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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only if you hand them the deck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only if you hand them the deck."

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By *ormalguy71Man over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

100% they do yes. Its extremely easy for a woman to get laid whether that be on fab or in everyday life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If not all the aces they certainly have a good hand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on the sort of guys you're looking to meet. I've always picked guys I'm on an even footing with. I prefer it that way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes they do and they know it that they are very rare, so can pick and mix who to meet whenever lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She sure does in our relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If not all the aces they certainly have a good hand

But you have the best wrists

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

A lot of them, yes.

But guys can still say no too.

Women don't have all the power here and we don't get everything we want.

Sure, some women make demands and expect guys to jump through hoops but it's up to the men whether they do it.

If men are desperate and let women hold all the aces then yes, we do.

With men who aren't desperate, or who don't show it

, and can be patient, women have less of this perceived power.

Personally, I've been turned down by quite a few guys for someone who has all the aces!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well...this is a common misconception..no pun intended..

if a man can seduce and finesse the lock, instead of forcing it, hey presto..open sesame..yes the dance of sex is that the woman invites..and a gentleman waits to be asked..the knack is making tbe invitation an inevitability..

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"100% they do yes. Its extremely easy for a woman to get laid whether that be on fab or in everyday life"

Not necessarily with the people we want though!

Being able to get sex easily is no good if it's not the sex you want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If not all the aces they certainly have a good hand

But you have the best wrists

And Women also have a great pair

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

Some seem to think they do and it allows them to be rude and a tad obnoxious at times I've noticed

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

Him

Seems so to me on fab especially for single males and the unicorn thingymejig. Real life has many, many variants/aspects, very different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only if you hand them the deck."

*dick

Sorry, typo.

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By *ortland51Man over a year ago

Glasgow

Not in my world they don't.

It's just sex. No one should have to feel that grateful, indebted or desperate for it to hand over control, power or their self respect or worth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My feelings exactly! It is very easy to get meets but chemistry is much more elusive

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Well...this is a common misconception..no pun intended..

Unless it's a shitty lock! [nothing intended, just a play on a joke I once heard]

Him

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By *egasus NobMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

"Only if you hand them the deck."

^^^

This

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By *xyzptlk088Man over a year ago

Galway

The deck may be loaded against guys but to say that females hold all the aces? I wouldn't say that,the sooner guys realise that peeps and peepettes are on here to meet each other the sooner we can get over the idea that one group are better than the other.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If not all the aces they certainly have a good hand

But you have the best wrists

And Women also have a great pair

Ahhh damn ok you win that one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?"

ON HERE yes , outside of fab no

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By *essiCouple over a year ago

suffolk

"My feelings exactly! It is very easy to get meets but chemistry is much more elusive"

This...

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I wouldn't mind one getting hold of me at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well...this is a common misconception..no pun intended..

Unless it's a shitty lock! [nothing intended, just a play on a joke I once heard]

Him

Lol..very good sir..well as im sure u know the lock in this case is her bits but the desire on her part..oh dear..to have her way with you..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?"
women rule here if a guy just makes one slip one wrong word out of place he's dogs meat and replaced by the next ,its not good to be a man at the minute I want to be a puppy

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?women rule here if a guy just makes one slip one wrong word out of place he's dogs meat and replaced by the next ,its not good to be a man at the minute I want to be a puppy

Guys have that power too though, if women aren't what they're looking for or does or says something out of line.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well...this is a common misconception..no pun intended..

Unless it's a shitty lock! [nothing intended, just a play on a joke I once heard]

Him

Lol..very good sir..well as im sure u know the lock in this case is her bits but the desire on her part..oh dear..to have her way with you..

"not her bits" imeant

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Only by the guys that let them, their not the guys I'm interested in.

I don't think I've got a golden vagina and I don't expect anyone else to either

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Not in my world they don't.

It's just sex. No one should have to feel that grateful, indebted or desperate for it to hand over control, power or their self respect or worth.

Well said!

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"My feelings exactly! It is very easy to get meets but chemistry is much more elusive"

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Not as far as I'm concerned. I've turned people down, been turned down and as a bonus have had some lovely meets with men and women who have treated me as a human being first and foremost and that has been reciprocated. I could act like a dick and insist on hoop jumping and game playing I suppose but that way I wouldn't meet the people I want to meet since they wouldn't put up with that shit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Especially if the woman doesn't know what they want in the first place and what woman knows what they want !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I quite like playing snap !

Ok as you were

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?women rule here if a guy just makes one slip one wrong word out of place he's dogs meat and replaced by the next ,its not good to be a man at the minute I want to be a puppy

Serious question: Would you have sex with me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes they do!!

Women get to pick who, when and where.

It's to be expected tho. Compare how many messages a man gets in relation to a women's inbox. She's the Boss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a disgruntled man says it, it usually means he's pissed off that he can't get a shag. Like the woman 'owes him' something.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wonders what the percentage is on here man women and couple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only by the guys that let them, their not the guys I'm interested in.

I don't think I've got a golden vagina and I don't expect anyone else to either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no they don't,,its up to the individual

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?women rule here if a guy just makes one slip one wrong word out of place he's dogs meat and replaced by the next ,its not good to be a man at the minute I want to be a puppy

Serious question: Would you have sex with me? "
I don't know you so my honest answer right now is no but depending on look and personality in the future maybe ,why ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Not as much as men think we do. Example: two dates cancelled and a crap club night in a week. Its not constant cocking in my world.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes they do!!

Women get to pick who, when and where.

It's to be expected tho. Compare how many messages a man gets in relation to a women's inbox. She's the Boss

Rubbish. Not in my fab world it isn't.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Not in my world

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men can deal some crafty hands....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The men I meet don't _iew it that way at all & that's how everyone should be.

People only have power if others give it to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The person on the receiving end of the initial message holds them first on here.. As they are the ones to decide whether to start a conversation or delete and forget

Then it's kind of equal because either one at any point can end a conversation

I send out all initial messages at the moment.. So balls in their court.. Up to them if they want said balls in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The person on the receiving end of the initial message holds them first on here.. As they are the ones to decide whether to start a conversation or delete and forget

Then it's kind of equal because either one at any point can end a conversation

I send out all initial messages at the moment.. So balls in their court.. Up to them if they want said balls in my mouth

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The person on the receiving end of the initial message holds them first on here.. As they are the ones to decide whether to start a conversation or delete and forget

Then it's kind of equal because either one at any point can end a conversation

I send out all initial messages at the moment.. So balls in their court.. Up to them if they want said balls in my mouth

Especially the balls bit. Brilliant!!

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By *r ManxMan over a year ago

NeverWhere

I prefer quality to quantity

And I don't meet near home . I am also very limited and time and opportunity when I do get I meet it on mutual terms and well worth the time and effort that i spend on here. Which to be honest is not a hardship because i enjoy the crack on the forums and the private chats that I have had with some very intelligent sexy women have been inspiring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I keep the aces up my sleeve

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?women rule here if a guy just makes one slip one wrong word out of place he's dogs meat and replaced by the next ,its not good to be a man at the minute I want to be a puppy

Serious question: Would you have sex with me? I don't know you so my honest answer right now is no but depending on look and personality in the future maybe ,why ?

You've not given me any aces. If I had them you would have said yes. You're making me jump through hoops

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, I sneaked the ace of curlys out of the deck on the shuffle, it's under my shoe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?women rule here if a guy just makes one slip one wrong word out of place he's dogs meat and replaced by the next ,its not good to be a man at the minute I want to be a puppy

Well don't slip up then? Most slip up because they're completely socially inadequate.

Men on here generally are 'easier' than women so yes, we can afford to be picky and therefore do hold the aces. On the whole - women will not sleep with anything that's available. Unlike the majority of men it seems.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If a disgruntled man says it, it usually means he's pissed off that he can't get a shag. Like the woman 'owes him' something.

Yes, often. She's too picky, has too much choice, has all the cards. Diva, princess, thinks her shit doesn't stink.

No, mate, she doesn't fancy you.

If you were the last man on Earth maybe she'd reconsider but not necessarily.

Some men seem to think that if women didn't have so much choice we'd accept less than we want now. That may be true for some women but it's not true for me and it's not true for many women I know.

I've gone without sex for 4 years before when what I wanted wasn't available. I'm not going to fuck someone because they are the best of a group I don't fancy.

Is this how men tend to work, they want someone, so go with the best available option rather than going without and waiting for what they want?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The men I meet don't _iew it that way at all & that's how everyone should be.

People only have power if others give it to them."
the power that's being talked about isn't tangible its the power to move on and forget the other person existed and that comes from choice and message numbers you are actually a good example you flirt with guys on here ,you are very attractive you don't actually need us but occasionally if it suits your designs at that moment you will elect to meet someone ,you spend some time not a lot in forums but I know from my own experience you answer very few messages that you are sent

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"The men I meet don't _iew it that way at all & that's how everyone should be.

People only have power if others give it to them.the power that's being talked about isn't tangible its the power to move on and forget the other person existed and that comes from choice and message numbers you are actually a good example you flirt with guys on here ,you are very attractive you don't actually need us but occasionally if it suits your designs at that moment you will elect to meet someone ,you spend some time not a lot in forums but I know from my own experience you answer very few messages that you are sent

You're suggesting women can move on and ditch someone because they have other options but men can't because their options are much more limited?

You have the choice not to accept bullshit and do without anyone instead. I'm living proof it isn't fatal. Are you suggesting you actually *need* women and can't survive without sex?

This is the attitude that hands women the cards.

You have control over this if you choose to exert it.

Plus, your experience doesn't tell you how many messages anyone replies to. It tells you only how many of your messages get replies. Women aren't all the same; some reply more than others.

As far as we know your messages could be shit and you could be messaging people who's profile descriptions you don't match.

The majority of the messages I get are shit and/or from people who don't fit my profile. I bet they still moan it's not fair when I delete them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah they do.

Was gonna come back with the royal flush beating aces but it's not worth it.

We can send millions of messages and still get nothing back.

Might get a slap on the wrist but join different sites and spread yourself.

This site is very selective

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say yes. Mainly due to the any holes a goal brigade. If all guys on here only fucked who they fancy or wait for the right women then it would even things out. So yes women do hold the aces on here but in the real world how many of the women guys have fucked off here look twice at them in the street

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Well...this is a common misconception..no pun intended..

Oh I like how you've said that

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I would say yes. Mainly due to the any holes a goal brigade. If all guys on here only fucked who they fancy or wait for the right women then it would even things out. So yes women do hold the aces on here but in the real world how many of the women guys have fucked off here look twice at them in the street

That feels quite negative and possibly contains a veiled insult?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only if you're like doormat

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

I think women probably have more options that's all. Because of the numbers.

Not power or all the aces.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

That feels quite negative and possibly contains a veiled insult?"

Or not so veiled.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good point

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

"A lot of them, yes.

But guys can still say no too.

Women don't have all the power here and we don't get everything we want.

Sure, some women make demands and expect guys to jump through hoops but it's up to the men whether they do it.

If men are desperate and let women hold all the aces then yes, we do.

With men who aren't desperate, or who don't show it

, and can be patient, women have less of this perceived power.

Personally, I've been turned down by quite a few guys for someone who has all the aces!"

. You've hit the nail on the head x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That feels quite negative and possibly contains a veiled insult?"

Not at all. Read the above posts. Men will fuck anything but women dont.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Given that men far outnumber the women on fab, you could be easily mistaken in thinking that it gives them the better hand. However, that assumes that said women would pick the right 'cards' to begin with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That feels quite negative and possibly contains a veiled insult?

Or not so veiled."

So its ok for you to say women will wait but guys dont?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a disgruntled man says it, it usually means he's pissed off that he can't get a shag. Like the woman 'owes him' something.

Yes, often. She's too picky, has too much choice, has all the cards. Diva, princess, thinks her shit doesn't stink.

No, mate, she doesn't fancy you.

If you were the last man on Earth maybe she'd reconsider but not necessarily.

Some men seem to think that if women didn't have so much choice we'd accept less than we want now. That may be true for some women but it's not true for me and it's not true for many women I know.

I've gone without sex for 4 years before when what I wanted wasn't available. I'm not going to fuck someone because they are the best of a group I don't fancy.

Is this how men tend to work, they want someone, so go with the best available option rather than going without and waiting for what they want?"

Your words

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"That feels quite negative and possibly contains a veiled insult?

Not at all. Read the above posts. Men will fuck anything but women dont. "

You said men on here will meet women that they wouldn't look at in the street.

I take that as an insult to women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?women rule here if a guy just makes one slip one wrong word out of place he's dogs meat and replaced by the next ,its not good to be a man at the minute I want to be a puppy

Well don't slip up then? Most slip up because they're completely socially inadequate.

This comment is acceptable but mines not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The men I meet don't _iew it that way at all & that's how everyone should be.

You're suggesting women can move on and ditch someone because they have other options but men can't because their options are much more limited?

You have the choice not to accept bullshit and do without anyone instead. I'm living proof it isn't fatal. Are you suggesting you actually *need* women and can't survive without sex?

This is the attitude that hands women the cards.

You have control over this if you choose to exert it.

Plus, your experience doesn't tell you how many messages anyone replies to. It tells you only how many of your messages get replies. Women aren't all the same; some reply more than others.

As far as we know your messages could be shit and you could be messaging people who's profile descriptions you don't match.

The majority of the messages I get are shit and/or from people who don't fit my profile. I bet they still moan it's not fair when I delete them."
I am a gentleman at all times and I read a woman's profile and chat to find out about them ,I'm intelligent ,generous,caring and interested ,I have a good sense of humours looks wise what's handsome to one isn't always to another but when I meet most if not all would say I'm good company but the message numbers play a big part in wether I meet someone or not if for example I get one word answers or smiley faces that shows a lack of commitment and that their attention is elsewhere so no point continuing with attempting a conversation to find out about them you never will ,if they are constantly having meets before they arrange to meet you chances are you will never meet them ,lots of things come into play and an intelligent articulate person will not form a personal judgement about that person but will make a decision based on how much time the other person is willing to give them and the successful meets tend to come from that but some women make snap decisions and cut you off without really knowing you as a person but because they havnt got time to find out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That feels quite negative and possibly contains a veiled insult?

Not at all. Read the above posts. Men will fuck anything but women dont.

You said men on here will meet women that they wouldn't look at in the street.

I take that as an insult to women. "

Not all men but some will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him"

Yeah, until the fuck, then the power shifts to the man...

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Good point"

Yes, retaliate at this perceived lack of power by being nasty and disrespectful towards the women on the site. That'll help. That'll give you more choice.

Yes, we're all old hags who only get meets because we're in shorter supply than men. None of us would get a second look in the street even when you've got your beer goggles on.

Does that make you feel better for every time you've been rejected by someone you thought was less attractive than you?

Will saying it make women feel more inclined to meet you? Will it reduce the them v. us friction that pervades this place?

I'd suggest rather than slagging women off to try to regain your lost dignity, you hang on to your dignity in the first place, don't message women you don't really fancy and don't end up bitter when they turn you down.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?women rule here if a guy just makes one slip one wrong word out of place he's dogs meat and replaced by the next ,its not good to be a man at the minute I want to be a puppy

Well don't slip up then? Most slip up because they're completely socially inadequate.

This comment is acceptable but mines not

Yours is quite different.

They say that men are less picky than women on here.

Yours says that women on here get shagged by guys who wouldn't look at them twice in the street.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"That feels quite negative and possibly contains a veiled insult?

Not at all. Read the above posts. Men will fuck anything but women dont.

You said men on here will meet women that they wouldn't look at in the street.

I take that as an insult to women. "

I take that as an insult to men as well. As if all the men on here would meet someone they wouldn't look at in the street. Seriously? All men?

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Good point

Yes, retaliate at this perceived lack of power by being nasty and disrespectful towards the women on the site. That'll help. That'll give you more choice.

Yes, we're all old hags who only get meets because we're in shorter supply than men. None of us would get a second look in the street even when you've got your beer goggles on.

Does that make you feel better for every time you've been rejected by someone you thought was less attractive than you?

Will saying it make women feel more inclined to meet you? Will it reduce the them v. us friction that pervades this place?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?women rule here if a guy just makes one slip one wrong word out of place he's dogs meat and replaced by the next ,its not good to be a man at the minute I want to be a puppy

Well don't slip up then? Most slip up because they're completely socially inadequate.

This comment is acceptable but mines not

Yours is quite different.

They say that men are less picky than women on here.

Yours says that women on here get shagged by guys who wouldn't look at them twice in the street."

I said some guys. Also then the comment about guys being less picky is a insult to guys on fab

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

That feels quite negative and possibly contains a veiled insult?

Or not so veiled.

So its ok for you to say women will wait but guys dont?"

If they did, women wouldn't have the power

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be fair. It's swings and roundabouts. Everyone gets their turn eventually. Quite a few women have made a good point, such as, if you let them have the power, they'll hold all the aces, but if you don't let them, it' becomes more equal. I think that's very true.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Good point

Yes, retaliate at this perceived lack of power by being nasty and disrespectful towards the women on the site. That'll help. That'll give you more choice.

Yes, we're all old hags who only get meets because we're in shorter supply than men. None of us would get a second look in the street even when you've got your beer goggles on.

Does that make you feel better for every time you've been rejected by someone you thought was less attractive than you?

Will saying it make women feel more inclined to meet you? Will it reduce the them v. us friction that pervades this place?

If it's true that the women here are clapped out mingers and you can get what you think you deserve in the real world, without having to look twice at the horrors, why are you here?! Go back to the real world and pull all these women that are in your league."
in fairness to him how many women come on here saying they punch above there weight go for guys they would never usually pull because its fantasy land. A bloody lot say that

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I said some guys. Also then the comment about guys being less picky is a insult to guys on fab"

Men and women duly insulted

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?women rule here if a guy just makes one slip one wrong word out of place he's dogs meat and replaced by the next ,its not good to be a man at the minute I want to be a puppy

Well don't slip up then? Most slip up because they're completely socially inadequate.

This comment is acceptable but mines not

Yours is quite different.

They say that men are less picky than women on here.

Yours says that women on here get shagged by guys who wouldn't look at them twice in the street.

I said some guys. Also then the comment about guys being less picky is a insult to guys on fab"

No, men on this thread have said that women hold the cards because we have more choice. But men don't have to choose. They can go without. That they won't is what causes the bitterness when they're turned down by someone they regard as less attractive than themselves and the illusion that women have the cards.

Men can walk away but in general they don't.

If they did, this discussion wouldn't be happening.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes they do and they know it that they are very rare, so can pick and mix who to meet whenever lol."

but men can say no - they dont have to meet someone they dont want to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good point

Yes, retaliate at this perceived lack of power by being nasty and disrespectful towards the women on the site. That'll help. That'll give you more choice.

Yes, we're all old hags who only get meets because we're in shorter supply than men. None of us would get a second look in the street even when you've got your beer goggles on.

Does that make you feel better for every time you've been rejected by someone you thought was less attractive than you?

Will saying it make women feel more inclined to meet you? Will it reduce the them v. us friction that pervades this place?

Not once have i said all women. Its fact some men and some women. Not all. I repeat not all will fuck anything for the sake of a fuck. As for my chances i really couldnt care less. Its a open forum and im expressing my _iew

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"in fairness to him how many women come on here saying they punch above there weight go for guys they would never usually pull because its fantasy land. A bloody lot say that

Perhaps he should have mentioned he meant just them then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good point

Yes, retaliate at this perceived lack of power by being nasty and disrespectful towards the women on the site. That'll help. That'll give you more choice.

Yes, we're all old hags who only get meets because we're in shorter supply than men. None of us would get a second look in the street even when you've got your beer goggles on.

Does that make you feel better for every time you've been rejected by someone you thought was less attractive than you?

Will saying it make women feel more inclined to meet you? Will it reduce the them v. us friction that pervades this place?

If it's true that the women here are clapped out mingers and you can get what you think you deserve in the real world, without having to look twice at the horrors, why are you here?! Go back to the real world and pull all these women that are in your league.in fairness to him how many women come on here saying they punch above there weight go for guys they would never usually pull because its fantasy land. A bloody lot say that

Ty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"in fairness to him how many women come on here saying they punch above there weight go for guys they would never usually pull because its fantasy land. A bloody lot say that

Perhaps he should have mentioned he meant just them then?"

I did... The some. Now stop shit stirring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good point

Yes, retaliate at this perceived lack of power by being nasty and disrespectful towards the women on the site. That'll help. That'll give you more choice.

Yes, we're all old hags who only get meets because we're in shorter supply than men. None of us would get a second look in the street even when you've got your beer goggles on.

Does that make you feel better for every time you've been rejected by someone you thought was less attractive than you?

Will saying it make women feel more inclined to meet you? Will it reduce the them v. us friction that pervades this place?

Haha. Bravo.

I swear - the more time I spend on this site the more I realise the majority of the male species is in regression.

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By *adyJayneWoman over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

The men that normally complain about women holding the aces or being fake, or stuck up etc etc are normally the same men that have been in my inbox telling me what they want to do to me, asking if I want to meet them because I show up at online near them etc etc.

They are the ones that never seem to read my profile (even when I did meet single men)

They are (or at least seem to be) the ones that are looking for a lifelike equivalent of a blow up doll.

Those that messaged me with conversation and had read my profile were never the ones I saw complaining.

I admit, this could be wild generalisation but it seems to be true as far as I've seen.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Not once have i said all women. Its fact some men and some women. Not all. I repeat not all will fuck anything for the sake of a fuck. As for my chances i really couldnt care less. Its a open forum and im expressing my _iew"

In the sentence "but in the real world how many of the women guys have fucked off here look twice at them in the street" all I saw was "women". Not "some women". I know it doesn't say "all women" specifically but without saying "some", or similar, that would mean all.

It's fine that you think women on here get guys who wouldn't look at them in the street. I have a different _iew

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good point

Yes, retaliate at this perceived lack of power by being nasty and disrespectful towards the women on the site. That'll help. That'll give you more choice.

Yes, we're all old hags who only get meets because we're in shorter supply than men. None of us would get a second look in the street even when you've got your beer goggles on.

Does that make you feel better for every time you've been rejected by someone you thought was less attractive than you?

Will saying it make women feel more inclined to meet you? Will it reduce the them v. us friction that pervades this place?

I dont recall saying that any lady on fab is out of my league. Please stop twisting my words. Ive noticed your very good at it so i wouldnt expect any difference

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Good point

Yes, retaliate at this perceived lack of power by being nasty and disrespectful towards the women on the site. That'll help. That'll give you more choice.

Yes, we're all old hags who only get meets because we're in shorter supply than men. None of us would get a second look in the street even when you've got your beer goggles on.

Does that make you feel better for every time you've been rejected by someone you thought was less attractive than you?

Will saying it make women feel more inclined to meet you? Will it reduce the them v. us friction that pervades this place?

in fairness to him how many women come on here saying they punch above there weight go for guys they would never usually pull because its fantasy land. A bloody lot say that

Yes, absolutely. I do it too and I know that.

It doesn't really give blokes the right to insult a woman who turned them down because they "wouldn't look at her in the street".

If they wouldn't look at her on the street, don't chase her in here. She was good enough when they thought she might fuck them.

If it's so hard in here and so much easier in the real world, nobody is forcing anyone to stay.

Men and women sniping and insulting each other just increases the bitterness and bad feeling.

We're here to meet each other with the aim of getting intimate yet we feel the need to be absolutely foul to each other at the same time.

If blokes don't want women to have all the cards, they can choose not to give them the cards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's fine that you think women on here get guys who wouldn't look at them in the street. I have a different _iew

Please stop twisting my words. I never once said all guys on fab fuck women they wouldnt look at in the street once i said some

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good point

Yes, retaliate at this perceived lack of power by being nasty and disrespectful towards the women on the site. That'll help. That'll give you more choice.

Yes, we're all old hags who only get meets because we're in shorter supply than men. None of us would get a second look in the street even when you've got your beer goggles on.

Does that make you feel better for every time you've been rejected by someone you thought was less attractive than you?

Will saying it make women feel more inclined to meet you? Will it reduce the them v. us friction that pervades this place?

in fairness to him how many women come on here saying they punch above there weight go for guys they would never usually pull because its fantasy land. A bloody lot say that

Yes, absolutely. I do it too and I know that.

It doesn't really give blokes the right to insult a woman who turned them down because they "wouldn't look at her in the street".

If they wouldn't look at her on the street, don't chase her in here. She was good enough when they thought she might fuck them.

If it's so hard in here and so much easier in the real world, nobody is forcing anyone to stay.

Men and women sniping and insulting each other just increases the bitterness and bad feeling.

We're here to meet each other with the aim of getting intimate yet we feel the need to be absolutely foul to each other at the same time.

If blokes don't want women to have all the cards, they can choose not to give them the cards."

Oh and for the record its not hard in here

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I did... The some. Now stop shit stirring"

I beg your pardon? I'm just pointing out that what you wrote contained a veiled insult to women on this site.

That is not shit stirring.

Although I realise shit stirring for men means pointing out their mistakes and them not liking it.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Good point

Yes, retaliate at this perceived lack of power by being nasty and disrespectful towards the women on the site. That'll help. That'll give you more choice.

Yes, we're all old hags who only get meets because we're in shorter supply than men. None of us would get a second look in the street even when you've got your beer goggles on.

Does that make you feel better for every time you've been rejected by someone you thought was less attractive than you?

Will saying it make women feel more inclined to meet you? Will it reduce the them v. us friction that pervades this place?

I dont recall saying that any lady on fab is out of my league. Please stop twisting my words. Ive noticed your very good at it so i wouldnt expect any difference"

It's exactly what you said. Some of the women here you would not look at twice in the street i.e. they are beneath you.

Yet guys message these women anyway, even though they could do better in the real world?

It's funny how a hot, sexy woman becomes a dried up hag just by saying the word no.

Lashing out at women because they turn you down is playground behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I did... The some. Now stop shit stirring

I beg your pardon? I'm just pointing out that what you wrote contained a veiled insult to women on this site.

That is not shit stirring.

Although I realise shit stirring for men means pointing out their mistakes and them not liking it.

"
it was a example of some men. Now stop being a white knight for the ladys of fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?women rule here if a guy just makes one slip one wrong word out of place he's dogs meat and replaced by the next ,its not good to be a man at the minute I want to be a puppy

Well don't slip up then? Most slip up because they're completely socially inadequate.

This comment is acceptable but mines not

Yours is quite different.

They say that men are less picky than women on here.

Yours says that women on here get shagged by guys who wouldn't look at them twice in the street.

I said some guys. Also then the comment about guys being less picky is a insult to guys on fab

Men can walk away but in general they don't.

If they did, this discussion wouldn't be happening."

Aye.

Men (generally) will never just abstain from sex as the cock is too important. Zzzz.

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By *ustusboth2013Couple over a year ago

Birmingham

"Where sex is concerned - especially on fab?

This has been suggested to me by a disgruntled male.....have to say I do kind of agree with him...

Your thoughts?"

For the most part in the world of swinging, yes it is a women's world.

That's not saying that's always the case, but in our experience in what we've seen, it is.

That's not a bad thing by the way.

And the guys have been happy to take a back seat and go with the flow letting the ladies run things etcetera.

We do mix it up ourselves, and both get involved, arrange meets, make decisions but there's definitely a perception that women hold the cards.

Personally, I like it!

there's nothing better than seeing girls have fun, leading the way, removing that stereotypical bitching you see outside the swinging world. If the girls are having fun, then the knock on effect is magic for the fellas, and we are fairly simple, easy to please creatures once we see the girls happy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm detecting resentment from both genders.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I did... The some. Now stop shit stirring

I beg your pardon? I'm just pointing out that what you wrote contained a veiled insult to women on this site.

That is not shit stirring.

Although I realise shit stirring for men means pointing out their mistakes and them not liking it.

It wasn't veiled.

He was clear that men here meet women they wouldn't look twice at in the street.

Saying you wouldn't look twice at someone in the street isn't a veiled insult.

Some men can't help but slag women off because they're bitter about being turned down.