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over a year ago
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"If you were a single woman chatting to a single man work colleague and you both mentioned crap ex's, and how crap dating sites are for finding someone... Then a while later he mails and says something like 'when you're free sometime, I'll take you out for a night out'...
Would you think he was suggesting a date, or a night out as mates?
And would you ask him for clarification or just go along and see what happened?
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Date, and confirm back what he had in mind
What he replies will fully show you his intent |
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"If you were a single woman chatting to a single man work colleague and you both mentioned crap ex's, and how crap dating sites are for finding someone... Then a while later he mails and says something like 'when you're free sometime, I'll take you out for a night out'...
Would you think he was suggesting a date, or a night out as mates?
And would you ask him for clarification or just go along and see what happened?
Date, and confirm back what he had in mind
What he replies will fully show you his intent "
This exactly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why not live on the edge - too much of our life is controlled with a need to know every aspect of what's coming next.
Take a chance, use your intuition and enjoy a night out. |
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"I chickened out of asking what he meant and asked what his taste in women is like so I could point some out for him.  "
Honestly woman!! Did you do the 'would/wouldn't' thing in your head when he emailed?
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By (user no longer on site)
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100% a date. He'd like to take you out.
If he said "lets go out" as in 'together' you are going somewhere then maybe it's just friendly. What he said was he wanted to take you out which is standard asking you out on a date phrasing, him leading the date and taking you somewhere.
That's my take on it anyway.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I chickened out of asking what he meant and asked what his taste in women is like so I could point some out for him.
Honestly woman!! Did you do the 'would/wouldn't' thing in your head when he emailed?
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Oh I would, I just don't know if he would! I'm so crap. On here it's easy.
How do I ask? I'll look a tit either way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Go and see what happens, if anything happens at the end of the night then you will know, to me it sounds like he asked you out on a date but then I know nothing!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a trap!
Actually, probably a date. But ask him...then you know!"
It might be a trap. 
My advice to anyone else would be to ask. If he says no it's just mates I'll feel such an utter knob.  |
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"Confirm what they mean, go out as mates and shag them anyway
Classic man comment
Women don't always think like us!"
I do..... that's exactly how I think, and exactly what I'd do xxxxx   |
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So the way I see it, you have two options!
1) do what I'd do...not say anything, then over think it and spend the evening totally confusing yourself trying to read his signals!
2) do the sensible thing....just relax, enjoy his company and go with the flow!
Ps this forumite takes no responsibility in option 1 resulting in a headache!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a trap!
Actually, probably a date. But ask him...then you know!
It might be a trap.
My advice to anyone else would be to ask. If he says no it's just mates I'll feel such an utter knob. "
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"If you were a single woman chatting to a single man work colleague and you both mentioned crap ex's, and how crap dating sites are for finding someone... Then a while later he mails and says something like 'when you're free sometime, I'll take you out for a night out'...
Would you think he was suggesting a date, or a night out as mates?
And would you ask him for clarification or just go along and see what happened?
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Don't over think it, just go along and see what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never mix business with pleasure,if it goes tits up,it could be awkward.. if you hit it off...day and night together
No never mix business with pleasure
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