can . But it takes years of experience and some degree of education to be able to measure within a thousand of an inch and check . Also takes some degree of education to be able to check electrical and electronic circiuts . Takes skill to be able to hear a muktitude of different noises produced by an entire vehicle not just its engine and road noises that the untrained ear cannot work out . . Those untrained ears would likely describe a scrape as a squeal and a rummble as a rore . The noises are equally different thus have different meanings .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

there are two types of people on FAB...

there are the people who couldn't give a toss about anything in particular, and in the grand scheme of things seem a whole lot more fun....

and then there are the spelling police! certain people whose sole aim in life is to educate others and point out their shortcomings in order to make themselves look better....but are intrinsically a bunch of wankers....

that's just my opinion btw

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mechanics aint just trained to strip and rebuild vehicles . They are also trained to a level in maths english ( geomitry ) (gravitational forces , weight distrubution etc etc .

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

as said I apologise too all on thread if I came accros as offensive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this thread has got well out of hand

You don't think the OP was being rude unnecessarily by saying they can do a lot more than those who can spell? They're an insecure braggart.

I think he was more saying that his skills are elsewhere.

Why not say that then instead of saying they can do a lot more? Clearly they think they're better than people who can spell and communicate coherently.

No, I don't. He was questioned and still insisted he can do things better and that people who can spell are stuck up. When a point is reiterated again and again, it's pretty clear what the point is.

I think you're being a little disingenuous in taking his first post as you did. After all, your first post, post number 2 in the thread could be seen as rather high handed and very patronising.

However, the op has apologised so that should be the end of the matter."

Don't see how maintaining what I've said is disingenuous. I still think it's stupid to say you're better than people just because you have skills that they don't. It may be patronising, but it's a childish stance in the OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But I can do it...but I struggle with simple spellings and grammar,but I don't mock anyone who can not,even though I find it really easy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of us are guilty of a level of poor grammar, spelling or punctuation however I think it can be off putting when it's to a level that might as well be a different language"

Yup - which is why it is a question of context as with most things in life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there are two types of people on FAB...

there are the people who couldn't give a toss about anything in particular, and in the grand scheme of things seem a whole lot more fun....

that's just my opinion btw

"
this

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I have ov upset dee and said im sorry for doing this it was not my intension my intension was too point out we all have our own good and bad points some people like some they don't I was only saying if people cant spell its not the all and end all "

I'm not upset.

I enjoy arguing. Ask anyone.

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

ok I give up SORRY ALL

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"this thread has got well out of hand

You don't think the OP was being rude unnecessarily by saying they can do a lot more than those who can spell? They're an insecure braggart.

I think he was more saying that his skills are elsewhere.

Why not say that then instead of saying they can do a lot more? Clearly they think they're better than people who can spell and communicate coherently.

No, I don't. He was questioned and still insisted he can do things better and that people who can spell are stuck up. When a point is reiterated again and again, it's pretty clear what the point is.

I think you're being a little disingenuous in taking his first post as you did. After all, your first post, post number 2 in the thread could be seen as rather high handed and very patronising.

However, the op has apologised so that should be the end of the matter."

Indeed, respect due to the OP for trying to clear the air.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"ok I give up SORRY ALL "

Don't worry, we're all arguing with each other now, not you.

This is normal

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By *r ManxMan over a year ago

NeverWhere

I haven't read the whole thread just bit's of it

So ia am sorry if i am repeating things that have been said earlier !

I am dyslexic and i wasn't tested until my mid thirties, when I started a new job. Put it down to a victim of the 1970's crap education system. I am not bitter but I am resentful. I left school decided on a career choice and did night school for 5 years.

I now have a set of support strategies for dealing with written work.

A good spell and grammar check program on computers at home and work.

Several friends and family who will proof read important documents for me.

Obviously iIcant use them for my profile or posts on here

My dyslexia means I am very good at thinking out side of the box, problem solving and practical physical skill's, that my non dyslexic colleges either miss or do not recognise until they have to do them and struggle with , they then have to ask me in to do them.

I also have to be extra careful and precise writing my daily reports.

O/P could have worded his post better considering the topic but if he struggles with grammar and spelling. He could also struggle with formulating a post that can not be taken out of context. The written word can be very difficult to deal with an just because certain people have not mastered it , does not mean that they are stupid , thick or un-educated. It just means they are different and might have skills that are useful in other ways.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ok I give up SORRY ALL

Don't worry, we're all arguing with each other now, not you.

This is normal

Agree with this! Right. What's the next thread to have an argument on?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I haven't read the whole thread just bit's of it

So ia am sorry if i am repeating things that have been said earlier !

I now have a set of support strategies for dealing with written work.

A good spell and grammar check program on computers at home and work.

Several friends and family who will proof read important documents for me.

Obviously iIcant use them for my profile or posts on here

I also have to be extra careful and precise writing my daily reports.

Amen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP is an attention whore bordering on Troll, as well as illiterate.

Makes badly worded binary statement. Insults all who disagree. Displays inverted snobbery at perceived threats to his own insecurities. Boasts about his own superior skill set. Insults other posters and displays complete ignorance of his own insulting behaviour.

Finally apologises for misunderstood slights.

Classic troll behavior.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate it when men correct my spelling, a right turn off!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not upset.

I enjoy arguing. Ask anyone."

Yes you are upset , and no you don't enjoy arguing

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"OP is an attention whore bordering on Troll, as well as illiterate.

Finally apologises for misunderstood slights.

Classic troll behavior.

I think that's unfair.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm not upset.

I enjoy arguing. Ask anyone.

Yes you are upset , and no you don't enjoy arguing

Don't start with me, you know how I get!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there are two types of people on FAB...

there are the people who couldn't give a toss about anything in particular, and in the grand scheme of things seem a whole lot more fun....

that's just my opinion btw

Brilliant , succinct and to the point .

Love it

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"OP is an attention whore bordering on Troll, as well as illiterate.

Finally apologises for misunderstood slights.

Classic troll behavior.

"
its trolls like me keep you reading the forums and replying so hey ho mmmm whats a female troll lol

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"OP is an attention whore bordering on Troll, as well as illiterate.

Finally apologises for misunderstood slights.

Classic troll behavior.

its trolls like me keep you reading the forums and replying so hey ho mmmm whats a female troll lol"

A troll. Anyone who reads Terry Pratchett knows it's very difficult to distinguish a male troll from a female troll

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A troll. Anyone who reads Terry Pratchett knows it's very difficult to distinguish a male troll from a female troll

Ruby wore a red dress.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its trolls like me keep you reading the forums and replying so hey ho mmmm whats a female troll lol"

Funny how you managed to write that out with a modicum of grammar. Quite different to your other posts.

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

its trolls like me keep you reading the forums and replying so hey ho mmmm whats a female troll lol

Funny how you managed to write that out with a modicum of grammar. Quite different to your other posts."
see trolls can learn might be slow as was doing a research on trolls lmfao mmmmmm

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I can spell carburettor which makes me both a good speller and a mechanic

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

its trolls like me keep you reading the forums and replying so hey ho mmmm whats a female troll lol

Funny how you managed to write that out with a modicum of grammar. Quite different to your other posts.see trolls can learn might be slow as was doing a research on trolls lmfao mmmmmm"
strange how your down as ff when in truth your mf mmmm just a trolls view

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"I can spell carburettor which makes me both a good speller and a mechanic

"
but can you tune a carb ??

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I can spell carburettor which makes me both a good speller and a mechanic

but can you tune a carb ??"
No, I actually have no idea what one looks like and what it does. I am really mechanically useless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Possibly time to pull a veil over this thread as its getting personal now?

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By *hy-tot OP Couple over a year ago

Skellow

"I can spell carburettor which makes me both a good speller and a mechanic

but can you tune a carb ?? No, I actually have no idea what one looks like and what it does. I am really mechanically useless. "
lmfao im not a gino but will have a good look and poke about lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can spell carburettor which makes me both a good speller and a mechanic

I can spell supercalifragilisticexpialidocious which makes me mary poppins

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