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On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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They're not pjs, they're loungewear. For lounging about in. All day by the sound of it! 
Some people apparently take the concept of leisure very seriously.
I'm a scruff at the best of times, but going out like that?!  |
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over a year ago
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I go out in ridiculous clothes all the time. I once put my coat over my robe and fleece pajamas to walk the dogs because I'm lazy.
I understand why it matters what you wear when you go to work, or when you go somewhere where your image is important (weddings, funerals, etc.), but for most things in life I think how you dress is made overly important.
My dad used to shovel coal into boilers and do other dirty work. When he had to go to parent teacher nights he had to come straight from work. He might as well have been in pajamas. It didn't affect how I did in school.
So, while I see the importance in many scenarios,I guess I just think that in lots of different situations, how you are dressed isn't the important bit.
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive"
They might turn up in their pj's but maybe they know the difference between there and their and where to use full stops and capital letters. |
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When I nip to the ATM at the train station or the 24/7, I usually go in ma trackie bottoms, but if I have to go into town, I always put ma jeans on. I don't know why it should make any difference, just force of habit I guess  |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive"
well when one buys a house near a school..  |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive
well when one buys a house near a school.. "
They built it 5 year,s years ago
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I find it so funny seeing them girl/women that are out pushing prams with all the face all done up like they spent time doing then ran out of energy or time so still pj bottoms and hug boots on oh don't forget the wheelchair wheels size earrings |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive"
I've seen this reported on the BBC, there story makes no suggestion that the parents and children are fat? Not sure how this story validates your previous thread? |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive
well when one buys a house near a school.. They built it 5 year,s years ago
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I live by a school, it's not difficult to predict when the school run is |
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The school run should be so simple, drive to the school park responsibly and see the little angel through the school gates, get back in car and drive away.
However for some women it appears to be a social gathering where cars traffic and inconvenience to others are just ignored. |
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"The school run should be so simple, drive to the school park responsibly and see the little angel through the school gates, get back in car and drive away.
However for some women it appears to be a social gathering where cars traffic and inconvenience to others are just ignored. "
VERY TRUE |
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I was hated where I used to live because I was the odd one out. I had a job and would drop the kids at school on way to work. Quite often in dresses and heels. I was looked at as if I was sonething some of the mums had stepped in. How dare I want to work? How dare I think I'm better than them when they turn up in their joggies to chain smoke in the play ground.
As for the pj's thing we have all gone somewhere in ours. I've gone to the corner shop for milk. I've jumped in the car to drop my son off somewhere early. It's not a crime.
With so much going on in the world I don't even see that it's news worthy. |
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"Heaven forbid someone might be sociable and speak to other parents. What on earth are they thinking "
While their cars are parked half on the pavements or right on a corner ....wise up that's not being sociable it's just being irresponsible I live 100 Mts from a school and it's chaos, maybe buses,delivery trucks or the bin men should reschedule to avoid these little social gatherings ... |
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When I worked nights I used to do the school run in my pjs as that extra 10 minutes sleep time made all the difference to me, I did always put a coat over the top of the pjs though and when I wasn't working night I work day clothes |
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"I see multiple people taking their kids to school at 8am and drinking cans of Strongbow. Classy as fuck."
It's the hardest job in the world though (parenting) isn't it? That must be why they are so tired and need to rest so much... |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive"
I was 1 who shot you down x
I would never do school run in loungewear. Even when my youngest was 13 hours old I managed to get dressed & do the school run. Ok I only live 3 doors away...... |
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Women at my kids school turned it in to a fashion parade, they must have got up earlier then the women off Eastenders to get ready.
My wife most of the time wear her PJ`s or a tracksuit to take our kids over the road to school as she said she spent most of the day doing house work.
My kids were neither fat nor unhealthy.
Think people look down their noses at to many people these days. |
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The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!! |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive"
don't understand the connection
whats going to school in your PJs got to do with being fat? |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive
don't understand the connection
whats going to school in your PJs got to do with being fat?"
I think its one of them looking down your nose at people post |
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Doesn't surprise me, if there are breakfast clubs because parents are too lazy to get up and put cereal and milk in a bowl, getting dressed when they're going back to bed is hardly surprising.
That said, at least they walk them to school. Sometimes on my way to work in the dark I see little kids on their way to school alone.
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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When you have young children and you have to get some of them to school but you've been up half the night dealing with a baby for example, you're more focused on getting the kids washed and dressed and fed and to school on time, than worrying about what you're wearing yourself. Just throw a coat on wouldn't you?
Why can't they be just typically busy mums that may have spent more time on their children in the morning than getting themselves glammed? Why slummy?
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"Doesn't surprise me, if there are breakfast clubs because parents are too lazy to get up and put cereal and milk in a bowl, getting dressed when they're going back to bed is hardly surprising.
That said, at least they walk them to school. Sometimes on my way to work in the dark I see little kids on their way to school alone.
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Surely if they are at breakfast club they will have to get up earlier? |
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The part that really annoys me, Is when they drop off/ pick up the kids and park across my drive. seriously there is two communial car parks use them and walk the extra thirty yards to the school!!! |
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"When you have young children and you have to get some of them to school but you've been up half the night dealing with a baby for example, you're more focused on getting the kids washed and dressed and fed and to school on time, than worrying about what you're wearing yourself. Just throw a coat on wouldn't you?
Why can't they be just typically busy mums that may have spent more time on their children in the morning than getting themselves glammed? Why slummy?
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Had three kids under nine, worked full time whilst studying for a law degree. I somehow managed to get my fat arse out of bed, kids to school after they had breakfast, tidy up, prep dinner and get to work.
I'm not superwoman, just not lazy and organised. |
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Pjs lounge suits what ever they are called are for sleeping or lounging around. Would never dream of stepping foot outside the house in Jim jams.
Oh I lie I had a meet one after waking up and going for another round we got the munchies. So I went through McDonald's drive through to get us breakfast in my long coat and Jim jams
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"I find it so funny seeing them girl/women that are out pushing prams with all the face all done up like they spent time doing then ran out of energy or time so still pj bottoms and hug boots on oh don't forget the wheelchair wheels size earrings "
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"Doesn't surprise me, if there are breakfast clubs because parents are too lazy to get up and put cereal and milk in a bowl, getting dressed when they're going back to bed is hardly surprising.
That said, at least they walk them to school. Sometimes on my way to work in the dark I see little kids on their way to school alone.
Surely if they are at breakfast club they will have to get up earlier?"
What point are you making? |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"When you have young children and you have to get some of them to school but you've been up half the night dealing with a baby for example, you're more focused on getting the kids washed and dressed and fed and to school on time, than worrying about what you're wearing yourself. Just throw a coat on wouldn't you?
Why can't they be just typically busy mums that may have spent more time on their children in the morning than getting themselves glammed? Why slummy?
Had three kids under nine, worked full time whilst studying for a law degree. I somehow managed to get my fat arse out of bed, kids to school after they had breakfast, tidy up, prep dinner and get to work.
I'm not superwoman, just not lazy and organised."
Some people have different priorities. Doesn't make them lazy. |
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"When you have young children and you have to get some of them to school but you've been up half the night dealing with a baby for example, you're more focused on getting the kids washed and dressed and fed and to school on time, than worrying about what you're wearing yourself. Just throw a coat on wouldn't you?
Why can't they be just typically busy mums that may have spent more time on their children in the morning than getting themselves glammed? Why slummy?
Had three kids under nine, worked full time whilst studying for a law degree. I somehow managed to get my fat arse out of bed, kids to school after they had breakfast, tidy up, prep dinner and get to work.
I'm not superwoman, just not lazy and organised.
Some people have different priorities. Doesn't make them lazy. "
i really dont think its anything to do with being lazy i think its a fashion statement, now days walking around in pjs and ugg boots and onsies seems to be fashionable, we just all follow different fashions |
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"When you have young children and you have to get some of them to school but you've been up half the night dealing with a baby for example, you're more focused on getting the kids washed and dressed and fed and to school on time, than worrying about what you're wearing yourself. Just throw a coat on wouldn't you?
Why can't they be just typically busy mums that may have spent more time on their children in the morning than getting themselves glammed? Why slummy?
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this is what I was thinking. If I am not doing anything first thing I will often do my school run in my lounge clothes. Although I've already showed and just thrown something back on, as the rest of my day will be housework.
Other times I am one of those annoying mums that goes to school all made up looking glamorous.
These kids are getting to school on time and with happy parents.... Why is it even news worthy. |
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"I can't say I've ever noticed anyone wearing pjs up at the school mine are in. I also am very confused as to how wearing pjs makes you fat???  "
i think, and i could be wrong, that they are implying that its fat people who are slobs and to lazy to get dressed |
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!! "
This lol  |
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drop kids off at skool then rush to weatherspoons with other younger kids in tow.get the young kids toast etc sit and have a couple of pints of cider with the other slummys,....see this with my own eyes most mornings,what am I paying for .....prob all of it ....arghhhhhhhhhh |
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They obviously haven't started school yet but even with a 16 month old with disabilities and a 3 month old, I still manage to get up, get them both fed and dressed and throw some clothes on to get out the door on time to appointments or groups.
It only takes, like, 2 minutes to get dressed? Even if you kept your top on and threw some jeans or leggings on, I mean, I do it while brushing my teeth...
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"The school run should be so simple, drive to the school park responsibly and see the little angel through the school gates, get back in car and drive away.
However for some women it appears to be a social gathering where cars traffic and inconvenience to others are just ignored. "
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I go out in my PJs to put my wheelie bin out - I have to walk the length of the terrace twice (along the lane at the back of the houses round the corner and back in my front door. Also take the recycling boxes out the front door. Does that make me a slob? The bin and boxes have to be out by 6am so I put them out before I shower. |
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!! "
why? whats wrong with lookin good  |
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i used to walk my friends kids into school in pj bottoms sometimes, just looked like joggers...because she left for work at 7am and i got in from night shifts at 6am!!! and i'd be more concerned if they came home producing written English like the op's! |
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I'm a single dad, I get no help from my ex at all, I've been through hell this past year, but I still manage to get dressed in the morning, I have started wearing track suit bottoms to drop him off in the morning, but that'd because I've started jogging back, I don't like Sri.g people in pjs in the street, but that's me, I'm not going to judge them on other aspects of their life, one of my heros's wore pjs constantly, but no one references hitch hikers guide to the galaxy when were talking about school run attire lol |
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I was always dressed when I walked my son to school because I worked.
Didn't bother getting him breakfast, a stop off at the local shop on the way for a bar of chocolate and a packet of crisps did him fine  
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!! "
This is me. We are up at 6 every day. Alarm set. I shower, do my hair and make up and get dressed while he's eating his breakfast and plays with his toys for a bit. Then he gets dressed and we do his reading and spellings before we are out the door at 8.
I spent a long time after I split from my ex with a very low opinion of myself and cared very little about my appearance. Took me a long time to snap out of it. Now I won't go out looking rough. I feel much better about myself for it too. |
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!!
This is me. We are up at 6 every day. Alarm set. I shower, do my hair and make up and get dressed while he's eating his breakfast and plays with his toys for a bit. Then he gets dressed and we do his reading and spellings before we are out the door at 8.
I spent a long time after I split from my ex with a very low opinion of myself and cared very little about my appearance. Took me a long time to snap out of it. Now I won't go out looking rough. I feel much better about myself for it too. "
Don't see why you felt the need to justify having pride in yourself. If some are lazy/can't be arsed let them crack on: go you! |
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!!
This is me. We are up at 6 every day. Alarm set. I shower, do my hair and make up and get dressed while he's eating his breakfast and plays with his toys for a bit. Then he gets dressed and we do his reading and spellings before we are out the door at 8.
I spent a long time after I split from my ex with a very low opinion of myself and cared very little about my appearance. Took me a long time to snap out of it. Now I won't go out looking rough. I feel much better about myself for it too.
Don't see why you felt the need to justify having pride in yourself. If some are lazy/can't be arsed let them crack on: go you! "
Not justifying myself as such just makes me laugh that people get Slated for wearing pj's/loungewear/ugg boots and in the next breath they are getting slated for school being a fashion parade.. Your damned if you do and damned if you don't. |
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I wore my black pj's with coat over and my boots to go with child to shop after our bath .But never again as bumped into a friend .my child trying to open coat .Telling my friend my mam has her pj's on .would never do it again but it's tempting when shop near and chilling out and want chocolate . |
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I always have the luck to bump into old friends or ex teachers if I dare go out looking like a half tramp lol I mean sometimes I'm like "oh it's just the shops" old stretched out stained tshirt and Freddie bozwell hair, then low and behold, bump into Mr Jones my old school tutor (snob) |
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By *ilacWoman
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!!
This is me. We are up at 6 every day. Alarm set. I shower, do my hair and make up and get dressed while he's eating his breakfast and plays with his toys for a bit. Then he gets dressed and we do his reading and spellings before we are out the door at 8.
I spent a long time after I split from my ex with a very low opinion of myself and cared very little about my appearance. Took me a long time to snap out of it. Now I won't go out looking rough. I feel much better about myself for it too.
Don't see why you felt the need to justify having pride in yourself. If some are lazy/can't be arsed let them crack on: go you! "
I don't wear make up of a day for work or on my day off. Today, I've got my hair tied back in a pony tail but it's not been brushed. I'm wearing a really old hoody. Have I got pride in myself? Yes. Do I need to get up early and wash, dry and straighten my hair then put a full face of make up on to feel I have pride in myself? Don't be silly.
I prefer the extra sleep. People can take me as they find me. I'm certainly not lazy.
Different priorities and comfort levels. I'd rather feel fresh faced then caked on. Doesn't make me slummy.
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!!
This is me. We are up at 6 every day. Alarm set. I shower, do my hair and make up and get dressed while he's eating his breakfast and plays with his toys for a bit. Then he gets dressed and we do his reading and spellings before we are out the door at 8.
I spent a long time after I split from my ex with a very low opinion of myself and cared very little about my appearance. Took me a long time to snap out of it. Now I won't go out looking rough. I feel much better about myself for it too.
Don't see why you felt the need to justify having pride in yourself. If some are lazy/can't be arsed let them crack on: go you!
I don't wear make up of a day for work or on my day off. Today, I've got my hair tied back in a pony tail but it's not been brushed. I'm wearing a really old hoody. Have I got pride in myself? Yes. Do I need to get up early and wash, dry and straighten my hair then put a full face of make up on to feel I have pride in myself? Don't be silly.
I prefer the extra sleep. People can take me as they find me. I'm certainly not lazy.
Different priorities and comfort levels. I'd rather feel fresh faced then caked on. Doesn't make me slummy.
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If I don't wash dry and straighten my hair I look like sideshow bob. Plus it gets greasy at work so needs washing daily or it's minging.
The make up thing- well I've got black hair and blonde eyelashes, bags under my eyes from insomnia and a child that believes sleep is for the weak and If I don't put on the basics I could pass as an extra for the walking dead.
So for me it gives me more confidence and puts a spring in my step and is well worth half hour less sleep in a morning. |
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!!
This is me. We are up at 6 every day. Alarm set. I shower, do my hair and make up and get dressed while he's eating his breakfast and plays with his toys for a bit. Then he gets dressed and we do his reading and spellings before we are out the door at 8.
I spent a long time after I split from my ex with a very low opinion of myself and cared very little about my appearance. Took me a long time to snap out of it. Now I won't go out looking rough. I feel much better about myself for it too.
Don't see why you felt the need to justify having pride in yourself. If some are lazy/can't be arsed let them crack on: go you!
I don't wear make up of a day for work or on my day off. Today, I've got my hair tied back in a pony tail but it's not been brushed. I'm wearing a really old hoody. Have I got pride in myself? Yes. Do I need to get up early and wash, dry and straighten my hair then put a full face of make up on to feel I have pride in myself? Don't be silly.
I prefer the extra sleep. People can take me as they find me. I'm certainly not lazy.
Different priorities and comfort levels. I'd rather feel fresh faced then caked on. Doesn't make me slummy.
If I don't wash dry and straighten my hair I look like sideshow bob. Plus it gets greasy at work so needs washing daily or it's minging.
The make up thing- well I've got black hair and blonde eyelashes, bags under my eyes from insomnia and a child that believes sleep is for the weak and If I don't put on the basics I could pass as an extra for the walking dead.
So for me it gives me more confidence and puts a spring in my step and is well worth half hour less sleep in a morning. "
If it makes you feel good, then great. But when others don't feel the need to do that, it certainly doesn't make them lazy.
I'm really pale from tiredness with black eyes at the moment and two hormonal spots. But I'd rather just wash my face and tie back my hair and let my skin breathe. Personally, I don't even own pyjamas to do a school run in but I've been wearing an oversized hoody all day.
I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!!
This is me. We are up at 6 every day. Alarm set. I shower, do my hair and make up and get dressed while he's eating his breakfast and plays with his toys for a bit. Then he gets dressed and we do his reading and spellings before we are out the door at 8.
I spent a long time after I split from my ex with a very low opinion of myself and cared very little about my appearance. Took me a long time to snap out of it. Now I won't go out looking rough. I feel much better about myself for it too.
Don't see why you felt the need to justify having pride in yourself. If some are lazy/can't be arsed let them crack on: go you!
I don't wear make up of a day for work or on my day off. Today, I've got my hair tied back in a pony tail but it's not been brushed. I'm wearing a really old hoody. Have I got pride in myself? Yes. Do I need to get up early and wash, dry and straighten my hair then put a full face of make up on to feel I have pride in myself? Don't be silly.
I prefer the extra sleep. People can take me as they find me. I'm certainly not lazy.
Different priorities and comfort levels. I'd rather feel fresh faced then caked on. Doesn't make me slummy.
If I don't wash dry and straighten my hair I look like sideshow bob. Plus it gets greasy at work so needs washing daily or it's minging.
The make up thing- well I've got black hair and blonde eyelashes, bags under my eyes from insomnia and a child that believes sleep is for the weak and If I don't put on the basics I could pass as an extra for the walking dead.
So for me it gives me more confidence and puts a spring in my step and is well worth half hour less sleep in a morning.
If it makes you feel good, then great. But when others don't feel the need to do that, it certainly doesn't make them lazy.
I'm really pale from tiredness with black eyes at the moment and two hormonal spots. But I'd rather just wash my face and tie back my hair and let my skin breathe. Personally, I don't even own pyjamas to do a school run in but I've been wearing an oversized hoody all day.
I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
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I totally agree with people not having hair/make up done to perfection. Or wearing joggers, hoody, whatever.
But to me turning up at school in what I slept in would just feel grubby. And I believe the article said they were going to assembly and meetings like it as,well which is just bizarre IMHO. |
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!!
This is me. We are up at 6 every day. Alarm set. I shower, do my hair and make up and get dressed while he's eating his breakfast and plays with his toys for a bit. Then he gets dressed and we do his reading and spellings before we are out the door at 8.
I spent a long time after I split from my ex with a very low opinion of myself and cared very little about my appearance. Took me a long time to snap out of it. Now I won't go out looking rough. I feel much better about myself for it too.
Don't see why you felt the need to justify having pride in yourself. If some are lazy/can't be arsed let them crack on: go you!
I don't wear make up of a day for work or on my day off. Today, I've got my hair tied back in a pony tail but it's not been brushed. I'm wearing a really old hoody. Have I got pride in myself? Yes. Do I need to get up early and wash, dry and straighten my hair then put a full face of make up on to feel I have pride in myself? Don't be silly.
I prefer the extra sleep. People can take me as they find me. I'm certainly not lazy.
Different priorities and comfort levels. I'd rather feel fresh faced then caked on. Doesn't make me slummy.
If I don't wash dry and straighten my hair I look like sideshow bob. Plus it gets greasy at work so needs washing daily or it's minging.
The make up thing- well I've got black hair and blonde eyelashes, bags under my eyes from insomnia and a child that believes sleep is for the weak and If I don't put on the basics I could pass as an extra for the walking dead.
So for me it gives me more confidence and puts a spring in my step and is well worth half hour less sleep in a morning.
If it makes you feel good, then great. But when others don't feel the need to do that, it certainly doesn't make them lazy.
I'm really pale from tiredness with black eyes at the moment and two hormonal spots. But I'd rather just wash my face and tie back my hair and let my skin breathe. Personally, I don't even own pyjamas to do a school run in but I've been wearing an oversized hoody all day.
I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
I totally agree with people not having hair/make up done to perfection. Or wearing joggers, hoody, whatever.
But to me turning up at school in what I slept in would just feel grubby. And I believe the article said they were going to assembly and meetings like it as,well which is just bizarre IMHO. "
I saw that part. Pyjamas for a parent teacher meeting is odd. The school run of a morning, I'll defend, (I wouldn't judge because who knows how crazy their morning was) the school run in the afternoon, seems unnecessary. |
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I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
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You seem be saying that people shouldn't judge appearances?
Regardless of whether they should or shouldn't, they do and they always have and always will.
If I walk down the street wearing a nice, freshly ironed Nazi uniform then people are going to make assumptions about my political _iews even though I'm not a Nazi. But then it's not that hard to avoid wearing a Nazi uniform... just like it's not that hard to put on a pair of jeans. |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive
They might turn up in their pj's but maybe they know the difference between there and their and where to use full stops and capital letters. "
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I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
You seem be saying that people shouldn't judge appearances?
Regardless of whether they should or shouldn't, they do and they always have and always will.
If I walk down the street wearing a nice, freshly ironed Nazi uniform then people are going to make assumptions about my political _iews even though I'm not a Nazi. But then it's not that hard to avoid wearing a Nazi uniform... just like it's not that hard to put on a pair of jeans. "
I was defending a tired mum throwing on a coat over her pyjamas in the morning.
Maybe she did throw a pair of jeans on. And the baby threw up on them. So she threw her pyjama bottoms back on.
If you feel you'd need to judge her for it, then go ahead. |
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!!
This is me. We are up at 6 every day. Alarm set. I shower, do my hair and make up and get dressed while he's eating his breakfast and plays with his toys for a bit. Then he gets dressed and we do his reading and spellings before we are out the door at 8.
I spent a long time after I split from my ex with a very low opinion of myself and cared very little about my appearance. Took me a long time to snap out of it. Now I won't go out looking rough. I feel much better about myself for it too.
Don't see why you felt the need to justify having pride in yourself. If some are lazy/can't be arsed let them crack on: go you!
I don't wear make up of a day for work or on my day off. Today, I've got my hair tied back in a pony tail but it's not been brushed. I'm wearing a really old hoody. Have I got pride in myself? Yes. Do I need to get up early and wash, dry and straighten my hair then put a full face of make up on to feel I have pride in myself? Don't be silly.
I prefer the extra sleep. People can take me as they find me. I'm certainly not lazy.
Different priorities and comfort levels. I'd rather feel fresh faced then caked on. Doesn't make me slummy.
If I don't wash dry and straighten my hair I look like sideshow bob. Plus it gets greasy at work so needs washing daily or it's minging.
The make up thing- well I've got black hair and blonde eyelashes, bags under my eyes from insomnia and a child that believes sleep is for the weak and If I don't put on the basics I could pass as an extra for the walking dead.
So for me it gives me more confidence and puts a spring in my step and is well worth half hour less sleep in a morning.
If it makes you feel good, then great. But when others don't feel the need to do that, it certainly doesn't make them lazy.
I'm really pale from tiredness with black eyes at the moment and two hormonal spots. But I'd rather just wash my face and tie back my hair and let my skin breathe. Personally, I don't even own pyjamas to do a school run in but I've been wearing an oversized hoody all day.
I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
I totally agree with people not having hair/make up done to perfection. Or wearing joggers, hoody, whatever.
But to me turning up at school in what I slept in would just feel grubby. And I believe the article said they were going to assembly and meetings like it as,well which is just bizarre IMHO.
I saw that part. Pyjamas for a parent teacher meeting is odd. The school run of a morning, I'll defend, (I wouldn't judge because who knows how crazy their morning was) the school run in the afternoon, seems unnecessary. "
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I just cannot see Pj's as acceptable for any other reason than sleeping or lounging around the house in, neither do I consider myself to be a snob, surely the other children must find it amusing to see a mum in her pj's at the school gates and I would think the child gets a right teasing during the day, it surely is worth the time to at least put clothes on in order to avoid this embarrassment to your children. |
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"Make the kids walk to school!
I think that depends on the age of the kids and the distance to school. Most jump in the car to go 5 streets"
I wouldn't use a car even if I had one. It's a 20 minute walk so not too bad and the parking round there is horrific!! |
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"I just cannot see Pj's as acceptable for any other reason than sleeping or lounging around the house in, neither do I consider myself to be a snob, surely the other children must find it amusing to see a mum in her pj's at the school gates and I would think the child gets a right teasing during the day, it surely is worth the time to at least put clothes on in order to avoid this embarrassment to your children."
Do you think these people have any sense of shame? telling them to get dressed in the morning is like trying to educate pork.
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"Make the kids walk to school!
I think that depends on the age of the kids and the distance to school. Most jump in the car to go 5 streets
I wouldn't use a car even if I had one. It's a 20 minute walk so not too bad and the parking round there is horrific!! "
If the school is more than a half hours walk then fair enough , but for the vast majority we all know it isnt,boils my piss when you see these tramps in pjs yawning and clogging up traffic in the morning just to drop their little darlings so they dont need to get on the peasant wagon...or bus to those that dont comprende |
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I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
You seem be saying that people shouldn't judge appearances?
Regardless of whether they should or shouldn't, they do and they always have and always will.
If I walk down the street wearing a nice, freshly ironed Nazi uniform then people are going to make assumptions about my political _iews even though I'm not a Nazi. But then it's not that hard to avoid wearing a Nazi uniform... just like it's not that hard to put on a pair of jeans.
I was defending a tired mum throwing on a coat over her pyjamas in the morning.
Maybe she did throw a pair of jeans on. And the baby threw up on them. So she threw her pyjama bottoms back on.
If you feel you'd need to judge her for it, then go ahead. "
Clearly you haven't understood my point. Sigh.
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I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
You seem be saying that people shouldn't judge appearances?
Regardless of whether they should or shouldn't, they do and they always have and always will.
If I walk down the street wearing a nice, freshly ironed Nazi uniform then people are going to make assumptions about my political _iews even though I'm not a Nazi. But then it's not that hard to avoid wearing a Nazi uniform... just like it's not that hard to put on a pair of jeans.
I was defending a tired mum throwing on a coat over her pyjamas in the morning.
Maybe she did throw a pair of jeans on. And the baby threw up on them. So she threw her pyjama bottoms back on.
If you feel you'd need to judge her for it, then go ahead. "
What about "every morning" its aimed at the lazy fuckers not the one offs |
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But these kids are getting to school and being picked up. Wonder how many of these slummy mummy's would like their children going to school with little tommy who has swingers for parents.
Jesus considering people on here are supposed to be all liberal and cool some of you are the most judgemental bastards I've ever come across. Oh and yes I've taken my child to school wearing my pyjamas. Give a fuck, nope! |
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Yeah it's fucking lazy if it's every day. What are they doing to do, go back to bed when they get home? And if it's the afternoon school run that's just ridiculous. Poor kids. |
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"But these kids are getting to school and being picked up. Wonder how many of these slummy mummy's would like their children going to school with little tommy who has swingers for parents.
Jesus considering people on here are supposed to be all liberal and cool some of you are the most judgemental bastards I've ever come across. Oh and yes I've taken my child to school wearing my pyjamas. Give a fuck, nope!"
Well they probably wouldn't like little Tommy having swingers for parents but that would make them way much ignorant and judgemental than someone who thinks they're a slob for being so lazy they literally can't be bothered to put jeans on. Pretty sure all the other kids, the teachers and all the people in the street can't see that they're swingers either. |
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I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
You seem be saying that people shouldn't judge appearances?
Regardless of whether they should or shouldn't, they do and they always have and always will.
If I walk down the street wearing a nice, freshly ironed Nazi uniform then people are going to make assumptions about my political _iews even though I'm not a Nazi. But then it's not that hard to avoid wearing a Nazi uniform... just like it's not that hard to put on a pair of jeans.
I was defending a tired mum throwing on a coat over her pyjamas in the morning.
Maybe she did throw a pair of jeans on. And the baby threw up on them. So she threw her pyjama bottoms back on.
If you feel you'd need to judge her for it, then go ahead.
Clearly you haven't understood my point. Sigh.
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Your point? That some people will judge your political _iew, wealth, moral standing etc depending on what you're wearing? Others won't. To be honest, I just rolled my eyes at the stretch of dragging a nazi uniform into your argument. Sigh |
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Surely the point is PJ's you've been wearing all night then you walk your kid to school in them.
Really if you haven't got 5 minutes to put some normal clothes on then get up a few minutes earlier !
It's not about a fashion parade with the other mum's it's about a bit of common decency if not for yourself then at least a bit for your kid's sake in front of their mates, bad enough them being taken the mickey out of for having the wrong bloody trainers these days.
I've known women near here who seem to think its funny walking to school in their PJ's as they've done bugger all most of the day apart from sit and watch Jeremy Kyle with a coffee til the 3pm school run then back home in time for a quiz show of some sort.
I've brought up 6 kids walked them all to school until told " I wanna walk with my mates mum" and never once not left enough time to get up get dressed and out the door in time. |
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I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
You seem be saying that people shouldn't judge appearances?
Regardless of whether they should or shouldn't, they do and they always have and always will.
If I walk down the street wearing a nice, freshly ironed Nazi uniform then people are going to make assumptions about my political _iews even though I'm not a Nazi. But then it's not that hard to avoid wearing a Nazi uniform... just like it's not that hard to put on a pair of jeans.
I was defending a tired mum throwing on a coat over her pyjamas in the morning.
Maybe she did throw a pair of jeans on. And the baby threw up on them. So she threw her pyjama bottoms back on.
If you feel you'd need to judge her for it, then go ahead.
Clearly you haven't understood my point. Sigh.
Your point? That some people will judge your political _iew, wealth, moral standing etc depending on what you're wearing? Others won't. To be honest, I just rolled my eyes at the stretch of dragging a nazi uniform into your argument. Sigh"
OK i was wrong. You did understand. I just dont get why you keep banging on about reasons why someone should wear PJ's when you know they will judge anyway. |
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"Yeah it's fucking lazy if it's every day. What are they doing to do, go back to bed when they get home? And if it's the afternoon school run that's just ridiculous. Poor kids. "
A neighbour works nights, she gets in, cleans up, puts dinner in the slow cooker, has a shower and gets in her pjs, gets the kids up and does the school run... Sometimes she over sleeps in the day and May so the afternoon one in her pjs too. She isn't lazy.. just a working mum that has to do her best.
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"I was hated where I used to live because I was the odd one out. I had a job and would drop the kids at school on way to work. Quite often in dresses and heels. I was looked at as if I was sonething some of the mums had stepped in. How dare I want to work? How dare I think I'm better than them when they turn up in their joggies to chain smoke in the play ground.
As for the pj's thing we have all gone somewhere in ours. I've gone to the corner shop for milk. I've jumped in the car to drop my son off somewhere early. It's not a crime.
With so much going on in the world I don't even see that it's news worthy. "
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I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
You seem be saying that people shouldn't judge appearances?
Regardless of whether they should or shouldn't, they do and they always have and always will.
If I walk down the street wearing a nice, freshly ironed Nazi uniform then people are going to make assumptions about my political _iews even though I'm not a Nazi. But then it's not that hard to avoid wearing a Nazi uniform... just like it's not that hard to put on a pair of jeans.
I was defending a tired mum throwing on a coat over her pyjamas in the morning.
Maybe she did throw a pair of jeans on. And the baby threw up on them. So she threw her pyjama bottoms back on.
If you feel you'd need to judge her for it, then go ahead.
Clearly you haven't understood my point. Sigh.
Your point? That some people will judge your political _iew, wealth, moral standing etc depending on what you're wearing? Others won't. To be honest, I just rolled my eyes at the stretch of dragging a nazi uniform into your argument. Sigh
OK i was wrong. You did understand. I just dont get why you keep banging on about reasons why someone should wear PJ's when you know they will judge anyway. "
Just makes me sad that some are so shallow and judgemental. Especially in this lifestyle. When we take photos of ourselves in lingerie and upload them for strangers to look at on a sex seeking social network yet we slag off a mum for wearing a certain type of clothing to walk her child to school. Craziness. |
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I couldn't care less what people wear as long as their kids are getting safely to school. Would I do it? No. Would I chuck on a pair of tracksuit bottoms and a sweatshirt to do it? Yes. Is it my best look? No. Would I wear a tracksuit to parents evening? No. There are more important things to worry about. |
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Do the children get picked on because their parents are in PJ's? If they do , as in stand out , then I can see why the Head may ask them not to do it. If it makes no difference to the kids - I don't see the problem. At least they are getting to school - hopefully in the correct uniform.
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I just find a lot of these comments ridiculous and snobbish on the thread. If others don't feel the need to be constantly preened and polished because they are comfortable with themselves without it, stop trying to put them down?
You seem be saying that people shouldn't judge appearances?
Regardless of whether they should or shouldn't, they do and they always have and always will.
If I walk down the street wearing a nice, freshly ironed Nazi uniform then people are going to make assumptions about my political _iews even though I'm not a Nazi. But then it's not that hard to avoid wearing a Nazi uniform... just like it's not that hard to put on a pair of jeans.
I was defending a tired mum throwing on a coat over her pyjamas in the morning.
Maybe she did throw a pair of jeans on. And the baby threw up on them. So she threw her pyjama bottoms back on.
If you feel you'd need to judge her for it, then go ahead.
Clearly you haven't understood my point. Sigh.
Your point? That some people will judge your political _iew, wealth, moral standing etc depending on what you're wearing? Others won't. To be honest, I just rolled my eyes at the stretch of dragging a nazi uniform into your argument. Sigh
OK i was wrong. You did understand. I just dont get why you keep banging on about reasons why someone should wear PJ's when you know they will judge anyway.
Just makes me sad that some are so shallow and judgemental. Especially in this lifestyle. When we take photos of ourselves in lingerie and upload them for strangers to look at on a sex seeking social network yet we slag off a mum for wearing a certain type of clothing to walk her child to school. Craziness. "
I'm not arguing it's right or wrong. Just saying that it's been this way for quite a long time so it surprises me that it surprises other people... |
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"But these kids are getting to school and being picked up. Wonder how many of these slummy mummy's would like their children going to school with little tommy who has swingers for parents.
Jesus considering people on here are supposed to be all liberal and cool some of you are the most judgemental bastards I've ever come across. Oh and yes I've taken my child to school wearing my pyjamas. Give a fuck, nope!"
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"I was hated where I used to live because I was the odd one out. I had a job and would drop the kids at school on way to work. Quite often in dresses and heels. I was looked at as if I was sonething some of the mums had stepped in. How dare I want to work? How dare I think I'm better than them when they turn up in their joggies to chain smoke in the play ground.
As for the pj's thing we have all gone somewhere in ours. I've gone to the corner shop for milk. I've jumped in the car to drop my son off somewhere early. It's not a crime.
With so much going on in the world I don't even see that it's news worthy. Seems to me just another chance to demonise those who aren't middle class"
Hahaha ...where doe middle class come into it...were just talking lazy slobs here really.. |
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"I was hated where I used to live because I was the odd one out. I had a job and would drop the kids at school on way to work. Quite often in dresses and heels. I was looked at as if I was sonething some of the mums had stepped in. How dare I want to work? How dare I think I'm better than them when they turn up in their joggies to chain smoke in the play ground.
As for the pj's thing we have all gone somewhere in ours. I've gone to the corner shop for milk. I've jumped in the car to drop my son off somewhere early. It's not a crime.
With so much going on in the world I don't even see that it's news worthy. Seems to me just another chance to demonise those who aren't middle classHahaha ...where doe middle class come into it...were just talking lazy slobs here really.. "
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"I was hated where I used to live because I was the odd one out. I had a job and would drop the kids at school on way to work. Quite often in dresses and heels. I was looked at as if I was sonething some of the mums had stepped in. How dare I want to work? How dare I think I'm better than them when they turn up in their joggies to chain smoke in the play ground.
As for the pj's thing we have all gone somewhere in ours. I've gone to the corner shop for milk. I've jumped in the car to drop my son off somewhere early. It's not a crime.
With so much going on in the world I don't even see that it's news worthy. Seems to me just another chance to demonise those who aren't middle classHahaha ...where doe middle class come into it...were just talking lazy slobs here really.. true"
Its a bit like that round here too.
I get up at 8 and my kids are in school for 8.40........smartly dressed fed and ready for the day ahead.
In that time I've also got myself showered, dressed, tanned, made up and got my hair straightened in that time as well ready for a day in the office in a lbd and heels.
If I can do it........... |
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"I was hated where I used to live because I was the odd one out. I had a job and would drop the kids at school on way to work. Quite often in dresses and heels. I was looked at as if I was sonething some of the mums had stepped in. How dare I want to work? How dare I think I'm better than them when they turn up in their joggies to chain smoke in the play ground.
As for the pj's thing we have all gone somewhere in ours. I've gone to the corner shop for milk. I've jumped in the car to drop my son off somewhere early. It's not a crime.
With so much going on in the world I don't even see that it's news worthy. Seems to me just another chance to demonise those who aren't middle classHahaha ...where doe middle class come into it...were just talking lazy slobs here really.. true
Its a bit like that round here too.
I get up at 8 and my kids are in school for 8.40........smartly dressed fed and ready for the day ahead.
In that time I've also got myself showered, dressed, tanned, made up and got my hair straightened in that time as well ready for a day in the office in a lbd and heels.
If I can do it..........."
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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago
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"But these kids are getting to school and being picked up. Wonder how many of these slummy mummy's would like their children going to school with little tommy who has swingers for parents.
Jesus considering people on here are supposed to be all liberal and cool some of you are the most judgemental bastards I've ever come across. Oh and yes I've taken my child to school wearing my pyjamas. Give a fuck, nope!"
Just thinking the same over judgmental posts! Personally I would never go out in PJs, but live and let live |
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"When you have young children and you have to get some of them to school but you've been up half the night dealing with a baby for example, you're more focused on getting the kids washed and dressed and fed and to school on time, than worrying about what you're wearing yourself. Just throw a coat on wouldn't you?
Why can't they be just typically busy mums that may have spent more time on their children in the morning than getting themselves glammed? Why slummy?
Had three kids under nine, worked full time whilst studying for a law degree. I somehow managed to get my fat arse out of bed, kids to school after they had breakfast, tidy up, prep dinner and get to work.
I'm not superwoman, just not lazy and organised."
Some parents take their children to breakfast club because their jobs start earlier than school or they have to travel to work, surely not a sign of being disorganised? |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive"
I think my kids would be horrified if their mom took them to school in her PJs.
Think I would be too.
Each to their own, but we have always tried to set an example of getting up early, wash, get ready, breakfast and get out prepared and ready for the day.
I think if she (or even myself) didn't get ourselves changed, we would be setting a precedence that this is acceptable.
It might ruffle a few feathers, but I think it's a bit lazy. I have no problem with the odd nip out in "lazy wear or PJs", but work & school should be appropriate to the environment.
Equally, I tell my daughter off when she tries to sleep in her clothes or coat. I tell her to put her PJs on.
Whilst I'm not entirely regimented, I do like routine and can be a bit OCD.
But that's my opinion, which some will disgree with, but pretty sure some will agree with. |
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"But these kids are getting to school and being picked up. Wonder how many of these slummy mummy's would like their children going to school with little tommy who has swingers for parents.
Jesus considering people on here are supposed to be all liberal and cool some of you are the most judgemental bastards I've ever come across. Oh and yes I've taken my child to school wearing my pyjamas. Give a fuck, nope!"
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I use to get up a 5am get myself dressed, feed baby then get other 4 uns at at 6.30 am feed them, washed, teeth brushed, girls hair done by 7.45 the door at 8.30 x not hard just good routine x |
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Love that term Slummy Mummy...describes the chavvy drivel I see walking past on a morning to a T with their e-cigs hanging out of their gobs while they text all the way up the street narrowly avoiding a mishap whilst their sausage roll munching kids run way ahead of them straight into the road in front of my car with them then screaming vile obscenities at them when seconds ago Facebook had their full attention instead of giving a shit about their kids! |
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"Love that term Slummy Mummy...describes the chavvy drivel I see walking past on a morning to a T with their e-cigs hanging out of their gobs while they text all the way up the street narrowly avoiding a mishap whilst their sausage roll munching kids run way ahead of them straight into the road in front of my car with them then screaming vile obscenities at them when seconds ago Facebook had their full attention instead of giving a shit about their kids!"
I have 5 kids aged 2-9 and never once have they been out of control like that. I don't know how some parents can let their kids run riot. I see it all time aswell x |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
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"Love that term Slummy Mummy...describes the chavvy drivel I see walking past on a morning to a T with their e-cigs hanging out of their gobs while they text all the way up the street narrowly avoiding a mishap whilst their sausage roll munching kids run way ahead of them straight into the road in front of my car with them then screaming vile obscenities at them when seconds ago Facebook had their full attention instead of giving a shit about their kids!
I have 5 kids aged 2-9 and never once have they been out of control like that. I don't know how some parents can let their kids run riot. I see it all time aswell x"
they are the type of parents who will let there kids run riot in supermarkets in pub beer gardens etc expecting everyone else to look out for the little horrors whist they have a good time |
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I used to see Andy Fordham and his family around where I lived. . the dart player .. The Viking I think he called himself ..PJ style black outfit with flames round the bottom ... The whole family were dressed exactly the same ... Another family all in sheepskin .. Looking like a flock of sheep |
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"I used to see Andy Fordham and his family around where I lived. . the dart player .. The Viking I think he called himself ..PJ style black outfit with flames round the bottom ... The whole family were dressed exactly the same ... Another family all in sheepskin .. Looking like a flock of sheep "
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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago
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"The part that really annoys me, Is when they drop off/ pick up the kids and park across my drive. seriously there is two communial car parks use them and walk the extra thirty yards to the school!!!"
what i would do is park right next to drivers door, wouldnt give a shitif i blocked the road, you would only have to block the rd for 5 mins, i also find the term slummy mummies funny, pjs but full make up,dustbin lid earrings as someone else mentioned, like extras on jeremy kyle show
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Well I have classy neighbours lol, the whole family go out on a Saturday or Sunday morning in their PJs and trainers! I might add to visit family .... The shame of it !  |
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I've driven my son to the station at 730am wearing only a onesie & do I give a flying f*ck what others think, no.
However, I do think pj's are not the correct attire for meetings, regardless of the location. |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive"
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"I'm a single dad, I get no help from my ex at all, I've been through hell this past year, but I still manage to get dressed in the morning, I have started wearing track suit bottoms to drop him off in the morning, but that'd because I've started jogging back, I don't like Sri.g people in pjs in the street, but that's me, I'm not going to judge them on other aspects of their life, one of my heros's wore pjs constantly, but no one references hitch hikers guide to the galaxy when were talking about school run attire lol"
Good on you mate.
I bet you know where your towel is. Lol |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive"
See it all the time..even in bathrobes for gods sake |
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"Love that term Slummy Mummy...describes the chavvy drivel I see walking past on a morning to a T with their e-cigs hanging out of their gobs while they text all the way up the street narrowly avoiding a mishap whilst their sausage roll munching kids run way ahead of them straight into the road in front of my car with them then screaming vile obscenities at them when seconds ago Facebook had their full attention instead of giving a shit about their kids!
I have 5 kids aged 2-9 and never once have they been out of control like that. I don't know how some parents can let their kids run riot. I see it all time aswell xthey are the type of parents who will let there kids run riot in supermarkets in pub beer gardens etc expecting everyone else to look out for the little horrors whist they have a good time "
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There is no excuse whatsoever for being slovenly,thats all going outside your property in pyjamas is really ,slovenly and lazy beyond belief ,it does not matter if your posting saying you dont give a fuck and you have done it yourselves...lol. it says a lot about you....
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"There is no excuse whatsoever for being slovenly,thats all going outside your property in pyjamas is really ,slovenly and lazy beyond belief ,it does not matter if your posting saying you dont give a fuck and you have done it yourselves...lol. it says a lot about you....
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Why does it matter... And why is it lazy. Could understand If you do it all the time. I love my pjs and lounge pants ... I will often get up, shower and get in a clean pair.. And spend a lazy Sunday pottering around The house in them. However I guess the fact is I have actually still got changed, albeit into a clean and less obviously pj pair... I am unlikely to go out in my Disney pjs but my comfy wide legged grey or black lounge wear and a Comfy top I have no issues nipping to the shop or walking the dog in. |
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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Love that term Slummy Mummy...describes the chavvy drivel I see walking past on a morning to a T with their e-cigs hanging out of their gobs while they text all the way up the street narrowly avoiding a mishap whilst their sausage roll munching kids run way ahead of them straight into the road in front of my car with them then screaming vile obscenities at them when seconds ago Facebook had their full attention instead of giving a shit about their kids!
I have 5 kids aged 2-9 and never once have they been out of control like that. I don't know how some parents can let their kids run riot. I see it all time aswell xthey are the type of parents who will let there kids run riot in supermarkets in pub beer gardens etc expecting everyone else to look out for the little horrors whist they have a good time Double this ^"
i couldnt have put it better myself well said |
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"There is no excuse whatsoever for being slovenly,thats all going outside your property in pyjamas is really ,slovenly and lazy beyond belief ,it does not matter if your posting saying you dont give a fuck and you have done it yourselves...lol. it says a lot about you....
Why does it matter... And why is it lazy. Could understand If you do it all the time. I love my pjs and lounge pants ... I will often get up, shower and get in a clean pair.. And spend a lazy Sunday pottering around The house in them. However I guess the fact is I have actually still got changed, albeit into a clean and less obviously pj pair... I am unlikely to go out in my Disney pjs but my comfy wide legged grey or black lounge wear and a Comfy top I have no issues nipping to the shop or walking the dog in. "
Do you think your off on a tangent... taking your children to school in pyjamas is the threads message not changing into new pyjamas once your out of bed(saying you sweat buckets in bed anyway you should change!) anyway if we saw you at the shop in pyjamas we would class you as slovenly regardless |
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I love my bra & pants and wear a clean pair every day. Doesn't mean I think it's acceptable to leave the house wearing them
Put clothes on people, to leave the house! No one wants to see you running around in what you slept in. There's no excuse! None.
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"I love my bra & pants and wear a clean pair every day. Doesn't mean I think it's acceptable to leave the house wearing them
Put clothes on people, to leave the house! No one wants to see you running around in what you slept in. There's no excuse! None.
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The headmistress involved in the slummy mummy saga has just been on the wireless.
She said not only were these slovenly women doing the school run in their pj's but they were also attending parents evening and school plays in their nightwear as well.
This is when she thought it had gone a little too far and she decided to send out a letter.
Who on earth turns up for their child's parents evening in pyjamas ? |
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"The headmistress involved in the slummy mummy saga has just been on the wireless.
She said not only were these slovenly women doing the school run in their pj's but they were also attending parents evening and school plays in their nightwear as well.
This is when she thought it had gone a little too far and she decided to send out a letter.
Who on earth turns up for their child's parents evening in pyjamas ? "
Yeah, I agree. No excuse not to be dressed in the evenings at all. |
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I think it's clearly trying to highlight a clas devide again.
Not all mums at the school gate in Jamas are scummy some are like another poster says night workers etc.
However there is a culture now a days that it's trend setting and yes in someways lazy.
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Hate PJs, pointless extra clothing, needed for what?
And it's the general decline in people's standards.
I once saw a chap in flip flops and a pair of spongebob squarepants boxershorts, in KFC with his wife!
How the fuck did that conversation go??
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"Even comrade Corbyn has waded into the debate telling the Mums to put some clothes on!
Now if you rile that chap you know you done wrong. "
You know you've hit a low point when you're being told that by the guy who had to defend how he dresses for work! |
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"There is no excuse whatsoever for being slovenly,thats all going outside your property in pyjamas is really ,slovenly and lazy beyond belief ,it does not matter if your posting saying you dont give a fuck and you have done it yourselves...lol. it says a lot about you....
Why does it matter... And why is it lazy. Could understand If you do it all the time. I love my pjs and lounge pants ... I will often get up, shower and get in a clean pair.. And spend a lazy Sunday pottering around The house in them. However I guess the fact is I have actually still got changed, albeit into a clean and less obviously pj pair... I am unlikely to go out in my Disney pjs but my comfy wide legged grey or black lounge wear and a Comfy top I have no issues nipping to the shop or walking the dog in. Do you think your off on a tangent... taking your children to school in pyjamas is the threads message not changing into new pyjamas once your out of bed(saying you sweat buckets in bed anyway you should change!) anyway if we saw you at the shop in pyjamas we would class you as slovenly regardless"
to be honest I wouldn't care what anyone thought as they are clean and comfy and 99% of people wouldn't even notice. I just happen to like to be comfy. Not slovenly.
Checked this morning and no pjs on the school run....
And my post wasn't off on a tangent I am saying that not every one that does their school run in pjs slept in them.
I wouldn't dream of going to a school meeting and as I don't even get out of my car on my school run ( 3 schools, over 12miles between them ) I doubt anyone sees me. In winter it just looks like a casual long sleaved top and in summer a vest top.
Doesn't mean I don't care about my appearance or that I am lazy. As with two special needs children and two other children I do not have time to be lazy x |
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"The headmistress involved in the slummy mummy saga has just been on the wireless.
She said not only were these slovenly women doing the school run in their pj's but they were also attending parents evening and school plays in their nightwear as well.
This is when she thought it had gone a little too far and she decided to send out a letter.
Who on earth turns up for their child's parents evening in pyjamas ?
Yeah, I agree. No excuse not to be dressed in the evenings at all."
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"Hate PJs, pointless extra clothing, needed for what?
And it's the general decline in people's standards.
I once saw a chap in flip flops and a pair of spongebob squarepants boxershorts, in KFC with his wife!
How the fuck did that conversation go??
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Agreed with the point about pjs  i have some i wear when I'm pottering about the house in the morning. For some reason the kids don't like me cooking breakfast naked |
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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago
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People shouldn't but do make judgments on people lives, unless you know the full story you shouldn't judge people.
But I can see why it looks bad, but people are sometimes to quick to judge others
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"People shouldn't but do make judgments on people lives, unless you know the full story you shouldn't judge people.
But I can see why it looks bad, but people are sometimes to quick to judge others
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"The headmistress involved in the slummy mummy saga has just been on the wireless.
She said not only were these slovenly women doing the school run in their pj's but they were also attending parents evening and school plays in their nightwear as well.
This is when she thought it had gone a little too far and she decided to send out a letter.
Who on earth turns up for their child's parents evening in pyjamas ? "
I know there are slobs: we've all seen the Waynetta's, but seriously, I've yet to see someone in their pjs in the evening, let alone at a parents evening! |
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"Hate PJs, pointless extra clothing, needed for what?
And it's the general decline in people's standards.
I once saw a chap in flip flops and a pair of spongebob squarepants boxershorts, in KFC with his wife!
How the fuck did that conversation go??
Agreed with the point about pjs i have some i wear when I'm pottering about the house in the morning. For some reason the kids don't like me cooking breakfast naked "
Ok... So I can see the uses there! Lol! |
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"On this morning on Tv theres a school teacher on about Slummy Mummies that do the school run in there P J in the morning and pick there children up again at home time in there PJ they have wrote a letter asking them to stop it, The teacher also said they turn up at parents evening in there P J. A thread just before Christmas about the school run when i got shot down for calling them fat and most of there children are fat. Just goes to show i have a point when i play hell because i can not get my car out or back in my drive"
Cant say in the 13 years my child has attended school that I've seen a parent dressed in pjs, equally most parents arent far |
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"Doesn't surprise me, if there are breakfast clubs because parents are too lazy to get up and put cereal and milk in a bowl, getting dressed when they're going back to bed is hardly surprising.
That said, at least they walk them to school. Sometimes on my way to work in the dark I see little kids on their way to school alone.
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My Child went to breakfast club, nothing to do with lazy, more to do with fact I started work at 7am, so child minder took her to breakfast club, which was financially cheaper than paying 2 hours a morning for child care |
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"The women who piss me off are the ones who turn up looking immaculate,with their also immaculate looking children and drinking a Costa coffee. Fuck you!!! "
People taking pride in their appearance upsets you .....how very very strange,costa coffee is only a brand!! just like lambert and butler and greggs sausage rolls that the slummies puff as they feed their kids shit food the fat layabouts |
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"Doesn't surprise me, if there are breakfast clubs because parents are too lazy to get up and put cereal and milk in a bowl, getting dressed when they're going back to bed is hardly surprising.
That said, at least they walk them to school. Sometimes on my way to work in the dark I see little kids on their way to school alone.
My Child went to breakfast club, nothing to do with lazy, more to do with fact I started work at 7am, so child minder took her to breakfast club, which was financially cheaper than paying 2 hours a morning for child care"
Then my statement doesn't apply to you then does it?!! |
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"I find it so funny seeing them girl/women that are out pushing prams with all the face all done up like they spent time doing then ran out of energy or time so still pj bottoms and hug boots on oh don't forget the wheelchair wheels size earrings "
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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago
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i was in pound shop buying caustic soda, there was slummy gran with her daughter, and son with shave head with bit of hair on top screaming called callum, the gran had pj bottoms on, and a floral dressing gown this was afternoon, the mum was in normal chav wear with trademark cartwheel size earings |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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I used to work in education and didn't particularly like seeing parents turn up in PJs - it did happen on occasion.
Didn't dwell on it though, as they and their kids were polite and engaged with their education.
I was much more annoyed with the parents dropping their kids off at the local public school in their top of the range cars. I passed it every day and many had no concept of giving way to traffic on one of the busiest roads into the city when leaving. Most days I'd see one of them drop Jemima off at the six form building, stick themselves in the the near lane aggressively, forcing traffic to stop, turn right then turn left 50 yards later into the main school buildings.
I'm sure they were ranting about slummy mummys as they did it |
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"I am fat though so I'm probably still half slummy, right OP?"
Bey, im fat too...so i must be a great fat skummy...sorry slummy mummy. Althought i never wear PJ's, always a silk negligé ofcourse
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