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Why shortage of pics off men on couple profile
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As a couple looking to meet couples. SO many couples do not have pics of the man. It is really annoying having to ask for pics off men for kat to view. Generally we just pass these profiles by. I know with a lot on here its men looking for women (so sell the women) and the fems play along but really. If your a couple with out pics of partner feel free to explain please lol |
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"As a couple looking to meet couples. SO many couples do not have pics of the man. It is really annoying having to ask for pics off men for kat to view. Generally we just pass these profiles by. I know with a lot on here its men looking for women (so sell the women) and the fems play along but really. If your a couple with out pics of partner feel free to explain please lol"
I posted about this last week too...it's frustrating. Mr doesn't like his pics in public or on the tinternet generally so we don't have as many of him, but they are there...(or I'm more of an exhibitionist!?) 
The answers I got on here were basically:
Don't tell people what to put on their profile.
Don't try to change people.
Pass on by if you don't like what you see, or don't see for that matter!
But there were quite a few couples that would like to see more men pics, just as if a single profile has minimal pics of them, it makes it difficult to judge and people complain about that too. Personally I like to see more (or do I just like to perv?  ) But I posted as if there any newbies or others wondering what they could do with their profiles..then more men pics are always welcome!  (although the dick pics can stay in the friends private show room  ) Of course, that is only if they wanted to, not because 'we' have said we would like ike it x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On my couple profile there's equal pics of me and him. He's a hotty. I wouldn't meet a couple without knowing what both looked like and neither would he, so we don't expect anyone else to. Shimples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The pics we have up are based solely on the amount of Fabs they get. The male side usually doesn't get many. Besides, somebody has to hold the camera. ( about 4 lbs. with lens and flash.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to have equal amounts of pics of us both. While wifey is quite a looker I am passable for my age I guess although the six pack is buried deep within now |
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"Because the people we attracted didnt need to fancy the male half  "
That's fair, but when a couple are looking for a couple the absence of any pictures of the man lead me to conclude the obvious. Guess what, I'm rarely wrong! So as I don't take one for the team we tend to pass them by! N |
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"As a couple looking to meet couples. SO many couples do not have pics of the man. It is really annoying having to ask for pics off men for kat to view. Generally we just pass these profiles by. I know with a lot on here its men looking for women (so sell the women) and the fems play along but really. If your a couple with out pics of partner feel free to explain please lol"
Nobody needs to explain to the rest of us why they run their profile the way they do. If the pictures they have aren't what you're looking for you aren't compatible it really is that simple.
I'm repeating myself now (it's an age thing ) but in our experience if there are no or unclear pictures of the man he isn't a willing participant or is a voyeur only. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Because the people we attracted didnt need to fancy the male half
That's fair, but when a couple are looking for a couple the absence of any pictures of the man lead me to conclude the obvious. Guess what, I'm rarely wrong! So as I don't take one for the team we tend to pass them by! N"
Yep...if we were looking for couples we would expect to see couples pics and have the same on ours
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Because the people we attracted didnt need to fancy the male half ive never seen such a a bland profile soz"
To be fair, I didnt ask for our profile to be critiqued...but yes, it is bland, nowt on it at all. |
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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago
Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...! |
"If your a couple with out pics of partner feel free to explain please lol"
Not a couple now, but was a while back.
It's the same reason as guys faces, or head and shoulders is often out of frame in a porn video. It's the girl that sells it. Simple as.
Bet the vast majority of couple profiles on here are managed by the guy - so, who are you going to market your profile to? The woman? Nope... not if you want to actually get anywhere.
Your profile is YOUR shop window. Like any shop window, you make it appeal to the majority of passers-by... and with couples, that passer-by is overwhelmingly the male... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have some of us together in our friends only/private albums but it's predominantly me (fem) in our public pics partly because we're trying to attract ladies for FFM mainly to play with me, hubby is just an added extra  and partly because he likes taking the photos.
But I think it's fair to say our profile clearly states what we want so we're not wasting other couples time in contacting us. |
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