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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get so many messages from men who want to meet but as neither of us can accommodate, the chances of meeting are slim.
I seem to have more fun at a club for this reason.
Does anyone else find this a problem too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get so many messages from men who want to meet but as neither of us can accommodate, the chances of meeting are slim.
I seem to have more fun at a club for this reason.
Does anyone else find this a problem too?"
Nope , we do outdoor , car , parties etc.....
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"Hotels work great. 
I can't meet often but when I do I make the most of it.  "
Very true! And tbh, nice hotel vs kestrels in February....
Just the staff complain about you having sex in the pool at the hotel |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hotels work great.
I can't meet often but when I do I make the most of it.
Very true! And tbh, nice hotel vs kestrels in February....
Just the staff complain about you having sex in the pool at the hotel"
I'd choose Kestrels over a hotel any time of the year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use hotels a lot, you can get them for a resnoble price now days, I always offer to pay half so its upto them then if they want to meet, I do still get a lot of guys who aren't prepared to even go half's on a hotel, that's upto them I suppose but plenty are
I'd sooner get a hotel than go to a club, I tend to turn club meets down
Infact if I'm honest I'd sooner do a hotel meet than go to somebodies home
Damn these typos, third time lucky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get so many messages from men who want to meet but as neither of us can accommodate, the chances of meeting are slim.
I seem to have more fun at a club for this reason.
Does anyone else find this a problem too?"
Yes we do as don't want people at Mrs times house |
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"I can only accommodate during the day but i'd rather not..
I've only ever been to 1 club and I wasn't that impressed...will have to try some others  "
You should. I'd agree with miss innocent - kestrels is fab and go when ever I can.
I won't speak for her but my assumption is that she and so many other single women go, it must be an environment that enjoy being in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I tend to favour hotels, they suit the way I like to meet better than a club does.
I do find Kestrels fun though with a regular friend as opposed to meeting someone there for the 1st time.
Only met once in a guys house, felt okay with it as had loads of chat & met him socially at least twice beforehand.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can only accommodate during the day but i'd rather not..
I've only ever been to 1 club and I wasn't that impressed...will have to try some others
You should. I'd agree with miss innocent - kestrels is fab and go when ever I can.
I won't speak for her but my assumption is that she and so many other single women go, it must be an environment that enjoy being in. "
Not everybody likes clubs though
If I'm honest going to a club is always my last choice of places to go |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't accommodate or pay for hotels. I have a regular partner who pays for a room and has done for the past 3 years. On here it's no more expensive for a man to pay for a hotel than to pay for a club. I prefer to meet regularly too,and have met men from here who accommodate at their home. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't accommodate or pay for hotels. I have a regular partner who pays for a room and has done for the past 3 years. On here it's no more expensive for a man to pay for a hotel than to pay for a club. I prefer to meet regularly too,and have met men from here who accommodate at their home. "
I'd love to find a man who can accommodate but unfortunately, for various reasons, most who message me can't.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I get so many messages from men who want to meet but as neither of us can accommodate, the chances of meeting are slim.
I seem to have more fun at a club for this reason.
Does anyone else find this a problem too?"
Yes. I also find a lot of guys just assume I will accommodate, even though my profile says that I can accommodate but I won't until I know someone a bit and trust them. I'm highly disinclined to accommodate for a first meet.
When possible I am willing to go halves on a hotel but usually men try to talk me into accommodating. Few are willing to pay half of the hotel cost. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We accommodate. We play with others who accommodate. We play at clubs. We play in hotels when we're traveling.
If people still can't meet up its not because we didn't try
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh, and clubs aren't something I'd go for. I'd rather pay more and have a hotel room so I can meet someone alone, I don't want a load of extra people I don't know or like there with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh, and clubs aren't something I'd go for. I'd rather pay more and have a hotel room so I can meet someone alone, I don't want a load of extra people I don't know or like there with me."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if I only had to pay £10 to get into a club I would meet at kestrals/abfabs its a beautiful clean club with a sunbathing area outside "
And a pool so much better value than a hotel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well if I only had to pay £10 to get into a club I would meet at kestrals/abfabs its a beautiful clean club with a sunbathing area outside
And a pool so much better value than a hotel."
yes sleep on a sunbed and fuck all day mmmm |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I get so many messages from men who want to meet but as neither of us can accommodate, the chances of meeting are slim.
I seem to have more fun at a club for this reason.
Does anyone else find this a problem too?"
We have the opposite problem,most people want to meet up at clubs and that's not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if I only had to pay £10 to get into a club I would meet at kestrals/abfabs its a beautiful clean club with a sunbathing area outside
And a pool so much better value than a hotel.yes sleep on a sunbed and fuck all day mmmm "
No, I swim in the pool, use the hot tubs, have lunch, chat.
I don't just go to a hotel, fuck and then leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well if I only had to pay £10 to get into a club I would meet at kestrals/abfabs its a beautiful clean club with a sunbathing area outside
And a pool so much better value than a hotel.yes sleep on a sunbed and fuck all day mmmm
No, I swim in the pool, use the hot tubs, have lunch, chat.
I don't just go to a hotel, fuck and then leave."
when I go on a fun meet I have breakfast see the sights maybe lunch then hotel then out for meal then hotel then breakfast then fun then home have been known to stay for three days with one woman ex forumite I used to see regular |
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