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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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Ladies often view profiles in ninja mode, so you wouldn't know who had checked you out. If you use your filters , you can block guys. If you want to attract women, you need to message them. Not many sit browsing profiles....you need to go find people after reading their profile to see if you are what they are looking for. Hope that helps |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's cos you're pretty 
You can block men if you don't want attention from men. I don't think you're unattractive to look at."
Pretty  thankyou, how would I go about doing that then as I've had some realy awkward questions asked and I don't like to be ignorant but enough is enough I guess. |
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You're not my type but you conform to certain highly prized physical aesthetics amongst gay / bi men..
Groomed, look like you have an unpolished edge.. But not too threatening . And possibly because you're heterosexual. Like some straight guys lust after lesbians .. So to do some gay / bi men.
Also there are so few females compared to males on this.. Very few need to venture beyond their mailbox or look at individual profiles / pictures as they're so inundated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With me included that's 4 women that have viewed your profile but does it show? I do it in stealth mode, I'm sure many women do too. Block men from messaging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's cos you're pretty
You can block men if you don't want attention from men. I don't think you're unattractive to look at.
Pretty thankyou, how would I go about doing that then as I've had some realy awkward questions asked and I don't like to be ignorant but enough is enough I guess."
Message filters under the account tab.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With me included that's 4 women that have viewed your profile but does it show? I do it in stealth mode, I'm sure many women do too. Block men from messaging. "
No not a clue but haven't paid for the service as of yet so maybe that's why, yeah blocked the messages now, thanks |
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I must say though.. This thread feels like an attention seeking ploy using the 'predatory gay guy straw man" thing .
I get mails from unsuitable guys and even women.. I don't start threads vilifying or moaning about them though!
Women hold the sexual trump card.. That's life hun. You are the hunter... Not the hunted, so to speak.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must say though.. This thread feels like an attention seeking ploy using the 'predatory gay guy straw man" thing .
I get mails from unsuitable guys and even women.. I don't start threads vilifying or moaning about them though!
Women hold the sexual trump card.. That's life hun. You are the hunter... Not the hunted, so to speak.
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I don't think that was the OP'S intention  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In general, I don't always get some of the profile settings. Eg, Seawitch indicates she's not interested in single males but then is only looking for males within a certain age range. It's all Dutch to me
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In general, I don't always get some of the profile settings. Eg, Seawitch indicates she's not interested in single males but then is only looking for males within a certain age range. It's all Dutch to me
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She has all filters on so no one can message.. She does the messaging
Same here.. Just for now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In general, I don't always get some of the profile settings. Eg, Seawitch indicates she's not interested in single males but then is only looking for males within a certain age range. It's all Dutch to me
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Those options look confusing and should be changed. It's because I have filters on to stop all messages. I am looking but it should say not accepting messages from men rather than not looking for men. I do my own hunting and gathering  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must say though.. This thread feels like an attention seeking ploy using the 'predatory gay guy straw man" thing .
I get mails from unsuitable guys and even women.. I don't start threads vilifying or moaning about them though!
Women hold the sexual trump card.. That's life hun. You are the hunter... Not the hunted, so to speak.
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He didnt vilify anyone, hes new he didnt know about filters.
he asked how he could solve the problem which was making him feel uncomfortable and hea done it now he knows.
Hes not been derogatory to anyone.
And id say that given how many women block all messages and choose to message themselves guys are definitly the hunted not the hunters on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I must say though.. This thread feels like an attention seeking ploy using the 'predatory gay guy straw man" thing .
I get mails from unsuitable guys and even women.. I don't start threads vilifying or moaning about them though!
Women hold the sexual trump card.. That's life hun. You are the hunter... Not the hunted, so to speak.
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Realy not what I was trying to do tbh... I also think some threads are pointless but I don't go putting negative feed back  |
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"In general, I don't always get some of the profile settings. Eg, Seawitch indicates she's not interested in single males but then is only looking for males within a certain age range. It's all Dutch to me
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Are you genuinely in the United States? Seen some in chat mention extra features members enjoy by falsely listing themselves as being in a north American location.
Anyway. If someone likes a pic.. Take the compliment or block them, hate these whiny threads complaining about lack of attention.. Whatever angle the op uses to lend credibility to them.
Men.. The seekers... Women.. The sought.
Uploading a few blurry cock pics to a website changes nothing. Meh!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Are you genuinely in the United States? Seen some in chat mention extra features members enjoy by falsely listing themselves as being in a north American location. "
Yes - I'm here right now (actually sitting on the toilet at work if you must know ) TMI, I'm sure!
There is no upside I'm aware of by listing the USA, in fact, the bulk of the activities that occur through here are in the UK. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In general, I don't always get some of the profile settings. Eg, Seawitch indicates she's not interested in single males but then is only looking for males within a certain age range. It's all Dutch to me
Are you genuinely in the United States? Seen some in chat mention extra features members enjoy by falsely listing themselves as being in a north American location.
Anyway. If someone likes a pic.. Take the compliment or block them, hate these whiny threads complaining about lack of attention.. Whatever angle the op uses to lend credibility to them.
Men.. The seekers... Women.. The sought.
Uploading a few blurry cock pics to a website changes nothing. Meh!! "
What extra features?
I dont think fabs location is affected by using say a vpn to get american netflix etc |
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" Are you genuinely in the United States? Seen some in chat mention extra features members enjoy by falsely listing themselves as being in a north American location.
Yes - I'm here right now (actually sitting on the toilet at work if you must know ) TMI, I'm sure!
There is no upside I'm aware of by listing the USA, in fact, the bulk of the activities that occur through here are in the UK. "
Someone said in chat they falsely listed a north American location for extra features.. Obviously haven't done that as you can see!!
Was just curious. Lol. Xx. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ahh - ok, that makes sense. Well, I'll continue my perving and leave you to your's
I'll be in London mid-March so have to start ramping up my game!
TTFN"
You have no pics to perve at.
Enjoy London |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Are you genuinely in the United States? Seen some in chat mention extra features members enjoy by falsely listing themselves as being in a north American location.
Yes - I'm here right now (actually sitting on the toilet at work if you must know ) TMI, I'm sure!
There is no upside I'm aware of by listing the USA, in fact, the bulk of the activities that occur through here are in the UK. "
On the toilet... I do love it how we all share! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Not looking for single men" in the looking for section of a profile means that person has blocked messages from men.
They may still be looking but they prefer to do the finding and contacting themselves.
It is confusing. It also only applies to men. Using mail filters to block messages from women/couples/TV and TS does not put a corresponding indicator on the profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Are you genuinely in the United States? Seen some in chat mention extra features members enjoy by falsely listing themselves as being in a north American location.
Yes - I'm here right now (actually sitting on the toilet at work if you must know ) TMI, I'm sure!
There is no upside I'm aware of by listing the USA, in fact, the bulk of the activities that occur through here are in the UK. "
Do you have a big penis, lucky charms and original green mountain dew over there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Scratches head what just happend
Hahaha I was thinking the same, how does it go from the opening question to this lmao
Ignore it 
Those lips are fab hunni, what fillers did you get injected in? Xx. "
You can see those are natural. I'd kiss them happily  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Do you have a big penis, lucky charms and original green mountain dew over there?"
I do have a fair size penis and will be sure to let you know when I upload a pic (have to ensure I've worked out the iPhone settings so I don't share it with the world by mistake)
Not sure about lucky charms and Mountain Dew. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes ignore it.. As in ignore the negativity "
I've been using various forums on and off for 15 years. Have had my fair share of forum drama, bannings, suspensions, post count reductions, all this petty, petty crap. I learned years ago to just avoid negativity, or if you do get involved, do it to inject some humour or defuse the situation in some way.
Or just humour the trolls. That's always fun
Or have a perv. Don't think there are many forums which offer this feature 
(Your lips are lush anyway Gillette ) |
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"Not being homophobic nor trying to offend anyone, however why is it I only seem to attract guys  am I Unattractive to the opposite sex ??? "
Happens all the time , just take it as a compliment. Pictureless female profile's get bombarded within seconds - naturally picture what happens to attractive fems with a pic... browsing through hundreds of profiles after sorting your inbox out would be... too much. |
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