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pleasing the wife?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok so I consider myself to be straight although have been in close proximity to naked guys during 3 and 4 somes. Question I have is my lovely wife has said she would like to see me suck another guys cock!

I am an adventurous guy but and by no means homophobic and I am wondering if it is something that she fantasises about should I go ahead and do it?

If I analyse it I suppose she puts a cock in her mouth lots of times so it shouldn't be too bad??

Am I right or am I wrong? What to do??

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By *enard ArgenteMan over a year ago

London and France

It's up to you, surely, what you do?

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By *essiCouple over a year ago

suffolk

Well if it feels right to you,try it you may enjoy it ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

And if I do what does that mean? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go with the flow with a man that's also open in group play it should be fun and pleasurable, but most of all do it for yourself because u want to X

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By *essiCouple over a year ago

suffolk

"And if I do what does that mean? Lol

It means you've tried something new and enjoyed it so may do it again..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I won't rule it out... main thing is that whatever we experiment in that we both enjoy and give pleasure to each other

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Get a divorce.

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By *r ManxMan over a year ago

NeverWhere

It is your choice, if you asked her to eat pussy

and if she didn't want too would you respect it or pressure her into it ,

sex is all about pushing boundaries but respecting each other as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you try it and don't like it then you we are sure your wife will understand. I have done it the once at a meet. Drove my Mrs wild.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's no big deal - especially on my part

Do it if you want....I think you're allowed to suck a cock (if your wife is watching) and remain straight.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well it's a new one on me and she has never really given any indication before that it would turn her on ..... not averse to the idea just wondered what other male halves would do if their wives/partners posed that question?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks

I may do

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Well it's a new one on me and she has never really given any indication before that it would turn her on ..... not averse to the idea just wondered what other male halves would do if their wives/partners posed that question?

Jump at the chance, for sure!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did you put the idea to your Mrs to come on the scene in the first place?

I have always said if it's something the Mrs wishes to see and experiment with it would be hypocritical of my not to at least try because she has been so open herself.

However she's just not fused either way

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By *ylonesqueMan over a year ago

Near Aberystwyth

If my wife wanted to me suck a cock, I'd do it to please her. I think it's all part of having fun sexually...whatever turns you on etc.

But I'd have to draw the line at having it cum in my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

She mentioned the site to me out I jumped in willingly and I suppose seeing her eat pussy turns me on so I guess if it turns her on I should ho with it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It would be as far as I would go and she knows that.... no disrespect to any gay or bisexual guys at all - i just know that would be as much as I'd do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My responses on such requests would be try it until you know you don't like it. At least you tried it will then put the idea to bed. If you like then that's just a brucie bonus.

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Doing the dishes normally suffices in most households

If you are not comfortable doing anything, don't do it to please someone else.

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS over a year ago

Belfast

"Ok so I consider myself to be straight although have been in close proximity to naked guys during 3 and 4 somes. Question I have is my lovely wife has said she would like to see me suck another guys cock!

I am an adventurous guy but and by no means homophobic and I am wondering if it is something that she fantasises about should I go ahead and do it?

If I analyse it I suppose she puts a cock in her mouth lots of times so it shouldn't be too bad??

Am I right or am I wrong? What to do??"

Doing anything under duress / out of obligation never ends well.

If it's a hard limit, explain to your partner and ask if they have any other suggestions that they'd enjoy equaliy.

I love women but wouldn't enjoy licking fanyard.. People like what they like, no shame in it.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Go for it...Adds so many more dimensions to a meet

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I am not comfortable with the idea of doing something solely to please your partner.

I'm bi but Cal is very much straight, though comfortable around naked blokes. I expect I'd enjoy seeing him with another man as much as I do a woman. However, I wouldn't dream of suggesting it.

If it is something YOU want to try then go for it

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doing the dishes normally suffices in most households

If you are not comfortable doing anything, don't do it to please someone else. "

Yes and no. Depends how comfortable you are trying new thing as a couple we have been on the scene for a while now continuing to explore new things so we are more than comfortable experimenting. If someone is really uncomfortable with any play we stop simples.

There is also a big difference between being uncomfortable and being nervous and those feeling need to defined.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And if I do what does that mean? Lol

It means you're orally bi, no dramas mate, just enjoy

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"And if I do what does that mean? Lol

It means you're orally bi, no dramas mate, just enjoy "

It means you've caught the ghey

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