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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
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Do you think that you go through phases of the kind of sex you have?
I'm not sure I know how to explain this but I always assumed that if you're a bit of a kinky sort you'd always be a kinky sort.
I'm a great believer in variety being the spice of life but I can't help wondering if certain things fall into the 'been there, done that' category.
I guess I'm just thinking out loud but I'd be interested in your thoughts. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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over a year ago
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I think a lot of it comes and goes in phases. We're both pretty vanilla, but some days/weeks/months we're kinkier than others. Some things we've tried once and while it was good we wouldn't bother again, other things we've tried and never gone back. I tend to think of sex as a bit of a journey, some paths you try and they're horrible but while you're trying all your different options you find the occasional path that leads on and on into different better things.
Wow, that turned out really cheesy, I'm so sorry! ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes ive always considered myself vanilla but since joining fab ive discovered many things i never thought to be true.
- Some tvs i find uncredibley hot!
- I like being bitten and the pain contrast gives me a more intense orgasm.
- Bi men never would of thought were my thing but thats now a fantasy too.
- Also being a sub is something im now interested in.
Some boundaries though i dont think i will ever be interested in pushing
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I met single women my age ish and black guys, mainly young, alone as a single fem for four years. A couple of them became long term fibs. Then one evening, I met Mr and we became a couple instantly clicked. Mow I meet single women alone and TVs and bi guys with my partner ... things change. other guys dont do it for me anymore. Just the way it is ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My sexual behaviour changes quite often. I have a complicated brain that never works the same two days in a row. One week I can't be arsed and just want slow and sensual. The next week I want to tie someone up and fuck them. |
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I started on here like the proverbial kid in a sweetshop wanting to experience everything but then calmed down and now I'm back exploring my boundaries again as it's too much fun not too ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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"I started on here like the proverbial kid in a sweetshop wanting to experience everything but then calmed down and now I'm back exploring my boundaries again as it's too much fun not too " snap...lol |
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Mine come and go, I like lots of variety and less monotonous experience. Some fbs are good for this but some less so. And the kink is great, if you get the right partners - if you're single it can be a bit pot luck, not everyone having great finesse. The latter can be a reason to do other stuff. |
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