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Gang bangs, what's the appeal?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can see why the lady would like them.
I can see why the lady's partner would enjoy participating or watching.
I'm curious about why it's so appealing for the men.
Genuinly curious..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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bit odd you understand why the male half enjoys it, but the other men need a reason?...
I've been in a few, brought along a some female friends on occasions..
its great on the occasions..remember there are women who enjoy sexual activity with just men, and they love being the center of attention at that particular type of meetup.So if she gets off on being surrounded by cocks and is loving it, I'm loving it. |
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I've never seen the appeal myself.
Love watching them in porn. They look great. Obviously great for the women involved. But I have no desire to stand around wanking my dick surrounded by a bunch of guys wanking their dicks waiting for a five minute fuck. A fuck that's going to be watched by a bunch of guys wanking their dicks. A reverse gangbang on the otherhand... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"bit odd you understand why the male half enjoys it, but the other men need a reason?...
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Not sure why it's a bit odd, not sure I asked for a reason.
I think the question was; what's the appeal.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP these were interesting threads.
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/454647
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/460294"
Copy and paste is my friend. Thanks muchly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
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Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm curious about why it's so appealing for the men.....
You know the British, they love a queue.
 definitely my 'post of the day!' "
I thought it was a cracker too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never seen the appeal myself.
Love watching them in porn. They look great. Obviously great for the women involved. But I have no desire to stand around wanking my dick surrounded by a bunch of guys wanking their dicks waiting for a five minute fuck. A fuck that's going to be watched by a bunch of guys wanking their dicks. A reverse gangbang on the otherhand..."
But plenty of women - myself included - don't find it appealing!
Personally I'd just feel hugely threatened surrounded by a load of guys expecting to shag me! I'd be terrified!
I have good female friends who love it though! Thank fab we're all different! |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm curious about why it's so appealing for the men.....
You know the British, they love a queue.
Excellent "
That's up there with some of the best responses in a thread..... hilarious |
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"I've never seen the appeal myself.
Love watching them in porn. They look great. Obviously great for the women involved. But I have no desire to stand around wanking my dick surrounded by a bunch of guys wanking their dicks waiting for a five minute fuck. A fuck that's going to be watched by a bunch of guys wanking their dicks. A reverse gangbang on the otherhand..."
I'm exactly the same as you.
However, I have a friend or two who go to gangbangs because it's quick and effortless sex. They don't have to chat or anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP these were interesting threads.
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/454647
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/460294
Copy and paste is my friend. Thanks muchly."
I wasn't trying to derail your thread, I just remembered they were interesting threads. |
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multitude of different reasons i imagine.
first of all is a sexual encounter, for many its not a hangup other guys being around.
another is many will feel it erotic to watch first hand a woman being fucked by a number of guys
someone else has already posted up about how they get pleasure from giving a woman pleasure who likes to be surrounded by cocks
all sorts of reasons on top i reckon
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?"
Of some men? Yes, yes I do. I know that if a guy hasn't had sex for a while he will consider a tv 'fair game'. I know that there is a direct correlation between the sexual desperation of a guy and the 'quality' of the lady he pursues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
Of some men? Yes, yes I do. I know that if a guy hasn't had sex for a while he will consider a tv 'fair game'. I know that there is a direct correlation between the sexual desperation of a guy and the 'quality' of the lady he pursues. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
Of some men? Yes, yes I do. I know that if a guy hasn't had sex for a while he will consider a tv 'fair game'. I know that there is a direct correlation between the sexual desperation of a guy and the 'quality' of the lady he pursues. "
I would also point out that this isn't true of all guys, just some |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP these were interesting threads.
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/454647
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/460294
Copy and paste is my friend. Thanks muchly.
I wasn't trying to derail your thread, I just remembered they were interesting threads. "
I know you weren't, no offence taken here, grateful for the heads up. |
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
Of some men? Yes, yes I do. I know that if a guy hasn't had sex for a while he will consider a tv 'fair game'. I know that there is a direct correlation between the sexual desperation of a guy and the 'quality' of the lady he pursues.
I would also point out that this isn't true of all guys, just some"
I think that's fairly accurate.
I know guys who don't get normal meets but would happily go to gang bangs.
I know it's not something I'd ever do though. Infact, I'd be surprised if I could even get hard for such an event! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only attended one, albeit it was more like a greedy girls orgy. 3 women and about 15 blokes. It was visually very arousing. There was a carnival atmosphere with lots of laughter and banter and very relaxed. The three hosting women were very encouraging and directed the proceedings. They were as keen to see the blokes enjoy themselves as they were on their own pleasure. I had a hoot and found the lack of pressure to perform both surprising and liberating. It lasted a few hours and time flew. Well worth experiencing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
Of some men? Yes, yes I do. I know that if a guy hasn't had sex for a while he will consider a tv 'fair game'. I know that there is a direct correlation between the sexual desperation of a guy and the 'quality' of the lady he pursues.
I would also point out that this isn't true of all guys, just some
I think that's fairly accurate.
I know guys who don't get normal meets but would happily go to gang bangs.
I know it's not something I'd ever do though. Infact, I'd be surprised if I could even get hard for such an event!"
Really? I'm not sure that's accurate at all. I can't think of anyone I know who would have sex with absolutely any woman, just because they've not had sex for a while. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
Of some men? Yes, yes I do. I know that if a guy hasn't had sex for a while he will consider a tv 'fair game'. I know that there is a direct correlation between the sexual desperation of a guy and the 'quality' of the lady he pursues. "
Kinda offensive to TVs IMO. Yes I'm white knighting TVs.  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
Of some men? Yes, yes I do. I know that if a guy hasn't had sex for a while he will consider a tv 'fair game'. I know that there is a direct correlation between the sexual desperation of a guy and the 'quality' of the lady he pursues.
Kinda offensive to TVs IMO. Yes I'm white knighting TVs. "
To be fair its quite a refreshing new angle on the White Knight... |
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
Of some men? Yes, yes I do. I know that if a guy hasn't had sex for a while he will consider a tv 'fair game'. I know that there is a direct correlation between the sexual desperation of a guy and the 'quality' of the lady he pursues.
I would also point out that this isn't true of all guys, just some
I think that's fairly accurate.
I know guys who don't get normal meets but would happily go to gang bangs.
I know it's not something I'd ever do though. Infact, I'd be surprised if I could even get hard for such an event!
Really? I'm not sure that's accurate at all. I can't think of anyone I know who would have sex with absolutely any woman, just because they've not had sex for a while. "
Yeah mate, these men do exist!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
Of some men? Yes, yes I do. I know that if a guy hasn't had sex for a while he will consider a tv 'fair game'. I know that there is a direct correlation between the sexual desperation of a guy and the 'quality' of the lady he pursues.
Kinda offensive to TVs IMO. Yes I'm white knighting TVs. "
I met a man who said he agreed to let a man give him a blow job. I asked if he was into men,he said no it was through lack of pussy. Some men see a tv/ts as an alternative to a woman they use when there is a lack of pussy. Yes it's disrespectful,but it happens and it's probably why they won't verify them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
Of some men? Yes, yes I do. I know that if a guy hasn't had sex for a while he will consider a tv 'fair game'. I know that there is a direct correlation between the sexual desperation of a guy and the 'quality' of the lady he pursues.
I would also point out that this isn't true of all guys, just some
I think that's fairly accurate.
I know guys who don't get normal meets but would happily go to gang bangs.
I know it's not something I'd ever do though. Infact, I'd be surprised if I could even get hard for such an event!
Really? I'm not sure that's accurate at all. I can't think of anyone I know who would have sex with absolutely any woman, just because they've not had sex for a while.
Yeah mate, these men do exist!!!"
I know some. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?"
No it doesn't suggest that. We're discussing men who join in in gang bangs. At most it's suggesting all men who like gang bangs will shag anyone. Some men are not interested in gang bangs, so clearly it's not suggestive of how all men are.
Some guys who take part in gang bangs may well just be after sex, any sex.
Not that I'm suggesting that all men who like gang bangs are like that.
It's a fair explanation though. For some, it's sex. |
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"I can see why the lady would like them.
I can see why the lady's partner would enjoy participating or watching.
I'm curious about why it's so appealing for the men.
Genuinly curious....."
I have been to a few OP and all I can say is I find them great fun. Go to one and if it is not for you you can leave (I have seen men and couples do that), no one will be upset. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I've never seen the appeal myself.
Love watching them in porn. They look great. Obviously great for the women involved. But I have no desire to stand around wanking my dick surrounded by a bunch of guys wanking their dicks waiting for a five minute fuck. A fuck that's going to be watched by a bunch of guys wanking their dicks. A reverse gangbang on the otherhand...
But plenty of women - myself included - don't find it appealing!
Personally I'd just feel hugely threatened surrounded by a load of guys expecting to shag me! I'd be terrified!
I have good female friends who love it though! Thank fab we're all different! "
I wouldn't be terrified but I don't think I'd be turned on by it, at all.
I'm not an exhibitionist or any sort of performer so I don't think I'd enjoy an impatient crowd, waiting for their turn.
I think I might actually feel a bit like a slot machine, or a milking machine. Some sort of machine, not a sexy, desirable woman. Just a willing receptacle for use. Join the queue to empty your balls here!
Maybe at some stage I'll want to try a gang bang but it's definitely not on my list at the moment. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
Of some men? Yes, yes I do. I know that if a guy hasn't had sex for a while he will consider a tv 'fair game'. I know that there is a direct correlation between the sexual desperation of a guy and the 'quality' of the lady he pursues.
I would also point out that this isn't true of all guys, just some
I think that's fairly accurate.
I know guys who don't get normal meets but would happily go to gang bangs.
I know it's not something I'd ever do though. Infact, I'd be surprised if I could even get hard for such an event!
Really? I'm not sure that's accurate at all. I can't think of anyone I know who would have sex with absolutely any woman, just because they've not had sex for a while.
Yeah mate, these men do exist!!!
I know some. "
Same here. |
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"I wouldn't be terrified but I don't think I'd be turned on by it, at all.
I'm not an exhibitionist or any sort of performer so I don't think I'd enjoy an impatient crowd, waiting for their turn.
I think I might actually feel a bit like a slot machine, or a milking machine. Some sort of machine, not a sexy, desirable woman. Just a willing receptacle for use. Join the queue to empty your balls here!
Maybe at some stage I'll want to try a gang bang but it's definitely not on my list at the moment."
Gangbangs are not like that (at least all the ones I have been to)...
They are like a party only there are between 5/6 to 20+ men to every woman, and although it is a sex party and the woman is the focus she is in charge and control, sets the pace and decides who she will have and when things start, pause and stop. I think they may well be like going to a club but you get to choose who attends!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
No it doesn't suggest that. We're discussing men who join in in gang bangs. At most it's suggesting all men who like gang bangs will shag anyone. Some men are not interested in gang bangs, so clearly it's not suggestive of how all men are.
Some guys who take part in gang bangs may well just be after sex, any sex.
Not that I'm suggesting that all men who like gang bangs are like that.
It's a fair explanation though. For some, it's sex."
I did say it "kind of" suggests it, not that it was a fact.
It's nice to see people's views and perspectives being discussed like grown ups.
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?"
i do yes..
the drive with some to procreate will over ride many things such as safety, their 'normal preference' etc..
some guys they will lie through their back teeth, quelle surprise one cries but yes i've seen guys over the years with less than admirable morals..
and crown court archives etc will tell some very  wtf tales too i imagine.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"they're blokes..
its sex..
Do you really think it's that simple?
That kind of suggests all men will have any sex with anyone any time, regardless.
Do you think that's true?
i do yes..
the drive with some to procreate will over ride many things such as safety, their 'normal preference' etc..
some guys they will lie through their back teeth, quelle surprise one cries but yes i've seen guys over the years with less than admirable morals..
and crown court archives etc will tell some very wtf tales too i imagine.."
That's quite sad really.
I'd rather have a date with Mrs Palm and her 5 lovely daughters than just "use" any woman for my gratification. |
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