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over a year ago
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Been so awestruck by someone, that all your cool goes out of the window, and you end up like a nervous virgin asking one of the popular girls out to the school disco.
I've been in this position, and I've got as far as starting typing the message and my head goes numb, its so fucking weird, because I'm a very confident person, and normally if I want to message someone ill do it with no reservation, or even if I see someone in the street ill approach with total abandon, piece if piss, but as soon as I start typing the message it looks no better than a fancy a fuck message.
And heredity the kicker part if it, I'm not particularly trying to fuck her, she's beautiful and all, but I just find her interesting and a great conversationalist, she's never failed to post an intelligent insightful post like ever.
I can't be the only one this has happened to, can I ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just list the ability to write anything that doesn't sound as lame as fuck and I have no idea why, and now Thu.king about it I've started this thread, so if I suddenly message them now they are going to know it was all about them, my life is starting to turn into a woody Allen play, maybe I'm not as cool as I think I am, it maybe I am as cool as I think I am and that's the problem, because I'm a man nearing my mid 40s and I still use the word cool, I need a warm bowl of soup and a lie down  |
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"Been so awestruck by someone, that all your cool goes out of the window, and you end up like a nervous virgin asking one of the popular girls out to the school disco.
I've been in this position, and I've got as far as starting typing the message and my head goes numb, its so fucking weird, because I'm a very confident person, and normally if I want to message someone ill do it with no reservation, or even if I see someone in the street ill approach with total abandon, piece if piss, but as soon as I start typing the message it looks no better than a fancy a fuck message.
And heredity the kicker part if it, I'm not particularly trying to fuck her, she's beautiful and all, but I just find her interesting and a great conversationalist, she's never failed to post an intelligent insightful post like ever.
I can't be the only one this has happened to, can I ?"
I'd recommend a lie down. Or a wank. Or both perhaps, with the latter first. Then give her a call and tell her you think you might want to fuck her, but you're not sure. Let me know how you get on.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. Putting someone on a pedestal is not just unfair to them, it's also insulting to yourself."
It's not even that, if I ever meet them at a social if anything I'm sure I'd be fine, its just the message thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I have, when I was here under my singles profile, there was one guy who I wanted to message and I just couldn't, it was ridiculous!! I ended up messgeing one evening when I was very d*unk!!!
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Oh god. This definitely happens to me, I turn into a right fucking dork when I'm messaging someone I think is super hot. Lol.
But you should just do it. They're gonna think you're cute, I bet. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yea at a levellers concert Mark Chadwick was flirtin with me on stage n i was flirtin back but when he approched me at the end of the nite n invited me n my friend back to the party I shat myself n legged it like a giggling school girl! N yes I completely regret no going!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. Putting someone on a pedestal is not just unfair to them, it's also insulting to yourself.
It's not even that, if I ever meet them at a social if anything I'm sure I'd be fine, its just the message thing "
That's called overthinking it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just do it. What's the worst that could happen eh??  "
You know the messages you get that make you go eugh, no, that's the first that could happen lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No. Putting someone on a pedestal is not just unfair to them, it's also insulting to yourself.
It's not even that, if I ever meet them at a social if anything I'm sure I'd be fine, its just the message thing
That's called overthinking it."
I've gone past over Thu.king it, I can't even see over thinking it in my rear _iew mirror now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. Putting someone on a pedestal is not just unfair to them, it's also insulting to yourself.
It's not even that, if I ever meet them at a social if anything I'm sure I'd be fine, its just the message thing
That's called overthinking it.
I've gone past over Thu.king it, I can't even see over thinking it in my rear _iew mirror now lol"
In that case, forget it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been so awestruck by someone, that all your cool goes out of the window, and you end up like a nervous virgin asking one of the popular girls out to the school disco.
I've been in this position, and I've got as far as starting typing the message and my head goes numb, its so fucking weird, because I'm a very confident person, and normally if I want to message someone ill do it with no reservation, or even if I see someone in the street ill approach with total abandon, piece if piss, but as soon as I start typing the message it looks no better than a fancy a fuck message.
And heredity the kicker part if it, I'm not particularly trying to fuck her, she's beautiful and all, but I just find her interesting and a great conversationalist, she's never failed to post an intelligent insightful post like ever.
I can't be the only one this has happened to, can I ?"
not awestruck to the point of not being able to talk to her but was very surprised a certain woman was attracted to me and chatted for a long time until she left        |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And heredity the kicker part if it, I'm not particularly trying to fuck her, she's beautiful and all, but I just find her interesting and a great conversationalist, she's never failed to post an intelligent insightful post like ever.
I can't be the only one this has happened to, can I ?"
See that is your problem, once the "fancy a fuck" option is off the table, what can you write? I mean "fancy exchanging some messages" just isn't cool enough
I do sympathise, my head gets empty sometimes just replying to forum posts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've just been told I've been on the site for 10 months and that they are surprised that I'm not beating the ladies of with a stick because I'm so hilarious.
Aww, thanks you guys x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been told I've been on the site for 10 months and that they are surprised that I'm not beating the ladies of with a stick because I'm so hilarious.
Aww, thanks you guys x "
Did you send your message then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think your a very interesting guy
Thank you, ill take that over sexy all day long, I'm if for a look at your profile now, be back in a tick "
Thank you for stopping by |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Know the feeling mate, it's easy to post openly on the forum, but can't type a decent message to the people you really want to talk to, and when you do it looks sooo wrong the way you word the message.
Good luck though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think your a very interesting guy "
That is one hell of a profile you have there, if you ever want to chat, ill be lurking around at some point, being witty and charming lol, just message me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've just been told I've been on the site for 10 months and that they are surprised that I'm not beating the ladies of with a stick because I'm so hilarious.
Aww, thanks you guys x
Did you send your message then? "
No, ill leave it for now I think LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your a very interesting guy
That is one hell of a profile you have there, if you ever want to chat, ill be lurking around at some point, being witty and charming lol, just message me.
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Ha! Witty and charming I think I pop along and lurk in your inbox |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been told I've been on the site for 10 months and that they are surprised that I'm not beating the ladies of with a stick because I'm so hilarious.
Aww, thanks you guys x
Did you send your message then?
No, ill leave it for now I think LOL"
What happened to seize the moment? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been told I've been on the site for 10 months and that they are surprised that I'm not beating the ladies of with a stick because I'm so hilarious.
Aww, thanks you guys x
Did you send your message then?
No, ill leave it for now I think LOL
What happened to seize the moment? "
It's due to you bloody women keep scaring us that we don't seize the moment! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been told I've been on the site for 10 months and that they are surprised that I'm not beating the ladies of with a stick because I'm so hilarious.
Aww, thanks you guys x
Did you send your message then?
No, ill leave it for now I think LOL
What happened to seize the moment? "
I think he just has |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just list the ability to write anything that doesn't sound as lame as fuck and I have no idea why, and now Thu.king about it I've started this thread, so if I suddenly message them now they are going to know it was all about them, my life is starting to turn into a woody Allen play, maybe I'm not as cool as I think I am, it maybe I am as cool as I think I am and that's the problem, because I'm a man nearing my mid 40s and I still use the word cool, I need a warm bowl of soup and a lie down "
Wait until face Friday.. Or any other similar thread that involves messaging forum users.. . Conversation cab flow easy from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just list the ability to write anything that doesn't sound as lame as fuck and I have no idea why, and now Thu.king about it I've started this thread, so if I suddenly message them now they are going to know it was all about them, my life is starting to turn into a woody Allen play, maybe I'm not as cool as I think I am, it maybe I am as cool as I think I am and that's the problem, because I'm a man nearing my mid 40s and I still use the word cool, I need a warm bowl of soup and a lie down
Wait until face Friday.. Or any other similar thread that involves messaging forum users.. . Conversation cab flow easy from there "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been told I've been on the site for 10 months and that they are surprised that I'm not beating the ladies of with a stick because I'm so hilarious.
Aww, thanks you guys x
Did you send your message then?
No, ill leave it for now I think LOL
What happened to seize the moment?
It's due to you bloody women keep scaring us that we don't seize the moment! Haha"
I'm not scary. I'm a pussy cat...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea at a levellers concert Mark Chadwick was flirtin with me on stage n i was flirtin back but when he approched me at the end of the nite n invited me n my friend back to the party I shat myself n legged it like a giggling school girl! N yes I completely regret no going! "
He Is a complete tart! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Message them your post OP
Bad advice, Knitter. She'll block you for being indecisive. No?
I'd bet she would think it was sweet
Knitter- you're educating me. You go for sweet over decisive?"
I don't believe them to be mutually exclusive so I'll have both please |
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"Message them your post OP
Bad advice, Knitter. She'll block you for being indecisive. No?
I'd bet she would think it was sweet
Knitter- you're educating me. You go for sweet over decisive?
I don't believe them to be mutually exclusive so I'll have both please "
Would definitely give you both, Knitter.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we all have our doubts and insecurities about ourselves,unless you have an ego the size of the UK
It's quite natural to feel intimidated, but what's the worse that can happen?
Just go for it and you never know.
I've been chatting to some very lovely people this week and am quite surprised about the often innocuous things which can start a conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just enjoy chatting and smile.
I am always blown away by the people who message me some amazingly beautiful ladies and great friends.
Don't feel insecure or intimidated chum. Just enjoy
I have learnt over the years that I am mot as ugly ir scary as I thought I was.
So believe in yourself and be confident .
Time has tought me I am quite a confident chap and happy in how I look
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I very rarely send a first message unless through a "I'd like to get my hands on you" thread or similar.
I prefer awkward stares and repeated profile _iews to get the message across... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okey dokey I've been given this some thought OP we can play this like we did way back when. You tell me who she is and I'll message her and tell her that I have a friend who likes her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okey dokey I've been given this some thought OP we can play this like we did way back when. You tell me who she is and I'll message her and tell her that I have a friend who likes her "
Ha ha like being back in school |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okey dokey I've been given this some thought OP we can play this like we did way back when. You tell me who she is and I'll message her and tell her that I have a friend who likes her
Ha ha like being back in school "
It was the only way I ever got a date |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea at a levellers concert Mark Chadwick was flirtin with me on stage n i was flirtin back but when he approched me at the end of the nite n invited me n my friend back to the party I shat myself n legged it like a giggling school girl! N yes I completely regret no going!
He Is a complete tart! "
I no but a fit one at that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okey dokey I've been given this some thought OP we can play this like we did way back when. You tell me who she is and I'll message her and tell her that I have a friend who likes her
Ha ha like being back in school
It was the only way I ever got a date "
If a boy spoke to me I used to cry and run away true story |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okey dokey I've been given this some thought OP we can play this like we did way back when. You tell me who she is and I'll message her and tell her that I have a friend who likes her
Ha ha like being back in school
It was the only way I ever got a date
If a boy spoke to me I used to cry and run away true story "
Was he called Georgie Porgie ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okey dokey I've been given this some thought OP we can play this like we did way back when. You tell me who she is and I'll message her and tell her that I have a friend who likes her
Ha ha like being back in school
It was the only way I ever got a date
If a boy spoke to me I used to cry and run away true story "
I just used to blush and look at my feet and say something geeky about music |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okey dokey I've been given this some thought OP we can play this like we did way back when. You tell me who she is and I'll message her and tell her that I have a friend who likes her
Ha ha like being back in school
It was the only way I ever got a date
If a boy spoke to me I used to cry and run away true story
I just used to blush and look at my feet and say something geeky about music "
No one ever asked me out at school. Not even via their mates. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 20 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please tell us if they message on this thread OP
Totally Off track....but that's a much better avatar
I was going for the marrow later. Not bother?"
I'd be strangely impressed if you could get a marrow in your mouth!! |
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