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Forum cliques

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do they exist.

I often say I like the forums although I often get completely ignored and people say I don't bother it's full of people who ignore you

Sure there's a hardcore group who only comment on each other's comments.

So how do new comers get themselves heard ?!?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just keep plugging away - everybody gets ignored and often - just you notice it more when youre new-

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Talk bollocks like me and wear obscenely skimpy clothing (like me).

Everyone with then love you daaaarling. Just like me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do they exist.

I often say I like the forums although I often get completely ignored and people say I don't bother it's full of people who ignore you

Sure there's a hardcore group who only comment on each other's comments.

So how do new comers get themselves heard ?!?! "

Just perevere and comment on threads you find interesting. It can be hit and miss as to whether your comments get acknowledged or not but as far as clique goes I think it's just people who know each other so do tend to seem to reply to the same people sometimes that often gets misconstrued. Don't think there's any malice meant in it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Talk bollocks like me and wear obscenely skimpy clothing (like me).

Everyone with then love you daaaarling. Just like me

we all chat bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hear you....and I have been on these forums for a while.

On this profile and on previous....to be fair I've found it friendly...ask Courtney, Brighton Steve, Shag, Zoya. .....etc etc... I could go On!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I forgot Rachel (sorry babe) another friendly forumite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hear you....and I have been on these forums for a while.

On this profile and on previous....to be fair I've found it friendly...ask Courtney, Brighton Steve, Shag, Zoya. .....etc etc... I could go On!"

im not offended you never mentioned me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Talk bollocks like me and wear obscenely skimpy clothing (like me).

Everyone with then love you daaaarling. Just like me

Hahaha if I wear any less I'd have to give you a full on open pussy pic And bollocks mmmm those are lovely to tongue tease. Sorry what was the original post. I seem to have got distracted lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hear you....and I have been on these forums for a while.

On this profile and on previous....to be fair I've found it friendly...ask Courtney, Brighton Steve, Shag, Zoya. .....etc etc... I could go On!

im not offended you never mentioned me

You were 7th on my list and I stopped at 4(then 5) so as not to be boring....just waiting for wyrdwoman and DDC to have a go Too! Lol....

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

i think membership to the forum inner circle takes a while.. it's a bit like the Freemasons...or some satanic cult...it may involve the odd blood ritual..and a few sacrificed goats.. or rolling up of one trouser leg..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I talk bollocks and get ignored but I'm still here I don't let the cliché get me down, if they are too ignorant to speak then I talk more bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've used several forums over the years and honestly don't believe cliques do exist here.

Those who post more often will surely (seem) to interact more with each other - the same as any other situation. e.g. At work, you talk more often and in depth to those you have (more of) a relationship with. If doesn't mean you are ignoring others.

Just keep posting away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I forgot Rachel (sorry babe) another friendly forumite "

Who me?

Actually I'm a right bitch

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i think membership to the forum inner circle takes a while.. it's a bit like the Freemasons...or some satanic cult...it may involve the odd blood ritual..and a few sacrificed goats.. or rolling up of one trouser leg.. "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

See I still get ignored

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i have days where i cant find much to say other than good morning - do that a few days and youre forgotten -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member."

Groucho Marx? Is he in the clique?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"See I still get ignored

Sorry PP.....you are definitely "in"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everybody feels ignored at times on here but it's not deliberate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everybody feels ignored at times on here but it's not deliberate."

its that invisable ink fab chucks out to folk from time to time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member."

Even ones that involve your member?

I like and admire your principled stance though Lib!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"....just waiting for wyrdwoman and DDC to have a go Too! Lol...."

Sshhh, I'm 'persona non grata' at the mo.

You ain't seen me roit?

OP: I know how it looks, but you soon realise it isn't so. Once you spend time reading threads you learn so much about people and all the running gags. Plus people get to know your style and get more confident about interacting with you, without it being taken the wrong way.

Threads are often so fast that it is easy to miss individual posts, so don't let that bother you.

Welcome

Mr ddc

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Talk bollocks like me and wear obscenely skimpy clothing (like me).

Everyone with then love you daaaarling. Just like me

we all chat bollocks

My hovercraft is full of eels biatch

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

I think if you post to the forums with the sole expectation that people will acknowledge and reply to your comment individually, you'll definitely get disappointed.

I don't think it's cliquey, but people getting to know each other and forming friendships is pretty inescapable.

I post on forums when I feel I have something I want to add to the discussion, or I want to reply to someone's comment.

But I certainly don't measure my success on here by how many people acknowledge me. Cos that's just a shortcut to grumps. Lol

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Everybody feels ignored at times on here but it's not deliberate."

Just Norwich fans

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

Oh ya, and this was how this newbie got herself "heard", lol:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/450098

and then

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/450115

So, it's definitely useful to get yourself out there with no expectation of any return.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do they exist.

I often say I like the forums although I often get completely ignored and people say I don't bother it's full of people who ignore you

Sure there's a hardcore group who only comment on each other's comments.

So how do new comers get themselves heard ?!?! "

Being a sarcastic ass, who is usualy correct worked for me :p

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By *atureandhornyCouple over a year ago

Liverpool

Ignore the clique and just join in with the other chatters

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Oh ya, and this was how this newbie got herself "heard", lol:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/450098

and then

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/450115

So, it's definitely useful to get yourself out there with no expectation of any return.

Why not go back even further, perhaps 5 7 or even 9 yrs

It's good fun for me at least to see if I can remember who all the unlos's are

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Oh ya, and this was how this newbie got herself "heard", lol:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/450098

and then

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/450115

So, it's definitely useful to get yourself out there with no expectation of any return.

OMG, why would you pick two threads from when I was busy? Now I'll have to go and try to work some magic...

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Hopefully, you don't get blocked by people from Derbyshire who go the Attic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just type away and sometimes you prick some ears plus starting posts

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By *aucy3Couple over a year ago

glasgow

Take it in the ass,and you're in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Talk bollocks like me and wear obscenely skimpy clothing (like me).

Everyone with then love you daaaarling. Just like me

Hahaha if I wear any less I'd have to give you a full on open pussy pic And bollocks mmmm those are lovely to tongue tease. Sorry what was the original post. I seem to have got distracted lol "

Your more then welcome to post a full on open pussy pic

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Hopefully, you don't get blocked by people from Derbyshire who go the Attic

I actually had to check to see if that was us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP all you need to think about is which thread your interested in and post your comments on it. If youve enjoyed reading it and you've imparted your views then that is all that matters.

I don't often look at usernames so I wouldn't recognise whose posted what. I don't get involved in whimsical threads because I don't find them interesting. Just don't worry about who agrees with you and post what you like

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By *moothies.Couple over a year ago

Woodthorpe

Have a laugh and some banter but don't take it all too seriously. Mostly enjoy yourself. You'll learn which threads to avoid...Some only bring trouble lol

Messages often get missed so speak up again if everyone's just shooting the breeze

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"Talk bollocks like me and wear obscenely skimpy clothing (like me).

Everyone with then love you daaaarling. Just like me

Hahaha if I wear any less I'd have to give you a full on open pussy pic And bollocks mmmm those are lovely to tongue tease. Sorry what was the original post. I seem to have got distracted lol "
I get distracted by your boobs every time you post something on here

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ha, when I changed my name last week noone spoke to me for nearly two days and I killed more threads in 24 than I ever have before. Could of been coincidence.

When I did first join I was ignored for ages.

You don't appear to have been ignored at all op I've noticed a couple of your threads.

But don't expect people to post or speak to you on everything

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

It's very simple if you want to join the clique you just have to sleep with me.

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By *moothies.Couple over a year ago

Woodthorpe

"Ha, when I changed my name last week noone spoke to me for nearly two days and I killed more threads in 24 than I ever have before. Could of been coincidence.

When I did first join I was ignored for ages.

You don't appear to have been ignored at all op I've noticed a couple of your threads.

But don't expect people to post or speak to you on everything

Good job you didn't change location too or I'd have no idea who you are lol

I'm struggling with name changes not being on very often

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The forum is full of a number of cliques. I can't deny I've somehow managed to end up in some myself (not through design) although I do try and make sure I'll speak to most people and not ignore them.

Quite often I'll scan through the forums and look for posts with zero replies and respond to them as I used to be Mr 'Zero replies' man and it does tend to be the not so well known single guys that are ignored.

But keep persevering and everyone will get there in the end, I think it's about your name more than anything being recognised

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Do they exist.

I often say I like the forums although I often get completely ignored and people say I don't bother it's full of people who ignore you

Sure there's a hardcore group who only comment on each other's comments.

So how do new comers get themselves heard ?!?! "

I don't think there is a forum clique. It's just that people who are in the forums a lot tend to comment on each other's posts because they are always there. All of us were new at some point and it's just a case of joining in. That's what I did. For weeks and weeks, I commented and joined in. I didn't get instant results but didn't give up. I'm always willing to chat to new people but they don't tend to hang around long enough for me to get to know them so over the years I feel a bit wary these days.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sprry you feel ignored! Ive been here less than a year i basically just post alll the time. I have noticed you

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By *uzzy NavelWoman over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"The forum is full of a number of cliques. I can't deny I've somehow managed to end up in some myself (not through design) although I do try and make sure I'll speak to most people and not ignore them.

But keep persevering and everyone will get there in the end, I think it's about your name more than anything being recognised

Aww that's a lovely thing to do to make people feel included xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi how are you , no there is no clique. There are a lot of us who post regularly. We have become chums .

So post some more we are a friendly lot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's very simple if you want to join the clique you just have to sleep with me.

He's right.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OMG you mentioned the C word

..don't let it bother you ,got chatting to a lovely lady yesterday via the secrets thread and she felt the same. My advice to her was write bollox , smile and enjoy and take it all with a huge dose of salt and ignore the negativity.

And one rule of the C is your not suppose to mention it as they all kick off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another vote for bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi how are you , no there is no clique. There are a lot of us who post regularly. We have become chums .

So post some more we are a friendly lot

One definition of a clique:

In the social sciences, a clique (CanE, UK /'kli?k/ or US /'kl?k/) is a group of people who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting.[1]

So by that definition I think a lot of us are guilty of cliquey behaviour (I include myself in this) - it's a natural behaviour in humans and most of us will tend to stick with the comfort and security of 'what/who we know' - we tend to talk more to our chums rather than the newbs or less regular posters.

I found this place very cliquey when I joined. By posting regularly I have found I've become (unwittingly) drawn into a number of cliques myself

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Do they exist.

I often say I like the forums although I often get completely ignored and people say I don't bother it's full of people who ignore you

Sure there's a hardcore group who only comment on each other's comments.

So how do new comers get themselves heard ?!?! "

I've been here seven years and get ignored. Do I care?!! Do I fuck! I see an interesting thread I comment, if I see a thread that's turned into a love in I move on.

I have bigger fish to fry.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think if you post to the forums with the sole expectation that people will acknowledge and reply to your comment individually, you'll definitely get disappointed.

I don't think it's cliquey, but people getting to know each other and forming friendships is pretty inescapable.

I post on forums when I feel I have something I want to add to the discussion, or I want to reply to someone's comment.

But I certainly don't measure my success on here by how many people acknowledge me. Cos that's just a shortcut to grumps. Lol"

Aye,I'd agree with this

I don't post expecting folks to acknowledge me,I'd be pretty disappointed if I did!

Usually post if I think of summat funny/sarky to say or sometimes post on serious/sensible threads if I feel I have anything to add.

If you treat the forums with indifference you'll get on a lot better......I say this as an anti social bastard though if you're a friendly sociable type it'll come across in your posts.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The things is though people feel they get ignored. But sometimes its because theres nothing to add to your point. Or the types of threads ypu post to xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What others have said about just don't worry about getting a response. Just post! Also avoid the love in threads and the who's got the best threads and you'll feel less ignored because those threads are full of the same people bigging each other up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm buggered if I'm going to be part of any clique that would allow me to join. Clearly no standards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes there is... It's only the people in them that say there isn't...

Wether it is a bad thing or not is personal point of veiw..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's very simple if you want to join the clique you just have to sleep with me.

Pucker up then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Of course there are cliques on here. Every forum in existence has cliques it's the nature of them. I don't understand why this surprises people or why it is only ever viewed as a negative thing

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By *ast Coast DelightCouple (FF) over a year ago

Edinburgh

Of course they do but I choose to ignore them.

We are here for what we want and if others don't like it that's their problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's the nature of the site. It's not so much a clique, more a group of love in types that are utterly desperate to fuck each other.

If there was a 'Like' button for posts, people would be pleasantly surprised that their comments aren't ignored.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes there is... It's only the people in them that say there isn't...

Wether it is a bad thing or not is personal point of veiw..

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Who f**king cares; its an Internet forum with electrons exchanging energy shells. Only the big wide world matters which the cliques never visit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP I know what you mean, it can seem like that at times. Just keep posting, you'll do fine. People have a tendency to recognise a persons style and temperament after a few posts, fear not!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who f**king cares; its an Internet forum with electrons exchanging energy shells. Only the big wide world matters which the cliques never visit

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do they exist.

I often say I like the forums although I often get completely ignored and people say I don't bother it's full of people who ignore you

Sure there's a hardcore group who only comment on each other's comments.

So how do new comers get themselves heard ?!?! "

We've been on and off the forums for over 4 years and if there is a clique , we certainly aren't a part of it .

It's all about how you want the forum to be for you . If you want to be liked by everyone , never say anything controversial . Agree with everything the most prominent posters say . Meet up with popular posters at socials . You'll soon feel part of it .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do they exist.

I often say I like the forums although I often get completely ignored and people say I don't bother it's full of people who ignore you

Sure there's a hardcore group who only comment on each other's comments.

So how do new comers get themselves heard ?!?!

We've been on and off the forums for over 4 years and if there is a clique , we certainly aren't a part of it .

I see now the error of my ways

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've asked a clique whether there's a clique! That's like asking a liar whether he's a liar or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do they exist.

I often say I like the forums although I often get completely ignored and people say I don't bother it's full of people who ignore you

Sure there's a hardcore group who only comment on each other's comments.

So how do new comers get themselves heard ?!?!

We've been on and off the forums for over 4 years and if there is a clique , we certainly aren't a part of it .

I see now the error of my ways

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do you join?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like every society in life there will be these cliques. Personally, I don't see them as cliques, I just see a group of people that have come to know each other and when a new person comes along it takes time to be welcomed in to the group. Persistence and patience is the key, just join in with the conversation going on and be yourself or who you want to be seen as.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could write a long post about the social dynamic of the forums.

But it's all been said before, and I can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How do you join?

Bend over. Touch toes. Try to relax

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"What others have said about just don't worry about getting a response. Just post! Also avoid the love in threads and the who's got the best threads and you'll feel less ignored because those threads are full of the same people bigging each other up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OMG you mentioned the C word

And one rule of the C is your not suppose to mention it as they all kick off

I am said lady!! Yes, I believe there are cliques on here. As a fairly newish girly I've found it really hard to get any interaction with people on here. I've tried, kept plugging away, got shot down a couple of times too. It's quite intimidating coming in as a newbie and feeling as if I haven't been able to express myself fully for fear of upsetting anyone or getting jumped on just for expressing my opinion. So, from now on I'm just gonna be me. Spout a load of balls if I have to, but not give up!!! I will talk to anyone and everyone. Pppphhhheeeewww!!!! That feels better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's hard work to get your foot in the door .. I've been on and off here for 6 years under different profiles and all with varying degrees of success

Good job I enjoy a challenge

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OMG you mentioned the C word

And one rule of the C is your not suppose to mention it as they all kick off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do they exist.

I often say I like the forums although I often get completely ignored and people say I don't bother it's full of people who ignore you

Sure there's a hardcore group who only comment on each other's comments.

So how do new comers get themselves heard ?!?! "

I don't think there's a clique, but they can be cliquey if that makes sense.

There are lots of threads I don't participate in now purely for this reason.

Best advice, don't let it bother you, post as and when you feel like it, if you feel like it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do my utmost to stay aloof and out of the popular crowd. I'm a fey of the forums; I flit from thread to thread,often forgetting where and what I've posted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are various cliques. I don't consider myself to be in any of them. A lot of it is just being around long enough for people to recognise your username and previous posts. And as I think someone has already mentioned, knowing your posting style, e.g. can they get away with a piss-takey response or are you more of a serious poster. Everyone gets ignored sometimes, I think it's just that those who've been around for a while don't really care anymore

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OMG you mentioned the C word

And one rule of the C is your not suppose to mention it as they all kick off

That's the spirit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everybody feels ignored at times on here but it's not deliberate.

Just Norwich fans

Do you want your arse slapped?

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By *iminenfieldMan over a year ago

enfield

Maybe talk bollocks

But polite bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe talk bollocks

But polite bollocks"

Bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi how are you , no there is no clique. There are a lot of us who post regularly. We have become chums .

So post some more we are a friendly lot

One definition of a clique:

In the social sciences, a clique (CanE, UK /'kli?k/ or US /'kl?k/) is a group of people who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting.[1]

I found this place very cliquey when I joined. By posting regularly I have found I've become (unwittingly) drawn into a number of cliques myself

I remember when you were zero man....

OP, it's cliquey but the fun aspect usually outweighs any negativity I may feel.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everybody feels ignored at times on here but it's not deliberate.

Just Norwich fans

Do you want your arse slapped?

Nothing wrong with Norwich!!! My second team!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Start your own little group of peeps.

Have some banter and laughs.. life's too short to worry about what other people think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven't noticed any particular cliques. I just comment on threads that interest me or amuse me.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everybody feels ignored at times on here but it's not deliberate.

Just Norwich fans

Do you want your arse slapped?

Nothing wrong with Norwich!!! My second team!!

They should be your first team

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It does make me laugh when you see some people believe that this microcosm is the centre of the Fab universe. It's akin to holding court.

Fabicide is my favorite saying that's come out of this Court of Owls.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I hear you....and I have been on these forums for a while.

On this profile and on previous....to be fair I've found it friendly...ask Courtney, Brighton Steve, Shag, Zoya. .....etc etc... I could go On!

im not offended you never mentioned me

Nor me...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hear you....and I have been on these forums for a while.

On this profile and on previous....to be fair I've found it friendly...ask Courtney, Brighton Steve, Shag, Zoya. .....etc etc... I could go On!

im not offended you never mentioned me

Nor me... "

Hey ive only just picked myself from getting a mention..its a fecking first I tell ya

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can use subtle tricks to get yourself noticed,like having a close up of your boobs and starting a "Who likes boobs?" thread. I wouldn't recommend the same with feet,that can attract some very-shall I say unusual?- attention

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hear you....and I have been on these forums for a while.

On this profile and on previous....to be fair I've found it friendly...ask Courtney, Brighton Steve, Shag, Zoya. .....etc etc... I could go On!

im not offended you never mentioned me

Nor me...

Hey ive only just picked myself from getting a mention..its a fecking first I tell ya

Yours and Funky's arses were made for each other.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's just about being a regular.

Being funny also helps!

Hang around, keep posting... I don't post with a view to getting a response. My own posting rules are:

If I have something to say then I spit it out.

If I have nothing nice to say then I keep my trap shut.

If I have something sarcastic or funny to add then I gague who it's directed at and make sure they have a sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hear you....and I have been on these forums for a while.

On this profile and on previous....to be fair I've found it friendly...ask Courtney, Brighton Steve, Shag, Zoya. .....etc etc... I could go On!

im not offended you never mentioned me

Nor me...

Hey ive only just picked myself from getting a mention..its a fecking first I tell ya

Yours and Funky's arses were made for each other."

Thank you I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's just about being a regular.

Being funny also helps!

Hang around, keep posting... I don't post with a view to getting a response. My own posting rules are:

If I have something to say then I spit it out.

If I have nothing nice to say then I keep my trap shut.

If I have something sarcastic or funny to add then I gague who it's directed at and make sure they have a sense of humour.

Madam we all know its rude to spit

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't think that's how you spell gauge but the spelling police can have something to moan at.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I've been posting here longer than most and I've seen many-many active contributors come and go.......

It's true some people enjoy having a more personalised interaction with a select group of individuals who share a similar type of engagement in friendly banter....

My advice is don't get bogged down with wanting acceptance into a transient scenario where individuals come and go with a kind of fluid dynamic that fools a newbie into thinking there is a genuine clique......

Some perceived regulars may just be the people who are being most vocal at the time a newbie joins ....

Just post what you want when you want and enjoy whatever it is you get from your participation.......

Don't worry about pleasing others or gaining acceptance... ....

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"It's just about being a regular.

Being funny also helps!

Hang around, keep posting... I don't post with a view to getting a response. My own posting rules are:

If I have something to say then I spit it out.

If I have nothing nice to say then I keep my trap shut.

If I have something sarcastic or funny to add then I gague who it's directed at and make sure they have a sense of humour.

Madam we all know its rude to spit

*wipes dribble*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's just about being a regular.

Being funny also helps!

Hang around, keep posting... I don't post with a view to getting a response. My own posting rules are:

If I have something to say then I spit it out.

If I have nothing nice to say then I keep my trap shut.

If I have something sarcastic or funny to add then I gague who it's directed at and make sure they have a sense of humour.

Madam we all know its rude to spit

*wipes dribble*

Passes wet wipe..pfft woman do I have to do everything

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Passes wet wipe..pfft woman do I have to do everything

Well the floor could do with a bit of a sweep if you're feeling like something else to do... I noticed CheekyChops left her knickers lying over there in the corner and that beardy bloke was trimming his face by the mirror yesterday... scruffy bastard.

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Posts just get missed I guess so no one is really being ignored, well that's what I tell myself. By the time I've written my comments the thread has moved on so it happens.

I did feel there was a clique but it never stopped me posting.

I feel some ppl bully on here at times though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Passes wet wipe..pfft woman do I have to do everything

Bloody messy buggers....Cheeky wears knickers

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By *oubleDeesCouple over a year ago

belfast, northern ireland

I'm the short time we've been here it appears that there is definitely a clique.

So your not alone in thinking that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only comment on threads that have different views and challenge different opinions.

I've had several private replies to threads that I've posted on my short time on here.

Silly threads don't interest me at all and they seem to attract the cliquey types.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OMG you mentioned the C word

And one rule of the C is your not suppose to mention it as they all kick off

That's the spirit

its doing exactly this that gets you noticed - i moved in gently when i started and often ignored - didnt bother me one jot - then a couple of threads over time really got my juices going and i received a shhh you cant say that B word - then i felt belonged - even got a nomination in the new years honours doodar - - if anybody is going to be upset by the forums id just say dont be - just wade in and give us your best right hook

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

There is a clique but I've noticed that the most popular members don't actually actively encourage it, they are there by dint of others efforts. Some shocking examples of sychophancy go on though.

All of life is here

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Hopefully, you don't get blocked by people from Derbyshire who go the Attic

I actually had to check to see if that was us

Nah, I got blocked once from someone who is no longer on the site. I wouldn't have minded but they had fabbed one of my photos as well

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Passes wet wipe..pfft woman do I have to do everything

Bloody messy buggers....Cheeky wears knickers

Only on Sundays!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Passes wet wipe..pfft woman do I have to do everything

Bloody messy buggers....Cheeky wears knickers

Only on Sundays!

I see its all clear now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But keep persevering and everyone will get there in the end, I think it's about your name more than anything being recognised

Aww that's a lovely thing to do to make people feel included xx"

I was just about to post the same thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm the short time we've been here it appears that there is definitely a clique.

So your not alone in thinking that.

Wouldn't mind being in your clique

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is a clique but I've noticed that the most popular members don't actually actively encourage it, they are there by dint of others efforts. Some shocking examples of sychophancy go on though.

All of life is here

there is a big word there and its monday morning and im bleary

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

Listen the forum is like a pub in many ways. You wouldn't walk into a pub and order a pint of lager and some pork scratchings. Then walk over to the pool table and then forget your pork scratchings, have to walk back to the bar only to remember that you don't like pork scratchings since you learned the sugar content was prohibitive and attempt to exchange them for ready salted crisps. The lager appears to be watered down as well, cunts.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"There is a clique but I've noticed that the most popular members don't actually actively encourage it, they are there by dint of others efforts. Some shocking examples of sychophancy go on though.

All of life is here

It's generally people who feel they aren't in the clique who think there is one. I just feel like I'm a regular poster on a forum. I speak to anyone and everyone and I've got such a poor memory and you lot change your names so often I can never remember who's who!

I don't like the bullying aspect as has been mentioned and I don't like how people seem to jump on a comment that's either tongue in cheek or meant to be funny and take it quite literally. If everyone lightened up a little, the place would be much more fun. Maybe we should attempt an amnesty!

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I don't think that's how you spell gauge but the spelling police can have something to moan at.

It does keep them occupied, but when you read their profile, there's usually something to trip them up over

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is a clique but I've noticed that the most popular members don't actually actively encourage it, they are there by dint of others efforts. Some shocking examples of sychophancy go on though.

All of life is here

there is a big word there and its monday morning and im bleary

Sicko-fancy?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"There is a clique but I've noticed that the most popular members don't actually actively encourage it, they are there by dint of others efforts. Some shocking examples of sychophancy go on though.

All of life is here

I know I'm not in a clique on here and that's fine by me. Cliques form everywhere that there's a group of humans it's natural, I don't find it intimidating at all and in certain parts of my life I'm a member of a clique.

I don't think they're necessarily a bad thing you can't join a clique it just forms they only become destructive where the members start to collectively bully other people and I don't see that happening here the group bullying takes places when individuals start copying others.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"There is a clique but I've noticed that the most popular members don't actually actively encourage it, they are there by dint of others efforts. Some shocking examples of sychophancy go on though.

All of life is here

there is a big word there and its monday morning and im bleary

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is a clique but I've noticed that the most popular members don't actually actively encourage it, they are there by dint of others efforts. Some shocking examples of sychophancy go on though.

All of life is here

exactly - lets be nice - ive had some real belly laughing times here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the group bullying can actually be linked to the sycophancy. And I think it's actually quite shocking when the bullying results in someone going unlos and that is seen as a victory.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good cop or bad cop? That is the dilemma,when courting attention.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I think the group bullying can actually be linked to the sycophancy. And I think it's actually quite shocking when the bullying results in someone going unlos and that is seen as a victory. "

Yes I've noticed that sometimes too. Young men are often the target.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the group bullying can actually be linked to the sycophancy. And I think it's actually quite shocking when the bullying results in someone going unlos and that is seen as a victory. "

And it's usually the same people that claim there's no clique and that they are friendly!! Like a pack of wolves with no self awareness.

It's not just internet based. They are the same in real life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think that 'some' who use the forum like to think of them selfs as the clique!.

The in house jokes, bragging about them selfs who they meet etc and then the sly bitchy comments.

To be honest it's pretty sad!!.... The oh I'm so popular crap, won't last forever as people move on and change.

I've chatted to really nice people that have picked up on a post I've made on her and they replied in private and also on the forum chin up there are some really nice people on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the group bullying can actually be linked to the sycophancy. And I think it's actually quite shocking when the bullying results in someone going unlos and that is seen as a victory.

And it's usually the same people that claim there's no clique and that they are friendly!! Like a pack of wolves with no self awareness.

It's not just internet based. They are the same in real life. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If try to avoid any attention from "the clique", they're like a pack of wolves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well this thread has turned bitchy too.

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By *aneandpaulCouple over a year ago

cleveleys

Don,t let that bunch of sado,s bother you most are lonely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On general topics itd not so bad but the matchmaking ones I get completely blanked.

I'm not on here enough to worry too much though.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"On general topics itd not so bad but the matchmaking ones I get completely blanked.

I'm not on here enough to worry too much though."

Same. I just reckon I'm too scary and intimidating

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"If try to avoid any attention from "the clique", they're like a pack of wolves

Some would say I'm in 'the clique'... I'm about as far from wolf like as they come. So effectively you've turned into one of those wolves...

It's easy to become something you're not because you follow the sheep. My advice would always be to be yourself.

Perception is a funny thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do they exist.

I often say I like the forums although I often get completely ignored and people say I don't bother it's full of people who ignore you

Sure there's a hardcore group who only comment on each other's comments.

So how do new comers get themselves heard ?!?! "

Nope! Everyone has posts overlooked sometimes!

I only get slightly narked when I feel I've made a well- thought out, intelligent comment on a thread and no-one notices or says 'well done peachy god you're amazingly insightful!'

Tempted to open a lurker profile so I can give myself a pat on the back when no-one else does!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If try to avoid any attention from "the clique", they're like a pack of wolves

Some would say I'm in 'the clique'... I'm about as far from wolf like as they come. So effectively you've turned into one of those wolves...

It's easy to become something you're not because you follow the sheep. My advice would always be to be yourself.

Perception is a funny thing.

So it wasn't you howling at the moon last night? Wonder who I was baying at then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never notice these well-known cliques.

I guess people would argue that that means I'm in them.

I dunno. I just like chatting to people and having a laugh. People can perceive that for whatever they want. We all use the site in different ways.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do they exist.

I often say I like the forums although I often get completely ignored and people say I don't bother it's full of people who ignore you

Sure there's a hardcore group who only comment on each other's comments.

So how do new comers get themselves heard ?!?! "

Yes, they exist. I just keep posting away and trying to join in. Hard work but gotta try x

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By *an_WoodMan over a year ago

Stafford

Sometimes a post will hit the right note sometimes it's tumble. I'm here to fab hot pics

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"If try to avoid any attention from "the clique", they're like a pack of wolves

Some would say I'm in 'the clique'... I'm about as far from wolf like as they come. So effectively you've turned into one of those wolves...

It's easy to become something you're not because you follow the sheep. My advice would always be to be yourself.

Perception is a funny thing.

DG you are very inclusive, I've noticed that you respond to many different people and you stick up for people too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the key point here, if we havent gone past it and moved onto the confirmation or denial of cliques existence, is to think about what do you want to get from the forums?

Its a tool just as any other on the site, its all about how you use it.

If you don't want to appear cliquey then steer away from the 'who has the best...' Or 'snog, shag, avoid' etc as these are the threads where you see the most kissing up.

To be frank though the forums are a much nicer place now than they were this time last year.

Keep posting OP, as polonius said "to thine own self be true"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The big forum socials appear to have died out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My posts are like dandelion fluff, they just float off into the air,.....pouff

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"The big forum socials appear to have died out. "

Big socials still happen if people want to go.

The Sheffield one is coming up in March. I think capacity is about 200 if there's that much interest.

It's a pub one, rather than a club one, so maybe less scary for the nervous.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Well this thread has turned bitchy too."

Who are you calling a bitch sister?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hear you....and I have been on these forums for a while.

On this profile and on previous....to be fair I've found it friendly...ask Courtney, Brighton Steve, Shag, Zoya. .....etc etc... I could go On!"
Ty and you and few others too. I been using the forum for yearsssss as well. The more you get involved the more you make a name for yourself and yes I do belevie cliques exists.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Everyone posts something that doesn't take off. The only way of ensuring something you post takes off, is to use a carrier pigeon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

...Got any tomatoes?

Greengrocer...No

...Got any apples?

Greengrocer...No

...Got any...Greengrocer...NO!

No point in trying to get something, from where you're not wanted. Doesn't mean to say I don't like fruit and veg though. Do what you want to do, when you want to do it.

The clues in the name PUBLIC FORUM.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...Got any tomatoes?

Greengrocer...No

...Got any apples?

Greengrocer...No

...Got any...Greengrocer...NO!

No point in trying to get something, from where you're not wanted. Doesn't mean to say I don't like fruit and veg though. Do what you want to do, when you want to do it.

The clues in the name PUBLIC FORUM.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If everyone lightened up a little, the place would be much more fun. Maybe we should attempt an amnesty!

Just picking up on your second to last sentence; I saw this a few days ago and instantly thought of fab forums.

"If 2015 was the year everyone fell out with everyone over everything, could we make 2016 the year everyone grows the fuck up? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On general topics itd not so bad but the matchmaking ones I get completely blanked.

I'm not on here enough to worry too much though.

Same. I just reckon I'm too scary and intimidating

I'm from Norfolk....I'm very scary lol x

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

And again Suzi is so very fashionably late to a thread...... I don't really care who responds to my posts, usually I join a thread too late to get a response....sometimes I have been known to unintentionally take over a thread, which I find hilarious .....drink and fuck the person above and below..... silly me wrong thread hehe xxxx

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"...Got any tomatoes?

Greengrocer...No

...Got any apples?

Greengrocer...No

...Got any...Greengrocer...NO!

No point in trying to get something, from where you're not wanted. Doesn't mean to say I don't like fruit and veg though. Do what you want to do, when you want to do it.

The clues in the name PUBLIC FORUM.

Awww shurrup Steel Heels and get yer tits out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's cliques on any forum, such is the way of the Internet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Keep doing what you are doing you will fit in just fine.

Why was I not mentioned on friendly forumites lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Keep doing what you are doing you will fit in just fine.

Why was I not mentioned on friendly forumites lol

Cos we know you're suffering a bit today so we're leaving you alone to rest. xx

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

Does anyone remember the clique thread I started a while back. It all started because somebody passed me off accusing me of being the clique. It was such a laugh and went to 4 or 5 parts. If you search blades clique you'll find them all except the 1st thread and I can't remember what that was called

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Does anyone remember the clique thread I started a while back. It all started because somebody passed me off accusing me of being the clique. It was such a laugh and went to 4 or 5 parts. If you search blades clique you'll find them all except the 1st thread and I can't remember what that was called

No fecker remembers it, because it was a clique that was started in small confines of your own tiny mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It/they "may" have been mentioned....

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

No fecker remembers it, because it was a clique that was started in small confines of your own tiny mind

My tiny mind chooses to ignore that

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

It/they "may" have been mentioned....

What

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No fecker remembers it, because it was a clique that was started in small confines of your own tiny mind

My tiny mind chooses to

ignore that

A clique of 1 is a very selective clique

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

No fecker remembers it, because it was a clique that was started in small confines of your own tiny mind

My tiny mind chooses to

ignore that

A clique of 1 is a very selective clique

I like my clique every 1 gets my bad jokes

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Keep doing what you are doing you will fit in just fine.

Why was I not mentioned on friendly forumites lol

How's your collarbone love? xxx

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I like my clique every 1 gets my bad jokes

They might be bad if you could actually consider them as "jokes"

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By *oachman 9CoolMan over a year ago

derby

"Everybody feels ignored at times on here but it's not deliberate.

Just Norwich fans

Do you want your arse slapped?

"
I,ve forgot about the Liverpool Match already ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive not been here long, and I've found nothing but friendly folk. We all talk crap at times but at least it's all on the same level

My advice is to keep posting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Keep doing what you are doing you will fit in just fine.

Why was I not mentioned on friendly forumites lol

How's your collarbone love? xxx"
a bit tender today needing some tlc xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Keep doing what you are doing you will fit in just fine.

Why was I not mentioned on friendly forumites lol

Cos we know you're suffering a bit today so we're leaving you alone to rest. xx

"
aw thank you so kind

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"I like my clique every 1 gets my bad jokes

They might be bad if you could actually consider them as "jokes"

God your so funny I nearly wet myself

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"Keep doing what you are doing you will fit in just fine.

Why was I not mentioned on friendly forumites lol

How's your collarbone love? xxxa bit tender today needing some tlc xxx

*rubs deep heat on you*

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

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"I like my clique every 1 gets my bad jokes

They might be bad if you could actually consider them as "jokes"

God your so funny I nearly wet myself

A little more encouragement and I'm sure it wouldn't take much doing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Keep doing what you are doing you will fit in just fine.

Why was I not mentioned on friendly forumites lol

How's your collarbone love? xxxa bit tender today needing some tlc xxx

*rubs deep heat on you*"

I was joking when I told you rub deep heat all over his balls and cock.

Granted it'll distract him but he won't thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Keep doing what you are doing you will fit in just fine.

Why was I not mentioned on friendly forumites lol

How's your collarbone love? xxxa bit tender today needing some tlc xxx

*rubs deep heat on you*"

Nice shoulder massage would be nice get rid of the stiffness xx

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